₦airaland Forum

almsofgold:
Pls cut the gentleman some slacks. He had the time to come out and explain his end of the deal, albeit taking responsibility for his misdeeds. I think that's fair enough. We all have our ups and downs, but we don't bring it here to garner up pity and tarnish another man's image. How many successful deals has she closed that she came here to celebrate? It shows a level of business understanding she's on. In business, there are some training fields you have to cross, that you weren't taught of in business school. How you maneuver it depends on your level of risk judgement and assessment. Its not as if he got the goods without paying. The experience should help her shape her business acumen and strategy, instead if coming here to cry over spilt milk. If you're running a business and expect smooth sailing without hitches,you'll never grow,and you'll never know .

Literal bla bla bla as usual.
Why did he block her? A customer is allowed to cancel a order for one reason or another. He should have just explained clearly or he probably thought she'd take no for a answer? She even replied "OK" only to find that she had been blocked. Why not have the honest conversation and they cancel the deal respectfully? You're suddenly trying to paint him some messiah with "cut the gentleman some slack". Belt ni

StarchAndBanga:
My intentions..

I never said what I did was right or I went about it the right away.

Created this thread to share my side of the story

Dude. Answer the question dauntless15 asked you. Why did you block her?
Even if your intentions were clear as you're trying to paint to us now, should it warrant in blocking her? I mean... *shrugs

Semaj77:
Even dog wey mistakenly pass there at that time go enter guard room

Swears

Rachel98:
I'm nice to her, sometimes I try to bring up things we could just talk about, but she replies me like I'm forcing her to talk.

She's too full of herself, probably because she's a PhD holder. Honestly I don't understand.

PhD wow. That one loud gan

ariesbull:
This l is becoming annoying and irritating... What is wrong with these Women....must we talk people Down...if you don't want to pay... That is nice but bringing the chat here is gross...

I respect creativity...

If you decide not to give her money.... Please keep it to yourself


She doesn't understand arts... Some arts can be sold for 100 million... Some people sell portrait so much.... 120k isn't upto $1000 dollars it's just about $180 USD na him people dey make noise....

Big boys dey buy pencil work portrait for over 2 milli... It depends on how much the artist want to sell...

You don't tell her what to sell her work....

She is a decent girl working for living and not using her body and she must be Commended


At least she has visible skills.... We must respect that..


This art work is expensive

Raphael Drawing is the world's most expensive sketch at $48 million | Good Things From Italy - Le Cose Buone d'Italia.

Another comment wey miss road. Do you even understand what's happening lol

Draslo:
You want to drag your kids' love with your wife or what?
What if you're a military man and you're never around?
What if you're an expat in another country and you no dey ever dey?
What if you're a sailor and your presence at home is nothing to write home about?
What if......?


I could go on and on. Just stop there and do what your duties are as a father and husband to your nuclear and the love will never die. Don't ever expect all your kids to love you equally but remember that no matter what they all love you unconditionally.


What do I know anyways? I'm just a single guy without any offspring yet so maybe I don't know what I'm saying.

I've come to a conclusion that no matter how much sense in a thread here on NL, there's always that one contrary opinion of someone who is either short-sighted or just looking at things from a fixated point of view. Men with the aforementioned professions can still show love to their kids when available - can still take their kids out and let them know that they are meeting their needs in a certain way. Everyday presence is just a bonus. I can explain it to you, but can't understand it for you.

Your argument is invalid. Sorry.

Coldshisha:
Masturbation damages the mind

In the sense that you sexualise/objectify women?

Bigredmachine:
No corruption is not the reason why we don't have cities like these in Nigeria...

It's our mindset and the way we think...

The countries that harbor this cities whose image u displayed here are corrupt if not more corrupt than Nigeria

From the poor to the rich, our way of thinking is very very bad

Modified

So I got almost 40 mentions for this post alone and more than half of those mentions criticize me in one way or the other... Well to my own standard that just shows why I said our thinking is our problem in Nigeria and Africa at large... So many of u have decided to accept defeat and backwardness hence u believe everything good cannot happen in Nigeria...

