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Crazy!! I never heard this before but I can definitely believe that people would believe this.

Kobojunkie:
For example,
the belief that having sex with virgins is cure for HIV/sexual illness is not cultural?

On the virgin cleansing myth: gendered bodies, AIDS and ethnomedicine

How many "true Christians" believe that all the people parading themselves as "believers" actually believe?

nobaga:
How do you expect anyone from the most religious country in the world to admit to such when most of them including their Pastors and Imams are hustlers.

Most if not all do not believe in God like the Christians and Muslims that lie to them.

Dollar is god.

The journey of navigating the religion issue. Was your partner also irreligious? Are you "unequally yoked"? How about parents and extended families?

Kobojunkie:
Journey to what exactly?

PG was the only newspaper that covered EndSARS. Nigerian authorities are famous for lying (Justic odili matter, Awkuzu SARS, etc).

Take from that what you want.

Lol. Don't even know what I was ranting about. Cheers.

Datboredberry:
my boyfriend is Colombian...

I've got to go to church first.

Lollittaa:
propose to me. Let's find out. ��

Will your church allow this?

Do it during testimony.

People need to change food sources. Rice is too expensive, try millet or some other grain.

Beef is too expensive, try a different cut. Reduce meat consumption.

Raiser your own chickens for eggs. Have a small garden for pepper, leaves, etc.

The story I enard is he was initially given permission for 9 storeys.

The guy probably thought: I've spent 100 million naira on the foundation, it can hold anything.

Lollittaa:
Did you see how the ruins looked like slices of bread. From what experts say, if I remember correctly, the only way for the building to have fallen so completely was lack of structure. From foundation to pillar. Remember, he was given permission for 15 storeys. He illegally increased it to 21. Now, he cam build anywhere, even in the ocean, with good foundation and structure. Remember the letter the structural engineer sent him? Too many things were wrong with that building, no thanks to his greed.

Nigerian romance scammers are learning work compared to Indian, Chinese, American, and North Korean scammers (these are backed by the state).

I try my best to help people avoid these scams. It's quite sad that so many people, men and women, are so lonely that they can fritter away their lifesavings.

The most common source of green card is marrying someone you know. So many Nigerians abroad, in their 30s, go back to Nigeria to marry. For many women, they connect with old friends and boyfriends.
I know a second cousin that got married this way. The guy was looking to go to school abroad. There were 2 ladies he almost married in Nigeria. One was older than him (1year) and married an older man. The other was earning much more than him (he didn't care) but his family strongly adviced him against marrying her. Before long, an old girlfriend contacted him, they started chatting and within a few months, they started the process.

The guy is now the breadwinner in the abroad. His wife doesn't work again.

My other African friends have a stereotype for Nigerian men: Hardworking straight men that will provide for their families. My Brazilian friend said Nigerian and Ghanaian men are in high demand there. Why? The probability of them being gay is super low.

Be proud of your Nigerian skin and Nigerian men. We are 200+ million people. Some are bound to be bad. Most are amazing.

Datboredberry:
You didn't make a point...

I'll ask a question... When black men date white women, who foots the bills?

Nigerian men are leeches on white women... The entire world knows your romance scams... Enough with the bullshit...

All you do is take advantage of white women for green cards... Live off them... Then come back to Africa to get married after a very cheap, wayward lifestyle.

The fact that most of you are degenerate scum who fcck grandmothers for cash... Isn't the issue.

What's offensive is how you all only know how to flex your muscles with black women who don't even stoop as low as you often do.

Wasn't it a Nigerian man who knelt down to beg his Chinese girl after cheating on her? So she wouldn't report his illegal immigrant ass to the authorities?

That same shameless lowlife who depends on a white woman to alleviate his lazy self from acute poverty, would come to Nigeria to complain that we demand for ₦1000 transport fare...

I'll caution against insulting older people.

The way I see it is: I'll be 60 years I've, hopefully, I would still want to be desired.

Datboredberry:
[s]Lastly, I'm broke, frustrated but you wouldn't see me fccking a 60yr old... [/s]

I'll rather take it out on your dumb self.

Na you talk do first o.

Go to church. No dey think of do.

Lollittaa:
Take your mind out of the gutter joor.

The sad thing is:

I don't think he had malice.

He fully believed the building would stand.

It's the laissez-faire attitude towards engineering. If one of his earlier, smaller buildings had collapsed, he would have settled down and taken engineering advice.

Lollittaa:
In a twisted way, his death was justice. Had he not died, he'd have quietly left the country while the victims families mourn their loved ones, breadwinners, some of them.

The engineers in this project wrote a long letter explaining their resignation from the project.

chatinent:
Ha!

I hope this teaches engineers some lessons. Trying to save some few more money could cost your life too! The building couldn't wait for tenants! It got angry at the builder.

