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oxx4:
Still Available and Location?

it's been sold

YoungDaNaval:
Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.

Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise

miss the man's name and ur sister name.

GeneralDae:
Yes you are.

when I had been kidnapped?. U say I am save!!

The same refinery government no fit build na hem they go scatter.

GeneralDae:
That's impossible. If employment is 60% you won't even be safe enough to type this from where you are in Nigeria.
Nowhere in the world is unemployment even 50%. 60% would mean most people starve to death.

are you we are safe like this?.

This people sef na wah. Meanwhile if u do a proper analysis you will discover that unemployment rate would be 60% .

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

this life no balance. U want to be sleeping with her every day or what is ur plan?. 1 round 2 times in a week is OK nah. Have u even try to know if ur size of gbola is too big for her?.
Control ur urge for sex toomuch of everything is bad.
As for refusal to play with u, its because she knows that from there na fork go enter ur mind.

Check if ur gbola is too big. No be everybody like big one. And secondly she may had fall out of love with u.

Just 12 people!!! They no gree release money the 12 of them want share am to their self alone.

horsepower102:
Number of kidnap victims per State from July 2022 to June 2023

this ur statistic should be reviewed because abia cannot get 3 were 8 where kidnapped 2 weeks ago.

Excell2:
Hey folks, I'm currently stuck in a job decision-making dilemma, kindly advise me.
I applied and got a job with Alphamed Supply ltd in Abuja, however, they are offering me 80k for a start with no benefits, they are promising an upward review with other benefits when i get confirmed after a 6month probation.
But with the current hike in transport fares, and also the distance from my house to the job location, I'd be spending more than 50% of the 80k on transport and lunch alone every month. I'm afraid it would be hard for me survive with this pay for a whole 6months. I'm also not putting trust in them to promote me after 6months because I've worked for companies in the past who promised same but it was all lies.
So I was thinking it would be better off for me to continue with my personal hustle that pays me similar amount (or slightly higher) monthly with ease and convenience, but I'm also scared that i may be throwing away a good opportunity peradventure this company turns out to be a good company that would reward in the long run.
What do you advise? Can anyone attest if this company is a good company to work for?
I'll be waiting for your urgent replies.

if that company has being in existence for more then 3 years, and the are starting u with 80k. It means after ur confirmation they can't go beyond adding 40k.
Side hustle to me is better if it is legitimate.

The only thing I see here is the quality of the uniform 32 years ago.

160m can lift 320 Lagosian from adject poverty. Instead he prefers to buy watch. Who care if they die, as long as my watch is working.

I chop life everyday, the only thing I reduce by sixty percent, na hotel.

ManirBK:
World cup money

A very big thank you to the Qarari government America and the western world na only mouth action you dey disburse

with the kind of money in this country we should of this kind of help.

Even the fish dey vex for why it should be sold for that exorbitant amount.

bestman09:
You don't need to borrow any money. Rent out the house for the normal 180k. Tell the tenants that they will be parking in in a months time after the renovations and use their money to buy the tank and other renovations.

do u know how much other people pay around that area?. If u increase ur rent nobody will take the house at the end of the day.

Versitee:
Good evening all.

Please my husband wants to covert some of the rooms in our hose to self con and rent it out.

We have just 1 tank of 3k litres. Bringing in tenants means we have to buy another tank but we don't have enough money for the renovations and the extra tank.

We either renovate, and rent out without connecting water. Tenants will have to fetch using the backyard tap. In that case rent will be 120.

Or we get a loan and buy a tank and connect. Then rent will be 180k.


What do we do?

N/B. my husband wants to collect the rent monthly and not yearly.

you people can manage the tank all u need do is to always pump the water.

edlion57:
They are right ,u can only hide ur output cables not the input cables going to the meter,their fear is that u might tap/bypass the power/supply before it gets to the meter.

why not install the meter at the pole where the light is connected from?.

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

everybody come let's clap for his sister

Toktee:
Have a godly home and an understanding woman who loves you dearly and not all this olosho/parasites that are all over naira land.


Then you have peace.


Be focus on achieving your goals.


That's all.

without food u can't get love in the house. Even as man you should be worried if u are been loved without food at home for ur wife and kids.

Babe1994:
Hi

I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



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I don't understand the divorce part?. Where is the divorce coming from when he has not marry u?.
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FG won't do anything after loosing 17 life but are comfortable to tell us that ECOWAS and EU have ask them to send sAmry to fight a battle wah no concern them.

Flora2Sweet:
Tourist no dey work na🤣🤣 you came to tour and go back to ur country... think well ooo

which kind tourism go last for 5 whole years?.

Sharpsharp00123:
u are d shameless ones who see others as criminals n see your own as angels

U want us to believe obi is an angel but tinubu is a criminal abi?

