₦airaland Forum

Mydazz:
I doubt any school will pay 30k to a graduate teacher on the island in 2023,..... not even the smallest of mushroom schools

Cos you've not bn to places like sangotedo, awoyaya,abijo etc

IyaTola:
From DM

If she is on lagos Island, I can get her a better paying job

Ooni:
During a visit to one hospital in Abuja, I met a nurse. The patient I visited simply referred to the nurse as a Northerner, although the nurse looked nothing like so. It was the APC presidential primary day and as the results were being called, the discussion switch to politics. I wanted to know which party they will settle for as northerners, between Muslim -Muslim APC or northern candidate PDP. She seriously but calmly picked offence and nearly issued me a warning never to address her or her idoma people as northerners again as they see it as disregard. It was then I learnt she was an Idoma from Benue and her name was Ada.
She further explained she could speak Ibo and that they've always wanted an Apa state and prefare it in southeast. They would've joined Igala in Kogi state she explained but nearly half of Igalas are Muslims.

This got me worried as a Yoruba because this pattern strongly show among Idoma people I have observed. Since Benue is largely to the East what Kwara is to Southwest, why does Benue always show eagerness in joining the south or east while Kwara are more crazy about North than some core northerners?

Benue governor pulled the state out of northern governors' forum Sometime ago but people from Kwara are trying to convince the Muslims among we Yorubas the need to identify with North.

It is obvious the future of the yoruba race is imperiled if topics like self determination dominate debates in the nearest future.

We have no friends and we need to realise it. Why does Kwara like north while Benue wants south?

That's the result of the complicity in the diversity of Nigeria

DamianDd:
I started dating this girl and up until recently she left me and she didn't even act mature about it, after so many days of giving me unnecessary attitude I asked her to come out let's meet and she said she can't come out because she doesn't feel like and cut the call, called her about two time and I just read the situation and left her alone for good.

I've been doing good for the past two months because I completely cut her out of my life and started my self improvement journey all over again after the relationship drained all my energy from focusing on myself.

Now this Sunday I found myself thinking about her and I went ahead to unblock her and check what's she's up to and the feelings are coming back as guilt heavily on me like I was the one that bleeped up.

I always used to scold this girl alot almost everytime we had an issue but it's not because I liked it it's because anytime I tried to talk normally to her to solve an issue she'll keep gaslighting me like I don't know what I'm saying, giving exclamations like hmm, nawa oo and all that when I'm speaking so it always made me angry that all the things she did it me we never got to talk about it we'll but it was always about her and how I made her angry.

She just sits there and doesn't make an effort to talk when it comes to solving issues, she'll just be silent and sometimes she'll look at me and just throw her face away and it pissed me off that's why I always shouted for her like why in the hell are you acting this way.

She only responded to when I scoud her or treat her like a child that's when she behaves her self that I no longer even talked normally to her when we have issues all I do is go there scold her and bounce out then we keep malice for some days until she calls or I call.

I was fustrated in the relationship honestly but I started the scolding when we first started dating that everything I did always made her angry, every day she'll vex for everything and I'll be apologizing like everything about me is wrong so I got pissed went to meet her and shouted for her since then misbehavior started.

so I'm confused and filled with guilt that was I the one to broke my relationship because honestly as a person I don't even know myself anymore after the relationship that's why I'm trying to work on myself again.

People around there think I'm an abusive partner now, at that time when I scold her she'll always tell our mutual friends and there was time she even recorded me scolding her. Honestly I'm filled with so much regret because all I wanted was peace and logical reasoning then all these

Now after the relationship anytime something I'm not expecting happens my heart's starts beating so fast it's uncomfortable (it think it's anxiety) it developed when this girl started giving me attitude my silly self started panicking. After two months of dating this girl everything changed after our first argument I don't even know, everytime she met me she was frowning from start to end of relationship, she's always rushing home, always has something on her mind, doesn't want to discuss serious issues. It's not even like I was not okay losing her but whenever i thought she wasn't interested she'll come back again it was a rollercoaster or emotions.

I'm not an emotional but the way I got attached to this girl I don't understand. Guys pls help me with advise I need it did I do wrong?

... Move on, you'll not die!
Just let it all go in peace before you'll go back to her and everything would end in pieces!!!

Jb95:
Hi guys, please I need help on how to keep in touch with my Zambian babe.

So I met with this loving girl on a popular chat app, and we hit it off almost instantly like we've known ourselves for a long time. We chatted for weeks and we are always eager to talk to each other.

I like this girl because she is the opposite of the typical naija girl, no asking for money or any such nonsense and although we have not not made our relationship official yet, but we know in our hearts that we have feelings for each other.

Now the problem is that her phone was recently stolen (surpringly, she is not taxing me for a new phone, which would have been the opposite if it was a Nigerian girl, but I still have it in mind to help her get a phone just that am trying to take things one step at a time

For now we only chat using her friends phone, if she visits her friend but I need a way to establish good communication with her as soon as possible. I can't call her with normal call because my airtime just gets sucked for calling international line and the call has not even connected.

So please, how can I make cheap call to Zambia, if you know any means or app I can use it will be very appreciated.

I see myself traveling to Zambia soon and getting a wife from there, it will be a wish come true

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Foolish talks

Blaze14k:
I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.

I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.

I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.

Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you

It is quite a serious matter... The reasons there giving is not strong enough for me.

If you think your lady is worth the stress and war, stand your ground!!!

