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You're using bus and taking about getting a Nigerian based wife that will be expecting mansion and Benz??


Abeg respect yourself o. Or let your babe come as a student first. Then see how things go.

calgaryFriend:
@zielle what is your take on this submission ?
I added my bus pass for July , do you believe me now ?

This is a big lie o.

There are some 50 year of women that you won't be able to match in terms of desire for sex.

calgaryFriend:
You are right, I have seen many 30+ ladies here that look very 20 something.
But menopause does not care, a lady has a decreased sexual appetite at menopause and they become very irritable to things like sex.

So for a man who is still extremely aroused at 55+ years and a woman who is already tiring of sex, it becomes a huge problem.

Nature is on the side of men marrying younger girls..... Even our culture supports that approach.

I totally support your righteous anger!!!

Zielle:
You've written this number on your posts in your other monikers: 07032035317, same with these emails ayonaira2@zoho.com, calgaryfriend@zoho.com. You've another numbers and emails obviously. It's not me you're fooling.

You edited the post after I had quoted it. It's up to ya to marry whoever you want na. Just don't come disturbing us on Nairaland later. I wouldn't touch you with a 10-foot pole going by the traits you display.... but other girls hv low standards, i know.

Yimu. You might as well be a scammer.

You call yourself young at 32 going on 33 but 30, 31, 32-yo women are old? Dumb hypocrite. Man with the brain of a toddler, that's u.

Please tell me if you've seen my case.

I came back last year planning to go back within 2 years. I decided to not have any relationship while I'm here.

Now, less than 6 months in Nigeria, a lady liked me, I liked her and even my mother liked her. However, they didn't know that I liked her and I didn't make any moves.

Now, 1.5 years later, I've told her I like her too and she's confirmed she likes me. I really see her as a potential wife. She literally ticks every box. She doesn't even know that I'm going back. I don't know what to do.

I don't want to let this smart, intelligent and beautiful woman go and then come and post here when I'm 30 that I want to marry.

lefulefu:
sometimes i dey feel sorry for some of d abroad base guys when i see d way some homebase babes dey take scam dem. money wey d abroad guy go dey send to her she go dey use d money plan wedding with d main guy for naija wey she like.in many cases dem dey use dese abroad guys as dollar or euro ATM.what makes dem run away from nigerian ladies based overseas with them? as for age i have seen 30 something yr old ladies who look younger than some 20 something yr old girls.na how a woman take care of her body dey determine how she go look not her age.

Please go for STRONG counseling before you marry o. Don't cheat on your wife and don't beat your wife.

Frankly, if I were her brother, I won't come or support the wedding. You cheat on her when you guys are close to settling then you have the mind to beat her ontop.

Abeg o.

that was how i was doing anyhow when i was with my girl few months back at a point i even dey bring woman for house and she caught me one day and dealt with the girl before i go come back my house don turn upside down.

I entered my house see wethn she did to my guest and she don put hot water for fire oo wethn she wan do wih hot water me i dont know

omo i use vex beat her blue black chase her comot tell her im not doing again...via we are doing relationship and u are mad like this if we come marry that means u will kill person. na so relationship take end and we were close to settling down oo..

I started leaving my life enjoying girls the way i wish. name it 3some, watching lesbians make out and inviting girls to twerk for me/house party.


After like 7months i never still get gf ooo much more of settling down..
I started thinking abt my life... i started asking my sef if na like this i go dey live my life and again as per only child too much pressure is on me to marry.. chei....

Na so i begin reson some of my friends that e be like i will go back to my girl oo..
long story short i went back and she accepted me. i swore never to hurt her again
should be seeing her parents soon.

My people wife no too dey like girlfirends o o o o o o
if your woman dey give u peace of mind hold her tight...

Op i pray u meet her soon.. goodluck

Who told you that 50 year old women don't have sexual desires?? Especially abroad??

Menopause doesn't hit at 40 oooo but it is more dangerous to give birth around 45. However, healthcare in Canada is awesome and can successfully take care.

The easiest way for you is to find a Nigerian woman with sense that is settled in Canada.

calgaryFriend:
Age is a big factor for me. By the time a woman hits menopause some at 40 - 45 years old, a man is just starting. Imagine at 50years you cannot have satisfying se.x life. I am not saying it is the same for everybody but by design a man is still good to go at 65 years, if your wife is 65 years you would have to give up on se.x totally .
And because women age quite faster compared to men so marrying a woman over 30 years is a no no for me.

