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Once I tell her the slap will facilitate and speed up the payment of her bride price, dude she'd beg me and even massage my hands so that the slaps won't be stopping anytime soon.

2014 was a wonderful year for me, so I think I'll name it "unmerited favor and grace overloaded"

Father. Mbaka hmmm. I remember in 2003 when he said that if the then Governor of Enugu state, Chimaroke Nnamani would not win his reelection bid. That if he won, that he Mbaka would remove his priestly robes and marry. Well, Chimaroke won his reelection and the people of Enugu just turned a blind eye to it.

In 2011 he campaigned vigorously against Imo state's Ohakim because Ohakim and his security beat up a fellow Catholic Priest, well Imo people where already fed up with Ohakims excesses, they voted him out and are now suffering and smiling under the vampire Rochas. Now Mbaka has denied ever campaigning against Ohakim, while video tapes of that service are there for all to see.

Its GEJ he remembers now abi, hmmm, Rev. Fr. Mbaka face your congregation and stop dabbling into politics, BIKO!!!

What I find funny is that some people are actually saying that the tape was doctored. We all saw it in 2011 and almost all the papers carried before the actual violence started,so what's there to be doctored again?
I weep when I see literate people campaigning for this vampire, he even has a professor as a running mate a "pastor" for that matter...SMH.
Truly, our dignity has gone to the dogs.

What I don't understand is why we are not refining our crude. Ask anybody who is grounded in the industry will tell you that it's cheaper to refine than produce, if only we can start refining our oil, the internal market is more than enough to take care of any budgetary expenses plus the employment it will generate.

dhidden:
I ask again, WHO KILLED TUNDE IDIAGBON AND WHY? This has lately become a burden in my heart. Why, I cannot say now but I am convinced that some TRUTH is about to burst open, it cannot stay buried forever by its nature. God in Control.

Bros, I observe that the saying that, "the masses have a short memory" is so true.

GEJ is actually the best president to ever rule this country since 1960, whose achievements in Agriculture, the power sector,empowerment of youths(sure-p and youwin comes to mind), railways, manufacturing(automobile revolution), freedom of speech, e.t.c are there for all to see.

Our seletive amnesia has truly made us forget where we are actually coming from.
We are all screaming corruption at the top of our voices, but remember corruption is already a norm here institutionalized by several years of being under the rule of dictators who where answerable to no one, it will take serious prayers to eliminate. He met a corrupt system, but because of the multi-tribal nature of our nation, you just can't single out a few individuals without his kinsmen screaming witch-hunt, so wisdom demands you thread with caution.

You are all campaigning for GMB, a man sidelined by Idiagbon his second in command because he was indicted for corruption, a man who said blood will flow after 2011 election and kept that promise, a man who promised to make Nigeria ungovernable and we all know the result of that.
Why do we keep kidding ourselves in this country?

Well, as for me GEJ till 2019. Else my people we would go full circle again.

BecaciaBarbie:
I decided not to reply you....but I wanna see the pepper and tomatoes


Small boys and the word "Swerve" laff no go kee person this morn lolzzzzz.....


I enjoy teasing kids like you sha.....especially kids wey dey think say dem don mature

Easy girl, I've never seen you in an e-fight before, please just let it slide.

Honestly I'm trying to give a fucckk, but I just can't. He that fetches an ant infested wood invites the lizards for a feast.

Hope you've checked your HIV status so that you don't go infecting innocent niggaz.

Honestly I'm trying to give a fucckk, but I just can't.

Yungwizzzy:
lol I do


I'm a blogger!!!

A clear case of Schizophrenia

olapluto:
Woman in coma, then

This news has got fake written all over it.
Haba, dem use babalawo communicate with her as she could still grant an interview while still in coma?
Na wa ooo

I thought I've seen it all when in November last year when I saw a guy spend 1,800,000naira in a night.
But this is a whole new level of flexing.
*knees down to pray* My Father in Heaven, my God, please bless my hustle....Amen!!!

maestroferddi:
All these garrulous elements making seditious statements should be known for who they are - enemies of Nigeria.

How can democracy thrive when some undesirable elements show by their utterances that they are uncomfortable with liberty and propriety?

A government that resolved to guarantee civil and press liberties is being pushed to adopt repressive measures to muzzle malcontents bent on engendering civil disobedience.

We are not ready for democracy. Shikena.

