Elevator technicians and I.T students are needed. Qualification: Electrical engineering/similar fields. If you are interested send your C.V to this email address: richwellconsult7@gmail.com
N.B: Must be staying in Lagos State. Attractive Salary attached and occasional interstate travelling.
Elevator technicians and I.T students are needed. Qualification: Electrical engineering/similar fields. If you are interested send your C.V to this email address: richwellconsult7@gmail.com
N.B: Must be staying in Lagos State. Attractive Salary attached and occasional interstate travelling.
Ideylook24: What is the best advise for a friend who is facing serious mental issues in his place of work. The environment in which this individual is working is very toxic and staff have been reduced to not using their initiative. There is pervasive fear in the environment on what happens next everyday. The joy of going to work is always precipitated by anxiety. Is it advisable for this individual to resign considering the current economic situation in Nigeria. Please advise. Thank you
JagabanB: When someone dies from hazards they are exposed to in places like this, same you will come back to bIame góvèrñment with "Nigèria has happened to you" slogan. When will u people ever stop being bîased in this country?
Don't mind them, they always think upside-down. There are many of them, educated fools and they will be saying Nigeria is bad.
HanisahZuwy: I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!
I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.
aQUINandmore: I have always had this penchant for attention, I always want to be discussed and be the center of attraction anywhere I go.
I want to be a popular figure in the Nigeria cyberspace, I want to be posted on tunde ednut and instablog, I want nairalanders to open threads upon threads about me.
I have spent money on publicity, I have auditioned for naija sings but one of the judges broke my heart by saying I sound like a donkey I have auditioned for big brother naija thrice without making it to the house despite different men claiming to know one or two influential people knacking me to pieces.
After seeing how the internet has been buzzing about moyo Lawal i have decided to also release my nudes and sex videos so people can also talk about me.
So people, expect to see my nudes and videos before the week runs out.
Helinues my love, please don't be heartbroken when you see my nudes floods the Internet. I still love you baby.
leanonme82: The Lagos State government just handed over new staff quarters to staff of the Nigerian Railway Corporation, after demolishing their former staff buildings in order to build the Red Line train station in Ikeja.
As promised to share my trip experience I arrived Singapore from Lagos yesterday
Let me first start with the information on how I got my visa for others to learn. Meanwhile some of the information regarding visa I got them in this forum and also on the Singapore visa site online. I Arranged my documents with passport heads to the Singapore embassy Abuja where my visa was processed.
Lst of documents - Visa application form printed and filled - reference form filled by a citizen or permanent resident in Singapore. - passport photo - international passport - flight reservations - hotel reservations
Meanwhile you must submit your documents 30 days to your plan arrival date. I didn’t know about this and I went to the embassy 2 months to my plan trip but pleaded they should keep my passport and documents till 1 month to my trip date to start processin
As promised to share my trip experience I arrived Singapore from Lagos yesterday
Let me first start with the information on how I got my visa for others to learn. Meanwhile some of the information regarding visa I got them in this forum and also on the Singapore visa site online. I Arranged my documents with passport heads to the Singapore embassy Abuja where my visa was processed.
Lst of documents - Visa application form printed and filled - reference form filled by a citizen or permanent resident in Singapore. - passport photo - international passport - flight reservations - hotel reservations
Meanwhile you must submit your documents 30 days to your plan arrival date. I didn’t know about this and I went to the embassy 2 months to my plan trip but pleaded they should keep my passport and documents till 1 month to my trip date to start processin
Nonywendy: I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies, When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too). So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.
Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.
Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it. The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no. Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her. Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus. Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues? Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you
It's in her blood! If you want to live long, dump her now before she sents you t early grave.
May be she offered to suck him first but baba refused.
Nothing fit make me believe these hoes on rape matter
Will you shut up! If it were to be your sister you will never say such. I was a student of university of Lagos. My faculty was sciences, I have known this man for many years, he is a chronic womaniser, I was not surprised with this rape issue because I knew he will be in trouble one day if he doesn't change.
honorik: my dear friends, please your kind assistance is required i have i lady which i assisted during her school days, although i propose but she decline given me an excuse hat nobody is learned in her family she want to go to school first before married after much argument i concord. i was the one responsible for virtually everything both hand out, feeding, phones, assignment, project,clothing e.t.c In summary anytime i make an attempt to see her people for a proper marriage right she will start avoiding me and i use to spend on any of her family member which i know and i do send money to her mom interval of 3months highest 5months. there is no member of family which i know that did not benefit from me. i told this lady to exercise patience with me to enable me prepare for the marriage i will only be responsible for her feeding and i will be given her money but occasionally, after two months of doing this she came to me and challenge me that when last did i buy clothes for her and give her money to make her hair, that her problems is not only food and i responded to her to be patience at least i will spend a lot and moreover talking about the ecol ac and the occasions i will single handedly do everything she wasted my time for 7years and what pains me most i avoided good woman that really want me then and the painful aspect of it all i have inform her pastor about the wedding which i give us his blessings and after that she change totally by avoiding me and frustrating my life she even refuse to pick my calls and tell me to my face that she is not interested anymore. I am seriously confuse whether to go and tell the pastor what she said that she is no longer interested and her sister even talk to her she is said until i refund 20k to her which she treated herself during that period which i didn't give her anything before i even promise to give her 10k instantly and send the balance by next week she said if the money is not complete i should forget it and forget her. she refuse to come close to me anymore stop picking my calls i even try to make peace with her but to know avail. so probably she discover that i love her so much that's why she keep doing this. so please i just need a woman that will understand me and make me happy that's just what i need. please ur suggestion is needed so that i will take my final decision
I'm sorry to say this but at the same time I need to say it that you are a FOOL! Didn't you see the big red flags right from the beginning that you said here? Any woman that has been demanding money or material things from you all the time is a parasite, they are only interested in your money. Relationship is a mutual benefit not parasitic. Imagine! You are wasting your time begging because of one stupid and selfish girl. Even if you marry her, she may later kill you because you will not have rest of mind and this will lead to hypertension and death eventually. Be wise! Sincerely! Your brain needs deliverance.
