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Conner44:
How much oil was discovered? Is it in commercial quantity?

That’s the main koko . . .

Not that they saw just one bucket of oil 20,000 feet below the ground and started shouting that they have discovered oil

Clowns

at least you can't know this better than the people who will be spending money to drill it.

Urheadmaster:


What a misleading information.

Why not the main Buhari.

Why the innocent Ilorin-based Muslim Cleric, also known as Mohammadu Buhari

maybe na mistake

senatordave1:
Tinubu will win imo west

no be only imo West nah Imo North Central.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

if all you said is correct, I will advise you to sent even 150k to remove it. This kind of girl will poison you in no time.

The plantain sef too mature.

Kobonaire234:
I do, and it is because we have to 'help poor Nigerians'

I also know that is what you are going to tell me

And in return, the problem with subsidy is when the cost of producing one liter of fuel rises, so does the subsidy cost...which in turn eats a large chunk of our budget.

That leads us to taking more loans.

The problem is, you want cheap fuel. You don't want it otherwise.


Either we pay full market price of fuel, or we pay it at world bank and imf hq. At their terms. You won't want that.

you see that you don't even know why fuel is been subsidies Nigeria.
If I begin to check more with you it might even get to where I will discover you don't even buy fuel.
As a rich Nigerian that you claim to be, tell me what you do. Don't tell me u work with any Company or a u are a politician

Kobonaire234:
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There is Dangote refinery, five other private refineries, plus two NNPC refineries are being renovated.

Plus NNPC spends all its profits making sure fuel is cheap. That is why there is no money for more refineries.



Tor, let us remove the subsidy and use the money for the refinery. But you guys will start shouting poverty!



Because you want cheap fuel...without thinking about the cost that goes into producing it.

Remove subsidy so that you can have enough profit to bring about working refineries...that is how Niger Republic does it.


Yes, because if Dangote refines fuel above N250 and comes to sell it at N40 to people like you, he won't have any profit to keep his refinery running. And it will collapse, and we would be back to importing fuel.

I'm not sure u understand why fuel is been subsidies. If u do, quote me and tell me so we can talk from there.

Kobonaire234:
There is only one answer and that is the removal of subsidies totally.

Otherwise there is going to be scarcity whoever is in charge because the price controls inherent in subsides will prevent profits being made which would lead to scarcity

The free money from subsidy leads to corruption and stealing.

The mass smuggling of cheap fuel means we lose billions for nothing. Mass smuggling that both big and small people do

And it is obvious that 50 years of subsidy has resulted in the decline of domestic refining capacity.

Remove subsidy. Let the market control the price. Just like we do for other things

But this apc govt wants to keep believing in the false god called cheap fuel. And they sacrifice our economy and future on its altar


Modified

You can disagree with me without losing your mind. As someone here has done so politely and I have responded to him politely.

my point about subsidy removal is, if it is too heavy for the government to pay, why not stop by doing the right thing which is to build refinery. 3.6 trillion has been budget for 6 months subsidy. How much is the cost of building a refinery. Since 2012 they want to stop subsidy but no plan of building refinery. Why again can't the government give licence to all this multinational companies to build refinery?.
Don't be surprise all this noise about subsidy removal could just be political with aim of aiding Dangote refinery.

LikeAking:
Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

you might not be too correct because most times u most have cross the gate before spending.

gaby:
I don't help people like you who feel entitled to getting helped.

Go hustle.

lol I'm only asking because if u are not helping with the little u have now, u can't help when u have more. Come to talk of helping me, I won't say I don't need help because everybody needs help. The only problem here is that I think I should be the one to help you not the other way round.

gaby:
Over $500k Dollares....

With that money, I go softly buy korope with AC begin find people around me to help make a sense of their life...

with the little u have now, how many people u don help?.

maureensylvia:
Take a look at this

Mr Joe has been running a successful business in millions of dollars for decades with hundreds of employees working for him.

Surprisingly at his death, the business ceased to continue.

Why do you think this happened?

Share your thoughts

A case study of MKO Abiola
(He set up Abiola Farms, Abiola Bookshops, Radio Communications Nigeria, Wonder Bakeries, Concord Press, Concord Airlines, Summit Oil International Ltd, Africa Ocean Lines, Habib Bank, Decca W.A. Ltd, and Abiola football club)

method of getting job(man know man)
2. Government favour
3 not entrusting major decision to the hands of ur managers
4.bad children
5.children lack interest in the business
6.member of a particular group

[quote author=NewsLand post=119933315][/quote]my apologies boss. I have no intention to make u feel other way, but just to correct a mistake from ur topic. Most time we write according to how it sounds in our head. The word is "put to birth" not the other way.

segtech68:
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.

The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.

How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.

Thank you.

I smell a rat. Both of u are doing well so what exactly are u afraid of. If also love her as u claim why the fear?. Guy man mind urself.

