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SilentQueen:
This were the real musicians unlike what we have nowadays

Rip

Correct! Great musician.

adebayo987:
Let's have an adult discussion. No insult please. I have a girlfriend that we were set to marry by December.

Let me cut the story and go straight to the point. I travelled to a distant place for work since November last year and since I can't cheat on her, I decided to be mastvrbating whenever i'm high. I even let her know and she said it's Okay.

She's a good church girl though and always dislikes sex when i was around with her. So, i got shocked when i saw her on a january uploaded porn video just last week. I didn't believe my eyes because i thought it's someone that looked like her. So i took some screenshots and sent to her to ask if she can recognize this person, only for her to start begging me that it was the devil's handwork as she didn't know "they" would post it online.

This was someone I due send 45k monthly as salary and additional 10k every 20th of the month for miscelenous. Right now i'm heart broken as i'm going to call her family to inform them of my non interest again. Or what should i do?

Bro, please tell us the site so that's others can check their girlfriends there too

immortalcrown:
E don enter Churches?

Okay oh!

The only problem I have with them is they propose in public and divorce in private.

E remain make baby mama and baby papa dey do child dedication for Church. After that, the next go be spinsters doing thanksgiving for successful abortions. Una dey get there small small.

Abi ooo! They have turned Christianity to something else.

Tinubuadvocate:
You have done well na man you be. He killed the bastard .

Yes ooo! Na ma he be!
Meanwhile B.A.T 2023

Peace081:
But let's be sincere for once, What exactly is happening to marriages these days
Is it because we are now in computer world that makes marriage not to last compared to the days of our parents
Pls I need clarification on this

This is what to expect when an he goat marries a she goat. Both are immature people. This kind of marriage is not based on true love. Most people going into marriage these days are doing it because of family pressure or age. Until we go back to the Holy Bible and follow what God says about marriage, then there will be marriages that last.
Our parents of those days followed the Biblical principles " Wives submit to your husbands, Husbands love your wife"

favorite1234:
Photos; Vice President Yemi Osinbajo SAN attends the 90th Birthday and Church Dedication of St Peters Catholic Church Epe, Lagos and attends the 80th Birthday Thanksgiving Church Service of Evangelist Ebenezer Obey at Decross Church in Agege, Lagos. 3rd April, 2022. Photos; Tolani Alli

Happy birthday baba miliki express.

Francis609:
She hates her because she is from the same tribe as my dad. She wanted me to marry a lady from her tribe.
she also thinks she is ugly and will give birth to ugly kids.

Ohk I see.

Kobojunkiee:
There is absolutely no logical reason for a mother to wish death on a daughter-in-law.

What's your own? Was I referring to you?

Francis609:
My mum have never liked my wife to the extend of wishing her death when she lost our first baby and I had disowned her for saying that. So far we haven't had any contact since the incident and we are finally proud parents of twins boy and girl born in February. My stepmother have been here for us since day 1 she is in my house taking care of my wife and babies , my mum called saying that she want to come over and take care of my wife and kids and will be spending a month . I lied to her that my wife is with her sister and will let her know when she is back to the house so she can come over. To be Frank I don't want her near my wife because she doesn't likes her and I don't think she have any good plan for us. Did I do the right thing for lying to her my wife is not around or should I give her the chance to come over and see if she have truly change?

Please If you want to understand the full story go through my old threads

Bro, there are some missing links in your story. You didn't state what happened between your mother and your wife/ you that she would be wishing her dead.
As for the visiting be wise about it , pray to God to direct you.

IamGreen1:
Amen but not the type I may need to pray for for cheating sha.

Ohk. I wish you could understand.

obembet:
I was surprised when My Neighbor show me the result her daughter got from the school yesterday.

How can a girl that normal go to school around 8:30-9am got A for punctually. The funniest part of it is that the teacher give the girl A in all area but still in 19th position out of 25 pupils

RATING GRADE:
50-74 is C but the teacher Wrote A in all

Please what your advice?

This is what those "public private" schools do so that parents will not withdraw their children if they fail them.

IamGreen1:
No I'm not

Ohk. God will give you a good husband.

300whitewolves:
Now that Nigeria have refused to qualify for the 2022 world cup, Nigerians have started pitting their camp to other countries already. For example i will support Portugal in this world cup. You can share yours too.

Senegal and Argentina!
I love the way the Senegalese play, they play with energy and passion. I love Messi too.

IamGreen1:
Keep praying for him indeed as if he's mentally deranged.

Are you married at all?

Cheerycherry:
This is not the first time! I'm very open! I'm not an SU, I'm not a wrapper tying wife, I've talked to him, done all sorts even when I'm dead tired I give in to sex in different forms! Is there anything else?

Please don't leave your husband. Keep praying for him. And Please don't listen to bad advise.

bennybuhari:
Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, former Lagos State governor, APC National leader and presidential aspirant in the 2023 presidential election is 70 years today.

Happy birthday Jagaban. May you live long in Jesus name.

Breadandpeppers:
I think we are in the era of Grace and in the new covenant.