In the words of my mom:

"God cannot be mocked. How can he be dancing and singing when he's cutting corners."

Lollittaa:
You can see how excellent he was. His sheer greed, goat-like stubbornness and disregard for professional advice took him and many innocent people looking for a livelihood to their early graves.

Woman na woman. Just be yourself.

The fear many men have is, "what will I have in common with the teenager?" That really is only applicable if the teenager is an airhead.

This young teen is just misinformed.

Also, as a child of God, I don't do anybody.

And in the spirit of equality, people do each other. There is no doer and doee.

Lollittaa:
You don't do teenagers.
Happy Sunday dear

Which men??

Biko abeg speak for yourself.

Mariangeles:
I thought men don't like wrappers?

Seems she's a teen. At least she's thinking and reasoning. She's just misinformed.

Also, she may be a teen so....

Lollittaa:
seems you've found a new catch Match made in heaven. Hehe

Oh, you're still a teen?

Ah. Your parents sent you to uni abroad, and you want to swallow wokism left, right and centre?

Aunty go and check black statistics. This goal of fighting black men is not working out. Black women are the least married, have the most children out of wedlock, least-earning, most on welfare, etc.

Good luck youngin.

Datboredberry:
How old were you? Because you seem to forget that this is a teen romance story!

Exactly. There are dinghies, as well as face me I slap you in Colombia.

Lollittaa:
Colombian boyfriend may just be one dude inside a dingy "face-me-I-comot-ya-teeth" room inside okokomaiko

Do you have a growth path at your remote jobs?

Startups can easily fail.

Nobody is talking about the water he's using. Boil and filter your water.

I've been in this business.

When a bag was N100, the hawker sold it at N10 per satchet. Their gain was N5 per satchet.

Buyers bought at N60/N70 per bag.

meobizy:
At 300 per bag, each sachet should go for 30 naira. Back in the 100 naira days the sachets were 10 naira each.

Somebody told you 20% interest MONTHLY and you invested


Na wa o.

The victims are greedy too.

Adebeeyi:
https://fij.ng/article/mayowa-olukehinde-of-breach-menders-collected-n50m-from-investors-now-hes-unreachable/

I hope you know that romance scammers are not limited to Nigeria or old people.

Be very careful. Get him to apply for a visit visa to where you are. Let the immigration service do background check on your behalf.

Datboredberry:
No!

I'm definitely traveling to Colombia next year...

That's why I call him my 'would-be-boyfriend'...

But I'm glad I like him... I love introverts... But introverts tend to hurt me...

I have so much energy... I would love to have real, romantic adventures with someone sweet...

God knows my life has been too miserable...

Nne be calming down abeg. You want to destroy the little ego the guy has?

Datboredberry:
You're a self-loathing degenerate who suffers from a disease; mental slavery...

A Nigerian lady broke your tender heart, grow a pair of balls and get over like a man...

All your comments insulting black women... You come of as a sexually frustrated Incel...

It's weak, it's disgusting, it's dumb... You're simply pathetic.

Ilamina, is this you?

Datboredberry:
Lol...

Not yet... Not yet...

He and i just argued...

*Sniffs*

It's suh fccking hard

Ask questions here. I'll answer.

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Your beer parlour statistics abi wine cellar statistics, are lies.

You seem to be suggesting that you see people as members of a group, not individuals. That sounds like the "woke" mob mentality. Morally bankrupt and intellectually lacking.

You say you "respect black men like kings", when you "don't care for them".

Nne, the cognitive dissonance must induce headaches. Biko buy some aspirin or paracetamol.

Datboredberry:
Self exposing? My point is simple... I don't worship black men because they have so many flaws... Like you, most are hypocrites.

I respect them like kings because they are my race... And in this world... It's the both of us together... Being black is a level no one else can attain or ever hope to understand... I respect black men's struggles as black men!!!

But do I love them as individuals... Nope... I don't care for them the same way I don't care for anyone else.

Black men marry out of their race more than black women...

I'm claiming to be both genders? I do not understand?

Nne, the black women were slaves too. The black women couldn't sit at the front of the bus or use the water fountain.

And how dare you say cut "us" some slack? That made me chuckle. Aunty were you there? Are you 90 years old.

Your groupism is evil.

Datboredberry:
my post clearly stated- black men...

I'm implying that while black men were victims then, the only support they received was from black women... So cut us some slack...

You know nothing of pan-Africanism...

The first lesson taught was 'self-love and awareness'...

Hating black men is the exact opposite.

Very sad.

SirVintageCock:
Thread successfully derailed by both the miserable religious people and their atheist counterpart.

Only 1 girl in a country of 200 million? Haba.

Lonelypacifist6:
There's a girl on Nairaland whose an atheist you probably know her.