₦airaland Forum

virgoquin:
Hello

Like the topic implied, sometimes I think that too much of everything is bad even too much of good things when it comes in surplus for us we humans tend to missue and abuse it.

One of such is freedom.. sometimes when we humans are being given freedom without limitation we usually turn into nuisance especially one which you didn't fight for but was given to you on a platter of gold.

That brings me to the topic... There's a raging debate going on right now about a father in Texas who lost the right to prevent his seven years old son from being transformed into a girl. The judge ruled in favor of the mother for the boy to be castrated chemically.

This is not fair at all to the little boy because he is just seven, what does he know about gender changing. That is what the cartoon he has been watching FROZEN projected on him and he followed it hook line and sinker . At least when we were growing up there was some of our agemates who were acting tomboyish but as they got older they transformed into beautiful feminine women

Lalasticlala

Guest007:
I can't cope

Okay, carry on

LadySarah:
You are thrilled.Go on until You pratice it

LadySarah:
sighs.You Dont get it. She was given a dose of her own medicine. Theres nothing to argue here.

Guest007:
A woman does not need a brain to give you aids Joe

If you’re concerns stop at pregnancy then pikin dey worry you

I am not happy because I am not a hoe but at least we've established that you are an old Bleep boy

No offence

sassysure:
Cos u are a man
It's natural.

The way labour bothers women.

Deal

Guest007:
Then stop running your mouth and advocating it for others... If you don't want it then others don't need it...

sassysure:
Gbam
Don't spit fire o

Guest007:
You said everybody should cheat and let us rest... Will you rest when your lover cheats on you and brings you back diseases and children who aren't yours... Will you rest and find peace?

sassysure:
We are at the moment of truth so we are spilling it out truthfully
U know, our men love to brag too much.
They brag with everything including sex. How they are tigers in bed, 50 mins, 2 rounds plus mouth action, all join
They start off with a fake pace, couldn't maintain as time goes on.
Woman will brag to her friends that her guy is machine abi engine. U gat to save face na. Also forgeting that our lifestyle has its toll on men's sexual prowess so instead of your woman telling you face to face( some actually do) that u dont satisfy them again with the pace u set,they look elsewhere.
Also, if not for the money which men use to hold majority of the women down, some would have gone without looking back.
Some of u have the scariest looking prikks. Some are bend south west and south east
Some are so small, pls don't let me start.
U see,our women knew all these things and have been managing yet u guys are shoving it on their faces everyday that u are men and can do as you want.
Woman wey dey manage small prikk or bent one or 2 seconds prikks?
That's why I said women too know how to chop and clean mouth.
Your attitudes made women to start using plan b. If not for some cultural and religious reasons, most of these women would have exposed your sorry ass

That's why I sometime laugh when these small boys start bragging up and down.

When a woman chose a man, she is ready to take in the good and the bad about the man. But after giving birth to your child with torn and stitched pusssy, the thank u she get is that Olympus has fallen or pusssy is too wide.
And cheating. I mean, common, so heartless.
So women has learnt to perch without flying bro

UjuJoan2:
And yet a number of Nigerian men keep seeking out women with foreign passports to marry.

Automatic or not, the possibility is a great incentive for the man to want to marry her. Let's not pretend it's not a valid concern because it is!

bukatyne:
You would be shocked.

Someone has asked me if I went to hell and saw people there for adultery.

Well, I Para and mellowed.

1. He is an older relative with about 13yrs and I went to visit him

2. His wife was not supporting me.

I look critically at couples whose husbands cheat with impunity and

1. The wives are deep down convinced all men cheat and they did not look out for faithfulness as a quality

2. The husbands know that the wives would do nothing if they cheat and they carry go.

3. They met in very strange circumstances aka clubs, side chics upgraded to main etc. The couple above were on and off fvckmates and a gentleman close to the husband was dying for the babe for years and would have done all he could to make her happy.

4. They believe all men cheat and grooved wella in school. I know how many of my course mates 'pitied' me that I wasted my youth and stuck to my husband. To them, I ought to have grooved aka slept with different guys, partied etc. because after marriage was prison.

5. Some of the wives have stopped sleeping with their husbands (alpha bleeps, beta bucks) and are fine with them sorting themselves outside.

6. Some wives see their husbands as saving them from the clutches of eternal spinsterhood and so any price is fine.

I know a man who said his wife would take almost any shit from him including leave her job if he asks after initial gra gra. He then looked us in the eye and told us that if he cheated, he would be lucky to leave the marriage alive.

Cc: AmazonTopaz

bluefilm:
So why are they complaining na?

UjuJoan2:
I'm thinking the man will get citizenship by marriage. And then file for citizenship for his own biological children . . . Maybe not completely automatic, but highly 'workable'.