My sister, Grace is not the license to do anyhow ooo

jyz200:
Jagaban borgu
Political guru
I must study his political antecedent

Gbayi!

Buziness101:
I'm 40 and ready to marry you if you say yes and I'm not joking about it... I won't write my story here but there's something about you.

Chat me up please
07044943661

Hmmmmm! Pls beware ooo! This Desperation is dangerous

creepsyme:
Thank you so much.
I sincerely appreciate.

It's a pleasure sis! If you don't mind, There is a marital program called Gen218 done in MFM. It's coming up this Saturday. You can view it online.

creepsyme:
Hello moderators kindly move this topic to frontpage please and please.

I am a lady of 47 years.
I never knew my life would turn out this way, I never knew I would get to even 30 years without getting married not to talk of 47 years.
Well, for the benefits of doubts, I am super pretty and gorgeous, I am educated at least I have my first degree and one or two professional qualifications.
Nothing I did ever came out productive, I lived all my life struggling to make ends meet and attain the life I ever prayed and desired for, but to no avail.
I worked in the bank for several years and came out with absolutely nothing to show for it, worst of it is, my outlook never agree with my situation, people see me and beg me for money thinking I am okay not knowing I don't even know where my next meal will come from, I get cheated each time I buy stuff because I look rich to them sometimes I weep before the sellers when I discover I am being cheated until they become confused.

I have never in my life been choosy about a life partner Incase anyone may think I was been selective.
No man ever asked for my hand in marriage until I got to 39 years,I had good relationships that never resulted to anything, at the beginning of any relationship the men could literally lick my feet and move mountains for me, but eventually it ends in premium tears for me.
I have had opportunity to mingle with the low and high class, I only succeed in going around the circle of high class without even touching it myself.

I have tried my hands on so many things but it failed just to ensure I don't beg and to put food on my table.
I have prayed all the prayers I know, done all the deliverance I know and yet nothing.
I feel so depressed that that sometimes thoughts of suicide goes through my mind.
I feel sorry for myself and I always wonder if anything good can come out of my life again.
Sometimes I think about trying to have a child or two because my menstrual cycle is still very much on, but the thoughts of bringing a child into the world without any plan on ground make me to think twice, when feeding
myself is even a big challenge.
All my siblings are happily married with children and that I am grateful to God for, I only find myself going for omugo year in year out and now I have become big mummy with no career, no job, no child, no husband.
Sometimes I wish it could be a bad dream I should wake up from.

Iam just there getting beautifully old.
Now I understand why a lot of people commit suicide, especially when the light at the end of the tunnel takes too long and becomes bleak to reach.

I need someone out there to pray for me sincerely from their ❤️ I am loosing it already.
Nothing make sense to me anymore!

Can God still come through for me?
Can God still make me laugh the way he made Hannah and Serah to laugh?
Please someone should give me an answer.

All will be well sister. Please don't lose hope. Keep trusting God.

Kobojunkiee:
The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.

Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this.

If you were to be the in-law, will you be saying this?

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

Watch and pray

Betterprospect:
Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.

Pray about it.

Heartbroken05:
Good morning nairaland families.

I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.

Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.

There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.

But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.

But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.

I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.

Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also.

Bro, if you love yourself leave her and move on. This is a battle you can not win.

BluntTheApostle:
OK o.

But you can't reduce domestic violence by attributing everything to wickedness.

That is a lazy conclusion.

Why do husbands beat their wives?

Why do wives nag their husbands?

The answers are far beyond wickedness

It is more psychological than moralistic.

Even with your latest epistle, it is still WICKEDNESS

PavillionEnergy:
Hey people.
I noticed that my front hairline is gradually shifting back.
It wasn't like this before.
I don't want to experience baldness.

What can I do to stop the retrogressive growth?

Comrade! It's a sign of gradual baldness and it mean that you will be wealthy in future

BluntTheApostle:
OK o.

But you can't reduce domestic violence by attributing everything to wickedness.

That is a lazy conclusion.

Why do husbands beat their wives?

Why do wives nag their husbands?

The answers are far beyond wickedness

It is more psychological than moralistic.

With your latest epistle, all na still WICKEDNESS

BluntTheApostle:
It is not necessarily wickedness.

The motive behind domestic homicide (or murder generally) is usually multifaceted.

From the story, he got tired of her after their first child.

Perhaps, she began to nag him.

The psychologists who have studied domestic homicide say that when the killer is about to strike their spouse, they are only thinking about themselves, usually seeing themselves as the victim, and trying to eliminate whatever is constituting a threat.

There was a horror movie I watched. I think it is the "Grudge", an American-Japanese horror movie. The husband was nagging his wife as she served him breakfast. Without saying a word, she just lifted the saucepan and poured hot oil on the husband, and whacked him with the saucepan, killing him.

The layman might be quick to call it "wickedness". But there is more to that homicide than wickedness.

Apposite! I have gone through your epistle, it is still WICKEDNESS, even in your epistle.

Tracka:
We are done for it, I think the problem is not Nigeria, it's humanity

This is what I always tell people. Nigeria is not the problem, it is the citizens. Majority of Nigerians are wicked people.