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The life of a thief is an unfortunate one... but why are they naked?

Wahala part 3

lavylilly:
From DM

visit a professional counselor... It will cost you money but worths it at the long run

Fkj2021:
I have a friend whose dad Promised not to leave alcohol till he dies.

Short story:

The man was diagnosed of diabetes and high blood pressure. His children made sure they treated him even when they are just coming up in life. Everytime, immediately the man takes his medication, he goes out to drink alcohol which neutralises the medication.

The issue got worst and he relocated to the village. Before he went to the village, the man became very weak, has amnesia and passes his faeces on his body.

The children became tired because the man doesn't want to listen to them. It is anytime he drinks that he wees on his body but if he doesn't drink, he is normal although not strong.

The children became tired and are planning on letting him be. Whenever the man is taken to the hospital, immediately he comes back, he takes alcohol. All effort to stop him from alcohol have proved abortive.

What do you advice?

Typical case of when you just wanna ve a liability to your kids

HellVictorinho6:



kkins25, MrBrownJay1,money121,etc


i dont know what to do.

What is his qualifications?

She should beg to get freed and sue the yeyebrity afterwards

DarkLover:
This evening my girlfriend went to meet someone without my knowledge, it’s about a deal I know of btw, but she went from work to see the person involved without telling me, when I inquired about whereabouts was she was insinuating that she isn’t a small girl before she later told me where she was.

I got angry on phone and she apologised. I expected her to move from there to her house until she called that I should open my gate. I told right away that I wasn’t informed of her coming and should go back.

Am I too harsh?

You dey try... I reserve my comment

labake1:
How long do I need to wait to start billing a guy after saying "YES" to him?

like 10yrs

Lol... Waiting for updates

DenreleDave:
To all nairalanders that I have offended be it in response to a tribal attack or being the instigator of one, I, with all my whole heart apologize to you all.

Back then, most nairalanders can testify, I use to be a very loving & engage meaningful things on nairaland until Yoruba & Igbo tribal issue started which I unfortunately fell for it. Ever since I have been engaging myself in this conflicts, I have regretted it. I don't know what happened but I know it started online but I have no excuse. I was wrong to have fell for such.

Igbos: I have offended you much more than others because of the online tribal war & superiority between us. You are the main reason I am creating this thread because my greatest offenses are against you mainly due to tribe issues.

Yorubas: I have not offended much in terms of politics but I probably other sections on nairalander that I have erred against you, my apologies.

Other tribes: I apologize to you all be it tribal, political views, business or whatsoever on nairaland.

It will be my greatest undoing if I, having being a beneficiary of igbos, Yorubas & Hausa be engaged in tribal war further more.

On the same nairaland, many igbos (for real: I mean many igbos in reality) have been very good to me, they have helped me without considering the tribal war between the two tribes, those igbos I truly commend them.

My fellow Yorubas have been of great favor to me, so many many many and many more likewise other Nigerians on nairaland.

For this reason, today being 24/July/2023 will be the day I will no more engaged in tribal conflict not engage people with insults on nairaland. Good & helpful people are much on nairaland and as someone who is growing, conflict can't help me.

Ndi Igbos on nairaland: I apologize mostly to you. I assure you that our disagreement only start and ends online but henceforth, I will no longer be indulge in such disgraceful & demeaning acts again.

Igbo Kwenu.... Daalu oooo

Cc: Gazzuzz my Oga, Nedekid very good man, seunmsg you be great man.

Nice...

RoadMozart:
How Safe is this CNG? If there's a collision from behind would it go up in flames?

It is heavier than LPG and very safe provided a quality cylinder is used

His son looks like a gentle young man

Irupetepete:
it is always the way you want to help people that always leave me in awe.

That's the joy of life my brother

No matter what he offense was, no one, man or woman deserves to be treated that way. Not even at that age!!!

ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

presently, what do you do for a living?

Not a bad one... That's the Spirit!!!

That's why i do not make enemies based n political differences

scoobyblogspot:
Hello Nairalanders,

Need your advice. I have known this friend for many years through entertainment, we got so close due to the fact that I am an emcee and he’s an artist. So we always go to shows together and every time I hype him before introducing him, it dazes him. My issue with him in summary is he has issues with woman.
I mentioned to him about the attention I have being getting from this lady, and he said I should ask her out which I did, she agreed and behind me he went for the same girl and asked to take her out that if it got late they could lounge, she was shocked and turn down his offer and told me what my friend had said. I challenged him and he denied it. We didn’t talk for about two year then one day he called me to apologize, I forgive him. Again we went to the club and a lady got attraction to me we exchanged numbers.. only for him go behind me while I was dancing and flexing and whisper to her that she should ignore me that I am stingy, she told me this before him and I laughed at it like it was a joke so when we left the venue I fought with him and we never spoke for like 5months.
He called again to apologize, during his return I was having issues with my gf.. in fact we broke up and he said since myself and my ex are no longer together that he can be f*CKn* her then… I was angry and he said it was just a joke. He knows all my friends and always wants to come around, he lies a lot and loves drinking and talks only talks about P***sY nothing else. Anything under skirt is his nick name. Recently, he came to my place , we went out and another chick that I was ignoring but have intention during a hang out, he went behind told one of the local boys to link him up with her and got their number. He loves going out to were bitches can be found.

