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Sounds like harassment.

Don't try to kiss someone that doesn't want to kiss you.

Pumpumking:
what the hell u talkin about sir....so when u stand in front of woman, you juss stand there like loookin like statue until rain start fallin & thunder strike yor forhead?...u dont kiss them? Wot tha heck is happpenning? So u mean u dont kiss women when u toasting them?? u kidddddin me right? this is worrrying. are u also gay sir?(no oofeinse)

Beer parlour statistics.

Godada:




I still don't get this perceived bitterness to the opposite sex. There are stories of both men and women dishing out 50 shades of wickedness to each other just like a lady killed her step daughter while the husband wasn't around.


There are cases of men sleeping and impregnating their step daughters.


The thing is wickedness is not just a character trait, it is peculiar to males and females alike.


What I do find distasteful and troubling is your stat: that men wickedness to women is in the ratio 50:1.


Kindly explain how you arrived at that figure. Where and how did you compile that data? Are these figures statistical that one can access and arrive at your conclusion or is it something you dreamed up?


Kindly illuminate me on this last paragraph.

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Befulfilled:
My head is not thinking right right now cos I'm going through a lot. I was in dire need of money for hospital bill when someone sent me some money due to my cries. Using ATM to withdraw it, I was debited but not dispensed. Going to 3 months now, the bank has not refunded. That money was to save a life but bank played politics with it.

What are my chances if I sue them for damages?

That's why I'm asking.

Alexious:
Are you not reading between the lines that it's fraudulent?

Nne don't tolerate insults from people you know, even in jest.

But yeah I get it. Some people take gender generalisations too far. They assume that their woman will not carry knife, or gun (epidemic now in the USA of black ladies killing their men or ex men).

Cheers.

Datboredberry:
I know... But men think...they are the only ones with egos... The only ones who gets hurt when insulted... The only ones who can resort to violence...

None is true! God knows how much I hate being put down with words...

I have self-pride... I have a temper... If I can tolerate the sh**-load of verbally abusive men... Anyone else can!!!

I've been bullied by men... I simply take a break to cool down...

I nearly poisoned a friend of mine... Thank God I didn't! But that was my breaking point... I literally snapped.

Men can be extremely rude... And annoying... But they act like women are the only ones who behave badly...

I won't physically hurt someone who verbally hurts me... I'll either think of a clever come-back or walk away...

People are killing enemies, rivals, etc and blaming "unknown gunmen".

Very important question.

You must ensure that your family can function if you die.

Can one invest in the fund?

Manem2:
First of all, this account was created for this purpose only.
Due to the Economy situation of the country and the upcoming festive period, I'm here to make my own contribution as a citizen of this country and also as an old Nairaland member. I will be giving out loan to several people here on Nairaland for the purpose of carrying out business that will profit them this Christmas and also personal loan to those that can't afford to get somethings for this festive period. I'm giving out a total of 7 million naira with a single person getting a minimum of N50,000 and a Maximum of 1 million naira.
Loan repayment duration period will be within 1-7months at a monthly interest rate of 2.5 %
What is my gain in doing this? It's simple, the interest rate is my gain and the satisfactory feeling that I have put a smile in someone's face. Please note that I'm not collecting any money from you before giving out the loan. It's completely free of any fee. But be ready to submit your vital details that can be used in tracking you and your contacts incase u default in your repayment. So if you interested click on my WhatsApp link below while offer last.

http://.us/w/?c=a8294f

Oboy. This is a doozer.

I think you may need to overrule your girlfriend on this matter.

However, she may be using this issue to prevent future overdependence on you by her family.

You said you used insulting words on her. Please slap yourself and never do that again. This is someone you said you want to marry and want to bear your children.

My twin and I fed all our younger siblings.

Real life no be Nairaland gender war.

Staying awake that late can lead to...not-so-Christian thoughts.

Lollittaa:
I can't sleep

Guys should stop patronising runs girls.

There is zero upside. You're wasting money for bad product that could kill you.

HIV positive rates are going up in Nigeria. Be careful.

Love to see the non hypocrisy.

I would strongly urge anyone involved with angry people to not resolve to deep insults or physical violence.

Things, with emotions involved, can spiral out of control. That's how people get killed.

Datboredberry:
one word: decency...

Some women do beat their husbands... They are as repulsive as the men who beat their wives...

If you depend on your fists to correct a fellow adult, you're a retàrded, low-life scum...

Most men who beat their wives and sisters would deliberately ignore their fellow men when slighted by them... Because they are cowards.

God forbid a man would beat me... I would do the world a favour and murder the degenerate...

It's a surprise how women tolerate your crap...

Hey Sageb.

I'm not currently in Port. We can send emails.

sageb:
Yes, surely
Sir, can you share connect? We can discuss about it.
I don't mind meeting you at HCUE or Bozgomero Lotus club.

Unfortunately, I can't disagree.

angelfallz:
There is no need replying such people.
That person behind that moniker does not contribute anything meaningful on NL but always waits for things like this to reach NL. Then the person starts convulsing about how bad Nigerian men are.
The person has serious issues.

Cry quietly.

