NyamiriFlathead: He speaks for himself only and not for millions of yoruba that are ready to do everything for any yoruba man to become president come 2023 On the street, nobody knows this old man, he can't dictate to people in his local government talkless of dictating to millions of yoruba on whom to support come 2023 He is just a funny old man that likes joking a lot ON TINUBU'S MANDATE I STAND
Mooh247: Nigeria doesn't have a good labour law, the industrial court isn't accessible to ordinary citizens, even ministry of Labour at the secretariat is filled with jobless civil servants... This is why appointments are terminated anyhow without queries , warning or compensation
Funny thing is other bigger fast food outlets hire mascots to dance and entertain customers
Thanks! God bless you for this comment, you are one of the minority in nairaland that has a good thinking faculty. Our labour union in this country are very useless that's why employers treat their employees badly. Those guys did nothing wrong so far it doesn't disturb the work flow..
Olodo24: They would have been sacked the moment they threw their legs sideways if it was in a developed country. They are security guards. You think say you wise
Developed countries wouldn't sack them FYI! Do you think they reason they way you Africans think. How many Developed countries have you been to?
Olodo24: na wa for you. Security work no involve dancing. Try reason.
Bro! There is nothing wrong in what they did. So far they are doing what the company employed them to do. It is only in Africa that employers treat their employees anyhow. Anyone can dance in his or her workplace so far it doesn't disrupt the work flow.
Emmayorejoice: I needed to withdraw 35k this morning in order to attend to some urgent cash needs and since I didn't want only N1000 notes I decided to enter the banking hall. To avoid issues I arrived before 8 am and was one of the first to be attended to. The cashier paid me with N20k bundle and counted 15k with the counting machine twice and gave me my bundle. I didnt bother to do another count as I saw her use the machine twice. Only for me to get back home and realise I had an extra N32k. I counted and recounted but it was an excess.
Truth be told times could be much better Covid and Buhari did not help matters but as a Christian I know not to keep what is not mine. God knows it could have solved a lot of problems but its best to wait for what is mine so i had to go back to the bank and wait to see the Teller. Looking at her interact with her colleagues one could tell she was not happy. When it was my turn she asked what kind of transaction I wanted and I just handed her the N32k. The relief and joy on her face could not be hidden. She had already told her colleague beside her that she was short so they both joined in telling me thank you.
As usual some may say I was foolish for returning the money but either a young lady could have lost her job in these terrible times or at least the money would be removed from her salary which is still bad enough. My only prayer is God should consider this and remember me for good.
You do well! God bless you. Don't stop doing good.
Bro! Go to any M.F.M Church around you. Ask for the deliverance pastor. There is a programme they do every Wednesday, it is called "Manna Water" plan to attend. If you need any further info, feel free to d.m me.
Viridis: The Simple answer is that you are a fool. I don't know why a self reliant man should be controlled by a woman he feeds and accommodates just because of ordinary kpekus. Can't you dump her and find another person? She is not the only girl in the world.
I can't write an epistle for you simp. But just know that you have been used. And even dumping her and collecting all the things you bought for her won't be enough to punish her. Miserable loser
Exactly! The O. P is a big fool! He is still asking for people's opinions on what to do about the so called girl. You deserved the hot slap she gave you.
May God continue to protect, bless and favour Asiwaju Tinubu.
I pray that Asiwaju Tinubu will continue to be favoured in the eyes and minds of patriotic Nigerians and lovers of Nigeria.
Asiwaju Tinubu is a brilliant visionary leader who has a compassionate and large heart that doesn't discriminate against anyone.
Asiwaju Tinubu is extremely capable and competent to lead Nigeria to greater heights. He is an experienced public administrator and a Patriot to the core.
toyoson0: I met a lady here on Nairaland, we chatted on WhatsApp and we talked on call frequently. We later met and we had sex on a Saturday which is 22nd of January, she later called me a week later that she is pregnant for me. I told my friends about it and they told me I should confirm it it is really mine, so I told her we should go for pregnancy test in the hospital and she said she is 100% sure it is mine that if she do it she wouldn't abort it cos I told her I wasn't ready for a baby right now. Now I told her yesterday morning let go for test in the hospital together on Saturday in the evening she called me she has gone to the hospital that afternoon for the test that it is mine. I was like but I said we should go together for the test , am kinda confused right now cos I dont know if she want to run me street. This night she called that she will go for the abortion tomorrow morning but I must have sex with her to make the abortion easy for her. Am really confused right now cos my friends said she is trying to pin another person's pregnancy on me or is trying to get pregnant for me by force
Kobojunkie: Where do you get these bullsheet ideas from abeg?
100s of thousands, world over, wed each year without even a family member present at the occasion and they go on to enjoy marital bliss after it all. Why is it that it is when you Nigerians are involved that disorder becomes the order of the day?
