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May be it's because he has not paid her bride price that's why he's suffering and poor. The best to do now is to go and pay her bride price no matter where the money is coming from, from your post you said his younger brother has been supportive so what stop him from collecting money from him and pay his woman's bride price... Mumu everywhere. He should continue fornicating until he die without paying the woman's bride price.... Odee

And obi will win the election and as you wish yourself death so shall it be unto you... Amen.

You're about to make a big mistakes. Don't dare leave your job. You already said he's a job hunter, for now he has to grow financially before going ahead with married. Remember, you've a kid, so Stick to your job and be taking care of your children when he's financially okay to some extent you may now go ahead with the wedding. But pls don't leave your job.

This is a bandage... Don't even dare to accept it. Both the pay and the conditions attached is demonic and wicked. They're looking for somebody's destiny that they'll cage. Just keep on searching and hustling you'll definitely smile.

This is a complicated situation. The fact is that, the child deserves a good life and I'm very sure that the real father who's into all sorts of vices may not be able to give her a better life. In the other way round; her husband deserves to know the truth before he'll end up training another man's child... Well, bro, I'll advise you calm down for now and observe how things unfolds before knowing what exactly to do.

Women are just too terrible...

You don't need a prophet to tell you that something serious is going on btw them... Don't be fooled. I can't just understand what women want.

With due respect sir, it's obvious something is actually going on btw your brother and your wife... You've to be careful, there are other means to catch her. For example, monitor her calls and chats including her messages. You could take her phone to computer gurus to install apps that can track all her calls and conversation then you'll know what's actually going on.

Firstly I want to tell you that you're a BIG FOOL a mumucious coward with a Brian drain. You mean you've been enduring all this rubbish from her to the extent she has insulted your parents bros you're mad. Your stupidity is on another level. You've seen all the red flags and yet you're waiting for who will advise you... Haba na! Could it be that her pxxxy is sweetening you like sugar or what... If you love your life and destiny better run away from such demonic and parasitic relationship before she sends you to early grave. She's not your type neither will you ever have peace in life being with such woman.

End the relationship once and for all you'll thank me later.

You've to distance yourself away from her. Then block her from reaching you... Is not she'll destroy your destiny

I pity u sha ... With all this red flags you're still asking for advice. Oga she's not your woman. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Let her go for your own good.

What happened to your brother, uncle, cousin and family members are they not good enough to marry her ?

You want another man to come and marry her meanwhile you can't recommend her to your family members.
Anu offia

My happiness is that you can see the red flag by yourself. Don't be surprised she's spending the money on another guy, our ladies of this days cannot be trusted.
Sir, run for your life, this is her lifestyle and not even you can change it. Do your investigation very well you'll realize that she's been lying to you all this while.
Pls be wise, you've already spent enough on her don't go and marry someone that'll cause you heart attack.

You should know that you're no longer in the picture. Once you see gals misbehaving something is behind it... Better move on before it'll be too late.

Yes! Living an immoral lifestyle can set you backward in life. You need to know that human being possess different kind of spirits and demons when you'd sex with someone with demonic spirit, spiritually that same spirit will enter you and affects everything that concerns you. That's why it's better to marry and be faithful to your partner in order to save yourself from unknown spirits and demons.

I understand your plight but I must tell you that you're very very ungrateful. So, you've a good man like this just because of his shortcomings you want to end everything. Do you know that the day he'll begin to take cognizance of your own shortcomings he'll just throw you out like a trash. Instead of you to look for solution you're here shouting you're tired. If you dare leave him forget the fact that he's a good man another woman will take over your home better know this truth. Go home, sit with your hubby and look for a solution, break up is never the best option.

If you want to die before your time go ahead and marry her.
You're seeing all this red flag and yet you want to marry her, my brother have you asked yourself why she was raised by a single mom ? I guess no!
You'll end up being a divorcee because that marriage will not last.

The guy might be terrible ooo... Better be careful don't just jump into marriage with him make sure you actually knows who you're dating. If he refused to tell you by weekend why he's keeping Malice with his dad, my dear better find your way who knows whether he's even pretending to love you.
This kind person can kill.

Pride will destroy you if you don't learn how to say sorry. Someday this same woman her eyes will open then you'll realize that your stupid pride will only land you where proud people belong. Mr Man bring your shoulder down apologize to your wife, be kind and good to her. For goodness sake be a nice and lovely husband to your beautiful and caring wife. Just know that karma is real if you refused to change.

Shame on you... You're in a bondage not relationship. So, it's now a crime to have some app on your phone... Better correct or leave that relationship before it's too late.

Seek God's mercy. Go on your knees and say Almighty God I've come before you in the name of your Son Jesus Christ. Dear Lord I've sinned against you and I've realized my sinful way and I surrender to your lordship please save me from the power of sin and death. Cleanse me with your precious blood and make me whole again. Thank you Jesus for saving me. From today, I become the son of God, sin and death has no power In me.
Now, look for a bible believing church and stand attending and you can look for a good brother or even your pastor and very close to him. Always read your Bible and always pray.

He's hiding something from you. It's either he belongs to some sorts of occult or something fishy and probably they forbid him from having sex in his house. This days guys could be dangerous. They do anything just for money. Hope say he never use your destiny and your womb. Be careful ooo...

Better be wise... How can you go and buy another phone for her just like dat..

There's nothing prophetic here .. he's doing a guessing job... He's forming prophet . Nonsense

Are you for real... You mean I should go ahead and marry a lady that have had several sexual partners and probably have done countless abortions... Are you for real ?
Most ladies today are just walking cups yahoo boys have used most of them and if you dare. Marry such person your life will become worst than that of job... Guys before marrying any lady make sure you conduct a thorough check on her... Infact seek for spiritual counselling especially with a genuine man of God or probably fast and pray so that God will show you who she's and the future.

Your peace of mind and health matters alot. I hope you don't want to die before your time ... Better, get rid of her or else you're on your own

Chai... I can sense fear all over you. This is the reason why you've to be very close to God. You don't have to devorce your wife she's not the one threatening you. Go to God in prayers nothing will happen to you. Forget about that uncle and focus on your family and mother in-law.

This is a red flag. The earlier you kicked her out of your life the better for you. She's showing you her real self. It's better you end everything now before it's too late

You're not a man at all. She and her family are manipulating you. Infact you're a disgrace to your family. A woman has the gut to fight your mum and even raise knife on her in other words that's an attempted mother and yet you allow her to bring her own mum to your house... Oga you're not okay.
Shame on you...

Oga ask the Lord to direct you. Stop walking by sight. It's only the Holy spirit that can grant you your heart desires. He'll direct and lead you to the rightful person that's meant for you. Just put God fast or you can even go on fasting. God may show you mercy and the right woman for you will definitely come your way.

Hahahah... E choke.
Is only a foolish guy that does such nonsense.

For some of us that accept such religion, do mortals, flesh and blood human being fight for god who's a spirit. I'm confused here... How can a mortal fight for a spirit ?. Let's. Better wake up ooo... I don't know why this people are naturally violent in nature. God forbid. thankGod for Jesus Christ for showing us the right way to God Almighty and for giving us eternal life in Christ Jesus. I pity whoever refused to accept Jesus Christ as his personal Lord and Savior.
You better repent now come to the Prince of Peace so that you'll have peace and enjoy your life and at the end be with Christ.