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Observation: Why is ut that it is mostly only men that get to spray money? #Selah

The way he kept Messi in his pockets when they played against Pep's Barca team... Ferdinand, dey play u hear

Surely not in Nigeria

What about her family... Can't anyone help her and place her in rehab rather than making a news out of it and still watch her waste away!!!

Consequence of choices she made is hitting her really hard!!!

NaijaSideHustle:
Thanks. What percentage do you think it’s fair cause we pay him for his services rendered.

The real sales preparation is not on yet.

5%... At most is 7%

Every woman, especially wives should endeavour to be financially empowered!!!

NaijaSideHustle:
Hi, good day.

Straight to the point. Gracefully, there’s a property we are privileged to sell, I called my Barr to check the verification process and all of that.

The Barr says he will charge 10% of the Value of the land. Is that fair? For just preparing a few documents?

I don’t think that’s a good deal. Pls advice to help make informed decision.

You should have bergained with him before enploying his services... If that was what you had both agreed upon. Then you have to fulfil it even though ut us not fair

LeeSmart:
Lets roll back in the day our wicked senior experience in our respective secondary schools.

Barewa college zaria, i will never 4get senior raymond (not real name) that guy made me pass through hell, my offence is that there can never be two raymond in barewa college. That i should look 4 a means nd change my name.

It got 2 the point dat i told my parent that i am not resuming school the next term, even wen i the sleep i go the dream say that particular senior the chase me 4 dream oo. My eyes see shege 4 daht senior hand.

Several years letter we met nd he told me about his life struggles nd i had to talk my dad abt getting him a job. His now working with the nigeria intelligence agency (NIA).

Share ur experience guys.
Mynd44, nlfpmod

Sacred Heart College, Ibadan... Dominic Mudabai (GUS past winner), that guy was fear impersonified!!! He dared not shout 'Last Man' and your village people curse you to be the last person to get to him - Sory was your case
He showed us pepper like Buhari and petrified everyone like DSS.
Even teachers were weary of him despite been a Senior prefect. Man has become gentle and now a lovey dovey family man.

His successor was Williams the Labour prefect, I personally dreaded him cos I just could not comprehend how a dude that was a class ahead of me could be feared so much by my mates. That guy showed us shege pro max

Las las! Boarding school like the ones of those days, are where saddists get the root to do exploits

GoWithGood:
This is not intended to blow my trumpet but to share with others.

I am an applicant who is struggling to survive. Like living below a dollar/day currently.

So I was job hunting today, part of the movement which i used short cut to get access to another place and save cost of transport. I was passing a lonely street when I came across a heavily pregnant woman sitting down all alone by the road side, eating something from black nylon. I thought she was a usual beggar but to my surprise, I walked pass the woman and she didn't approach me for anything. I had to go back to ask her some few questions.

So she explained she got impregnated by a man who later denied the pregnancy and abandoned her. That she lives in an uncompleted building but the owner of the building is not in approval. So she goes in to find a place to sleep late at night and comes out as early as 4:30am. If fact her condition was just too horrible that I couldnt ask her for more.

The 5k in my pocket was the payment I received from a cleaning services I did.

As her condition really touched me, I said to God, this woman needs help as I need help too and I can't pass her without helping her even though it is my last money. As I help her, let my helpers locate me too. I handed over the 5k for her, prayed a short prayer for and left.

I hope she finds who will change her condition for good especially with the pregnancy. I'm sure she does not even attend antenatal care.

I never doubted God for once and I have a strong feeling that God is about to help me and help that woman too, for jobs and including unmerited financial favors.

Cheers to you all for reading through it.

Although, I doubt your story. But if it is true, may God bless your kind heart.

Pardon me, I don't just trust new accounts on Nairaland.

Let me know your location... You might just get a job right here, right now...

What stupidity can cost a man...

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love. However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter. Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most. I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life. I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house. She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

My brother, if it is obvious that your new wife is been unreasonable, send your wife out!!!

If you are an igbo man, that is your Ada that you are toiling with... If you are yoruba, just know that you joking with the love and life of your akobi!!!

Well, just in case you're not a tribal person... I guess you know your daughter is uour firstfruit that should be the apple of eyes

Don't let your daughter grow up resenting you...

etrange:
A picture taken at moment in time from a certain angle doesn't tell the whole story. This is obviously a sculpture in the making. But then again, you guys only see what you want to see. Otherwise, you'd have known it's an art exhibition and the kids are taking turns to splash paints on the artwork. You see them lined up with different tools in thier hands. You see the buckets of paints there. But yeah, let's call out sinners.

Leave aside the art of painting by the kids, the sculpture itself is too disgusting for kids to be exposed to

I suspect Nigeria to be part of the 85 countries... I don't just trust the FG of Nigeria.

