fineboynl: Usually, accident hotspots are places in which there is a probability of high risk or accident occurrence. These spots are locations in which the potential for accidents is unacceptably high.
But there are some hotspots with no default or error. A straight line road with no cross canner or main junction for other vehicle to conner or cross through but yet happens to be hostpot for accidents. Either tyre burst or pull out. Or trailer fell down to block the road or head collation, or brake failure or just anything else. And yet it has to be on the stretch of that particular road.
People in the area/ community or knows about the area already knows the road to be accident an hotspots and the majority of them attributed it to spiritual something.
You take on this topic. Can spiritual something be said to be responsible for accident for a particular stretch of road countless of time within a year?
Yes there is a high possibility of a spiritual attack. Benin Republic for example has some particular roads that there must be accident almost every Saturday and/or Sunday.
DyshApp: A married man has anonymously taken to social media to complain about his wife’s addiction to watching cartoons with their children.
According to him, his wife was always excited to watch and sing along to the cartoon with their kids and she would narrate the stories to them if they missed them.
According to the man, something must be wrong with his wife. While admitting that she has not failed in her roles as a wife and mother to his kids, he reiterated his worry that he felt she should have grown past cartoons.
He appealed for help to fix the cartoon problem.
In his words: "I feel like something is wrong, I don't really get her sometimes. She doesn't even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I'm missing out on something great.
“My wife, 37 years old, enjoys watching cartoon even more than our kids. When I say cartoon, I mean animated movies. Our first boy is 14 years old down to our last who is currently 4 years old. They’ve turned the home into a cartoon home. They are soo addicted, they sing their songs, do their dances and discuss those things all the time. My wife at her age will be running as if something strange was happening and she forgets herself to be an adult sometimes. I’ve tried to explain to her that I don’t really like it, I don’t complain because they are being happy but, I don’t understand my wife’s addiction. Even when the kids aren’t around, she’ll be watching animated movies alone.
Once they get home, she’s going to narrate all she watched to them and even demonstrate with actions some funny/emotional scenes. I feel like something is wrong, I don’t really get her sometimes. She doesn’t even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I’m missing out on something great. Is there something I can do to help her? It’s somehow bothering me.
Kindly note that, she’s fully employed and still does her duties as a wife and a mother. I don’t have any problem on that side, I just feel she’s addicted to animated movies when actually, she has grown pass it.”
The same way we men love to watch football and/or wrestling is the same way most wives love watching animations and Telemundo. Please try to accommodate that if she isn't lagging in other aspects.
maasoap: You sure say there are no open marriages in Nigeria or Africa already? I wouldn't bet it with all those rich couples with boring marriages
Those in boring marriages do their stuff in secret, open marriage is open and glaring. You for don hear if it actually happens in Nigeria, not mere speculation..
ProtonX: Mr. Man, I can bring whatever I want on this forum like everybody else. This is Nairaland with posts and news from all over the world. If you have nothing to say, skip it.
"I feel like a complete idiot here. My wife and I have been married for 19 years. We have one child. Our daughter moved out this summer after she enlisted in the armed forces. I love my wife but I felt like the spark was gone from our lives. I didn't want to divorce her so I proposed an open marriage. She was upset initially but eventually she agreed.
Like I said in the title of my post I made a mistake. I have learned that just because I wasn't as attracted to my wife as I was when we got married it doesn't mean other men would feel the same. My wife has so many men and dates she doesn't know what to do with them all. Meanwhile it's the opposite for me. Not only that but after my wife agreed to an open marriage I asked a woman who was a colleague of mine out on a date. I was a manager at my job but I wasn't her manager. We worked in completely different divisions and our work had nothing to do with each other's jobs. But even though I wasn't her manager and I am in an open marriage she complained to her manager and showed HR my messages. I lost my job.
I told my wife I want to close our marriage again because I was an idiot for suggesting it in the first place. She said no, she's happy with how things are. It's killing me when I know she is with other men. My brother called me a slowpoke when I told him and said expecting my wife to look like she did when she got married made me a dunce. He even went so far as to say she takes good care of herself and is in great shape for 44, she just doesn't look 20. He had the nerve to say my wife looks better than me and I could stand to lose some weight.
I love my wife and I don't want a divorce. I never wanted a divorce which is why I proposed this in the first place. But she doesn't want to close the marriage. I'm not worried about money because we both work but I do not want a divorce. I'm just glad my daughter enlisted in the RCAF and isn't here to see our marriage falling apart."
Why bring this oyinbo questionnaire here. What do you want to hear from us in the form of advice. Their lifestyle is different from ours in Africa. Which one is open marriage , have you heard of that in Africa talk less of Nigeria? Who will marry and both couples would still be bleeping outside but still together because you have a kid together..that's living in bondage because one person must eventually get reorientation that will bring issues in the initial agreement
Farfalla: Bank customers are attracted to the products offered by the bank. Client-friendly bank policies will attract and retain customers.