Sannisege:
because he is not igbo. Its the igbos that are gaslighting everyone to believe Obi is their messiah.

you are very wrong. The people that care for this country are the people gaslighting obi to Nigerians, NOT the igbos. I stand for obi but I'm not an Igbo man.(A little reminder OBJ is not an Igbo man)
PDP and APC could only produce Atiku and Tinubu despite the sound minds they have in their parties. That just showed Nigerians that they don't really care about the progress of the once loving Nation.
For clarification sake, can u please tell me why u would prefer Tinubu or Atiku to Obi.

Mandate2023:
Jagaban has landed......the 1 man that is giving ipigs home and abroad sleepless nights



Dey will start crying nw

I tot it is the other way round.

Domainer1999:
Pls palm credit is asking for my card pin, Am I safe with them?

Very urgent pls...

it shouldn't be a problem give them collect the money then u can go and change ur pin if u have doubts.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

rejection is part of the game infact you should get more and that will help u build a strategy that should not fail.
Secondly nobody toast girl this days just approach her like a gentleman even if u are not. Introduce urself, know her name and ask for her number if she refuses, be happy because she is saving u a whole lots of problems. But if she gives you, it's a win step for u depending on ur game. I don't want to talk further but if need me to talk let me know.

PerfectStranger:
You can force an elephant to the river but can’t force it to drink water.

You wan marry single mom? Lols marriage never even start you don Dey see shege. I pity your mental health.

nah horse no be elephant.

dollytino4real:
my sister, we plenty inside dis kind marriage wahala but kip ur mind of him n face ur kids as i am doing to survive here!! My own not gambling but money dey finish but he reach house

I think you should find out maybe he had borrowed money from those devilish loan people around his office or in his place of work. If no, stop taking up his responsibilities.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

stop taking up his responsibilities. That had made him irresponsible.

Swrty543r:
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Guy nan u mean u predicted 5:0?

sqlPAIN:
God I swear down, I'll never forgive you for making me a Nigerian, infact for making me an African and making me black, I'll never forgive you, never!!!!!!!!

this is exactly how a stupid person should talk.

I just pity for the guy man weh just want fork.now he don enter wahala.

If Mr T Or A enter such crowd, e go be say we are left with two contestants. Because the vegetables go suffocat.

Can it go for 3m?

kaymart:
The Camry made you gain weight....how?

rest of mind no steady mechanic visit.

Did u see Cardi B?.

SmartPolician:
This has nothing to do with protests.

Let's stop deceiving ourselves in Nigeria.

Petrol subsidy needs to go because we are losing so much to it.

The government just needs to come up with paliatives to cushion its harsh effect.

subsidy had been on for more that 16 years. Our insensitive government thinks the best thing is just is remove it. Meanwhile if they let it be, it will die naturally if they do the right thing. All the government need to do, is to build refinery even if it is just one and watch how subsidy will die naturally.
They will cause a problem and shift it to the citizens to suffer for it.
Do also know that if the subsidy is removed we will just suffer in vain because they will still steal the money.

600k let me pick it up

MumEmdy:
Where do I start from, I have been in shock since the incidence, God is indeed faithful and compassionate I return all praises to Him.

After having their hair cut on the 22nd of Dec, my kids requested to visit their great grandma who leaves around that area, but on our way there the terrible accident happened. ( I don't want to go into details how it happened cause everything is still playing in my head)

My son was unconscious with blood all over his head and face, I thought he was death cause he was in the theater for more 1hour before some people rush to me to come and hear my son crying. I kept crying and declaring my son's name Emmanuel God is with you will die no way because Emmanuel is also the reason for this season's celebration (Xmas). Prayers was offered even people I don't know that witness the accident rushed there ready to donate blood in case of necessity.

I want to use this medium to once again thank especially the Doctor that God use to work and stitch his scalp and face together, he was actually going to his place of work saw the nature of the accident and decide to follow the bike men to the hospital where my son was rush to, we later got to know that he works in a different hospital but a specialist in such cases., to the people that rushed my son to that hospital God will reward them accordingly ( I don't even know them I would have gone to their various home to thank them and to all d nurses and staff of Good Shepherd Medical Center Ayingba kogi State, thank you all and I pray God will always come through for you all in Jesus name.

An accident that claim 3 of my son's teeth, the devil came to late, we give God the praise

Nairalander please wish us speed recovery, we have been discharged from the hospital.

Mod please push to the appropriate section

small guy man nothing the Lord do not permit will happen to u.

Bethanybethel:
You are right my dad is paying the price for abandoning us with our sick mother. He have some health issues I have decided not to help him, he will suffer until his last breath on earth..

this is exactly what brings generational curse. You can not take that father hood from him. You also do not know how many options was left for him before he chooses to abandoned ur mother as you claim.
Above all try not to pay evil with evil