USA and other top countries u see today are still corrupt but someone somewhere stood up and said let's change things (largely due to their way of thinking)

If we have right thinking people... They will know that anything good is possible in this country (you are talking of a country that is the 6 or 7th largest producers of oil in the world)... A country blessed with human and natural resources... And u tell me corruption is the reason why we are where we are today...

Take Dubai for instance if they have the same thinking mentality we have today, no body will be visiting that city... Because of the way they think... You can't place corruption in front of your mindset, your mindset comes first...

Lastly... The Nigerian poor man mentality is totally rotten,so poor that they accept everything being said to them, tell them Nigeria can never be like USA, Nigeria is the most corrupt country in the world they foolishly accept, hence why our politicians keep putting us where our thinking and mindset is...

I could go on and on... But we accept mediocrity in this country... I rest my case here



Nigerian thinks our politicians don't have capacity to build a city like this... They do, but when they do...

From the poor man angle: you see them throwing dirty and all sort of rubbish on the streets, damaging it by trying to steal the equipment if possible just to frustrate the effort of the little the government is doing (dirty mindset)

From the rich politicians angle (they don't see the need to improve on previous projects, make it better, hence the reason why we remain back ward (if the whites saw no need to improve on the first television made, today we won't have a smart TV) dirty mentality again

It's just so painful to see how low we the citizens have placed ourselves before the politicians...

Very well said

WELL SAID BOSS. Your argument is valid
I totally endorse this comment

HenryWilliams:
Not necessarily true. Nigerians are voicing out against Buhari regime . Does it mean he's doing something good?
Some people are naturally heartless regardless of their position..
Don't judge unless you are in their shoes

Best comments like yours don't always get likes. Well-said, boss.

[quote author= post=109025926]You are so in our mind.
You've said it all.
Nothing to be added.
END OF THREAD!!![/quote]He's said nothing. Until you work with these guys before you understand what's in play.

OfficialAwol:
Check well, you would realize that the man's probable crime is being a 'no nonsense' man.

Won't allow them come to work late.

Won't allow them embezzle money.

And other wuruwuru.

Nigerians don't like good people.

It's all assumptions if there are no facts. But is likely to be true. I work in a health facility and I can category tell you these top MD's are a pain in the ass. Most especially when it comes to welfare of staffs. Monetary reward after hard work shouldn't be an issue.

FernandezPablo:
I understand you man..but most guys actually mean what they say in the comment section..

Really? Ah omo that's not cool if so

FernandezPablo:
It's just like saying cos you post your vehicle means you want to put it up for sale..how does that sound to you son?
How do you boys think tho?
A woman posted a picture for her day and you sexualize it talking about how you want to have sex with her..guys post shirtless picture of themselves but you don't say anything and women hardly sexualize them..are the men also not trying to be sexualized?
Can you see most men have a very big problem with their sexual life?

Guy e don do. You take things too literally on the SM abeg. Soft pedal. All of us here just catching cruise and you're typing all these epistle. Joor oo

Darkseidxx:
Fuckable
Na to cum on her face or laps

Tbh. You read my mind...
But let's be guided. Happy new year

Fedrick100:
Everybody just dey chop breakfast this December

Swears

Why can't I masturbate?
Mstewww

Isn't this simple enough? Lol

Romanoff:
There is nothing wrong with her taking gift from a guy if she's just friends with him. What is fishy is why she had to delete the messages and even lie.

That's it gan gan

Hintona:
Wahala for who dey relationship o

Hello. Are you searching? I'm single btw

LilMissFavvy:
Funny. What's the big deal in being called out to pray? Prayer which is something you do always? Don't meet your pastor to complain, just let it go oga.

As usual, there's always that one person that'll miss the point.

One major turnoff for me is being nonaccountable. Believe me guys, you don't want to be with someone who doesn't take responsibility for the most basic things. Always defensive. To add to the list is lack of solution orientation. Can't join you to resolve conflicts that may arise when things escalate. Even more is the poor communication skills. These major three are deal-breakers for me.

Foodqueen:
Having sex with a preggy lady that is not carrying your child

Mehnn....

