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Don't go assuming that anybody you think is staring at you wants to ride you till sunrise.

That being said, girls and women are human too and get sexually attracted to people and yes, want to ride some people till sunrise.

In my experience, girls are forward too, including if they like you. If they don't ask you out directly, they'll sorta make you ask them out or something.

At least 13% annual APR which is guaranteeing that the money doesn't reduce.

He needs to send some of the money in risk-free investments like T-bills.

You can't invest all your money in high-risk investments like opening an SME.

Remember that I said when he solidifies and sees the cashflow of his setup, he can increase the investment into that business.

ibechris:
500k on TBill is a waste of money and effort. How much do u think he will make on that sum.

If they did this to strongarm these countries into supporting some policies, I would be surprised at the cunning and bad faith. However, I don't think Mr President does 3D chess.

Dare someone who is dating you!!

DM me

BayoManuels01:
Hi
I'm interested

I drove in Canada a few years ago.

GET. A. CAMERA. Report her when the trip is over (if that is possible). For her to threaten you with a false rape allegation like that means she's most likely a working girl and may be tired of life, men, etc.

Xneg:
Picked a rider yesterday from Ogba going to jankande, apraoching third mainland Bridge she began smoking in my car without permission, I immediately told her it's not allowed to smoke in my car, she didn't stop so I had to park around oworo and politely wanted her to stop smoking and she got upset and told me to come throw out my vehicle, I insisted she puts it off before I continue, she now started drama, she threatened to accuse me of trying to rape her if I insist, very unlike me, I just calmed down, rolled down my windows turned off my AC and continued the journey. Guys how do you deal with such girls? My next rider complained that I was smoking. I just don't like taxify riders

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Read the letter of employment you attached and pay her her salary.

So all new businesses do not pay salaries

It's like your M.D did not plan well o. First of all, since she is providing consumables (recharge, transport, etc); she does not need to pay a begining marketer a BASE of N80T unless there is some kind of performance guarantee.

A former school mate of mine runs a travel/tour agency as well and is now very profitable. Do you know why?? She is basically the major staff. She started running it just herself, taking people on tours in Lagos, then Kenya. She has both a Bachelors and a Masters degree from abroad o and had many job offers (including Shell).

Your boss just started 1 month ago and is already paying multiple marketers N60k - N80k BEFORE commission?? Maka gini? It will not work in the beginning when money is tight. She could do a base of say N10T and 30% of whatever money the marketer brings in. That way, she could get many marketers who will know that the real mula is in the customers.

Your boss should employ 1 person, who with her should run ALL the social media accounts. Your boss should also sell leisure/networking/training packages to businesses in Lagos.