It's not complicated.
This your assertion is right and that seems to be the developing norm presently. But Before now banks depended on their marketers especially the marketers in public sector which includes majorly government and it's agencies (fed, state and local) and oil companies. Those enticing policies have to be marketed by these marketers
Farfalla: How are female customers lured by the sexiness of another woman? Plus, isn't marketing (which you claim is prone to oloshoism) just one of the many departments in a bank? Why would customers care whether a bank's Internal Auditor or Operations Manager is a sexy woman?
Internal auditor and operations staff hardly go out. I am referring to their marketers. They are the ones that attract most of the bank's customers especially high networth customers.
chazon: Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals. Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever. When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations). She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public. I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her. I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays. She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences. We do not yet have a child together.
Did I overreact?? How do I deal with this situation Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people
It's Godswill that she was exposed. Run for your life and sanity, luckily there is no kid from that xship. You made a hoe a housewife, distance is not enough justification for cheating. My wife is at the moment temporarily distant but we trust ourselves when it comes to fidelity.
bigpicture001: this is so much as to the ratio of 8:2. this is a well paying sector of the economy and guyz also hustle for jobs and again there as much men as graduate as there are ladies..
...but why are our banks employee sex discrimination so high and alarming to the very unbalanced ratio...?
any reason people..?
Banks also use sex appeal to lure customers. Most of their marketers especially those in public sector are specially selected by considering beauty or sexiness,and penchant for socialising or oloshoism
besayag: A Nigerian man has tied the knot with his brother's female tenant who catered for him when he was at the hospital after he was diagnosed with kidney stone.
The pretty lady with the handle @winipoko on TikTok stood by her man and offered unwavering support to him.
After the man recovered from surgeries, he decided to surprise his woman with a marriage proposal.
He also gifted her a car and an iPhone as a token of appreciation for taking care of him during his health struggles.
In her words; “From being his brother’s tenant to being his girlfriend But the devil came to steal this joy away. Few months of being with him, he was diagnosed with kidney stones and needed urgent surgery.
“I’ve never seen him in so much pain and he lost so much weight. We stayed at the hospital for 1 week that seemed like 1year. He got discharged and Took me to my favourite place Because yes we deserve it.
“Bought me brand new iPhone 13pro max In appreciation for taking good care of him.
Baby is back on his feet And life went great until His Thanksgiving day doctor called for a second surgery which he never told us about until that day. Another 1week and he was recovering really quick.
“Yes he is back on his feet again and this time no more hospital. Got the biggest surprise of my life, he asked me to marry him, of course can’t say no to a wonderful human.
“Okay I think this is the biggest surprise, A car for me. And he came and paid in full my bride price because baby girl is also an angel in human form. And it’s been months and no more calls from the hospital.”
If na all this GenZ babes they for scam the man on top he is bad health
ovamalik: Daniel Bwala, the spokesperson for Atiku Abubakar, the 2023 presidential candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party, has issued a warning to an unnamed female minister, urging her to cease presenting herself as the First Lady of Nigeria. The caution, delivered via Bwala's verified social media handle, highlighted concerns about the minister's conduct around President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, emphasizing potential complications for her in doing so.
He wrote, “The beauty pageant minister should be advised by the protocol say make she no dey package herself near presido like say she be First Lady in every trip when she follow them.
" First Lady fit sack am ohhh. I no even know wetin carry humanitarian matter follow trip abroad sef, except if her job include hurricane catrina, Haiti earthquake, flood for china, cyclone mocha, earthquake for Turkey etc.”
Reports further indicate that this female minister has allegedly been involved in questionable activities within an office close to President Bola Ahmed Tinubu. The need for immediate intervention is stressed, emphasizing the importance of reigning her in and instilling a sense of fear within the office and among the "villa boys" to deter similar actions, considering the public's awareness of her reported atrocities.
One of the critical issues raised against the female minister pertains to the deteriorating living conditions among Nigeria's poorest population. Reports claim that, on a daily basis, at least three million Nigerian children go to bed hungry. This situation was exacerbated by a United Nations World Food Programme report in April 2023, which revealed that one in eight Nigerians, totaling 24.8 million people, were facing acute hunger. The reports also cautioned against the misuse of funds intended for community projects to gain political favors.
Recent images circulating on the internet allegedly depict the female minister strategically positioning herself in close proximity to President Bola Ahmed Tinubu. The Coalition of Civil Society Groups in Nigeria expressed deep concern over this, emphasizing the need for President Tinubu to take immediate note of the situation. The group raised issues with the perception that the ministry in question may be a politically created entity for female ministers lacking moral records, potentially available for unofficial engagements.
Accusations against the female minister include her purported involvement in all trips undertaken by President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and taking photographs to create a false impression of closeness. The group claims she uses these tactics to manipulate the Chief of Staff (CoS) and the "villa boys" to fulfill her agenda. The group highlighted the minister's alleged influence on the CoS, resulting in the removal of some ministers from an official assignment to Dubai with President Tinubu. The minister reportedly replaced them with her name and further influenced the CoS for deployment to a more lucrative ministry, possibly Trade and Investment.