Bros, you've said it all, Nigeria, infact Africa as a whole is not ready for democracy. It's sad, but that's just the hard truth.
We need to sit and formulate a form of government that works for us in this part of the world. As for this our experiment with democracy imported from the West and Europe, its a monumental failure.
But truth be told Amechi should be arrested for treason, cos his statement also silently links the APC brand of opposition to the unrest we are currently facing in this country. My personal opinion though.

stinggy:
Aiite madam. Where were we sef?

How's your weekend going btw?

Just checked your profile, you're biuriful I swear

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You need someone like Cocolav

Dude that I love shagging doesn't mean that I am suicidal. With what is in that profile pix, hmm guy I think I'll pass.

I want to thank everybody that contributed positively to this thread, I have already made a decision on what to do before deciding to start up this thread, I just wanted to view this issue through the eyes of others and from what I see I am on the right track(by God's grace).
Thanks guys.

Kanwulia:
You must think everyone comes to NL to be PHOCKED by TOADS. . . .to get a meaningless end-of-year award. Ha!

You berra be off to see the WIZARD of OZ for A FEW BRAIN CELL!

Hopefully, YOUR NUMB-SKULL would not need some fertilizer!

I replied you politely. . . You are indeed a MATRIMONIAL HAZARD!
Grow up and be a man FIRST!
Having a tad functional "PENIZ" does NOT make you one for a poverty-STRICKEN victim looking to USE YOU TO ESCAPE POVERTY. . . . So she at least STOP SHARING A POT OF STEW AND DECAYED, FRIED-ICE-FISH with 5000 village members. . . . however temporary!

I honestly pity the punanny that brought you into this world it's probably shedding tears right now for bringing a waste product that should have been aborted to save mankind from you extraordinary level of incomprehensible stup*idity. I will ignore your display of madness for the time being considering you've had a tough day, since business has been slow today at the brothel where you work, word of advice change base, you never hear say if ashawo change location im go turn ashawo new chassis, but please quote me or even comment on this thread again so I can tell you a thing or two.
At the rate your going even the best neurosurgeon in the world Ben Carson will be marveled as to how you are still alive despite missing 98% of your brain cells.

NB:
Please quote me again, na beg I dey beg.

But chai, this woman fine no bi small ooo

rokiatu:
She's right, too many haters now days. And most of them haters are nobodies.

Poor people be hating on rich people, ugly people be hating on beautiful people, single people be hating on happy couples, depressed and sad losers be hating on happy people. People like to hate on anything that shines better then them.

My dear, the thing tya me o. Sometimes one just has to down play his/her worth to avoid "stories that touch" envy is dangerous. Thus a Sicilian proverb that says "He is a fool that cannot conceal his wisdom"

aisha2:
People are giving advice but you seem to have a ready defensive response for everyone. Bros do what you want na your life. Free the lady so a man and family who appreciate her as she is can be with her

I'm really trying my very best to be civil here but people like you just want something to set me off. I asked for advice over something that ha been giving me sleepless nights and your here acting all beefed up and ready to war? Over what? Cos I said life is not white and black? I should just go all out and disobey my mum? Because of what? Love? If you don't have regard for your parents, some people still do.
i came here to find ways of finding a middle ground here were no one gets hurt and nobody's ego is bruised. Some people gave real advice here that I've already started implementing.
If I didn't feel anything for her, do you think I would be here for advice? . To comment is not by force.
People like you and Kanwulia should learn the meaning of maturity and intelligent response from these Nairalanders below

anthoniaz(f)
Odilafta
Phema
eleojo23
freecocoa(f)
DaBullIT(m)

coogar:
you are a grown man!
impose yourself on your family, not the other way. no family member chooses for me - i choose what i want or desire & they follow my lead. take that cue!




how does this affect anything? your wife-to-be is on her way to achieving something. why should her family background matter to you?



mark zuckerberg, bill gates, etc were once students.



this is the funniest bit.
unless you dunno a lot about measurement, there's no significant difference between 5'7" and 6 feet. you are only 5 inches taller. with her heels & hair, you guys would stand shoulder to shoulder.



this is the more reason they would even listen to you. you are the only child - use your status as the only child to win your parents to your side.



you have not provide anything concrete issue against this woman. height, financial background & her studentship are too secondary. go and marry this woman and let your parents follow your lead.