Reiyvinn: Sex sex sex! That's the topic breaking through ethers of the romantic atmosphere across the globe.
In all ramifications, it can be drawn that the act of Sexual intercourse can indeed change a relationship for good; either to the right direction or otherwise.
The bond that Sex creates in relationships shouldn't be overlooked because even as it could strengthen relationships, it could keep you emotionally attached to the wrong person.
WAITING till after marriage for sex seems religiously appealing at all fronts, and to be honest with you it really is a beautiful thing to behold. However, let us not pretend to be unaware of the numerous disadvantages it holds. (few of which will be treated here)
Thus, before taking a "purity pledge" (i.e. No sex till marriage), let us be realistic at the following levels:
1.) Your Future Sexual Satisfaction is not guaranteed:
This is the major disadvantage of not having sex with your partner till after marriage.
It is true marriage isn't entirely about sex but we can't deny the fact that sexual intimacy makes up a huge part of marriages.
When you haven't had sex with your mate before walking down the aisle, your partner's sexual capability is entirely subjected to guess work which is really a huge risk and if your guess turns out wrong, it most often than not leads to.....
2.) Infidelity:
We're humans. It is in our nature to diversify when our long term investments yield a loss.
Oh yes, that's the word, it's a big loss! Imagine having spent two decades (or more) of your life waiting for your wedding night to have that long envisaged pleasure of intimacy only to be met with an ill-performing partner. It's a huge loss!
At this point, one party or both begin looking for alternative means to attain that long yearned satisfaction. At first, it starts with masturbating and porn addiction, and when it gets out of hand, infidelity sets in.
Body no be firewood you know.
3.) Risk of Impotence:
There's absolutely nothing worse than discovering that you've been entangled to a partner that'll never be able to procreate with you till death do you both part.
What a nightmare that is!
No wonder some people choose to get married only when the wife gets pregnant.
I even recall a neighbour back in Abuja who had an impotent husband. She had to have children with his relations and name them after him just to keep the marriage strong.
Some love strong sha!
4.) Sexual Chemistry:
Supposing everything goes fine and both partners are fit, capable and fertile, they will most definitely be one thing missing: Sexual Chemistry.
For couples who have had each other before walking down the aisle, pleasing each other won't really be difficult because they already know where ticks and how to get into each other's cloud nine. That's the understanding they took time to build. Mind you, everyone's different. That which works for Obi may piss Alhaji off.
It's really hard getting married to someone you don't fully understand and some situations come up where one partner wants MouthAction and the other detests it, or where one partner seeks to try out other positions and the other won't just get any of it.
These could lead to both insatisfaction and infidelity which aren't really good for a lifetime bond.
So, guys, that's it.
I'm not encouraging you to lose your "sexual purity", I'm rather highlighting the disadvantages of what you're getting yourself into and being real about it.
Please don't get me wrong, your purity pledge could come out as a tremendous success (which would be awesome) but assuming you find yourself in any of the situations stated above, know it's because of the decision you took.
Remman: we lose because our keeper was unserious. Even if tactics had changed, the Tunisians would have focussed on defence and no goal would have gone through. We actually didn't have very good strikers and Tunisians as always were playing bad ball and the ref were helping them by ignoring all their bad footballs. Look at this game, see how the ref is acting as if he was hired by the Tunicians.
The coach tactic was wrong. We lost because of the poor tactics.
Chai! Poor tortoise... You made a mistake being in Nigeria where poverty has pushed people into eating anything both eatable and uneatable.
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All these rare animals should be preserved for educational purposes, I also believe that this young man that killed and ate the tortoise has never seen a tortoise in his life for the first time and he doesn't even know the name of the animal he killed, reason why I said earlier that these animals should be protected and preserved for educational purposes. Believe also with me that it'll take him another lifetime to be opportune to see this type of animal again. A time will come when our children will be left with only pictures of these animals in the classroom or other educational facilities. Why kill what you don't know anything about?
There are still a lot of tortoise species in Nigeria. They can't go on extinction.
Esseite: When you are an Elite in the society with your reputation at stake amongst your caliber of friends and network world wide, would you take it kindly if a "Love potion" seller is destroying all you have worked without a single proof carelessly?..
He that wears the shoe knows where it pinches.
God bless you bro for this reply. Majority just dey talk without first reasoning.
zed7: You're probably lusting over her. Having a relationship with a colleague is not even a good move in the first instance.
Dating a woman who is older and more successful isn't good for a man. A man needs to be able to take charge of his relationship, something that wouldn't be so easy when dating a more successful and older woman.
Paramount01: Hello nairalanders,hope you guys days was good? please advice me on the matter on my mind.
I entered a relationship very early in my life as back as when I was still in secondary school with a girl in my area,we never had sex until wen she finsh her secondary school we started having sex,we don't stay far from each others house so is very easy for her to come over to my house when my parents are not around.