The Coalition of Civil Society Groups emphasized the potential threat posed by the female minister, considering her overbearing attitude and the murky marital status of the beauty pageant minister in question. The group warned that if unchecked by President Tinubu, the minister's actions could lead Nigerians to question the sincerity of the current administration. The records cited by the group suggest a history of the minister allegedly causing harm to men close to her in her pursuit of power. The group concluded by urging both Mr. President and the First Lady to exercise caution regarding this minister's actions, stating that failure to address the situation early could have serious implications for the administration's credibility.
"She forces herself to be seen with Mr. President to use it for the manipulation of the villa boys and positions; she switched her name with someone else on the Dubai list through the office of the CoS
"Both Mr. President and the First Lady should tread with a lot of caution as far as this lady who is ready to do anything to achieve her evil intention is concerned.
“Records have it that she has ruined a lot of men that were unluckily close to her in her quest for power.
“This is one Minister that if not checked early by Mr. President will surely cause Nigerians to look inwards about the sincerity of purpose of this present administration”, they said.
High cost of feed and feed supplement, occasioned by insecurity in farms resulting to under utilization of farmlands, obstruction and destruction of harvest and farms, killing and kidnapping of farmers, and high foreign exchange rate for imported maize.
Now you are listing the issues that are very factual and then don't you think allowing importation will allow us breathe amidst all these badly influential factors?
WHAT does your father rear to CONTRIBUTE to NIGERIA ECONOMY?
One of those online dingbats spotted, how does my statement affect you to warrant an insult from you myopic fool.how is Obasanjo contributing to the economy with the hike in poultry products? The earlier you realise these crop of politicians will always be selfish with their interests the better for your sanity. Right now sycophancy has killed your sense of reasoning. Abeg park well make I look front.
Nigerians are not finding it easy and if opening the border will crash the prices of poultry items them it will alleviate some pain, but those benefiting from this won't allow it. Try to put sentiments aside when you reason, but as a dingbat your brain already has factory fault.
TYCO77: [color=#000099][/color] “When the poultry industry is thriving, it will trickle down the value chain including maize and soybean farmers and pharmaceutical companies producing drugs for the birds will also benefit.”
Verity that even the blind can see and the dumb confess.
Oga what happened during this past years of border closure/ban? The price of chicken sky rocketed from about 3500 to over 8000 and 10000 to even 12,000. Same thing with rice. Keep being a sycophant
occfx: Don't mind the agbado man. Now I know there is no difference between agbados and janjaweedds. Let the people eat first and look for a way to manufacture there own cheaper or healthier. You can't artificially control the economy and succeed.
And it's something similar Dangote has been doing. Pursuing their personal interest
The video above was shared by the Lagos State Commissioner for Environment and Water Resources, Tokunbo Wahab, to showing the level of encroachment of waterways and canals by real Estate developers in Lagos.
He wrote on social media,
"A drone footage of the encroachment of the drainage channel on System 156 (fully built) Igbo-Efon to Ikota channel in Lekki. Red arrow indicator showing the extent of encroachment and total blockade and diversion of system 156 Into system 157 by the developers and property owners. All the structures were fully built on the setbacks and alignment which is clearly an alteration of the Drainage Master Plan along the area.
"We have served several contravention notices and enforcement will begin after the expiration of the contravention notices."
This masterplan was there and the government was giving approvals and the concerned agencies collected different monies for different inspection and certification... For many years they looked as these structures were erected and put to use. All of a sudden they wake up to start demolishing. God will punish all of you
Makavelli001: Most of the girls, do not allow guys to touch their bobbs when bleeping for the first time. Does it means that girls value their bobbs more than their kpekus.
Most girls deny you from romancing their boobs if they are not sexually attracted to you, must be having that sex just for money or maybe pressure. Not out of love.
ch214: People are complaining of this spread of abnormal garden eggs in Nigeria markets: which have been causing many people to fall sick; the garden eggs is normal outside but inside is rotten therefore rendering the garden eggs fruit not good for consumption.
Do ensure you open any fruit you eat with knife to verify if it not rotten inside and do not just rush to eat any fruit especially at night.
Ensure you open your garden eggs fruit before eating, some garden eggs are rotten inside and normal outside.
Be careful with whatever you eat this days.
I love garden eggs especially with groundnut pepper. But my love is dimmed because of these normal looking garden eggs you open up only to find maggots inside. Yuck, it's so discouraging
You purposely set out to start a war with your aggression and now you are dependent and waiting on a much needed peace deal or ceasefire. The cost of foolishness cannot be quantified.
Car Talk › Re: Roads That Are Hotspots For Accident Is It Spiritual? by Countersam(m): 7:13am On Dec 10, 2023