Busola2:
Glory of school of Aviation in Ikoyi was sent by Mr.Albert and employed by My boss as an IT marketer plus other duties because My boss said she wanted buyers to come to her company,which Glory did not do at all.Her employment letter has been attached.She told the owner that she could bring over 10,000 buyers which were part of her followers to market a new travels and tours.The M.D insisted Glory should take N60,000 but Glory insisted she has a wide social media affluence and N80,000 was the best salary she wanted.Our M.D gave Glory a target of bring 15 ticket buyers,5 tourists and one relocation clients(Our M.D gave us all the targets before we were employed).
Glory insisted the M.D must buy her a brand new phone because she needed it for social media,our M.D bought it!Glory kept collecting money for recharge cards,facebook adverts and many more from our M.D.
Glory could not bring a single buyer to flight jara after all her promises.Our M.D had told us all that our salary is tied to only when targets are met plust she will give 2% commission on every sale.
All the workers that could not meet their targets left without asking for money they did not bring.Especially her PA/marketer ,the only walk in employee who our M.D felt sorry for when she came because she saw"Marketing Executives needed"on company glass door.
When My M.Ds former PA left because she could not meet her target(all our MD's workers are from the Aviation School)she decided to try the walk in worker,who knew NOTHING about travels and tours.She too could not deliver and left willingly.Glory who could not meet her targets contacted the PA that they should fight for their money calling the owner names(while still working with us through whatsapp).
Glory could not meet her over 10,000 buyers she promised ,Glory was told by our M.D she found another IT lady called Bisola,who promised to assist Glory get buyers plus another new lady as PA to swop positions before she left,Glory instigated PA who left for fear of competition and returning to her door to door marketing she came for plus social media.
Glory yesterday,walked up to My M.D showing her followers.Our boss said followers are not buyers Glory promised.
Glory said she will leave end of month threatening our boss who feared for her life called security.Our boss collected company cell phone Glory told her to buy for social media while Glory was shouting on her.
Glory lied she wanted to remove her sim card(she put her personal sim on company property).She took the phone and angrily deleted company facebook account she runs.
When Glory got home,she started sending letters through flightjara instagram that our boss is a scammer scamming customers,a month old business. Glory has brought no single customer.
She then started blocking all the followers she got because our M.D sent messages on instagram saying Glory was no longer with flightjara.
My boss told her web developer to change company passwords but it was too late.Glory had gone viral calling an innocent lady a scammer.She later changed it that she not only scams people but scams her workers salaries.I am Busola,Glory's coworker still with flightjara.
I am a witness.My boss told us everything before we were employed that we have targets attached to our salary.My boss showed us today whatsapp messages from company phone.Glory was using company wifi to watch netflix plus insulting her daily to her husband instead of getting online buyers.
Glory refused to market the independence day tour she told my boss to do which the website guy made.Glory an IT marketer cannot construct proper English,our M.D edits all the social media posts by Glory.
Glory told PA about her plans to deal with our M.D.,where PA said My boss' doom is near...because she PA was instigated by Glory.
My boss had to defend herself yesterday when Glory wanted to attack her for money she did not earn, even by sms because Glory has promised to use social media to deal with our boss ,our boss hardly discloses her name to anybody that comes here,even us.
Glory ran to social media because our boss threatened to sue her for defamation of character and wrote Glory's husband and called her guarantors to call Glory to order yesterday which included her aunty.
Glorys husband wrote on her whatsapp that Glory was complaining about her 2 previous employers on whatsapp during work.Glory is confident because of social media and her husband works in punch newspapers.
My boss is not owing Glory any salary because Glory got the job being aware of a target but started causing trouble because she could not meet her target.
Glory told our boss yesterday she did not read her employment letter when our boss gave her the letter 3 weeks ago when she was employed, but why wait until 3 weeks when some workers were leaving for non performance by themselves?

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I have 2008 Mazda 5
2007 Toyota Corolla and 2011 Ford Fusion (eligible for premium services).

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Hey,

1. Do NOT invest the entire N3 million or even more than N700,000.

2. Invest like N500,000 in T bills. This is guaranteed income that will balloon over time.

3. Change some money to foreign currency, either dollars or Euros.

4. Invest around student populations. Invest in a student-centered business that would require less than N300,000 first. Then after having spent a number of months in the state, made some money from the T-bills, made money from the business, compare and see which yield is higher and which new fields you should get into.

Who told you he's interested in turning you on??

Those he wants to notice him are noticing him.

If you know, you know.

Biglittlelois:
a guy shouldn't have ass talk more of hips, total turn off, I think he's gay

If you guys have differing attitudes to sex, you do. It's not a big deal.

A word of caution, go and read this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5409092/painful-sex-she-doesnt-love

If you think she will 'change' after marriage, think again.

She probably wants to blackmail you.

Send her a text saying: "I have acknowledged and repented of that wrongdoing. Part of my vow to move forward was to not contact you again. Please do not contact me again".

EFULEFU1:
I am a married man
Few years ago, I sinned. I entered a relationship with a lady even though I was married
We met once in my house when my wife wasn't around and we romanced (kiss, touches , fingering)
No penetration, though I admit was equally adultery
Afterwards, she began avoiding me, avoiding my calls etc, and thankfully I also repented of the sin of adultery
Lately, this lady has been calling, and messaging. Reminding me of what happened, and says I should accept what we did was wrong. Anytime she messages, it is about that one night romance

Please how do I approach this?
Does she wanna blackmail me?
Please help me

Divorce.