I'm still processing this oloun. Things dey occur ooo

Explorers:
If you've seen the movie, they perished that much because they ignored the warnings.

They saw the warnings (light earthquake/tremor) and the mountain was spewing ash for some days before the eruption.

Unfortunately, the coastal city had only one exit(harbour).

Thousands of people trying to get on few available boats.

Please what's the name of the movie

Hubeznigeria:
Some folks just talk like the program pays 300k per month. A sachet of water is #20 in today's Nigeria. So tell me what can one save from that meagre amount?
Albeit, it's better than not having hope of getting money at all all.

Tbh, it's practically impossible to. At first, you'd want to imbibe in the culture - that is, to save. But somehow you'll start running out of money. Needs must be met always. It's not possible to save 30k.

Hubeznigeria:
You talk like you're no in Nigeria. Save what from what? What from 30k?? And you have bills to pay and feeding? You guys should stop being unreasonable. 30k for 12months is 360k. Let's assume that you (I mean You) saved half of the total sum, what business can you start with it? How much is rentage for shop? Here you are foulmouthing another. If life is fair to you at the moment fine; it may not be to another at the present. So be guided in your utterances.

Facts

AdaSunshine:
Fear of death during delivery was the cause of death of one of my cousins.
She had a healthy pregnancy, no complications whatsoever, until the day of labour.
She kept crying all through, and her mother that was supposed to encourage her kept crying with her.

We patiently waited for the “good news” for what seemed like forever, until evening when they called us...
We were already jubilating, thinking she had finally given birth, only to be told she died with the pregnancy.

I was incredibly touched by this. So sorry for your loss.

Oblongata:
That year ehn, my wife gave me so much wahala! I became a pastor, a father, motivational speaker, etc! She was super scared and said things like ‘if I die, let my child know that I love him’. I nearly blamed myself for impregnating her. Few days to Edd, see prayers! I just kuku opt out for cs jeje! Because her fear fear been dey fear me sef and I didn’t want to lose anybody. Thank God for his mercies! That’s more than a decade ago!We even had 2 more later on. Thank you God!

If you are in that situation now, please don’t be scared! Just know you will come out of the labor room alive and well along with your child! It is well!

I laughed so hard this early. Omo na wa oo
Thanks for sharing.

DissTroy:
Someone is definitely profiting off this girl's predicament else something would have been done about her situation.

Cosmetic surgery has advanced to the extent that the victims of burns and injuries like her can look less hideous than she looks. I know for one that face surgeries have gotten better and victims of dog bites and burns get grafting procedures to make them look at least normal.

This girl has been on Ophrah(?) and several shows. She has the needed attention from all the moneybags and women rights organisations in the world, so why haven't they done plastic surgery on her face at least? Reconstructive ones even?

Because someone or she profits off her pity party.

Just like race hustlers who blow out any issue from the racial perspective would be out of business if racial tensions die down.

She isn't the average girl looking for help. Almost seems like her 'selling point' as she continuously reminds us of the incident and never about what she's done professionally or projects or more.

I don't know why victimhood seems very attractive to most people. "Oh! Woe is me!"

What you've just displayed is gross ignorance. What has gotten into you?

rottennaija:
This life

Uttered the same words...
Sigh

Lol. Op it should interest you to know that since my elder sis got married, her husband and I don't relate well, and I couldn't give a rats ass about it altogether. He basically doesn't have any relationship with me or whatsoever. Did this somehow bother her? I don't think so. Life goes on.

What I wouldn't want for both of you is to put an end to something beautiful that is even yet to begin just because of this issue. You could try adjusting a little though. Things like this shouldn't be forced.

Personally, I'm just as introverted as you are. Not sure I related well with siblings of whoever I've been dating.
Wishing you both endless love together.

habitkiller:
No no... I have left the act for God,I laughed over it when I do think of it

That's great news! I'm happy you broke the addiction for good.

Earlystar698:
First don't compare a working country to a forced enclave called Nigeria. The only thing that's working in Nigeria is that you can urinate anywhere you want to even if there's " Do not urinate signboard at the particular place. And secondly BMC is fast growing disease in Nigeria and its has no cure at the moment.

Man this comment killed me