We had sex countless time and what did you expect from people that had sex every time without protection,the girl was pregnant,As at the time she was pregnant I was already in my 200level at the university and she was still looking for admission when I heard about it I told her to keep it but she told me she can't keep it that her parents will kill her so I gave her money to abort it which she did, we continue with our love affair but now very careful till I am about leaving for service, when going I told her I will surely keep myslef for her and she should also keep herself for me till I come that if I hear any rumor that she is dating somebody else I will just cut off the relationship so I left,after a year of service in the far east I got a job and she can't come to my side due to distance I later came home after 1and half year,has I saw her, I observe somebody else has touch her,her breast was full of milk I ask her what happen she said nothing, I later found out that she was pregnant for another guy when I was not around and she aborted it so the milk is still in her breast I was mad within me she beg and I forgive her.note all through my stay during service year I never touch any lady I kept my self for her as the promise I made with her,I stayed like 2 months at home before going back to my base,has I left she told me she was pregnant for me again I was shock but told her am not ready to father a child now that she should abort it,she aborted it and we continue our relationship but I only come home once in a year.
My mind was not pure with her again so I now start giving other girl attention due to what has happen before,I now met this new girl,we attend the same Catholic, we started has friend not until I begin to pick interest in this new girl,I asked her out and she agree which make me to forget this my old babe totally,the old babe complain and I told her I am sorry I can't continue with her again that my mind is not with her again,she begged but I told her parents I am not intrested again.
My wedding with this my new babe will come up August but my conscience do judge me that i don't treat that old girl well by leaving her.pls help, what can I do?
This your matter carry weight! Face your conscience
FERNANDEZISBACK: It's not a big issue na..easy go to a police station file a complaint the dpo is gonna assign about 4-5 officers that is gonna go with you..
Just tell them the guy is threatening your sister's life and blackmailing her..make sure you have evidences..do as I said and watch how he is gonna be arrested... He will spend 3 days in cell and forced to sign a statement that he will never repeat the act..
As for the new boyfriend if he can't understand her then the relationship ain't gonna work..cut it off..make sure you do as I say.. Go to the police station aiit..
Sense has departed from Rhino, Buhari is not the reason. Right after the Egypt match, eagles have been playing badly but they won because our opponents are not good. How can you use the same tactics for the whole game. The Tunisian knew moses is our key player upfront, so they caged him. If we had changed our tactics we would have won.
[quote author=Righteousness2 post=109421994][/quote]Congratulations bro! I'm happy for you. Nobody ever served God and ended in shame. God of Abraham is a living God. We serve a mighty God!
Your in laws are not even try to solve the issue. My advice is that since you know your fault. Give her space for like 6months, change your house lock keys, focus on your life. After six months, you can decide on what next. Pray too. Besides, Have you informed your family about the situation?
Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.
I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.
I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.
I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.
Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can't call to know why I am not in the office.
she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can't afford to be seen around with a married man.
I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.
Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.
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Bro! It is not called love in your own case. It is called LUST.
InTheCloudySky: Her giving your mother one meal a day doesn't make sense. She wouldn't treat her own mother like that. Either increase the feeding money you're giving her or she too should be doing something to earn money. Your mom can watch the kids at home, if need be.
God bless you sister. You are the only reasonable female here that has spoken well. Others forgot that they will be grandmothers one day.
aanuoluwami14: With the current situation in Nigeria, even with management, #50k can't be enough for all of you including your mom. Your wife might be so fed up with the triplets consumption, a woman who will take good care of triplets should be very well fed, it's not a easy task at all. Endure with her, let your mother endure too, pray for more income, there will no more fight again.
If it was to be your mom, will you tell her to endure?
Adsexpert: Honestly I don't know if am the only one.. this christainity of a thing is taking a toll on me..
I have anxiety and most times find it difficult to make decisions for myself or try to out my happiness first before others even though it's ruining me or not in my favor..
And I am trying to leave but still feel some intense fear , and that whenever I hear God Jesus, churches it begins to give me phobias..
Hell fire, the Jesus is coming of a thing and all those shits and voices in my head.. am so sick and tired of these ..
The best thing African parents should do to their children is letting them old enough, to decide if they want to be religious or not.. and not force them into anything..
Am thinking about it, like if something is giving me phobias and fears then I should stay sawy from it . Please don't bring in devil of a thing Rts is real
Bro! I will appreciate if you can send me a message, I would like to discuss with you privately.
Politics › Re: Ayo Adebanjo Backs South-East, Gives Reason by dannex4adx(m): 10:14am On Mar 04, 2022
With the current situation in Nigeria, even with management, #50k can't be enough for all of you including your mom. Your wife might be so fed up with the triplets consumption, a woman who will take good care of triplets should be very well fed, it's not a easy task at all. Endure with her, let your mother endure too, pray for more income, there will no more fight again.