Your mental health is the most important thing.

Okay cool.

Bienvenue!!

AntoniaBby1788:
i've been viewing as a guest.

blackivy27 is a teenager. I think.

Where are you getting your info bruv?

DenreleDave:
Don't tag me with the likes of amaratasha and Blackivy27.. Those ladies are single mother of 3 from 3 different fathers.. I don't move with such

Clearly you've been on NL before. If not how did you know the people you mentioned?? ��

AntoniaBby1788:
Im antonia. And im new here please welcome me guys

ubunja
astrog

I think someone that you love in EVERY way.

I think the one is the girl that I love spending time with, talking to and desire physically.

AND the feeling just be mutual.

What your wife is CLAIMING to have is VAGINISMUS.

VAGINISMUS is a common 'illness' amongst (religious) women who are virgins or have been abstinent for a VERY LONG time.

Most of the time, women with vaginismus mentally consider sex, penetrative sex as an abberation.

The condition requires effort from both the woman and the man through counseling, therapy, as individuals and couples; and love to successfully battle it.

The optimist will assume that your wife is saying the truth. What made her "change her ways"? Was she raped? Was she into sex work? Did she become sexually active relatively early in her life?

The pessimist will say that your wife doesn't love you. Frankly, you will know this better than anybody else. The biggest clue in this direction is that she REFUSES TO ALLOW YOU TO KISS HER.

My guy, you need to assert yourself. Are you fat? Are you ugly? Are you whiny? Your wife might be disgusted by you.

Many wives in this situation will only change (TEMPORARILY) if they feel threatened. You don't even have to cheat for them to feel threatened. Merely getting in shape, pursuing your hobbies, smiling more, traveling yourself, etc will make her suspicious and jealous.

Work on yourself. Enjoy yourself. Step back from the family a bit. Take the DECISION on your marriage. Don't wait until she cheats or files for divorce.

Cheers. Sorry about this problem.

OBUKOMENA:
I married my wife three years ago and we had a child two years after wedding. Before we married, we actually dated for 5yrs. During this time, we were on a no-sex-before-marriage relationship.

On our wedding night, I realized there was something wrong with either of us, cos the sex didnt go well. I'd thought it was the fatigue caused by the day's activities. Subsequently, I noticed that my wife was always shouting and withdrawing from sex each time I penetrated her. I asked her why and she said the sex was painful.

My wife had been in a sexual relationship for almost 10yrs before I met her. I, on the other hand, had only had sex once in my 37 yrs (age I married). When my wife and I agreed to the no sex before marriage thing, during our period of dating, I started looking forward to our wedding night. I started fantasising on what sex would be like with my wife. I longed for sex with her....

How did she become pregnant? Ever since we got married, the kind of sexual intercourse we practised was one in which I would have to penetrate her ONLY with the tip of my joystick, or She pushed me away. Achieving full penetration was a mirage for me and it was frustrating and not enjoyable at all! I could not achieve that full penetration cos to her, it was paining her. That was how we had our sexual intercourse until she informed me she was pregnant. I didn't question the ownership of the pregnancy cos we are both Believers. I must sincerely say that it was DURING her pregnancy that I enjoyed sex with her. It was the period she allowed me to achieve that normal, full penetration I craved for. It was the period she was making those sounds typical of an intercourse.
We both paused sex until 3 months after childbirth.


From the time we resumed sex up till now, matters have become worse. This time around, no partial nor full penetration. All she wanted was for me to just rub my joystick around her vagina and she would cum. This, to me, wasn't my definition of sex. It's a frustrating and nightmarish experience. The sex that I so longed for It now looks like I am married to a woman without a vagina. This situation is killing me softly. I am dying inside. I don't know who to discuss this sensitive issue with for advice. Worse still, She told me bluntly that active, penetrative sex is a TURN OFF for her. She prefers passive sex. My wife doesn't even allow me to kiss her anymore. I guess she allowed partial penetration before childbirth cos she knew if i didnt penetrate her at all, she wouldnt get pregnant. Is this what I am going to live with the rest of my life?

