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@op

U sef be mincer. When you have been hearing about all the security issues in naija, why didnt you work or runs his posting before now, how much is 20k compared to his life.

The best option is redeployment, start working on that now. But during my time sha, I had friends who never stepped into camp or even come to collect their cert on POP but were given later. All these are possible with the right channel.

He can even forfit his allowee and they would be marking his nysc cards while he stays put at home . There is alwayz a way to go about things.

Funny enough, nothing might happen to your brother if he decides to stay there and serve. Never doubt the power of God. Just make sure he lives in a safe residential area where correct people live and influence his posting to a decent company close to his home.

Best of luck and go with ur bro for the compulsory 3 weeks.

@op
This kind of issue can't be analyzed by the non-practitioners so its a useless topic.

Since you can't hear from the horses mouth and no horse would be bold enuf to discuss.

I don't even think we shld discuss it

@MMM

You like topics with intimate contents sha. Man lover ko, man eater ni

It would be the day operation sweep poverty for the poor. I will set aside billions of dollars for the poor and make sure it is distributed to them door by door in cash through out that day.

There would be role switch day for that day. Rich people would shine shoes, sweep the roads, clean offices while the poor go for spa treatment, waxing and pedicure

[quote author=Miss_Ife link=topic=701853.msg8631706#msg8631706 date=1309545474]It's an interesting topic, I have never thought of being a housewife ever in my life. Being married with kids, I now think it is good for a woman to have a balanced lifestyle between work and family. Work is necessary, because I consider my husband and I to be a team, we work together towards goals, we both contribute to the family, and the same way I like him to give me a hand with the housechores, I find it normal to bring my own salary home. I also have my own ambitions and plans for the future, and work guarantees some independence.

Talking about that, having a stable career allowed me to marry the one I truly loved, whether than looking for an already made man and certainly missing on great but not yet wealthy ones.

That being said, I believe there are some moments in a woman's life when it is ok, and probably better to stay home : during the 1st year after birth, for example, and why not until the child goes to school, to make it easier and less stressful (breastfeeding, baby's sleepless nights etc.). I decided to leave a big enough gap between my kids in order to stay home a bit after birth but still go back to work to keep in touch with my career before getting pregnant again.

I've always wondered, though, what the housewives will do after the kids are grown and gone? Won't they feel left out, alone at home waiting for their husband to retire?[/quote]Hi five!

I have an ak47, Axe, short gun, arrow, mousetrap, glue, pepper, sharp knife, rope, bomb, missles, weapon of mass destruction and iron in my hand bag. My hands must always reach to something for protection when Im attacked. Plus I have a black belt in martial arts, can do capuella plus Im vast with all the video games from mortal combats to silent hill. ima break someones nose and feed to the dogs. Dey know not to test cuddles

upendo 98:
lol
I tire o
Whatever works for you then do it,

Everything in this life is just complicated but Love does happen. Im inlove with someone

@op

You have done tremendously well and I applaud you

The question now is when are you going to make the first move

Do you have to wait for Nigerians as a whole or youths to make that change

In SA, Mandela didnt wait for South Africans or youths before he fought for his country

In US, Martin Luther King didn't wait for all the blacks or youths in America before he became an activist.

Obama didnt wait for all Kenyans or black Americans before he strived to become president

When you that asked the questions, answer with actions then you would be setting a pace for others to follow

You can start with publications and rallies etc. You asked the questions, you collate the answers and act upon them.

Best of luck in your sojourn and we are here for back up on this thread with a lot of advice

Take that stand now for a better tomorrow of your youths.

The words are almost or nearly similar in nature. There is a thing line between all of them because all of them are interwoven and can lead to eachother like a maze.

Love- I met a girl and fell inlove with her because she was brilliant

Lust- I violated her when she refused to allow me mate with her, her dress was tempting me

Infatuation- She is not picking my calls after the incident, she didnt report the incident that means she loves me

Love- The girl goes home thinking I still love him with what he did

Lust- I wont mind trying it again (the girl's thoughts)

Infatuation- Am I doing the right thing dating the guy who violated me, he loved me thats why he did it

The cycle continues,

Thats even what makes it more interesting. Opposite attracts. Unlike poles attract. The most important thing is understanding and compromise. They might even get fond of eachother. If they act the same, they would bore themselves out and not learn anything from eachother.

cooker:
working class lady

working class chef as u no be male or female

dayokanu:
Oya lets find one corner to go and do more than cuddle

Kanu, lolz i see ur dribbling skills no dey end for field. No be u talk say u no like lazy woman. working class no go follow u go corner oh cos na against company policy.

ronkebp:
Cuddlemi, i was not referring to you as 'that one" but the post, so don't be offended by that, i did not mean any harm, moerover i envy you, (positively) just let me know when you are married and have kids, if you still think the way you do.

