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9jaRealist:
You can always count on a DUMB comment on Nairaland...smdh
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this website actively promotes rape. It’s like an incel infested hot bed.

For all Seun’s rules and what not, he and his moderators do jack shyt about curbing the use of this forum to promote rape and harm to women.

When men are behaving beneath their expectations, It’s honestly insulting to compare them to women. Women are not worse than men, such that whining men should be compared to women.
Women have always been strong and committed to their families. Most did whatever it would take to keep everything together until they couldn’t anymore.

Men run at the first sign that a woman is not doing what they want. Women toughen up and bear it. Weak men are nothing close to women. Don’t compare them

BRATISLAVA:
From the sorts of things posted on this forum, it's okay to be a liability if you're a man. Men would look at relationships through the money angle, but heavens forbid a woman does.

This is just another male golddigger thread. They were all interested in money, not relationships. Female money is their criteria, but look at how they lash out at any female who shares the same opinion with then. Men who hate women are such hypocrites.

The OP says he ran out of data and is using free basics. They will soon come to defend why he needs a rich woman to give him money urgently, when he cannot handle his internet subscription. His woman didn't give him.

Such topics are created by poor men. I never grew up among such whiners. Modern men are just bitter women with pen.ises.

I read the whole thing. This is just saddening. Is this how the so called diaspora are going to return to build Nigeria when their safety is not guaranteed. Imagine if a lot of returnees invest in large scale farming like her. Wouldn’t that boost the economy? But the stupid govt refuses to care about anyone but the northern cows and their owners.

I commend her for leaving. 20M is not worth her life. She can always get it back. If she’s killed in Nigeria, her killers won’t even be arrested much less made to pay the consequences. Her family won’t be compensated.
It’s stupid to die for Nigeria . In the name of helping to improve the country

That’s how much sense he has. Ode

loveymom:
You are giving a scammer an advice

lol

Don’t give him money, the phone or sex.
Don’t give him anything.
In fact stop talking to him.
He’s a loser.

And HE CANNOT/DOES NOT have the power to do anything supernatural that will harm you or ruin your life.

The only thing you may have to worry about is him physically assaulting you

Constantly whining

You people just can’t help yourselves can you?

ValCon888:
I'm sorry she was raped. No woman deserves to have her life ruined like that. All rapists deserve the worst possible punishment in this world. But my question is this; what was she doing sleeping in a classroom by 2am? There's definitely more to that story.

As for the guy that's seeking for forgiveness, if he's serious about being remorseful, he should report himself to the nearest police station, confess his actions and do the time.
All rapists whether repentant or not deserve to be behind bars.

illicit:
why were u sleeping in a classroom?

oh shut up. Shut the entire fvck up. Argh. Shut the hell up..

mysticwarrior:
coco you are talking balderdash. there is nothing wrong for a man to take his wife's call and same applies for a woman to take her husband's call.

I didn’t say there’s anything wrong what that.

that’s not the same as taking their phone away from them though. is it?

Smh. I take back everything nice I ever said about this man. When you think being grown means someone has sense and they end up disappointing you terribly.

First the condom talks, now this?

Aturu.

99thEnemy:
I see you not getting married... but if Shiloh prayers work, you will, but I see it not lasting, and you going back to answering your fathers surname

and this is supposed to make her sad?

BLoomfrancs:
You must be sick in the head for quoting me. Say the shit you wanna say and leave me out of it. Shitty vagina creature.

tell me you been severely rejected without telling me you have been severely rejected

LordKO:
I wonder why you've decided to cast aspersions on the husband when you're yet to know the reason why his wife's phone is on his hold. And even if one is to assume that he collected the phone forcefully from her that won't still make him an evil person, if the wife is the type who doesn't know how to exercise her liberty within the confines of decorum. When an adult fails to justify their rights to liberty in word and action, control/abuse from the other party becomes inevitable.

really?
So your phone can be seized by your partner if they are not happy with how you exercise your liberty?

mysticwarrior:
I don't understand why you should be here insulting a man for taking "HIS OWN WIFE'S" call, perhaps you have other reasons why you are not happy with the man that you are not telling us.

she’s not his child. This stupid behavior would only be half acceptable if he was willing to turn in his phone to her too upon her request. But we know he won’t do that and if he did, guys like you would call him a simp.
Just shows you have disrespectful attitude towards women. Stop it

deltateam:
So you will be happy if your messages are passed to your sister via her husband?

Be considerate.

only when it’s a woman related to you, then you see how wrong it is.

OP pay no heed to these uncouth insensitive posts.

BLoomfrancs:
Shut the f uck up and stop complaining. Go and hit the gym and stay in shape. Your husband is being honest with you and even diplomatic. That shows he still cares for you. Some men will tell you straight up that your are fat. He compared you to the lady because he didn't want to say that you are fat but that is a hint. Keep complaining until one lekpa will snatch him up. Nigerian girls eh! Tufia!

kushme:
I knew it was a tale of a fat fvck... Your husband is right and you're wrong. Your pastor's wife simply took care of herself. That's all.. Do the same and stop being lazy...