BRATISLAVA:
He's not an objective person. Just a concealed typical male excuser who will beat round the bush rather than face what is in his face. The type who looks for a mote to conceal his true bearing.

I would appreciate not being included in the same post with an unfortunate being like himself. Thank you.

Ah. I'll have to disagree completely.


Good luck. Choose peace of mind above all.

Mayyvin:
I know Doug.
I've listened to him and many other atheist back when I was an atheist too. He constantly evade questions about his worldview, his arguments are manipulative and are far off from seeking objective truth. Go listen to the podcast he had with Darth.

If you wanna listen to an atheist, at least, choose the ones who are honestly trying to find answers.

Anyway, thanks for your input.
Take care.

Everybody needs love.

Lollittaa:
thought as much. Ezra looks very....ish. Ew

With Graphic Design and marketing, you can work anyway and for yourself.

With engineering, you pretty much need an employer.

I'd suggest that you go for graphic design with the aim of working for a tech company within 4 years.

Grand194:
I work as a senior brand designer in one of the multinationals in the country. My being there sparked my interest in building a career in marketing.

I am from an Electrical Electronics Engineering background. While in school i loved both engineering and graphics design. I have also wanted the opportunity of working for brands to change or improve consumer perception of a product from ideation to final production.

Here's the thing, I want to start a career in marketing if I'm to remain in Nigeria next year, I'd have to take the necessary certifications needed and jobs that will get me to the peak of the career. On the other hand, I want to continue my career in Engineering. This would mean I travel out of the country for masters and stay there for the next 10 years building that dream.

Reason is the discipline of Engineering I chose, getting jobs is not easy in Nigeria, especially when you want to grow in the core of electrical /electronics engineering and make good money. Please not companies like Ikedc.

Now I'm confused on which to go for. I completed my youth service last year. I'm just starting life fully and don't want to waste time and opportunities.

What path would you advise me to take and why?

I'd really appreciate your thoughts.

I thought the guy that paints his nails plays on the same team?

What's your own?

femiasaolu2014:
Most of these "techies" are Incels who can't face the opposite sex to woo them.

A little successful startup, a little funding and they start painting their nails and growing dreadlocks and aggressively pursuing women in an abrasive manner and without finesse, just to make up for the opportunities they never had.

Stupid people

You won't ever hear me say "all" or "most" when it comes to bad actions by our people.

That is a clear difference with Bratislava.

Lollittaa:
except cooooooks yaf chop red pill, he's a very cool guy.
Hot lava ke? Oya take chilled malt. Bikozianu(please)

Don't be unfortunate please.

BRATISLAVA:
Don't mention me in the same sentence with a being that cannot be objective.

He's trying the age-old diversionary tactic of men who don't want to address what is before them.

It is easier for him to tackle a word that the matter at hand.

She's so smart.

You guys and girls that claim to hate Nigerian people should carry yourselves and go.

Kissmyassbiach:
In your pathetic attempt to prove you’re one of the good guys, listen to yourself.

Fucking idiot.

Not all men but definitely you.

If you can think through the questions he asks, your faith will be forever strong.

Mayyvin:
I'm tryna reignite my prayer life and you're recommending I listen to an agnostic.

Accounting firm that will pay your ICAN seems to be a better option.

Kokadomfreedom:
Good day, please, i will need your advice on this two options available to me at the moment. I am a graduate of Accounting in a state of dilema on which of these two options to choose. I have an offer to work as teller in a bank with #80k plus as salary and also to work in an Accounting/Auditing firm with a take home pay of #50k with an option of enrolling for ICAN in the next diet. I am confused on which one to go for career wise. Your advice needed urgently!

Aunty where are your boxing gloves?

Lollittaa:
I'm looking for a fight. Help me here

I get my own chest Nne.

Lollittaa:
why do you want my chest?

Guys need to respect themselves.

Big man big man; but he will be chatting nonsense with 17 year old girls. smh.

Marry/date a working woman.

Nothing like, I go work, she go paint nail for house.

Taking care of kids is work.

verybadmouth:
It is no news that inflation is hitting every part of the nation drastically. The prices of commodities and services have enormously risen yet salaries are not going up. To feed a family has become more difficult than ever here in Nigeria. Cost of foodstuffs including rice, beans, semo, garri, yam, meat, chicken, turkey, etc. have all tripled. Even cooking gas and kerosene are not left out. The inflation is too much for most to bare. Landlords are taking advantage of peoples needs to increase rent without reason. Even a house that was built in 1984 with 3 bedroom flats have been increased significantly. Prices of household appliances and electric gadgets have also tripled. Gone are the days when you get salary and will buy Freezer and Generator at the same time. Cost of raising a child nko, no be small thing. To even have a low key wedding now, you need to have at least half a million. This figures are very frightening. So i am begging you our darling wives and girlfriends to also find something doing to support your partners and reduce the burden on them. Na beg i dey beg oooo.

Cry off.

BRATISLAVA:
Bore off.

Aww...when she can't get beyond her circle of fellow unfortunate peeps she starts throwing her toys out of the pram.

BRATISLAVA:
Once they can't face facts, they will divert and continue their usual off-the-point garbage.

Bye Felicia.

Ah, Seun is working.