NB: I had advised her to seek medical help; she said NO and that she didn't see it as a problem. I also advised her to use Vaseline during intercourse; she insisted it was inimical to her health. All other suggestions brought before her fell on deaf ears.

Pls, I need advice on what to do.


Modified: Pls, don't just view and ignore. I need your advice. I brought this matter up here cos it's a faceless forum. I will not seek help on Facebook cos it's a sensitive issue concerning my wife

We have a SERIOUS mental health problem in this country.

The earlier we come to terms and actively try to improve people's lives, the better.

She gave out the more sensitive information.

A "strong, independent woman" can't even take care of her vagina independently?

This kind of thinking is a bane in our society.

No need to go far.

Even in Nigeria, ladies are asking guys out. Just because you haven't witnessed it doesn't mean it's not true.

When Naija babe see a good thing, they waste ZERO time.

MiseryHimself:
Asking a guy out can be done in many ways and I don't mean what you are thinking.

One of the ways to ask a guy out is the eyes - the silent tongue of love. People can be horribly fixated on you that you'd feel guilty if you don't ask them out. Actually they asked you out, it's just that they are allowing you to take charge.

Also, people may also say "care to come to my home for a movie/drink during the weekend or whatever." They asked you out too but it's still quite obfuscating and many other ways I wouldn't bore you with. In the end, they still want you to say it!!!

I mean this: Hey, I really like and admire you and I don't know if you feel the same about me. I would love to spend my life with you in happy union but I don't know if you're interested in me or feel the same attraction I have towards you.

That is what I am talking about.

If you say girls are asking guys out, we have to back up a little and ask where. In the Americas, Europe and other industrialized nation? Probably 2, 1 (or none) out of every 10 relationships. In traditional societies? LMAO!!! They would rather die than open up even when they are quite sure that the guy has good attributes they want in a future spouse.

He's being too much of a stickler and too controlling. What does he mean by instructions?? Is he her principal?? E should go and sit down jare.

She had every right to tell him to Bleep off. And bet me, HE will go back to beg.

Heroclitus:
U didn't even talk about the "Bleep off and Bleep you" statement...

Although nothing is universally right or wrong but that's just too much

. Happy to make someone smile.

For reals though, men have wrecked expectations too badly.

generationz:
Okay, you just made my day with this. Impressive coming from a man.

It's always funny to me when guys and girls talk of dating a younger girl so that respect.

How can you have sex with somebody and still be talking about respect. Which dirty respect.

Mutual respect all the way or the girl will bring you down to earth one day.

Pride comes before a fall.

Pride will kill some Nigerian men.

You generalize way too much.

Frankly, just like him.

In my experience, (Nigerian) women who love, love HARD. It's the best love. I think he jumped to conclusions on his former babe. I think you're generalising men and fail to see anything from his point of view.

If you see my previous posts this week, you'll see that I HATE cheating and think all Nigerian cheaters are SCUM. I also am scared by the acceptance with with Nigerian women take cheating. It's scary.

Also, men who scam women are evil. You're generalising waaaay too much.

We are a country of 200 MILLION people not to talk if diaspora. We can't ask be bad.

generationz:
Yeah, but that's a non issue. It is a known thing that a Lady in love will support her man with everything when he goes broke. Isn't that why they get scammed in the first place?

Isn't that what this whole topic is about.
You men just love to shift the blame to women even
when even a topic clearly centres around guys.

If a man cheats, his wife must be frigid and smelling.

If a girl is raped, she must have dressed seductively or she's a hoe.

If a guy scams his girlfriend, it is good for her. After all, she saw better guys and went for that one. She was probably attracted by his money.

If a man cheats the side chick is a hoe the wife must be boring as hell.

It's like all men are saints especially on nairaland.

You people should stop o. You will one day have daughters and not want anything bad to happen and people blame her even she's the victim.

You invite her to your house to cook for you, without you paying her? Is she your cook or your slave?

Lonestar124:
If she can not take the fruits and drinks in my frigde then it is thoughtful of her to go inside kitchen and prepare something for both of us........By the way her mate come along with food or anything eatable when visiting the person they love.