You females eat too much....

AbujaCitiBlog:
Your husband loves you but he is frustrated by your heavy weight gain. Why don't you return to your pre marriage weight. This is the major problem with married women. The moment they marry, they stop listening to advice.

You are lucky he compared you to your pastors wife. His head is still there. Please listen to him before cheating starts.

And you husband stop comparing your wife to another woman. It is completely wrong and will affect her image. Please stop.

When you raise simple worthless Joes to think they are a prize this is what they end up as. Thinking that threatening women with cheating or body shaming them is part of their right.

They are just doing too much at this point.
Where’s the sauce to eat it with? That one drop on the side?

We’ll give them points for creativity that’s all

pocohantas:
Definitely not real. Nobody would even do that on a pregnant woman’s stomach. She just wan cash out.

I wondered too

How does a pregnant lady have the energy and pain tolerance to get that big tattoo on her belly? Of all places? Bewildering

And that’s on white appropriation

Look at this one sounding all humble and shit.

Tomorrow he will come back on here to talk trash about single mothers or ladies who have had abortions on their past. Meanwhile he’s 100% contributed to the numbers by having sex.

I wish your girlfriend good luck and common sense to do what’s right for HER FIRST.

Thank God for her life.

Thankfully there’s no opportunity to question what she was wearing and why she was in that place at that time.

If she wasn’t home when it happened, we would have ignored the crime against her and focused on why she went out of her house or why she seduced the assaulters with her conduct.

Aksnoopy:
Self control is preferring fresh tight pvssy over an overused,wrinkled and loose one.

Now my dear, that's self control!

The day we are celebrating being disgusting. That’s where we are. Do men like you think it affects women when you use derogatory words to describe female sexual parts? It’s a pattern on NL and I’m wondering if any of you thinks it makes a difference in women’s lives when you show yourselves to be such pervs. If anything it reminds us to be vigilant in protecting our children.

It only shows that everything people say about most of you are true. Dangerous, disgusting and untrustworthy.
If you have friends who have children, do they know your inner thoughts about children and their sexual parts?

When your kids are 14 years old, I hope you bless their sexual relationships with old perverts too.

What was their proof?
I’m tired of hearing stuff like this

Aksnoopy:
14 years old, that's a young HOE!
What kind of man will refuse a fresh,young pvssy that is freely offered?

you really think it’s manly to have zero self control and thinking faculties in the presence of a vagîna

ojuu4u:
95% of comments so far condemned the messenger instead of message.

SS Two student with body counts of more than 7 already.

Imaging how society will look like in 25 years to come.

shut up

They are helpless and hopeless in the face of seduction. “Oh the girl approached him. Yen yen yen ”. Like that means he can’t say no. You have no idea how many men think that once a lady approaches them, it’s unheard of for them to say no. Because who says no sexual invitation right?

Now absolutely stupid when they apply the same logic to teenage girls.

Very idiotic way of reasoning.

pocohantas:
14yrs old girls approached a full grown man and he is proud to say he fcked them?

Some people are really shameless and I will be very concerned if my friend can look me in the eyes to say such. It means I am a despicable human who stands for nothing. #Spits



Even if she approaches him, kids would be kids. A lot of young guys have “aunties” they crushed on. In my days as a teacher, I got love letters and I tire. Some were bold enough to walk up to me, but I am the damn adult and I should know what is good for them.

What would make a grown man sleep with a 14yrs old girl? Girl that doesn’t know how many days makes up her cycle. The way some men normalize their randiness is baffling. They even sit and gist such nonsense. Very low morals, yet they would be looking for good women to marry.

So stupid. What’s their business about that?

Klass99:
You dey mind all these entrepreneurial motivational speakers?

When you ask them to show you the thriving or successful businesses they are running, they are unable to.

Their entrepreneurial success mostly starts and ends on the internet. Very few of them are doing well, in reality.

It’s the LLC craze

Queenlovely:
everyone can't be an employee

exactly. It’s a varied world . Let’s stop making ppl feel inadequate because they are not entrepreneurs

Everyone can’t be an employer

Queenlovely:
I was at Transamadi Portharcourt when these young men approached me and started preaching about NeoLife,

I listened intently to them, they said a job was slavery, that it was a temporal solution to a long term problem.

They said Jobs means Just over broke

They were inspiring, they had sweet tongues and almost bought me over.

The point of the story is that, you will never be free working for somebody, Salary is a bribe to forget your own dream.

Even if you are paid a million naira it won't still solve your problems, once you make 100k, you will have 200k problems.

If you make 1 million you will have 2 million naira problem.

Your child cannot inherit your job,

create jobs rather than coming here to compare jobs