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Just look at the lizard that wants someone to wash his clothes. He can't even feed his child.
I don't know where they find all these useless husbands. They don't know how to be fathers and they can't be mothers. Then compound everything with battery and violence.
God have mercy.

Is this the first time he beat her?
Of course she stayed for the kid.
Now the kid has paid with its life.
Over what? She doesn't bother to wash his clothes bla bla bla. Smh.

Both of them should fvck off and go rot in hell.
I hope they arrest her as they arrested him too. Stupid women who can't make the right decision deserve the same jail cell with their batterers.

We are just too superstitious for our own good.
That's an obviously mentally ill person.

Disgusting

Kimoni:
knightngale, hope you're skilled enough to try this. Put on your most innocent face while at it.

@raumdeteur - what do you think?

True the innocent face is the best tool.

If I were to do this I'd expose myself by bursting into laughter when he begins to ask or look for something he needs.

darkenedrebel:
He's an Honourable, not a Professor.

I have a partiality towards 'actual' literary mavens, like Soyinka and writers of that calibre.

Obahiagbon sucks like fellatïo!.

I know.

But professor or prof for short is the nickname we use for bukuru (nerdy booky) people

He's a married man. OP don't be fooled.
He won't take calls in your presence, goes MIA unexpectedly and cancels appointments without warning at the last minute.
If that guy is not married, I'll add x to my username.
Good thing you dumped him.

Those are what we call destiny blockers. He won't get serious with you and he won't leave you so that a better person can have a chance with you.
Until you're 35, then he'll find an excuse to break up with you after wasting 8yrs of your life and in the process making you say no to others who might have been better for you.
Then you start looking for how to start a new relationship when that's not what you planned for yourself at that stage.

oluseundele:
It's very healthy, it has been tested with quality results.

I know it is not healthy to lose 5kg in 9 days. Much less 12kg. That's like losing 1.5 - 3 pounds a day. The ideal weight loss is a pound a week and that with serious daily aerobic exercise and strict diet.

I Can't be convinced otherwise.

Carry your weight wahala dey go.
You're selling gbajun for desperate people.

Wait until someone gets seriously hurt trying your product then you'll hear whin. You think you can't be sued?

chisco82:
Nice one, even though i'll not be happy if my wife purnish me like that, but then it's a wake up call men, she 's human and needed help too.
Bug eh! Coco u and ur mbise..
God really bless that Man ....u know him?

Know who?

oluseundele:
This fat loss program is GUARANTEED to melt between 5kg to 12kg of excess body and tummy fat off your body in just 9 days or less.
It is made up of strictly natural ingredients, it has no side effect and detoxifies the body as well.

not healthy

I don't understand.

Lol.
Professor obahiagbon.

darkenedrebel:
Gratias. I dog the footsteps of Marcus Cicero - the illustrious virtuoso in oratory and rhetorics. Perhaps you can too.

And of course it can be learned. I hold no briefs for nativism.

Hardwork and an admixture of a workable model and an unwavering determination is grist to the mill of verbalizing your thoughts in a rhetoric-esque fashion.

Best punishment.
Do what you can and let him fester in the remaining filth (that's if it doesn't bug you too).
It's not possible to be hands on with everything in the house especially if you work and have more than one kid.
So some days,you do some leave some.
Once in a while let his favorite shirt stay in the washer for days until he needs it and can't find it because you were too busy with other stuff to remember washing it.
Some days make his dinner very late until he realizes he needs to chip in to help move the ministry forward.
Somebody cannot come and go and die (this grammar still makes me laugh ).

Disregard if you guys have an arrangement where only you keep the home and he brings in the bacon.

Dyt:
Thought you said your last is 24months

Lol OP come and explain this.
I talk am say something tells me you might be trolling.
How come your last child's age is jumping up and down?

Sometimes all these posts are by jobless boys looking for a reaction out of nairalanders.

Come and answer or you'll be banned from this site so you'll stop causing trouble.

tylerbraid:
Hey, why are u delighted to say all this? U may get all the likes but your points are ethnically & morally wrong, search your conscience, can u say all these to a younger teen (aged 14 below) as an advice?? If u know what a bible is, kindly check out 1 corinthains 6 & 7; And u might take back your words.

Why didn't you quote the OP to tell him that.
Abi morality is only for women.

Disgusting hypocrites.
You're even quoting bible.

