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Buzx:
My eyes o. Op, you for put graphic picture na.

Buzx:
My eyes o. Op, you for put graphic picture na.

tobechi74:
When one truly loves a flower, he does not pluck the flower from its stem. He does not transplant it to his own backyard. The soil condition may be different.The plant may die. Rather, he goes out of his way to water the plants and apply fertilizer. He derives joy by watching its beauty. He desires to improve its beauty. He is not threatened if others admires the flower. He has no interest of purchasing the flower.

When we genuinely love a person, we do not think of how to take advantage of the person for our own benefit. We do not intend to possess the person. Rather we think of how we can improve the other person’s life without depleting ourselves. . We give our partner freedom to be Authentic.

If you truely love her ,there is nothing wrong in assisting her. But when you demand gratitude from her in terms of sex or marriage. It is no longer done out of love.

If she decides not to get married to you
After receiving assistance from you, you have no reason to get angry. This is true love.

If you get angry that she did not marry you afterwards, then you were not really helping her. You were helping yourself. You were investing in her. It is a buisness transaction. Not all Investment blossom.

Olohitobu:
Damn, op I've been in your shoes, met an igbo girl during nysc, she's an angel in human form, she carry front carry back n same time tall, as per bad guy I was I told eveey corper to stay away from her that she's mine, two weeks into serving we started talking, fast forward 4 weeks later she moved in with me, I was damn happy, the girl is the bomb, everyone in that town wants her but she doesn't give a damn about them,we were madly in love

One month after calls started coming, chats upon chat, she's got INmessage in her phone with different guys, was curious so I went to her chats on INmessage I nearly fainted, she's a call girl, heavy runs girl,I confronted her she got angry saying it was her past life, was having sleepless night cos I fell helplessly inlove with her.

A time came she said she wanna travel home to owerri to go see her Mom, the morning she was to travel she was in the bathroom so out of curiosity I logged into INmessage I saw different appointment she has booked in owerri already, one 30k a night, other 60k n 100k, I was finished, I showed her the chats and out of the trauma if gave her the beating of her life and some neighbor came in and took me to they place, got back an hour later my babe still travelled, I knew what's up already, she will angrily bleeped the life out of this clients just to get back at me for the bashing, to cut the long story short we tolerated each other for two years after nysc cos she do come to Abuja from owerri and spend like months or two and go back to the LovePeddler life in owerri, until during one of the visit she had serious issue with my elder bro in which she was wrong and same time she refused to apologise n stomped out that same morning back to owerri out of anger, my brother na that one I manage use as excuse leave her o, it was hard sha. D girl finnnne

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

saaphiere:
May God Almighty deliver us from time wasters in Jesus name Amen.

blaqoracle:
if you know the meaning of almajiri, you will grow up to like the system. Those little boys are simply in
an educational system that involves knowledge seeking, service in the cause of allah and sacrifice.
The attribute of the average northerner is built at this formative age. At the point of graduation, many of them are able to recite the Koran, cover to cover. Do you refer to one that can recite a book cover to cover an illiterate?
Almajiri system may be old, but it far better than the system we have down south, were boy of similar age bracket sleep in the market and commit terrible atrocity during the day and night.

Sodiquinone:
Hypocrite righteousness89 and others will quickly say Jesus is the solution, I say read your bible and stop telling lies
Luke 19vs 27 : (Jesus said) those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them--bring them here and KILL them in front of me.'(same Jesus??)

Now go attack the Amalekites and totally destroy all that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels and donkeys.'"(1samuel 15vs 3)(pure genocide endorsed in the holy book)

we dont support the extremist killer but read ur Bible before you criticise.Thanks

kingxsamz:
I think that quote on your signature refers to you.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Looool

How can a 45 years old man cry over relationship ??. Wahala no dey finish Sha..

Oizee:
go and sit down, why won't you type nonsense when God favour u compare to other people. Poor people should live miserable for life? Help them when you see one, there is a reason we have wealth and poverty in d dictionary, it means the two must exist no matter how people strive and nature has made it so too.

JAMO84:
ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY

longetivity:
well I am not married and I will never marry, I have many girls that wants to be my babymama