PS: I find it curious that you ALWAYS go out of your way to highlight the odds against Nigerian women. This thread is not about stigmatisation of 40 YO single mothers na. Why must you dwell on such negative things

King44:
they are always looking for excuses to cheat

one of the excuse is this thread

plus when men cheat they cheat for fun
when women cheat they cheat with affection
and in most cases becomes a threat to their husband existence

make I run for my dear life before them break bottle for my head

Guest007:
Will you rest?

bluefilm:
I taya.

As if the men are cheating with themselves and not with their fellow women.

While lambasting men for philandering, also remember to lambast the women who are willingly conspiring with the men.

In fact, tell these women to outrightly reject the advances of those philandering men, make we see how market go be.

Nonsense.

sassysure:
U know, this post made me laugh so hard

It seems u are still a teen.
Hormones are still strong and u feel on top of the world
Reality starts when in a few yrs( they no dey even reach 30yrs again), u that used too go second round will be struggling to finish round one with minimal time frame

When u see the look on your woman's face, u rush out to look for shekpe, buruntashi, alcohol, viagra,name them to save face
I am yet to read women not liking sex or taking drugs in naija because she has low sex energy. Here, there are so many complaint from boys, not men over their inability to sustain it, not to talk of satisfy their women.
Na u dey run up and down to satisfy her. All she has to do is spread her legs, she may be charting on her phone while u are sweating profusely to maintain your pride.
As she is, she can take 5 men in a day and that doesn't remove any sweat from her.

Una never see anything
Cry cry babies

sassysure:
It's painful, isn't it?
See as your blood pressure don rise

I saw one publication one time that said Nigerian women carry first position for cheating

So let's continue cheating

U hardly catch them, remember?
So, how will.u know?
Child may resemble mother.
DNA? Wish you luck

lilwetdick:
the way you write make it seems like all men will have abundant of security...aka money

look at the world around you and see the big picture, 90% of men of marriageable age are either average or poor and many of them working 9-5 with an intact family only 10% of marriageable men are rich or have that security

so basically, if we have to go through your theoretical principle, then no woman will get married since all of them are looking for men with money.

sassysure:
Trust me, they are higher on the scale actually and with proof of another man's child as yours .

U cheat with women, not dogs so equality is maintained

The only problem is that u guys kiss and tell unlike women.smooth operators

But I agree that it's an over flogged topic

MrBrownJay1:
we all have to dedicate our lives to such important issues because cheating in marriage/dating has a deadly effect on families all over the world (thanks to the deadly diseases that are brought home as" take away" )... furthermore, if you have a daughter, sister, niece, aunt etc who is soon gonna enter the dating (and possibly marriage) world, you have to try to make such world a better place for their sake.

when you are with your friends at the boozer, and one of them is bragging about a new shorty he got, while wifey is unknowingly at home thinking she has a good man, tell this man to shut the fukc up with his cheap aasss BS, and look him straight in his eyes and tell him that if he was indeed a "real man" he wouldnt crawl at the dead of night like a RAT, scared of his woman!

generationz:

And if you get caught get ready for whatever comes your way.

MrBrownJay1:
the solution is very simple: A) we need to brainwash women back to SANITY (anyway we can), in order to make them understand that they are NOT worthless in African society, they do have value (other than cooking, cleaning and womb carrying) but until THEY value themselves 1st, nobody will. marriage, at the end of the day, is just a useless piece of paper.

B) any testicles carrying man out there should be proud of who they are, and do what they believe in... OPENLY. thus walking up to his woman and tell her:"i am an African man and its in my DNA to have multiple women... you can either accept me as such, or bust a vein on the matter, but at the end of the day, i will still desire (and go after) other women to sexually satisfy me"

generationz:
Many wives actually cheat secretly but society makes them better at hiding it.

MrBrownJay1:
but bro, you know that society has a lot to do with this issue.... a society that brainwash women into accepting whatever rubbish under marriage, THEN that same society sees nothing wrong with men cheating while looking down on women who do... but, the main issue is that we are not answering the right question here: is it right to cheat?! and if it is, then why these cheating people dont say openly to their wives/husband that they are going to get their groove on with someone else?

MrBrownJay1:
but bro, the reason many women dont cheat back isnt because of the lack of desire/opportunity, but rather because they wanna keep that marriage at any cost, and know that the insecure man she is married to will NEVER accept her cheating....aka majority are royally fukced!

gbingafa:
But my main concern is I don't know if he really wants to be with me or if he wants the opportunity to give his sons a British passport.

Part of me still wants to give it a try because I'm a 40 yo single mother and suitors are scarce, serious ones nonexistent. My child definitely needs a father in the house. Also, the petty woman in me wants/needs to show my ex that I'm still good enough for someone else.