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

First cancel the wedding biko... Then, let's know how to proceed from there

Victorized:
Hello great nairalanders

I have first class Bsc Biochemistry and intends to apply for Medicine and surgery through Direct entry in any federal university available
My question
1. Does University of port harcourt accept Direct Entry to medicine with Bsc Biochemistry?
2. What are my chances?
3. What other federal universities accept Direct entry to medicine?


Thank you very much.
Awaiting response.

Well, I have another suggestion that differs from yours but I believe will be better for you and your future career. Since you graduated with a first class in microbiology, while not venture into the field of public health by seeking scholarships abroad for M.Sc ?

Thank God for cameras on phones

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I pray they find solace in the lack of loss of lives and may they bounce back better financially

Losing the battle (La liga) to win win the war(Champions league).

Benellah:
Hmm omo😂😂 so today's my first time of travelling to Ibadan alone by myself.

Actually the only state I've ever been to by myself was Osun state (iwo) and that was like four years ago....

And I do travel to kwara state because of course that's where I school ☺️

So I'm done with my four months siwes training and I had to go to the state I.T office to sign my IT letters and log book, I did my I.T in ogbomosho so of course I need to go to ibadan to send my papers.

Nah so my daddy carry me go garage ooo and all what I had on me was #4000 😯so I took bus from ogbomosho straight to ibadan #1,500....it was a very stressful journey because nah so the driver con pack us like Titus for inside vehicle

To cut the story short, we got to ibadan so I dropped at Ojo bus terminal and was parabulating because I don't even know where to board a cab to Iwo road....if I wan enter one cab like this, nah so Dem go tell me say make I go down street nah there I go see cab whey dey go Iwo road....after the 10minute parabulating I finally see the cab whey dey go Iwo road and the man talk say nah #200....

Pheeeeeeeew....we got to Iwo road (journey continues) I went to a bike man and told him I was going to Agodi gate...the cab man said #500😯 I was like wtf #500 keh....nah so the bike man tell me say make I go dooooooown the street, that I go see one bridge nah there I go see bus whey dey go Agodi gate

I trecked for like 10minute parabulating under the bridge 🥺so finally I saw a maruwa whey carry me reach Agodi gate for #100 and the man told me that I will have to board a bike that will take me to the ITF office

I boarded a bike and the man said nah #200 pheeeww without negotiating it I don climb bike coz my head sef don dey boil...omo today's sun no be my mate ooo

We got to the ITF office, I queued...I stamped my papers blablabla and finally I left the ITF office ☺️

I trecked again for like 10minute till I reached the Express, I stopped a bike man that I was going to Agodi because I thought I would have to board a bike back to where the maruwa dropped me....the bike man laughed and said I'm already at Agodi, he asked me where I was going and he said before I could see a bus going to Iwo road I will have to walk down the street 🥺I walked for like 20minutes....I crossed alot of express roads full of vehicles and I was doing like tolotolo, I passed through markets blablabla so finally I boarded a bus back to Iwo road(#100)... pheeeww I got to iwo road....omor I think say my sufferness don end ooo🥺🥺🥺nah so I dey go from one bus stop to the other inside Iwo road looking for a bus going to Ojo🥺 I crossed and re crossed the Iwo road under bridge road for up to like four times anyways sha all what I used in Iwo road was nothing less than an hour just because I was looking for a bus or a cab going to Ojo.... finally I went to a woman selling fruits and she told me that I will have to go on top of the bridge before I could see a cab going to Iwo road...omo nah so I take they waka like homeless Mfk oooo

Finally I boarded a cab that took me to Ojo bus terminal (#200) he dropped me at the back of the garage and I trecked for like 5minute because I crossed an express way also😏 finally I got into the bus going to ogbomosho,nah so I take pay #1,500 again ooo and I was already shaking because I haven't taken anything since morning...not even water and it past 1pm already....so I bought a very chilled fanta plastic soft drink (#200) and pheeew the bus started.....

Few hours later we got to ogbomosho, I dropped at Takie and I called my mom that I had nothing on me again that I need money that I will give to the bike man that will carry me from Takie down to our house and she said I should be coming....I got home and my younger brother came downstairs to pay the bike man

I got inside the house and without greeting anybody nah so I take do yakata for ground ooo

Lol! Welcome back safely... The problem, you barely asked pele for direction when it mattered most. I was once like you. Iwo road can frustrate a JJC

You needed not to have gone through all those long journey to get to ITF, Agodi. One cab and one keke ask for 300/400 max would have gotten you there


Not a bad experience

I am sure he had his good reasons

Cosmicwill:
Good evening nairalanders,

I seriously need your advise on this please.

