render01: I've known my best friend since my 200L in the University. We are like sisters, always together. Last month was weird between us. She started avoiding me and so when I confronted her yesterday, she opened up to me that she has a crush on me and she doesn't know when it started and why it had to me.
She has a boyfriend. I was speechless and she started crying. It was like a movie. My brain is still processing. I just went home to my family house hoping by the time I returned, we'd talk things out like Adults. Did I do the wrong thing but leaving?
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My siblings 2 male(older) and 1younger female and a male has hated me so much and did so many bad things that they now turn our mom against me.
If I should start telling you the evil they did to me it will take a lot of time but what I did was to cut myself from them so they will not harm me ...but to my surprise they have persuaded my mother that was on my side before to ditch me, she doesn't pick or call me again and I know it's the work of them.
But this is the question, is it possible to get married without involving them like will the lady I want to get married to and her family accept me without my own family when it's time for me to get married?.
your wife to be family members will be against that for good reasons
If they are truly guilty, may their souls rest in peace in advance.... Everyone knows the punishment for drugs trafficking in such countries. So, if you choose to take the risk, be ready to bear the brunt when caught.
VTJN: how did the father damaged him please. By not allowing him go to Europe to play football? Or telling him to study a professional course even in a private university? You don't know him more than his father. The man already said it that his son want to become footballer because of girls. That boy doesn't know the luck he has having a well to do father
The father was even telling him that he can become a footballer after school. What else does he want please?
You are making the mistakes our parents made that some of us are trying not to make with our kids now.
Having touts or estate beat up your son in public like a petty thief facing jungle justice is bad enough, not making him to pursue his person in IT is bad, giving hope of pursuing his football dreams and snapping it away from him at the tail end is insensitive.
I know you are a good wife and mother... But, Please, you are losing your son. Win him back before it is too late that is, if it is not already!
I am sorry ma, but your husband has damaged his self esteem and many more.... I felt angry on his behalf reading this and I wonder what you did to save him. The earlier you as his mother start to try to get through to him, the better!
kunkelhanspeter: How many people still drive car with barefoot 🦶 or am I the only one?
July will make it 2 years I have been driving yet still can’t drive when I am wear shoes or slides And how can I stop it?
This is due to the fact that you started off with the habit while learning to drive... When I started driving, an in-law warned me against it saying; I would get used to driving without shoes. So, I kept my shoes on!!!
Gideonski: I'm a 25 year-old male and a student in the university. I have always been taller than my most people my age right from my childhood days. By the time I was eleven years old, I was slightly taller than my dad who is very close to 6ft. I have always been teased about my height for years and it seems that the older I get, the more awkward it becomes. I have a very straight and skinny physique as I have never experienced what it means to put on weight (at least not to a noticeable extent). I feel very awkward walking around shorter people though I don't show it. Sometimes the kind of clothes I wear do not help as they make me look taller. Please what advice can I get from you guys in terms of how to look better as a very tall person and how to improve on my physique.
Easy more calories and workout like crazy... You'll love see a difference added with boosted confidence
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Failure2019: I got a two jobs; one that requires me to move from Nigeria to Serbia and the other requires me move to Bulgaria . Both of them are IT based jobs.
Do your research online about the living conditions of both countries
Please I have something bothering me for a long time now. It's about my girlfriend not accepting to have intimacy with me, saying we should marry first.. I'm a young man trying to stand firm before thinking about marriage.. But she do pressure me on marriage since I'm always disturbing her for sex. Although she is a virgin which I have confirm.. She is a hardworking gal and independent. She hardly ask me for money and even whn I get money I hardly give her base on sex issues.. I have been celibate for about two years now and I'm not d type dat Bleep around.. She visited me dis January we only romance and I almost force myself inside her.. So I'm planning to visit her but she said no romance or sex and we are on a distance relationship. I base in Edo state while she base in Ondo state . So I feel transportation to visit her is a waste because no fun.. Just talking talking with high transportation too..
Pls I need advice and don't mind my grammatical errors.
So, because there'll be no sex, visiting her is not worth it right and the relationship is boring? My brother, end that thing you call relationship... She's not for your type. Go and get your type and let her enjoy her celibacy in peace without pressure.
Naofumi: Am 18 and will be 19 next tomorrow. But am not proud of myself. I don't have any skill at all, no specialties and no motivation. I've been filled with hatred that I want to kill each and every one that made me feel bad. My mother and the rest of the family said alot of things to me for not being able to bring money like my elder brother. Am in HND 2 Currently, Computer engineering..... I have a Good GPA of 3.45 (nearly distinction). But I still hate it, cause even if I got 4.0 no one is there to be proud of me.
Do other children feel the same? If yes then why can't I endure and be like them? I want to work long ago but I was stoped saying am to finish school first. My father don't provide at all. And every morning the insults begins with me. What should I do? I've thought of suicide countless times but I couldn't do it. I don't know why..... Maybe am born not to succeed in anything.
You will not kive with your family forever... Once you graduate and leave for NYSC, you can start carbingyour life
akube34: did u read what he said? He isn’t not planning to birth as kids. He is taking the necessary precaution to avoid what you r thinking
In Nigeria, hospitals sometimes get one's genotype wrong, how much more that of a foetus? Aside from the above, imagine the case of the 1st been SS ad got terminated, the second one also SS and terminated... Try to comprehend such trauma
Nairaland has decided to change interface colour the eay Emefiele decided to change the colour of Naira notes... This new multi-coloured Nairaland looks more like 2go than a serious forum.
Exactly what the devil makes you to believe... He makes you to believed he has given you the highest powers in the world whereas, beside some; you are just a learner.
Mrlance15: My mum is unemployed, thanks to my deadbeat dad, I'm a middle child in my family, the siblings before me aren't doing well, and the two after me are just secondary school kids, my dad never invested in us educationally and in other relevant areas he's obligated to perform, infact he bailed on us and start living on his own, he even stopped financing my education I had to drop out, so I'm a uni drop out rn, he believes taking care of your children is not his responsibility and he doesn't owe us anything, that after secondary school he has tried and doesn't owe you university or anything, he always tell us that helping us isn't his obligation that his little contribution which is primary school education is mercy enough, he made it clear we won't inherit anything from him that we should go and hustle on our own, he actually loved his first kids more, he gave them everything and neglected me and my siblings, he always lament on how he prefers his first wife to my mum and we're liabilities, this is because his first children are well to do and they send him money from time to time with a stern warning that he shouldn't feed us with the money they sent, and they told him that if he wants to keep recieving the money he should alienate himself from us (me and my siblings) so he did that, my dad is a terrible person, everything I have said is just the tip of an iceberg but I won't go into everything in detail. My problem is everything fell on me due to my dad alienating us and my mum being unemployed, among my siblings I'm the only one doing well financially, it's not enough but I make average money from time to time with freelancing. Feeding is on me, rent, hospital bills, my mum is indepted to many people and I work tirelessly to clear her dept gradually, this made me take loans and all, now I'm in my 20s and I haven't done anything with my life, I have no savings, no car, nothing, because everything I make goes into family upkeep, everything is on me, even my older brother rely on me for recharge card, that's how bad it is, so I'm the only one carrying everything, my problem now is since family issues won't let me invest in myself, will I be in this endless circle of redundancy and turn out to be a failure later in life? Because at my age I should have savings or move forward in life, I'm always broke because any money I get goes into family problem, I don't do anything for myself and I'm close to 30.
Get some your siblings to start freelancing like you
Zeal0000007: I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me. On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences
Pls no matter the love, for the sake of the love you'll have for your unborn kids.... Do not try it!!!