Thanks for your contribution, but life is not always as black and white as we wish it were.

anthoniaz:
There must be a TEST before a TESTIMONY.Everything will be okay, it's just a matter of time.Don't let anyone make decisions for you.It's better you make a mistake yourself than allowing someone else make it for you.

My fiance's mum who used to instigate everyone against me for good three years is now like my mum now.She even called some minutes back and she called yesterday. If you love your girl, don't leave her, it might take years before your people agree but what matters is that you are with the one you love.All you need now is Prayers and NEVER give in to their pressure, They will try all they can but at the end they will get tired.In my case some my fiance's siblings even called to tell me they would kill me.

Never let their pressure push u to cheat on your girl, always assure her you will always be by her side and above all, my dear, be prayerful.Cheers

thanks

aisha2:
What exactly does your mom want? Ask her plainly. She wants a woman who will contribute to your project?

Not necessarily, more or less a lady who won't give me distractions while achieving my goals.

chiefinalowo:
My only concern is on the financial standing of her family.
My brother, this is Africa where both husband and wife share the responsibility of both family.
It seems you are the bread winner, so be prepared for more responsibility which can either bankrupt you or make you an average man for life.
I can not advise you to burden yourself with the responsibility of your girl's family.
After a few years of marriage, love will not be able to push the burden and it will be cleared to you that you have more load to carry.
I can tell you that it is something you can not avoid if you finally marry her.
Can you say "No" when demands come from her family?
Can you "close your eyes" when they are in need and they can not ask you?

This is the main point, the crux of the matter, my dad is late. I have a lot projects on my hands, both long term and short term, my mom reminded me of these and that I don't have a sibling to help me achieve these. Can I carry those responsibilities and also be able to absolve pressures coming from my in-laws? Honestly, its this point that actually made me stop and think.

Thanks guys, this helps.

Kanwulia:
Nothing wrong with the lady or your family.

YOU ARE THE ONLY PROBLEM!

Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo IMMATURE!

Congrats you've gotten my attention, do have any other thing say? Or are you through?

Guys, thank you so much for your advice on this issue. You guys just made my load lighter, God will continue to bless you all.
As for her level in school, she'll be going into her 400level next year and her course is a 5year course, as for taking care of her educational expenses, that's not an issue.
Her behavior/character so far is way above average(that's putting into consideration that women pretend alot) its just that I don't understand what draws me to her.
On her family not making me the ATM, true but remember that this is Africa where you marry not just the individual but also the extended family.
My personality is the type that can make a decision and stand by it, but considering my position in the family, other family members opinion is important on this particular issue.

My wonderful NLers, abeg I need your help in solving a very serious issue, I have an idea of what to do, but I want listen/read inputs from matured minds before I make my decision known.

As a career bachelor, I met a young lady that makes me more than willing to imprison myself in wedLOCK, I cherish every moment I spend with her. Now the problem is that my mom doesn't like her, scratch that, the entire family don't like. Reason?
1. She's from a not so financially strong background( that if I marry her I will also marry a huge baggage of responsibilities from my in laws)
2. She is still a student.
3. I'm way taller than she is.(I'm 6ft and she is about 5Ft 7" )

My people, I'm so confused. I'm the only child in the family so I can't really make a drastic move without hurting someone. Truth is any decision I take will really hurt someone.

So matured minds in the house I need your advice on this issue.

sol2galay:
Goodmorning Ken Saro Wiwa!

Let no one qoute me.

Sorry for quoting you bros, but you took the words right out of my mouth, the man that made that quote actually saw all that was about to happen more than 29years before it did, but Ken and others didn't believe him and at the end of the day he was vindicated.
History always repeats itself, but we will never learn.
Na amadioha go strike the anuofia that will quote me

higeronestly, its not easy if you've got a higer libido than your partner. Not that I'm really packing But them chics always use words like, " you wan kill me", "are you a human being?" and its trully embarrassing cos after a round, I take a look at the wonders of a woman's body and curves, on a good day in less 30sec this illiterate starts nodding his head again . I pity my fiancee, she keeps saying that she'll learn, but I don't like seeing her in pains. There was an incident sometime ago when a chic actually fainted on me(no joke). I never marry but believe me compatibility at the bedroom is always an issue.

I vote for
1. Rokiatu
2. Rozzay.
3. Jennimma

rokiatu:
my e husband u are very late, I was actually looking for your name thru the voters oooh. You are that special. don't miss round two.

2nd round? I'm getting front row seats