Azaw: Na man. I tried this for the 1st time and it came out good. Who knows more about this whole wheat meal and it's various recipe? I ate it with sauce and chicken. Tastes more like a hybrid of rice and corn.
Isn't that African breadfruit Aka (ukwa)? Looks like it.
Gidi3020: Take some chill pills, smells like your mother in-law is drastically dealing with your emotions, correct what you've done wrong before it gets rotten.
Why would a mother think someone else stole her baby's heart? Is she sleeping with him?
I'm honestly confused too.
Like the women have sexual relationships with their sons instead of a maternal one.
It's only emotionally imbalanced women that will have these problems. Because it's a clear case of not understanding that the role of his wife and that of yours as mother are different.
You will have problems with all the women he comes in contact with because they have come to steal your baby's.
Instead of enjoying your older adulthood with your husband on one remote island reminiscing your youth.
Gidi3020: ;DThe guy mama would be feeling jealous because, the new girl would now make mama to realise that her breast don turn slippers, without considering the fact that the guy s*cked mamas own years before.
All these comments make me sick. Like there's some kind of incestous connection between a woman and her son.
That sounds like someone who's emotionally unhealthy
ammyluv2002: I think, it has to do with so much love and attachment to the guy especially if he's the only son/child. The mother becomes madly in love with her son to a point of her getting jealous of the son's wife. She doesn't want to let go of him, there's this fear of "my son will not love me anymore"
Secondly, if she's not in support of her son getting married to the lady ....OYO is her case. She will never love her except God touches her heart.
your wife is not a child to demand obedience from. I have a hunch her attitude is a last ditch effort to retain some dignity since you are already treating her like a child.
Change. Engage her like an adult. Talk to her like your mate not your subordinate. I believe you will see some compromise from her.
FortuneTeller: My brother does not live with me because he has a job and a family. However he has visited my home many times and washed dishes. Before I know it, he has done one small thing to lessen my burden. I do not see him as any less of a man. I see him as a loving brother.
I feel much of our way of thinking is a poverty mentality. When people are living comfortably and happily, such things tend to mean less. I've seen many Naija guys change their mindset once they are living in better conditions (i.e. US): washing dishes, carrying babies, helping cook, etc. When life is good, it seems people treat each other better. I've change so much myself. I feel free and happy and I enjoy my family much more now. It's just my humble observation.
JUSTbuchi: than your siblings you mean?? Guess you don't know there's a huge probability that that so called wife would dump you but you always gat ur siblings/children till death takes the toll
As for me, I will respect my wife the way she deserves, but any day she disrespect my family is the day she is leaving my house, if she like make she born jesus christ for me, I don't care what u all think or will say, she is my wife, "YES", but they are my family, my blood, my everything, they were there for me when I was a nobody, when I was nothing to write home about, we suffered together, conquered together, now I will come and disrespect them just because I married a woman who is 100% " REPLACEABLE". My family ain't replaceable.
VomeSchakleton: Again bigot, he's not a member of Kannywood (the movie industry). He's a musician. You can't punish someone you don't have authority over.
I do not aspire to. But any female who does has my 100% support.
MrsPhyno: I'm slightly febrile right now and I have a question for you (girls/women) all. We all know our cuntr-, sorry country is hopelessly patriarchal. That's well and good. We also know that day by day, women are gaining ground in regards to equality and achievement. That's good too.
But what about the highest job in a nation that one can aspire to. Presido. What about instead of Sai Baba, we have Sai Mama. Almost all the best rulers of Europe both "back then" and now, are females. America is probably gonna have its first female Ogapatapata in a couple months. And she's one of the most qualified candidates in recent history, so I'm sure she's gonna do *thumbs up*
Now I know some Nigerians have sworn that even some ethnic groups should never see a presidency, not to talk of females who are virtually universally demeaned. So it's far off from now. But I would rly be encouraged to know that any single one of you ladies wants to be president. Or knows a female that wants to be, or plans on having a daughter that will be. I think it's a beautiful thing to aspire to.
cc: safarigirl Adaeze003 cococandy mzpecs et al.
And Lalasticlala cause I heard somewhere ur a geh too
Have a bag packed and ready to go incase she goes into a labor at night. That will make you feel more comfortable. If this is her first child, the likelihood that she will go into impromptu labor is slim. Most likely it will happen one day before or after her scheduled due date. Usually after the given due date. Have no fear. You won't be rushing to deliver a baby by yourself in the middle of the night because your wife suddenly went into labor.
Bollinger: Wow, seven months? That one na ninja oooo. Hehehehehe. I plan to start documenting stuff from now on. I really suck at it. Before you know now i go old. Which memories of dem i go get? Anyway, have an awesome weekend.
She's all me and him. True they grow up fast. She's already pulling herself up. Trying to walk at 7months.
You must be a proud papa. Captain of his team. You're raising a leader. Thumbs up.
Bollinger: Thanks. I notice that baby agbani is getting more beautiful by the day. Did you adopt her? She definitely does not look like you. I mean, she's too fine. Hehehehehehe. Meanwhile, these kids are growing up too fast for my liking. Soon, it would be so fast i'll probably miss their youth. I'm actually thinking about retiring. Life's too short. See another one. Before i knew it, he's already grown so tall for his age and now captain of his school's basketball team. God help me.
The issue of a man cheating will forever be a pain in the minds of many ladies but I'm so so sorry to tell you this truth that submitting to your husband is unconditional.
In submittion you can table your grievances and the fact that your hubby cheats on you is not a ground for disrespect. If you want to leave the union because of that then it's your choice but that must not make you disrespect him.
Your husband is your lord.
Is loving your wife also unconditional? Since it's in the Bible. Will you love and honor a wife who cheats on you? Because that's the exact words the Bible uses to command men to treat their wives.
In your own words you will treat such a woman like a hoe. But let me guess, if the table turns, the commandments become non-negotiable.
In your warped mind You think God is a toy to use for your misogyny and wickedness. Twist the Bible how it suits you. Hypocrite!