Guys, how do I get this mother fucker out of my life as his energy is evening causing a lot of download for me and I don’t want him around and I don’t like his kind of live and influence but he will always come since he knows my friends? His married, I know nothing about his wife even though I know her then while they were dating before they married and he moved but still comes around.

Learn to say NO to some people

Beautiful to say the least

Another foolish Nigerian soiling the name of hard working honest Nigerians abroad

emmynbolton:
what type of accommodation

Pls DM

A self con or 2 bedroom that's not too expensive.


Need it for my workers

Kemadealadire:
Is this for free or it's going to be paid for??

It all depends on the terms we get to reach

emmynbolton:
A Room Selfcontain Apartment. Total Package #480K, #400K/yr

Location: lekki - Ajah,

by ilaje bus stop Mobile road.

Contact: 08054308757

do you have something closer to lekki... Freedom way axis to be precise

manoflove22:
she was using a botton-phone before buying a smartphone recently, i don't know who bought the phone but i guess it might be her brother cos he get money


But few days to the acquiring of the smartphone she stops calling,i called her several time she won't pick, when she eventually picked, she would tells me she will call back which she won't.


This issues continues for many days now and since 5 days now she hasn't called me nor me calling her too.


Note, we have never go a day without calling before she bought the phone

This is a girl that everything i scare her of breakup when she did something wrong, she will reaffirm that she won't leave me o,now u leave because of a smartphone someone bought for u

I just had to believe the popular saying that 'Nigerian girl are useless, all of them'

So, because you feel someone broke your hrt, all Nigerian girls are now useless!!!?

Weldone sir!

SwitNovemba:
Don't you think what she did may have an effect on how much you trust her??

nothing affects my trust for people till the day I add one plus two in my head and make a decision not to trust them any longer

SwitNovemba:
Would you still trust her the same??

Time will tell on that.

For Me as a person, trusting someone is a choice... It is not by what anyone does or does not do. Neither is it about what anyone says about the person.

It is not even about what the person tells me about who they are.

SwitNovemba:
What do you think of the whole thing though??

What would you have done if you were in my shoes??

I would continue with the relationship since it is still a boyfriend/girlfrund thing.

Seems no one can be trusted when it comes to greed and lust for money any longer

This is a classic case of; When a jobless gurl jams a jobless guy

SwitNovemba:
I am really hurting as I type this and would appreciate some help. I have a girlfriend that I really love and willing to do anything for, she was the best thing that ever happened to me and we really love each other so much. I never went through her phone as I trusted her, but then something happened and I was curious, she was lying on my chest yesterday night and was texting someone till I fell asleep, we were both on our phones at the moment though, and then today I checked through her chats with that same person she was texting yesterday night, and I found photos of her that she sent me, semi n*des picture of her n*vel, and one she took when she was in shower, though it wasn't a full n*de pictures as they were cropped to only showed her abd*men and n*vel, plus photos of gifts I sent her, my clothes that I gave her myself, she wore them, snapped pics and sent it to him.
I confronted her and she told me he was just a friend and nothing else between them. That she did it because he always taunted her that she is a kiddo, and she only wanted to prove him wrong.

I've never dealt with something like this and I don't really know what to do, she has agreed that what she did what very unselfish of her and she put our relationship at risk, I am willing to forgive her and work our way to healing and making the relationship better. Any ideas on how we can do both recover together would be really appreciated.

There is no issue here yet... You're still safe till proven otherwise.

Coman give us an update 3 months from now

Danfederal:
Good day comrades and experts in the house.
Happy Sunday.

I thought it nice if we can talk about and discuss other cars' reliability and efficiency.
Since Nigerians are kinda of stereotyped with almighty Toyota and Honda brands, but I want to believe that there are other brands too that are as reliable as the once mentioned above.

Ford Focus is my focus on this thread,

Personally I don't own one, but I've driven one and I can say I love the feel of it.


Now, to you, my question is, has any one used it (any model year)?
What can you say about reliability?
What can you say about maintenance and cost?
Part replacement?
Availability of good mechanics?
At the end, will it worth it buying the Ford Focus


Your testimony and sharing your experience miight be helping someone choose right when buying a car.

I have not, but I know someone who has.... That car us very durable, fuel economical and rugged!!!

It is a good buy anytime any day... The guy travelled to many cities in Nigeria with that car before fortune elevated him