This girl and I have been dating for approximately a year. We were staying apart untill early this year, she left her family friend's house where she was staying and decided to come over to live with me. Her parents don't live within the same state with us but they seem to be in support of our staying together though she did not inform then about the decision until after she had left them to live with me.
We have been living fine, until she lost her job. She is semi educated (secondarian) and in her early 20's. I'm 27. Working and studying. I don't earn that much enough to take care of the both of us.
Now she's out of job. Being a secondarian there are only a few opportunities for her working as an employee. I have a list of jobs I do not want for her which include, working as a sales girl, Pos agent, waitress and teacher. I told her to think of what she would like to do outside the list. Seems that was the first time she would subject her brain to such thinking process. It wasn't easy. I insisted she keeps thinking and she did. She later came up with an idea and it was to work as a cleaner. The reason being that she is experienced in it, Lowkey cleaner she said which am certainly not in support of expect if we can start a company of cleaning business where we would employ people and lease to target customers. I haven't told her my opinion about it yet. I really don't want her to work under someone because she certainly wouldn't earn a good pay considering her educational qualifications. I would have enrolled her for a skill acquisition program but am not financially buoyant enough yet.
She seems to love me alot and I don't want to take that for granted.

Please suggest a low capital business or give an advise that can make things better.

Gather some money, get her a laptop and let her start a career in data entry/master use of Excel or even tech if she can cope with it.

Low income jobs will soon be insufficient for you guys in the future so hello her to develop herself now that you guys can

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.
He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.
I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us(in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well. This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.
I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.
Now, I want to take the right to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.
Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

A woman is mourning her husband and is in grief, and this is what you're thinking about?
Why not take the body for autopsy and let his wife have peace!!!

greatopec:
Good day Nairalanders
I will be 40 on Oct 19 this year and I am scared the kind of life I have always desired may not be
achievable. Let me list these things that worries me so that you can probably advise me or assist me in achieving any of them.
1) By 40 I had wished I will be living in my house with cars in my garage
Current situation- I am a salary earner who eagerly waits for the salary to drop before my family can eat conveniently every month.
2)I love cars and driving. Was thinking of getting a good car for Uber business.
Current situation- I have not been able to gather enough money to buy a car for Uber or personal use.
3)Seeking greener pasture abroad.
Current situation- I have not been able to have enough disposable income to even get a passport to start with in the first place.
4)Self development. I had interest in programming so I decided to learn coding and all that. I started with free code camp and also this thread by iyenimofe on nairaland has been so helpful https://www.nairaland.com/1383359/learn-web-design-live-nairaland/6#17571611
The issue I have progressing is that of enough data subscription to watch more tutorials.
5)Acquisition of at least Masters.
I have a passion for learning and self development but I struggled to have my HND with distinction. Gathering enough funds to start my masters program has been an uphill task.

Little about my background
I am an HND graduate
I have a sister who am responsible for also.
I have a wife and two kids.
I work 8-5weekdays

I am glad you came to the realization of this, but it is better late than never
Solution: Seek for other sources of income maybe online or a tangible side hustle.

What does your wife do for a living?

Also, seek to join co-operative societies where you can dave and later borrow money to buy the car you want for Uber.

Express all these to your wufe as well so that you both can make your goals a family project to strive at.

Above all, no matter what happens, do not impregnate your wife with a baby for now... Cheers sir

Tor mandallah!!! It is well o

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Blessdboy:
Hey there.
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Also, this is not blog/article writing. As it will need to be creative and funny too because finance scripts are usually boring.
Looking forward to working with you.

Which area of finance?

kennybabs1980:
This my neighbour is seriously heartbroken at the moment. He works as a Farm Supervisor in a livestock farm and also do part-time okada riding. His wife is an auxiliary nurse. The woman has been working in a private hospital where she was paid peanut. Last year October, he got his wife a job as a care-giver to an old woman whose four children are living in abroad. The job is paying well but the woman have changed completely. She no longer care about the husband and thier 3 children. She won't come home even on her off-days, have refused to assist her husband financially as she was doing while earning peanut as hospital assistant. This woman now spends her money on the latest phones which she lied were always sent to her by the children of her employer who are abroad. Her husband told me that he found out that his wife now sees another man, a cab driver who she now spends her time and money with. The husband is not ready to report her to her employer for now so that she won'thave problem there since he believed things can still be sorted out. He came to my house after church this afternoon and complained bitterly about his wife, I called the woman on phone to ask for when I can see her, she just told me she already knew what I wanted to say, that I shouldn't believe her husband stories and that she will see me when she has her day off next saturday. What will this man do now, he is not happy about this development at all?

Wait till you hear her side of the story as well...