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Dyt:
Yep

gudbadgyal:
Its a lie. The man in native and the man in suit don't look the same. Anybody can stand for the husband. Using a mannequin as rep or decoration is just too dumb.

Dyt:
Then give It a shot

Maybe cos my son has too many friends sha
He will go bring everyone of them upstairs and share them his biscuits and caprisone

I discovered it's fun when you learn in group
So it started from there
The kids won't even let me rest
They will rush to me
Idaya my homework
They are spoilt
They call me what my son calls me
But I am actually not moved cos when it comes to being serious
They know it's not playtime no more

I get this excitement going home to them
I have these websites where I print out free samples of worksheets, craftsheets and flashcards

Dyt:
That's $180




Nope

Actually business Been so dull since recession and me I can't sell in credit
So most times Nothing and I just fowolero

anonimi:
My dear sis, what have I does again?

thorpido:
I think so.They still allow him practice(without pay) and will likely allow him continue to work in the future.
I guess in the US,he might even go to jail.

zeb04:
So the village is the only place people pray abi

thorpido:
Yes,he took the playfulness too far especially if he attended medical school in Nigeria.In Nigeria,medical doctors(lecturers) make a lot of jokes while teaching medical students and they don't see anything wrong with it but abroad,those people don't play with stuff like that.

Acheron:
You dolt. He should find himself a decent side chick that will feed and kpansh him anytime he wants while pretending all is well at home until the wife comes to her senses.

There, I've said it.

waxdude:
Hehhehehe saw it too...cococandy I hail ooo..hope family is fine

CuteMorriz:
creamish, cococandy, paperlace, cute hector...you see people who are in support of my opinion have real life experience of what am talking about you guys are just trying to be termed "rational"....

goingape1:
many of you saying boys raise by single mother on thread!.

let me tell you one thing ya don't know, boys raised by single mother often know there mother behaviour and won't tend to marry women like their mother because them want to avoid the trouble them go through by there mother.

you will never see them or can't never see them marry a lady raise by single parent because them can smell them from far (instinct)

ikp120:
Some women don't know what marriage is. In a marriage, the man is the boss while the woman is the baby. Naturally speaking that is how it is. That's why men pay before they marry her. It is simple common sense

Acheron:
Egbon, judging from your comments, I can tell that you know what to do but you're just too soft to do what you need to do and your wife knows this. She's preying on your gentility.

You deserve sex from the woman you feed, cloth and shelter anytime, anyhow and anywhere you want it. You're too soft and until you go a bit hard on her nothing is going to change.

Be a man and do what you need to do.

adviseseeker:
This was why I was hurt by your initial submission but decided to keep mute. I am not all about sex, but the romance, the respect and affection towards each other is important.

I can't remember when last she on her own attempt kissing me. When she is wrong, I practically beg her to apologise to me. I believe one should apologise when they are wrong. It is just respectful and normal. My conclusion is, she knows me, she knows I have almost zero chance of changing my person just so to punish her and she is taking advantage.

I simply can't change because someone changes. I don't believe in that. I have a standard, I try not to compromise it. I am not a saint, not close but have a high standard.

It is not about chores. The only real chore she has is the baby. Her sister does the cooking most times unless on times I insist which is rare. I take a list of items she wants to buy and go to market for her, ever since we have been married, she only went to market two times on her own. And 2 times with me. Rest is me going using her list and was like that when we were dating so much a lady accused me of being stingy which is outright wrong.

SAMBARRY:
you have said it all but why did you wear lipstick for my cute chubby honeypie?I will give you blow for belle o. Abeg clean the lipstick for her lips.pedos are every where they cannot differentiate a baby from an adult

joseph1832:


I have absolutely no idea what it takes to be a single mum. But what I do know is I have friends who were brought up my single mums, some turned out right, others didn't

Jumaii:
cocoandy creamish itsquinn. Bless you ladies #PREACHIT

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adviseseeker:
Like I said in your thread, without no malicious intention, you are with an idiot. Sorry to day but it is fact. My word wife is the exact opposite of you while I am the exact opposite of your husband. I initial all the romance. My wife hardly ever says I love you not to talk of initiating romance. This made me ask her couple of times if I disgust her.

shortgun:
I know many of you won't like it but that's the truth.
since the bird has learned to fly without perching the hunter should also learn to shoot without missing.

Men like the OP is reason why women like that exists.
I blame him in all of this cos he has done all the don'ts in marriage and he is paying d consequences.
When a woman knows that there is nothing about you she doesn't know you are done for.

Nothing interests her about you anymore, there are no tasks for her, you are not giving her any challenges, there are no surprises, she knows how much you are worth, she knows where u r every minute of d day, she know how you think ...... you become boring to you

Women naturally are made to nurture.....when you become a perfect man....she will lose interest.

adviseseeker:
I don't get 3 times a week not that I am complaining three times a week is too much.

So because you nurse a baby overnight you wake up 10am? How about going to bed on time too? I work most times 16 hours per day shall I give that as an excuse for not feeding the family too?

CuteMorriz:
I am not saying ladies raised by single parents are all bad, you may get lucky finding some exceptional ladies raised by single mums.

Evidently you seldom find single men raising a child but it's quite prevalent with the opposite sex.

A relation of mine was dating this lady and when the time came for the union to be made official, his parents advised him to discontinue becos after they had made enquiries and investigation they discovered the lady's mother left her husband many years ago over some frivolous reasons. Then I asked my uncle why did he side with family and not allow his son take the bold step then he said

1. Women raised by single parent (mother) are usually strong willed hence may end up like their mother.

2. A lady who has seen no need for a father will be swift to end a union because she will have the courage to train her children alone afterall she was raised by a mum.

3. How will she get marital advice from her mum when things are tough and you know ladies often run to their mum when they need advice (remember the mother took the easy way out)

4. Sooner or later my son may become a bachelor again...the odd is high and is glaring

A lady who have spent 21 years of her life without a father cannot be psychologically stable even if she appears to be.

Ladies raised by single parents did not experience the beautiful and ugly part of the union called marriage from her parents hence they don't have their parents as their role model.

7. Amin (as he fondly calls me) when the baton gets to you, look at the mother of your fiancèe closely because with time she will display those traits you observed in the mother......

Then I asked him what if the lady's father is dead and the mum decided to train her alone?...my uncle said we may also enquire about the untimely death of the father but "Amin that is a topic for another day"......

shortgun:
Maybe you are too soft with her.
it's time you take control of your house, women are like babies sometimes you need a little force to make them do the right thing.

You don't have to beg for what is rightly yours... stop been a gentleman.
Threaten her with infidelity...tell her you can easily get any woman of your choice.

adorablepepple:
With your two wide eyes you married him... Despite his father's philandering attitude abi... .well done.
You are the kind of woman that thinks she can change a man that's why your husband's family are calling you Ruth abokoku.
Normally we would say communication is the key but in this case it's not. He is not going to stop now or tomorrow .
My advice.....
Stop telling his family..... Most of them are happy because of the difficulty you are facing.
Buy a pack of confirm condom for him and put some in his pocket, car, office files, shoes, socks etc don't bother telling him anything, wait for his reaction.
Meanwhile start looking for another job and keep caring and loving your child.
Don't challenge him o.

SAMBARRY:
LMao

Kanwuliaextra
efemena
cococandy come and See what I am seeing o

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