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There is no need to accept people's classification.

Be you.

nathdim:
How would you classify someone who believe in humanity and love but doesn't have anything to do with religion

The more despondent a people are, the more religious they become.

At the lowest ebb and with no hope of betterment, a 'god' seems the most effective way out.

Realtalk20:
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Hunger is causing it. When you are hungry and frustrated you become angry at everyone and everything. You curse your parents , you curse your debtors and those who you are owing money too. You curse your lineage and country and finally your curse your creator and suddenly stop believing in anything due to a rumbling empty stomach

All these so called atheists in Nigeria are hungry ,broke people who have tried to borrow money from everywhere no one helped them. They prayed countless times for help and none came,They converted from Christianity to Islam and back n forth looking for money to rent a one room to sleep in.

Finally one guy is claims to be an atheist gave them 2k to eat which looks like 1 billion to them and immediately they join and start ranting that do called Christians and Muslims and evil ... All because of 2k

Pretty sure Tai Solarin was atheist, or at least non Christian/Muslim.

backbencher:
I think there were atheists in this country before 2014, just saying

In normal countries, joining the Military is great.

Here, you leave your lives to the mercy of incompetence, nepotism and corruption.

I can understand. A lot of schools will hire at 20k and you'll need to be teaching a tougher subject well to get higher. Alternatively, you'll need to be at a school long enough to be promoted.

yemite100:
I don't like teaching job.

Our Hardworking African woman.

Why is he sending her 200k in the first place?

They do this with slay queens but mistreat our real African, hardworking, wifey queens. Why won't all ladies want to be slay queens?

Umm, I highly doubt it. The great thing about WhatsApp is that it's encrypted.

I don't even think the FBI can hack it.

Quality20:
whatsapp r easily and even playfully hacked even by non tech guys

My friend, carry your dignity and small sense and remove yourself.

5 years and sign has not come? Let her go and look for the sign at a shrine.

butyne:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders, there is something that has been giving me sleepless night for a week now and I want to share it to this forum for you to advice me on the next step to take.

There is this girl that I have been in a relationship with for 5 years now, when we started the relationship, she was still looking for admission while I was already in my final year. As time goes we started talking about marriage but she told me that I should wait till she get to her final year. Though, we have been at peace but not that we don't use to have misunderstanding but once such happens, we reconcile with immediate effect. One thing that use to make us to have misunderstanding is that am a jealous lover and the fact that we are not close to each other made me to suspect that she is cheating on me especially if I call her at odd hours to discover that she is on another call, I would be mad at her to the extent that I may use some offensive words on her but have not I have not assaulted her physically, after she explains, she will apologize and I will also apologize for using offensive words. Though, the above problem rarely occur, upon that we still love ourselves.
Last two years, I told her that I want to be introduced to her parents and she did as I requested, I have also introduced her to my own parents, my parents have given me the approval to make plans for our marriage. Her parents too were still ok with me. When my parents gave the approval earlier this year, I called her on phone and told her that I will be coming to see her people very soon for our marriage plans but she answered by telling me that we will discuss in details when we see one on one. I kept quiet, we have been seeing but she has not for one day remembered that we had unfinished discussion. I decided to raise the topic again, last week that I want to go to her house for the marriage plans so that during next year's Easter period by the grace of God we will wed but she told me that I should still give her time, that she is yet to see the sign. I told her that we have been in this relationship for 5 years and you are yet to get a confirmation, when are you going to get it? Is it in this remaining one month of the year? She said that she don't know but as soon as she gets sign she will let me know.
To be honest, I really love the girl and since we started I have not dated another girl but know that it is going like this, I wish to seek advice from fellow Nairalanders on which way to go, either to stay or to live her because I am emotionally traumatized now.
Your advice will make a difference.
Thanks to all Nairalanders.

It's a nice adornment and has worked for thousands of years.

Nne put it in context.

If he's a bitcoin billionaire, let's assume he has a net worth of 2 billion dollars.

What he gave her is roughly 1 million dollars.
That is 1/2000 of his net worth.

It's like a Naija guy with N 1 milion net worth giving you N500.

Deborah98:
Watch and see how nairaland guys will avoid this thread. People of the world see una fellow men ooooooooooooooo,he didn't die he's alive much alive and kicking. Ndi what has she done to deserve this love and care oya ooo come and see una member. Those ones that loves attacking their fellow guys for gifting a girl oya ooooh what do you have to say

I would think that the bank job could lead to being absorbed into the banking system.

The fuel job could lead to being made manager of the station.

However, with OND/HND, schools hire teachers with that.

The earlier some people realize this, the better. Don't spend money, time you don't have on a mutual activity that takes quite a bit of your energy.

I had that brand of Honda (2002).

I currently have a newer Civic. Civic is better. Parts are cheaper, the car is faster, if it's manual, you will never have transmission problems.

Glad to hear that.

Ogbrave:
Thanks.. I am on it already

Some women want to get busy during this time.

debbydams:
,some men can bleep their wife with blood..smh

The ladies I've come across are even more "in the mood" during this period.

Make I off mic.

Shine your eye, respect and expect respect back.

Good luck!!

Iyaebe:
You people keep complaining about everything so as to scare people from getting married but sorry to disappoint you all,I'm rushing into it with no fears.

You just want to complain?

Your wife wants to spend quality time with you and you're making noise?

Olarewaju89:
Pls, married people in the house should look onto this matter. My wife always want us to be eating together in one Plate even though if I come home late from work in the night,she will wait for me before we eating except if i travel out of city.

You go and read your comment. You did.

Smh.

uncleck:
I never said that every girl child is married out at 18. I never said that parents don't train their daughters. Read well

Stop the madness

My guess is the clay floor.

Or mats.

Hypocrite criticising hypocrite.

People need to calm down. The English you want to speak is not worth your life.

Self control.

Don't click.

Curious345:
Please I wanna block all post from the Nairaland romance section. I don't want em to appear on my NL time line.

Most of 9.5 outta 10 post from here are bombastically over bloated, fake and made-up.

Advice needed..

Flogging doesn't work, is abusive, etc.

EMOTIONALGUY:
I feel like I'm too emotional for a guy.

Like, I' m 20+, but I've not raised a cain to flog someone before.
I don't even think I can flog my future kids...

I wouldn't mind giving out 90% of the money in my account to help someone in need (something I'e done severally).

I can cry at will, like the site of someone flogging an animal can make me start feeling emotional...imagine

Is this normal for a guy?

NOTE: I'm a regular Nairaland user, but I created this account to conceal my identity.

On a Romance subthread, it is sensible to assume that was implied.

Candidlady:
must it always be bout girls. Una no get job!



op wasnt even refering to girls.

Marriage is not dependent on the notion of a deity.

JMAN05:
Many marriages today are unacceptable in God's sight because of little mistakes, or perhaps they just don't know this fact.


Below is a line that takes you to the video.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8s6GbxL/

In my opinion, anyone that tells you to "wait for marriage", run.

It's usually a scam (an effective one for gullible virginity worshipping peeps).

You, as a guy or girl, should only wait for marriage if there is a religious reason, both of you are in the church, and you guys keep each other accountable.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z9IDw6mvbdg

franklytrue:
Tares have been sown among the wheat but should a farmer abandon his field because of them? There will be a time of separation and judgment. Continue ye in the faith.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IPAKsGbqcg

FullBlastLight:
Those who are not 4 d truth can neva be comfortable wit it whenever they encounter it!

Dis is d reason u wandered away!

...bt may u obtain mercy 2 reason ur way back, asap!