Na hard craze dey hook u

if obi is not a Saint let anybody come up with any dirty and shaddy character of him. Till then he still remain a Saint where people like Tinubu are.
For the record I'm not an Igbo man or any where near South South.

iwaeda:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-female-soldier-guns-down-captain-in-adamawa/

imposing curfew because of breaking into foof warehouse meanwhile insecurity that needed attention is not giving such drastic measures. My country! My country.

Imagine even farmers are now advising Tinubu.

Sonnetoshodi:
Hello everyone.

I've been celibate for 10 months. Till I had sex couple days ago.

Before that time, I saw my self as God's favorite.

But now I just feel like God and I had a quarrel.
It hurts so bad, cause it's now like I don't know how to go to him.

A week now I've not said my night or morning prayers.

Has God left me? Can we still be close?
Have I don't something unpardonable.

you are still not a good Christian, if not u will not limit the power of God forgiveness.

Icrave4u:
YOU WANT TO SURVIVE IN LAGOS: 17 Things you must not do.

1. On a bus, When you sit by the window. Never operate your phone, It will be snatched from your hand. This is a quintessential occurence in some surbuban parts of Lagos such as Agege and Mushin. In fact, anywhere in Lagos.

2. Whenever someone greets you on the road, Do not answer him or her especially when he approaches you from behind.

3. If you see people fighting, Mind your business!!. I repeat MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!

4. You must learn how to argue with a bus conductor, when he tries cheating you.
And please whenever you do. Please don't use Standard English. You must have had a good knowledge of Pidgin before you come to Lagos. If not I can teach you. 🤣

5. Walk with a known Nigerian, on the first weeks of your stay in Lagos. He'll show you the ropes or else you go suffer.

6. Whenever you're walking in a deserted area in Lagos. Walk like a gangster, not like a responsible person. If you do, Miscreants will feel you're defensive and wouldn't come close to you. Street sense ✌🤣

7. Anything you did not find on your head, Please don't pick it. (You understand what I mean).

8. When you're crossing the road. Turn into a Ronaldo. Cars come in massive droves. They won't hit you but you must learn how to dribble them. 🤣

9. When you want to buy soft drinks, Buy soft drinks from people hawking in the traffic. It is believed that the drinks taste sweeter than the ones bought from people in shops😅. Just a belief!!

10. When you see a large number of people running, don't wait or ask questions. Just run with them. RUN RUN RUN!!! Ask when it is safe!! Run o🤣

11. Never leave Lagos without taking a ride on Third Mainland Bridge. It is a sin😅

12. Don't dance to any music you hear, never stare or laugh at people. Don't speak to anyone in the bus until they speak to you first.

13. Whenever you walk in a crowded area, hold your phone firmly in your hand, not in your bag or pocket or else Sope oti lo.

14. Whenever you want to ask for Directions, say this. "Sorry, Please, Excuse me...then ask your question". It is compulsory to say all of them. Don't omit any. Everybody is angry in Nigeria.😂

15. It's often said that the number of people who are mentally normal in Lagos aren't up to 5. In essence, If a Lagosian teases you, don't take him serious. Just be cool to prevent issues. We're mád in this Lagos!!. I am the only nórmal person in my area.

16. There's one popular "Den of scámmers" in Lagos called Computer Village. It is the most popular place for buying and repairing electronic devices. But please and please open your eyes very well before you buy fufu package in a phone case of buy a swapped electronics.😁

17. And lastly LAGOS is a comedy centre, you will love the drama you will be seeing around.

Lagos, Its mix of tradition and modernity, combined with its rich culture and entrepreneurial spirit, makes it an exciting and attractive destination for people from all over the world. Lagos is very very fun and sweet once you understand the system. It's not a bad place to be, it's just a place to be SMART and WISE!!
EKO ILE OGBON!

this is an abnormal way to live..

Fugazy2023:
Ecowas under the leadership of president Bola Ahmed Tinubu must ensure that we invade Niger republic and restore democracy. That rubbish coup must not be allowed to stand.
Bad things happen when good people refuse to act. We let it slide when Mali, Burkina faso and Guinea juntas took power illegally and this has emboldened Niger republic to do so. If nothing is done, the madness will continue to spread across the African continent because other country military coupist would be emboldened too and before we know it, Africa will be taken back to the dark days of military rule.
All this children of today on SM don't know what it means to have military ruling a country.
All this rubbish you are spitting on SM insulting PBAT would not be tolerated as most of you would have either be in jail or killed via firing squad.
Niger republic coup MUST end asap and the legitimate government elected by the people be brought back to power.
No going back..... If those coupist don't end the madness, many of them will be packed in body bags while others would be thrown in jail after facing the international criminal court.

PBAT must not back down no matter what.

see ogogoro talk. Even if the poor can not talk during military regime but they still have food to eat. Now they can talk with an empty stomach and they are still not listened to. Which one u think is better.