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America's past atrocities is too numerous to ponder upon

16 is better but that is still too low... a 16 year old is still a lil child

Bambam321:
number that we can contact

0.7.0.6.8.8.0.1.4.2.7

Karen2024:
Lately my boyfriend was ejected from his apartment because he wasn't able to pay his rents. He was sacked from his work so I have been feeding him too.

Is it not better he move in? I just want to sample your opinions.

There's no problem with that... But, it might cause issues in the future

When he eventually dies, no one will show up at his funeral cos they will just conclude it must be another prank

Quality20:
After my visit to Sokoto state, I discovered that girls around there especially the indigenous ones don't do all these indiscriminate dating our girls here in the south do. There their girls like to marry as virgins which is one of the reasons they are careful with men before marriage and consequently avoid indiscriminate dating. I think another reason may have to do with the very low westernization over there

Well, that is the part of sokoto that you stayed...

Bambam321:
what are the details of your connect , i have a female that is interested .

Family of 4, 2 lil daughters of 4 and 5...

Location is on lagos island

Sheedymadu1:
A man marry his first wife Traditionally and later marry his 2nd wife through Court .
Who is his legal wife?

The second wife is the legal wife, while the first wife is the customary wife

They need to be in mode masks

JapaToDNext:
.abeg make Una answer me na

download myMTN app

More yahoo boys and crooks are getting bank jobs these days...

Girlee:
😩 I reside in Edo state, Benin city

mikkyletty @ gmail .com. is my email kindly reachout

This is a real story of a will to survive... wow!

Haynnie:
Who are you staking your money on?

For me, man city is a formidable club but I have doubts they would finish as champions. What are your opinions on today's match?

I pray and hope they do... At this point, they deserve it more than inter!

I believe, they'll get the job done.

Dreadlock69:
There’s this girl have been with for a while . My friend told her to bring a girl for him but they didn’t vibe well. The girl she brought for my friend and i get along well.
So she wanted to bring her friend to my place but I disagreed saying my friend is not around and again they don’t talk again.
So she came around i told her if her friend had come where will she sleep , “ i stay in a rented apartment away from school “ ,Will she sleep on the floor.
Then she said she will sleep on the floor while her friend will sleep with me on the bed.
So I thought party won’t be a bad idea if i reason it with the girls.

My conclusion: You and your babe are not yet serious... Happy 'partying'

Girlee:
Thanks for wanting to help...
I appreciate that. I feel a lot better now! I guess I only needed one good comment to enable me see hope again.

Glad you feel better, I really wish I could irrespective of the thoughts and mind of some reprobate minds up there in the comment session.

Let's do this, give me the access to speak with your parents. I know the owner of Unival institute in Benin city who is a top shot at the psychiatrist hospital in benin.

We haven't been in contact in a long while and I will see if I can get through to him to meet with you and confirm your stories.

If you're parents will be willing, he can offer you a job or I see what weights to throw around to help you.

But first, I need the consents of your parents

oxiide22:
what about house boy? I am interested.

Na! Wifey wouldn't want that

Escapist:
Why prepare for another jamb when she only needs to write a post UME at the moment?

Cos I can't help her with securing admission this year any longer as I do not have influence in the school she chose.

If she would be willing to be patient and write another jamb, we will have the option to choose from d few schools where I can throw my weights in for her for either school of nursing or a university where I know people.

Secondly, she needs to get a job so as to be able to take care of hereself in school as she will need to support herself financially.

Evolutionlove:
Op one Customer don show.

More to Come. Them don hear 18 Years Old. Their Mustache don Stand

Go check your DM. Some of them will be shy to reach out to you on here.

Smile... You need help!

When you feel and think everyone online has a perverted mind, that in itself is a big problem brother

Girlee:
😩 I reside in Edo state, Benin city

ooops

Vinnie2000:
Who is your Favourite/Best Freekick Taker?


*David Beckham
*Thierry Henry
*Ronaldihno
*Juninho Pernambucano
*Alessandro del piero
*Andrea Pirlo
*Wayne Rooney
*Didier Drogba
*Cristiano Ronaldo
*Lionel Messi
*James Ward Prowse
And our own Austin JayJay Okocha.

MINE IS: Ronaldihno, Ward Prowse and Cristiano Ronaldo. 😎

WHAT'S YOURS? 🤔

Nplfmod.

Beckham... His free kick was so sweet it became the brand ads for Sharp TV in those days

Girlee:
I'm just not in the mood so I won't be telling much stories...

Last year, depression almost killed me if not for the saving grace of God.
I wrote jamb, scored 225. Took delta state university's post utme form and scored 68. I wasn't admitted.
As I so much didn't want to stay at home for another year, I called my dad and asked him to send me money for a change of institute, he declined.
He was like "abeg! Wait for another year, I nor get shi shi". Yeah, I know he's not a literate but I expected that he knew the value of education but he doesn't.

I cried my eyes out for months and had to take up a job as a waitress so i could afford this year's jamb reg fee.
I took jamb again and scored 212. All glory to God because I never prepared. I worked from 8am till 10pm and sometimes till 11pm. My boss then even turned me to a dish washer.
Salary was 20k. 20k that my dad can pay me monthly but he was okay with that.

Okay...
I'm broke and jobless now because I want to prepare well for my upcoming Uniben's post utme.
I asked him for just 2,500 to buy past question but this was his reply:
"2,500 for wetin? I nor get oo. E be like you go relax and try again next year or just wait make you mature then you marry".

I shouted at him until I lost my voice, I cried and I'm like God why??

Don't feel bad about all these... This stage of your life, it will seem as though if you don't pass jamb n gain admission life is over! I understand that.