Beauty isn't everything.

bluskyee:
lol...the lady my sis was trying to recommend to me to ehhnnn, when I saw her pics, make I end story abeq

Not many people have answered the question. Abeg blackivy29 what do you mean by knowledge?

In my experience:
Companionship. The knowledge that she's there for me no matter what! Just like I'm there for her.

Wisdom & Knowledge. I like intelligence, all the types. Street smarts, book smarts, fashion smarts, just show that you think. I love when my SO says something and I listen, take it seriously so that I or we both could benefit.

Language. Sort of related to the above but I personally have a thing for multilingual ladies. I've also witnessed the benefits of being able to travel somewhere even if i can't speak the language. Not just foreign languages o, Nigerian languages too.

Two income home. I've not been married yet but the freedom of being in a relationship where all our even most of the financial pressure is on you has been good. I however understand if it can't be helped but there's got to be a plan for her to be active as well.


These are what spring to mind at the moment but I'm sure there are many more.

This is disgusting.

If she's 15? Has she finished school?? They are talking about prostitution??

Later someone will say that human trafficking has reduced.

Nigeria itself isn't really losing when people go a abroad.

Repatriations contribute greatly to our economy.

We, as a people, should not wait for government and develop our community abroad.

Guys!! Don't patronize runs girls on these platforms!!

I think this will do well in Nigeria as almost everybody is on FB.

IT's a tad high but they're already on Times Higher Education Rankings and are trying to be the face of new universities in Nigeria.

Did she pose for you??

This is her husband! Grow up.

donstan18:
I've never been a fan of irresponsible women.

5.5 for a bottle of quality beer in a hotel.

He could almost definitely buy a 6 pack at 2 pounds per bottle.

planetx13:
£5.5 for a bottle of beer Things are really expensive in the U.K.....

I think it's difficult to fake it. You'll definitely know.

pryme:
Most girls boast they fake orgasm to boost the man's ego, why they do that is beyond me.
So it's hard to tell if a lady is being real about this or not, even if a lady told me I made her orgasm I won't believe her.

He looks very sick from the picture. I hope he didn't starve himself to that point because I hear it is an excruciating death.

Why??

baby124:
JAMB boss should be minister of Education if we are serious about education in this country.

What's it with guys and being unnecessarily rude?

They didn't been anybody to watch them. I just hope the busy body management won't look for how to suspend them.

Proud of the new plant including for the fact that it is off grid. However, this is NOT the largest solar plant in Africa. Not even close. There are bigger projects on Morocco, Egypt and even Kenya.

What if she liked you and was considering thinking about marriage?

I don't think you should spend that kind of money on a lady tbh especially if it is more than an hour's pay.

I can.

I know it's crazy and a little stupid but c'est la vie.

I can't and don't understand guys, PLENTY GUYS, who not only do this but pay serious money for the "privilege".

This is an overflogged issue nonetheless, I will respond:

I want to have one marriage. I've never cheated and don't intend to cheat on my wife. My wife and I have to have a connection: spiritually, emotionally, physically too.

However, the mere act of having sex doesn't mean that there is a sexual connection. Some people will just fake it till the ring comes and then zoom they're off, especially if they're tired of or disgusted by the sex (sexual abuse trauma, previous sex for money experience, asexuality, lack of attraction to you, etc).

Frankly, in my view and experience, you can be sexually connected to someone prior to actually having sex.

Guy dey watch too much African Magic.

Hamachi:
oh you men of little liver

People will attach whatever they want to the beads. People who want them to represent JuJu will say so and those who want them to be beautifications will say so too.

AryaSand:
Because beads are fucking Fashion Accessories and we love them. Our ancestors have been wearing waist beads and anklets before the missionaries came.

OP wants to further increase the birth rate in this country.

To stop masturbating, you need a girlfriend.

Get a serious student girlfriend... You guys could even be serious study partners.

This is West African culture. Ghanaian and co women wear it too.

I think, traditionally, a girl is supposed to start wearing the waist and ankle beads when they menstruate for the first time. I also hear that the waist beads help to shape the booty.

Some girls wear it these days without knowing it's history and as part of slay.

Marry a lady who loves you as a human being and not your pocket.