Damian911: A guy approached me yesterday and introduced himself and pointed to the direction of few guys saying they're money doublers and I should give it a try that I won't regret it blah blah blah. Well, I already knew they were scammers but decided to play along. I started with #500 and they did their stupid abracadabra and gave me 5k that I won I pretended I was surprised and happy and told them I'll be back and getting I wanted to take all my savings but decided to take a part of it totalling #200k. I decided to play a fast one on them using psychology
Immediately I got there I told them I'm with 200k and whispered into their ears "Shh, you see this money I brought is nothing if you can double it for me, the company I work for kept #20m with me and I have access to my Dad's account and he's got #2.5m so if you double it for me I'll give you guys #20.5m and you double it we share the proceeds" They encouraged me to and quickly doubled the #200k to #500k. I pretended to be even more astonished and promised to be back with #20.5m. They encouraged me saying its my my opportunity of making it in life and utilize it well! Took the #500k and almost screamed "I Will Be Back"
Since I never go and the mugus have been calling me. I kukuma break make I have peace! They no know say if scamming was food chain I'll be the apex predator! They met the apex predator!
Ehinjuola: My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.
My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.
It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.
After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.
My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.
When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.
We had little issue then but he later resolved it.
He brought everything they ask him for
During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.
That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.
I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.
His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.
I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.
He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.
He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.
After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.
I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.
Have I said something wrong?
I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.
I am tired, I don't know what to do.
You and your family really exhorted him. You said in your post that since he is the one that wants your hand in marriage and cherish you, he should go beyond his financial capacity, that's a selfish mindset. Marriage should be a mutual benefit. He was right you should have told your parents to reduce the lists when it's done that you have never eaten a cow before. You put a big burden on the poor foolish man.(yes, foolish because he should have avoided you and your family) now he is in a big mess because your family don cash out in the name of wedding. Go and beg him, deliberate with him on how the loan will be paid.
siofra: Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.
And there are terms and conditions.
He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)
I will not have children for him (my mind may change)
I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.
Dcass: I have tried everything to buy my sewing machine but nothing work am only able to raise 10k out of 90k plus but no problem I believe I will do anything to feed my baby and myself but only God know why he took my husband and left me with the whole responsible.
God knows I have worked begged and even done things just to be able to raise money for my sewing machine but I still didn't work and I don't have anybody. I hope am not committing a sin because am doing this for my child and after doing it if I can raise 90k I will stop and start working.
If any can borrow me I will be greatful and it will save me
Matured mind please.
You don't need to go into prostitution because you are going through challenging times, unless you have it in mind to commit it. There are other works/jobs that you can do to gather money for your sewing machine. Start with those small jobs , like cleaning, school etc. Going into prostitution is not the best solution. Better still, pray to God for direction.
Urbaninspire: I am so depressed at the moment,I passed the first stage, second stage interview,it was a success then I got the invite for the premedical and I failed the medical tests because I have hepatitis,I don't know how hepatitis got into my blood stream,I don't know what to do again,is just 2 much for my head...I need encouragement
Donkogbe: This is a true life story about me. I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.
I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot. My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.
i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.
I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.
Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.
I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed . . OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.
I'm happy for you. Wishing you greater things ahead.
Holluwatarhyor: I love playing the piano,but when I see some guys running minor pentatonic scales on the piano,I use to be wowed,they make me love the piano the more.
I also love playing the drumset,many do think this is the easiest to learn because anyone can just get on it and start hitting with sticks,but when you see professionals on drumset,you will love it.
I love bass guitar the most,but I can't play it
Many do say the trumpet is more difficult to learn than the saxophone,but saxophone is rated over the trumpet.
So which of the musical instrument do you love playing or like seeing instrumentalists play..
And which is the easiest to learn,I know many will choose the drumset as the easiest to learn.
His wife got a job in the UK which pays her about £30,000/ annum. Husband will be going with the wife along with thier 3months old baby as a dependent. How do you think this man can cope nursing thier baby for God knows how long before he gets something doing.
On a second thought he will rather let the wife go while he stays back with the baby in Nigeria managing his business. He's not doing do bad in Nigeria.
My people what's the best option he should take that would favour him and his family?.
He should pray to God for guidance and way to follow.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Could Shade Have Done Differently To Avoid Her Current Situation???? by dannex4adx(m): 1:56pm On Dec 08, 2023