Its ok im a loving and forgiving lady. Thanks 4 d prophecy, will even invite u.

juman:
Working class lady.

working class gentleman

dayokanu:
Pls don't be annoyed, I am sure she doesnt mean it because she isnt a rude person.

I caused all these, In the meantime come and cuddle me and lets make out I mean lets make up

Its ok. We all agree to disagree once in a while . As for the cuddle, take!!!

ronkebp:
^^^^^^i do not need to read it again, because i have read it, ""to your tenth oooo israel'', is my reply to that one, everybody have their own priorities like i earlier said, if you must know, am in my office right now, typing out, am not sitting home and cuddling my baby( which i would have loved to do) or washing clothes and dishes for 24 hrs, i have a nanny home with my child. Before i got married my life was all about my career, and i don't joke with it even till now, after i had my child, things changed, priorities changed, and that has not stopped me from working. All i said was that, if all things were equal, 'i would love to be home caring for my child in my own way', .and saying that is not a SIN or LAZINESS.

@ronke

That was very rude of you to refer to me as 'that one" like I am some entity or thing. I only made a comment and didn't even read your post or comment on it. I know where my priority lies and don't need you to analyze that for me. I said me being a working class lady would not affect my role as a home maker or a good wife and mother. I will like to pitch in my own quota to the family expenses and spendings. I believe you were dealing with Dayo and not cuddlemii.

As long as my goals are accomplished, I don't need to derive the method of others but find what works for my whole family and off course my hubby would also be part of that decision.

So what happens when my hubby can't provide again, we should move back to the village abi? We all know the uncertain economy we are in, its wise to save for the rainy days
Please madam, mind you grammer.

Colossians 3:18, 19 & 22

18 (A)Wives, (B)be subject to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

19 (C)Husbands, love your wives and do not be embittered against them.

22 (F) Slaves, in all things obey those who are your masters [b]on earth, (G)not with [c]external service, as those who merely please men, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord. 23 Whatever you do, do your work

Esther 1:20 Then when the king's edict is proclaimed throughout all his vast realm, all the women will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest."
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Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.
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1 Peter 3:1 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives,

I love this topic.

I can never be a stay at home wife or housewife. I will remain a working class woman after my marriage. Being working class does not affect my being a home maker or having a successful home.

Marriage is not meant to kill your dreams but support your dreams or adjust your dreams to suit your family. Thats why you see a lot of wives are always frowning or snapping at people because they are not happy with staying at home. Some even take it out on their husbands because their husbands are living their own dreams

Plus staying at home is very risky for a woman with weight tendecies cos when your kids are off to school and you get bored, you would make the kitchen your companion and probably sleep most of the time. But the office gives you a touch of reality, you get to know the latest trends to wear for your husband, you will keep your brain active and you will be more enlightened. Some housewives would just isolate themselves from the world and start looking crazy or scruffy. Then their equally jobless friends would visit them at home and feed them with tales of their hubby cheating bla bla. The jobless housewife too would start policing the husband. Being a working class occupies your time and distracts you from irrelevant things as the only spear time you would have would be for your home.

Its better to be an asset than a liability. Even if you marry a wealthy man, what happens when he looses money or stops his responsibilities how do you want to help the family. There are even somethings that a woman is meant to provide for herself or her family. So if you want to buy undies or sanitary towel, you would wait for your husband first to get those basic things. Men are very complex beings and get easily irritated and trust me I dont think they like liabilites at all, you need your hubby's respect.

Its even better for a wife to work for a while, get capital and start her own business atleast she got the experience.

Pregnant stay at home wives gain excessive weight during and after pregnancies but working pregnant women are able to manage the weight because they are active and see other working class wives with 5 kids who are still fit so it becomes competitive.

There is nothing wrong in helping your kids with funds, provision for school once in a while. Little emergencies crop up at home like money for fuel, gas, diesel and payment of the security guards or nepa bill etc. So everyone would remain in darkness and your kids will not watch cartoon over the weekend because your hubby is not around. You need to take charge of things like this with your funds.

