₦airaland Forum

Mood11:

@prestonn Firstly, I like your name because my ex boyfriend's brothers son bears Preston and he's a sweet boy.
Secondly, your food presentations are superb and sweet too. I salivate each time I come to this thread.

@Cococandy nnem I still love you oh. From Back in the days when you were Loretta U
Keep it up.

You guys are doing good and I will learn one or more from here.
I like everyone's post even if na hot water because it is not easy going into the kitchen with raw materials and bringing out finished and ready to be eaten Product.

I cut cup for una.
I shake my tea cups for una.

Explorers:
Sis no think am o, nothing nothing o.

752hub:
You nko ...won't u apply . You dey wish dem good luck.

MycroftHolmes:
Isn't it the same Men are Scum crew?

So much hypocrisy and double standards, even in this new year.

MJBOLT:

shoot your shot o

MurderX:
Supported, monogamy is completely unnatural both for men and women otherwise nature would have designed a vaginaa to only fit a specific peniss.

Procreation of life is the most crucial natural order not monogamy, polygamy, polyandry or any form of socially induced marriage system.

If a man and a woman are left on an island, nature will direct them to have sexx so that the human species will continue to exist. The natural thing for this man and woman to do will not be to seek for a priest or imam to wed them rather their body will direct them to love themselves, make love and have sexx for procreation

If you leave a chinese man with an african woman or you leave the pope with a prostitute for a long time alone in a closed environment, after a while nature will make these two to fall in love and have sexx, not for their sake but for the sake of procreation.

So these things that we call feelings and love is a natural leading in the direction of the survival of the human species and be careful how you fight it because of your inferior religous, social, cultural, economic or whatever myopic reasoning space that you have confined yourself to.

Last night I walked down edgware road and oxford street and I was sorry for the british people, the unnatural things they did, the birth control of 40 - 50yrs ago is hunting them today as indians, africans & arabs who flowed with nature have taken over majority of urban UK and soon they will control their economy and government. The British are becoming a minority in their state because they placed their socioeconomic system over their natural system. Whenever you place your social system over nature be sure that nature will fight back at you and make you a minority and if you continue be sure that you will tend to extinction.

In Nigeria, while the south aligns with the lean western and religious family structure of a man, wife and two or four kids, the north is naturally procreating with four wives in large quantities. Surely, numbers counts and over time the north is becoming more of a majority and the south is becoming more of a minority because the south has conformed to its socioeconomic system above its natural system so it tends to become weaker and a minority - think of how major ethnic groups in Nigeria emerged and now ovveride the minor groups, its all about population and numbers. Hence over time, nature will surely empower the north above the south because while the south is saving and thinking of its today, the north is securing its 100yrs from now.

We must learn to respect the place of our nature over our unnatural awareness.

Plead:
LordKO thinks otherwise...

24kmagic:
I don't know if it's unnatural for women, but it sure is for men

thorpido:
You don't have to do anything.Just as you imagined the story,you can simply draw a favourable conclusion.

Explorers:
Carry me join abeg.

Plead:
Leave me alone oh

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I've seen women who have been married a long time and they stay at home doing nothing. Some done have kids yet. I was telling one to go an acquire a skill if she doesn't want to do a paid job but she told me she can't work. She's at home blowing like a balloon and tomorrow now she will claim she deserve part of of the man's assets makana o bu wife. Who wife help

Logobenz:
They aren't idle but unproductive.
Do you know all they do that keeps them faux-busy can be solved by a 30-40k a month by means of hiring proper help? In Nigeria that is.
Jesus christ!!

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It doesn't and will never be. So any lady accepting the job if a stay at home idle wife should know that she's doing herself no good. No man will even notice your contribution to the family. If she's capable of taking care of herself, she can move out if that will make her happy.
Ladies be wise, don't stay idle in the name of marriage. Get something doing let money be entering your account. Don't give all your money to your husband because minus devorce, t u still need personal money.

Plead:
Those laws will never be enacted in Nigeria. We just gats deal with reality

XaintJoel20:
The former. Married but thinking if I should pretend to be single.
I want to know if there are favours to gain from either (I mean being married or single).
Thanks

Logobenz:
Don't make this a Nigerian thing.
No man in the world like a liability in the name of housewife

CorperKola:
Hehehe
Its paining you
I will have 4 of you in my house
And you will obviously die alone

wizdomnzube:
You still dey talk go far bros, NYSC too far naw, from 300l they don dey marry. They nor get nothing for account bros only pussy so na to dey house dey lay egg sure pass for them. Na if the husband pity dem he go open shop for them to use dey useful small. Marriage dis days na poverty alleviation scheme for dem girls!

pocohantas:
The aim is always to bash women.

I am sure if OP's mother came years back to ask for advice and some people here advises her to insist on working. They will call those people bitter manhating feminists, looking for a marriage to destroy. Very confused elements.

Plead:
Which young girls? you live in USA not Nigeria.


The young girls you’re talking about have only marriage on their mind during nysc and after serving the next thing is to rush into marriage ,they don’t care about having 50k in their account sef and will be very happy staying at home as housewives.

Forget all these internet talks ....in real life, most Nigerian women are still dependent on men, ‘only few are bread winners,well to do/ financially stable, or even have the mindset to make their own money and liberal’.

Plead:
It is what it is