If you reside in lagos, let me know... let's start by sorting d issue of job now, then school by preparing for another jamb, then get you to be working while schooling to support yourself...

This is wha portable calls Wahala! Wahala!! Wahala!!!

pachigo001:
I have been dating this girl for a year now and we planned getting married this year but my problem is her brother always tell her not to marry me because Im not from the same tribe with her.

The thing is really affecting our relationship her brother is trying everything to manipulate her into hating me and the thing is affecting my mental health we love ourselves and she is the woman I need.

just need an advise from you guys if I should go ahead or end the relationship for good

Have you tried speaking to her brother about it to know his reasons and opinion?

Forrkke:
Now, members of the family have been calling my cousin to call her all sorts of name. They said if anything happens to the guy, she’ll be held responsible for it.


My question is,

How can you lie against someone, more so your own cousin without any remorse?

How come it’s after 8 years that you’re feeling guilty and depressed for what happened?

I’m not supporting my cousin; she deserves whatever castigations are coming her way. But is it okay to let this humongous character assassination slide?

The sad thing is nobody is interested in hearing her own side of the story; it’s the guy they believe because he spoke first. I believe my cousin because she told me about this issue back in December last year, before it became known to everybody. She could have easily lied that she was forced or raped just to save her reputation. But she confided in me and said it as it was… that it was her who agreed to it.

From what I know, this guy has been a failure and has disappointed his parents many times; he’s just playing some antics and isn’t depressed. He’s using this story to draw sympathy because no one in the family likes him due to his waywardness.

Someone they said was depressed was heard on the phone laughing to a skit when my cousin called one of her aunts explaining. The boy was there but didn’t know the aunt was on phone with my cousin. Also, my cousin doesn’t have the boy’s number and has not been allowed to speak to him and confront him for all the lies against her.


My cousin has a fiancé, but now her father’s people her saying she’s wicked that after destroying someone’s life, she wants to settle down. They’re asking her what will happen to the guy whose life she has destroyed? This girl hasn’t been herself for weeks now. She has been thrown under the bus, so much that her one elder brother has disowned her.


What do you guys suggest she does going forward?

My cousin and I have always been very close, and I’m like the only person in the family that understands her now, even though I condemn what she fell into years ago.

Someone is suggesting my cousin sue the boy, how’s that feasible? We’re talking about a family member here.
And one thing is certain; this boy will not be able to tell all these lies in the presence of my cousin if confronted.

If every member of the family has abandoned her, the best you can do is to stand by her all the way!!!

Total mismatch...

emmynbolton:
Still available for rent

2bed room flat close to Ajah bus stop.

700k/year 50k agreement
Total package 750k

Service charge is paid monthly

Contact: 08054305757

Post pictures and which area in ajah?

captainzee4life:
My online family.

Help me thank God for his wonderous act upon my life. My eyes saw but I will make it brief.

As a year two university student. I started calling my elder brother to help me with school money and he said, "I should man up and stop disturbing him." I wanted to get angry but I swiftly killed that entitlement mentality because I don't know what his passing through.

Check the previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7426239/elder-brother-doesnt-send-me

In order not to be a burden, I made use of the internet and started learning data entry on YouTube. Before I could say, Jack, I opened an account on UPWORK and started applying for jobs based on data entry. It wasn't easy because no one wanted to give me any job.

Fast forward to last April, I got a 3dollar per hour data entry job from a Philippines. I did it for 3 weeks because it was a short-term project.

I used the money after UPWORK might have removed their share to get a mini apartment around my school environment.

I just parked into it. Money for bed and others hasn't come but I used my Duvet to sleep in my own house for the first time in my life after squatting and borrowing my life in school.

It's a new beginning for me. I am so happy I could work and pay for something like this without disturbing anyone.

I am documenting my experience. One day success will shine on me and I will use this as a reverence point to thank God.

I for upload pictures but shame dey catch me to post only duvet and plate. God thank you for this new phase of my life.

Sir. Nlfpmod

Nice one my brother... This is a good humble beginning and I pray you get better paying gigs soon.

#KeepGrinding

donwily:
Good day my good people of this Forum.
Please, I need your help on how to recover my money from a travel agent who collected my money for a visa application but didn't deliver.
This guy collected my N600k as part payment for an employment visa to Dublin since 5th of October last year.
The agreement was that the visa would be out within 8 weeks or money refunded. I waited and this guy kept posting me till March this year when I decided to renew my passport so that I could use it for another application. It was after much pressure that he sent the old passport to me so that I could use it for the renewal as required.

Since then, he refused to pay back my money.
Meanwhile, we use to live in the same area here in Ogun state before he relocated to Ondo state to contest for a senatorial election which he later lost.

There's no single evidence that he made any application in the first place. I sensed he just collected money from us and used it to run his election project.
His number has not been going on normal voice call. It only goes on WhatsApp but he cannot pick and when I send him a message, he would read but no responses.
I borrowed this money with high interest and I have been struggling to pay back but it's not really easy on me.

I explained everything to this guy and even asked him to pay me half of the money now and pay up later but he is just being heartless and wicked.

Aside the 600k, I spent N45k on police clearance and other expenses on Medicals, etc.
I forgot to remove 100 dollars note I put in my passport before I gave it to him and the money is gone as he claimed he didn't see it. He stagnated me for 5 months with vain hope. He has caused me a lot of pains but I have counted them all asbmy losses, let him just pay me my N600k that I gave him.

A friend had suggested I report him to a shrine in their village but I don't want to go that way but the way he is behaving, he might push me into it.
Please, I'm sorry for the long write-up, I need help please. Thank you.

First get a lawyer to petition EFCC on the matter, then leave the rest to God.

Preciousgirl:
Yes, I am half Ghana too

Oh! I see