Servant or Appenticeship before being a master: When you work for a company or someone, you would be more appreciative, submissive and respectful indirectly this becomes a part of you and it reflects in your marriage. When you start your own business, you would motivate your staffs and be apprecative of being your own boss without it getting into your head.

Character Formation: For example, you can't work in a company and start shouting or fighting customers and colleagues without being dismissed. These office etiquette and people's management becomes a part of you and the use of good communication skills and writting skills in the workplace could even help you tutor your kids to improve on their vocabularies. It helps anger management in a family.

Work experience could even come in handy when you want to start up a company with your husband, you would have all the required skills and save cost of employing the help of a strategist. You would be able to persuade and convince investors to do business with both of you.

Being a working class would set good examples for your kids to want to emulate. You serve as a role model. It brings out your kids independent and industrious side. All those aristo babes that strive for their family after the demise of their dad or the divorce of their parents could have been reduced if their mom had a source of income from her work, pensions, shares etc.

The only thing is you might get a job with lesser hour or more flexibility to give you more time for family

victorazy:
Link plzz cant wait to see her gorgeous inner skin

men im even confused, na my colleague get the authentic link but its on mediatakeout.com

This what I found sha
http://mto.mediatakeout.com/49457/mto_world_exclusive_amber_rose_was_creeping_with_nick_minajs_boyfriend____and_we_have_the_nekkid_pics_to_prove_it.html?image=58494

http://cdn.mediatakeout.com/49096/diggity-dayummmm_check_out_amber_roses_king_magazine_pics.html

Will update u

Sobs. She was one of the real singers and not all these money hungry musicians that we have now. These ones sang for the love of music and spread the truth through their sounds. This country didn't take proper care of this kind. Rest in peace pace setter.

Sobs. She was one of the real singers and not all these money hungry musicians that we have now. These ones sang for the love of music and spread the truth through their sounds. This country didn't take proper care of this kind. Rest in peace pace setter.

Speaking of vulnerability. Just got news now that Amber Rose nude pix and video is out.

OMG Im always discovering stars. Don't touch it, Im his manager. I said it first!

190 is officially the nicest man on NL. Im so inspired!

Babe has acknowledged too. We need more female references

190:
This basically isnt bout sex or sand-sand,

Its Just what's been noticed, and its plain irritating

Nigerian ladies really need to up their game and take it to the guys

You fork addict might get pissed cos you feel im trying to allow some Nigerian ladies grow some common sense

Why would a Nigerian lady accept strangers off the internet, when she has her pics and that of her family there as well as other

private stuff on there, some have over 4,000 friends and the rest seemingly cant utilize a simple privacy settings on there, I have tons of friends

who are Nigerians and i find it quite irresponsible that everything is just out there open for everyone to see (well its not my business)

Ask these same Nigerian girls been discussed here, they get tons and tons of messages from random guys off the internet saying - Hi baby

I just saw your pics, i would love to know you better ** what bullshiit, i believe fork addict is quite addicted to that.

All im saying is there is nothing like common security up in the head of a Nigerian woman (No offence nor generalization) Its just wat i have noticed

as long as they have BB, a boyfriend who has a flashy honda/toyota car and a guy that can buy them mr.biggs rice/ice-cream and pay for their

hair do, then the rest is history - they should learn from women out there - (well i kant blame them)

Dude this is really nice. Sticking ur head out for women like this. I FEEL SO HAPPY AND MY FEVER HAS GONE

sugar plum, u r a darl!!

fork adict:
Please dont let people feel that naija guys are a confused bunch of people. We dey ALWAYS shout for here say naija chics too dey form. say dem too dey long tins. take an opinion poll, youll find that most guys feel this way.

Now you wake up one forking morning and you try to encourage them on how to long tins If naija chics are really like what you described above, leave them for us abeg. We LOVE LOVE them that way. Haba! No come pour sand inside our hustle abeg!

190 is a married man now. He is just being responsible.

FYI I know like 3 married couples who met randomly like that via facebook, chat etc. So some risk yields good results

This is the first reasonable thing 190 has ever said. I so agree with him.

Some even meet over facebook today and tomorrow the babe is already visiting the guy. The guy could be a rapist or ritualist or even an AIDS victim.

Some guys would lock the babe in the house and hide her shoes on the roof and start acting psycho, crazy and biting the babe leaving scars.

Many mad men out there oh, forget T.M Lewin shirt and H&C Cufflinks matter, underneath lies chronic way res

Its not all girls that are cheap oh. Some come with a pricetag and some charity