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Beautiful family...he looks exactly like his father

Changing your diet will probably be the best thing to do, plus it'll improve your health as a result.

Sad story. May God console his family

If you haven’t already, cut nuts, sugar, dairy and wheat from your diet for a couple of months. If it helps, you can then add them back individually until you find what’s irritating your skin.

Rip

99% of the people in your life are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves; they literally do not need you. But you need you, so you do you first, everyone else gets your leftovers IF you choose to share with them.

Some girls are lucky in this world

To her, YOU are her dad, not him after 8 years of abandonment.
If he abandoned her for that long, it seems likely that he will again.  I would strongly recommend going through the courts to have visitation and child support established.

As to the emotional piece that you are dealing with, usually a step parent has to know that they don't replace a birth parent. Here, you have to know that he does not replace you. He has been absent her entire life that's a significant absence, and one that was his choice. You, on the other hand, have been there at least since she was 18 months old which means she almost can't remember a time without you. If you have a decent relationship with your stepdaughter, her having her bio dad in her life won't change that.

Stand up for yourself. As your child grows, she will begin to see you in the same way your wife does and she will have no respect for you. Tell the bitch to STFU. Don't take that shit.

Fake

Don't buy before trying.

I have always wanted to see this happen

Think more positively.
Manage my money better. ( don't spend my money on crap I don't need) Eat healthier.
Drink more water.
Get more active again.

Too bad

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Congratulations More years to celebrate

A good time to discuss this would have been before you got married, but it's time to put your cards on the table. Tell him you definitely want children. If he's adamant that he doesn't, then you are at a fundamental incompatibility in your marriage and it's time to end it. Better NOW than later.

Maybe it wasnt your child.

NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING,LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OFF IT

Your wife is very stupid. It clearly shows that she doesn't love that her niece but rather treats her like a maid. You did no wrong in buying clothes for the child. If you can do same for your children, why not for a child you takes as your own?

Husband

You need to get into anger management and therapy. Honestly your marriage may be broken beyond repair.

Regardless of whether your wife will seek to end the marriage or not, you need to work in your issues.

Lol

Ask God for forgiveness then you open up for your brother so that you can be free indeed

I just pray he gets the justice he deserves

Three kings of orient

Only a fool would give a cheater another chance

Add warm water and vinegar (apple cider or white vinegar are both suitable) to a bucket and soak your feet for 15-20 minutes.

B

This is clearly causing you a lot of stress. I think you should end it for your own sake.

My dad