If she's not worth the wahala, please, he'd to your elders

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pman100:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTot72P1_X0

I see no sense in dating a lady and later pranking her with an engagement proposal in public... Dude was foolish and babe was mumu

Fajeed:
I’m worried about this me and this girl just started dating and she saved my number has God sent I even asked her and she said don’t I like it
I went through her phone and noticed she has no one she is dating only her ex number is on her phone though

And what's wrong with the name?

SUGANIGERIA:
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what's d niche of the channel?

Alright, not a bad move

Let him take responsibility for his foolishness!

I was enjoying the story till it got to the "click to continue part". Ayam nut a clicker!

jaeyking:
Then need to carry club beat u sha

As in, e bad no be small

wittywriter:
Apt

BTW do u mind playing Lichess.?



Wittyness

I prefer playing on a chess board/mat as it enables me to have a good overview of the game.


But let's give it a shot on Lichess all thesame.

Good reward for hardwork

Unrated900:
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Registered KIA picanto manual gear with Ac

Everything working perfect....... bought brand


new......low mileage.....


Price:-1.380m last


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Is it negotiable?

Battlefield2:
This is my true life story
I have been living with a stone in my bladder for years now.....like 12-15years
I just discovered that if I ate anything solid,I found myself not comfortable, series of stomach pain and all,sometimes I find it very hard to pee and sometimes I even pee blood
I have been living with this illness for a while and despite using everything medically and traditionally,it refused to go, so I accept my fate
There was a night this stomach pain started,I was rushed to the hospital where I used 1week, I did scan and I was told my urinary tract was dirty and I have to flush it out,I was put under treatment and I used series of drugs,I was discharged but the sickness still persist
After enough diagnosis,I discovered I have a stone in d kidney and if I don't pee it,it will be disastrous....After series of medications and all,the stone finally left my kidney and straight to the bladder,it stayed there for a while and it was really painful I must say

Last month, I underwent the most painful week of my life trying to pass the stone, the pain,I can't pray for my enemy
To use the toilet,I use a minimum of 20-30mins trying to pee and most times I pee blood
It was a really really painful journey but thank God and drugs, yesterday,I finally peed the stone.....I really thank God for my life,it was not really easy at all
These are some of the pics I managed to take during the journey of peeing out the stone
It used a week at at tip of my penis coming out small small till it finally came out....glory be to God

Glad you're fine now... That sh*t must have been painful and scary to say the least.

He will be fine

Some Nigerians can run down your business to ground zero!!!

IAMU:
Hello everyone please have been trying to get the best method of getting a clipper blade sharpen
only method I know is the stone(but it has done more damage to my fingers) so I had to stop

Please any other method you know

There are people who do that with a machine designed for sharpening clippers. Get yours across to them

Youarewelcome:
How many chess players have you won ?

Fix a day and time for a game if you're in lagos and on the island.

Davido is not available

Damian911:
A guy approached me yesterday and introduced himself and pointed to the direction of few guys saying they're money doublers and I should give it a try that I won't regret it blah blah blah. Well, I already knew they were scammers but decided to play along. I started with #500 and they did their stupid abracadabra and gave me 5k that I won I pretended I was surprised and happy and told them I'll be back and getting I wanted to take all my savings but decided to take a part of it totalling #200k. I decided to play a fast one on them using psychology


Immediately I got there I told them I'm with 200k and whispered into their ears "Shh, you see this money I brought is nothing if you can double it for me, the company I work for kept #20m with me and I have access to my Dad's account and he's got #2.5m so if you double it for me I'll give you guys #20.5m and you double it we share the proceeds" They encouraged me to and quickly doubled the #200k to #500k. I pretended to be even more astonished and promised to be back with #20.5m. They encouraged me saying its my my opportunity of making it in life and utilize it well! Took the #500k and almost screamed "I Will Be Back"




Since I never go and the mugus have been calling me. I kukuma break make I have peace! They no know say if scamming was food chain I'll be the apex predator! They met the apex predator!

I am still thinking if what to comment... You tried!!!

Do children still have bow legs?

Blackhacker:
Good morning everyone I thought it was too much sex so I stop having sex but the kind of pain I wake up to in my back is becoming unbearable to be sincere, I have gone to a well-known pharmacy and they prescribe me some drugs which I used and the pain went away and came back and the amount of back pain I have brought is just what I can't say, mind you I work from home sitting over 6hours every day but for the last couple of months stop working just to observe my back and I can't lie the pain this morning is just unbearable seriously I need. This pain only occurs mostly in the morning and sometimes might be there all day but it started anytime I wake up.

Your mattress is the culprit here. It is too soft!
When you sleep on a soft mattress, a portion of it depresses and that makes your spinal get arched during your long hours sleep.

jawalis:
I’m hoping this month for camping. But I wish I could redeploy back to ilorin base on health condition.

That means you can't work for now

raphemmanuel:
Good morning fellow nairalanders,
Hope you all are having a wonderful day.
I don't really understand what I saw on my Payoneer dashboard when I login.

I kept some funds on my Payoneer account, only to noticed that Payoneer deducted approximately $30 from my account as Annual Account Fee

Abeg which one is annual account fee again. This same Payoneer has always been removing some percentage from each fund I received.
I don't have any Payoneer Debit card attached to this account, why will the deduct such huge amount of money in the name of annual account fee.

Who have experienced this before, does it really happen and am ignorant of it.
I have been using this Payoneer account since 2018 and I have not experience such.
Why were the doing this, or was it a new policy that I'm not aware of.

Reach out to their support team