This Forum is full is dane smart-by-half dudes.
Aswear I could vouch that most of them have frozen yoghurt where their brains should be.

Dyt:
You will know those their husbands beat them na
I am sure this one is still praying and fasting
There's gonna be a miracle
We should support in prayers and fasting too

Oshisko

Well I don't know about that. Her personal life is none of my concern.

But I dislike such subtle encouragement for people to sit still and wait to die for taking action.

treasuredkids:
Hmmm!!!! I feel your pain sis. Be strong and dnt give up. Embrace a prayerfull approach and turn a blind eye to all he does henc4th. Its not going to be easy but for ur kids and ur sanity, u need to overlook his manifestations.

She should overlook the strangling because of her kids.

johnson232:
u sound really cool...
it means u saw those trait during courtship and still went ahead?
my worry is, human hardly change, his attitude wasnt because of your earnings, i think that is the way he is. but are u sure u didnt contribute to it one way or the other?
because am sure though he had issues during courtship, but he wasnt like this.
do u normally disrespect and mock him because u earn more than him?

If you don't find a way to blame her for it, you won't be happy.
Jeez.
You're sure because you know him?
What are you even doing here?

Don't have time to soften the post for you. Or encourage you to work it out with him.
You don't negotiate with killers.

Walk away.

But plan your exit carefully. Lest he gets enraged and succeeds in strangling you.


That's if you're for real. Something tells me you might be trolling. No offense o.

That second pic is

kaboninc:
How to help clear some huge money in a customer's account who somehow died and there's no one coming to claim the funds. In fact, as the banking rule stays that such funds will be transferred to the bank's profit account...

Lol. Exactly

joseph1832:
OMG! You sound like a victim. LMFAO.

No be today. The things we see on NL for una hand.

Na their style.
After insulting you on NL, the PMs start coming in.
Only God knows what they would want to discuss privately after insulting you in public.

sweetcocoa:
You are amazingly stupid, who said anything about dating? And since you brought it up, what were you pming me for? To tell me that you like me after already following me all over the place talking crap about liking me or you wanted to show me a business proposal? Did I tell you I'm a business woman? You go about making sexual jokes and flirting with me and somehow it has nothing to do with dating/sex yet you want to take it outside NL? you obviously think every woman is stupid that is why you would come back with this f00lish reply.

Look loser, I do not care for whatever reason why you sent them, which is why I didn't accept any of them in the first place, you lots usually have nothing to talk about besides looking for who to get into their pants, so I don't have time for that kind of nonsense. Just respect your rubbish self is all I am telling you.

joseph1832:
I already have life. Thank you very much. But still, may be you should take your own advice and stop screaming about domestic abuse when you're not the one being abused. One would think you secretly wish to be abused.

Look at the silly comparisons you're making.

Every sane person should be screaming against domestic abuse. Incessantly.

Tell me what that has got to do with una relentlessness in bashing women 24/7.

Maybe consider getting a life and stop whining about Nigerian women upandan.
Mtchew.

If he had died, he would not be here catching and losing feelings upandan.

joseph1832:
If I was holding you, you'd beg me never to leave you alone.

Mtchew

joseph1832:
Oh thanks for the correction, missed it cos its a classic waste of ones time trying to implant reason in some people.

And you should know, after saying "You're welcome" don't mention don't usually follow.

Okay.

Now will you leave me alone?

OP are you sure you deserved to pass that jamb? I'm asking because I know Nigerian students tend to blame the lecturer or teacher if they don't pass.
Maybe there was some mass failure because most of the students didn't do well. Isn't that possible?
My point is that you shouldn't be laying curses which may turn out to be self curse if you are responsible for your own failure.

Meanwhile two years is such a short time to start losing hope. There's so much more better things ahead for you. Have faith in yourself and work very hard.

joseph1832:
Well I never expected one who's as stock up as you, to know what I'm talking about.

Thank you, and have a nice day.

You mean 'stuck up' don't you?

You're welcome. Don't mention.

joseph1832:
Okay, since your opinion is now law an order. Who am I to disobey.

Only you know what you're talking about.

joseph1832:
I believe that's a metaphor, meaning every home has its ups and downs.

Believe well well.
Believe what you want. I believe I read the post correctly.
And violence isn't a metaphor for ups and downs in my dictionary.

Mtchew