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Kriss216:
Let's wed this Saturday then.

yeye

Irupetepete:
Believe me when I tell you, GENERATIONAL CURSE or problem is real...
For those that will want to say na lie,
I am the first born and in my entire generation, I was the first to gain admission to the university....
My dad who was the most educated in his generation and lineage only went to teachers college. Have tried everything I can, prayed, fasted, nothing wey I never try...
You see, I changed 5 schools before I was 6yrs old, same thing is happening to my first child...
Have Been seeing some family trait in my family too.
Believe me, have gone for deliverance...
This scenerio playing out now once played out in ilorin before moving to ibadan..
When I got to ibadan,after some months of serious Sapa, things pick up and I was able to live an average life.
Along the line again, same incident of ilorin happened again in ibadan and this time around, it was 20x worse. Atleast I left ilorin without debt but right now, I have to dodge debtors and the funny thing is, it's not long I rented my apartment... This wahala started again after renting this apartment,same scenerio with that of ilorin...
I have prayed, I have fasted.. People will say I no dey hear word, but there are some actions you take that you will only regret when your eyes Don clear...
I can't sleep in peace, I can't think, I have tried everything I can to work but it's just not working out..
Now the most surprising aspect is, I have helped people, alot of people in my own little way last year when things was OK with me.. Once people promise me money, on the said day am supposed to call, they will block me.. This has happened more than 5times now..
Am thinking of selling everything in the house and run away, the whole things is driving me crazy...
I have gone for deliverance, still no changes...
This is the 3rd time am noticing my financial stability doesn't last a year... Under one year, I will pick and just go down again, this last one lasted 1yr 3months...
This month end, he sure say police go come arrest me for house..
House, pls how can I find a lasting solution to this problem?
The experience am going through now is above my age range... Am just in my early 30 and I gone through challenges of people in their 60's...
I try to keep a strong faith of "it will pass as usual" but this time around, I can't..
People who knows me here will want to bash me but I understand fully well now, these are not ordinary occurrence...
Imagine spending money to go look at dilapidated family houses,the urge to go was very strong after 18yrs of not visiting there..
My issues started after coming back from that trip.. At the front of that house, there is an abandoned deity...

Lalasticlala, pls I need advice..

humm..

Adari...... bald person

Opeyemiextra:
The question is who am I trying to impress? Most of the things you will do that day will no longer matter after the wedding.

We live in a generation where the need to oppress and pepper others is more important than peace of mind and true joy. But, that is not me. I'm too old for that shit

yes someone told me she wanted an elaborated wedding because she want to beat his friend that did a own some years back..I was just looking at her

Kriss216:
No Nigerian bride will agree to this type of wedding. They rather remain unmarried.

I prefare something like this

Ojusegunola:
It's a big lie,I'm Infront of obajana cement factory at the moment going to Abuja from ilorin.

ehn ehn

Phoneworld:
Single guys and girls lets us have a good conversation on this, base on this current state can u get married?

I want to make money first

Consray:
I have been having this urge of having a baby for a very long time now.

Please guys how do you get over wanting a baby.

And I have been watching birth videos on YouTube alot now adays.

Ladies is there anytime you have ever felt that way or it just me....

my mom told me there's a certain age when a lady craves for kids..but I don't like child bearing stress sha

Kellzzyy:
I wanted to call you a big fool for this rubbish you just wrote here but I'm just restraining myself.
Big fool.

calm down na

HacheNoire:
Your wife finally killed your mother


Divorce is bound! Waking up beside the woman that killed your mother

Just be patient and wait for her own mother, father, sisters or brothers to visit too. Look for a rare expensive poison and keep before then.

hmmm

Yes

Skyfornia:
So much emphasis on sex...seems like sex carries 99% of sins.

MrWondah:
I'm not fighting with you. I'm just fighting personal demons.
You'll get to know about it if I survive it, or read it in the papers if I fail

humm...at least pick my calls let's talk.. remember we are friends,no secret, we share everything together..we can fight the demon together

Reminderz:
exactly! she knows what at stake and she go open leg.. you don't have job or no support system yet you dey fvck around.. how your body dey move sef

lol..person wey no get money no supposed get Hot.. this is me tho..sex is for rich people..condom sef don cost

MrWondah:
I was employed before I finished my 3rd year.
And no, I don't have any connections.

I remember my school proprietor hammering in our ears "read a course that you'd be self employed after graduating as the government is not ready to employ anybody"
In my third year while my colleagues were sorting to pass Fortran, I was already building projects with PHP. I was told PHP will soon die and JavaScript is a language for unserious beings.
Now, the story is different

honey pie..when are we stoping our fight, the fight don tire me

;Dcomrade no loud am

lkillbrokehoes:
That's not her real picture, she downloaded it online.

adewaleadeyemi8:
I just like this, a male child with long hair. Thinking of doing such for my son

lol are not a bald man?

pansophist:
Yes, if both the man and the woman have sense. If one is a goal getter, while the other is a leech, then its a recipe for poverty. Two good heads (not Just two heads) are better than one.

It's cheaper for two people to cook and eat together, save together, pay their bills together and pursue their unified plan together. Because if two person are operating on 100% capacity each, then you'll half the time it will take one person to get there. Marriage is a team work, like a football team. Not only one person being the goalkeeper and the scorer.

Sadly, a lot of young people especially women are very delusional about marriage, they see it as a place of enjoyment, like they've entered heaven on earth. To just slay till death. But men generally see it as a place of responsibility, hence you see men running away from it. Marriage can be a blessing or a curse, it all depends on the individuals involved in it.

well said

Botking:
Marriage make you a more better individual then a single fellow

hummm

Bola146:
it was true before Buhari came in

lol, sometime it's true, my neighbor that got married 9 years ago said he has nothing before he met his wife(not too poor) after their marriage he got his first car, built two houses...even my parents.im not saying it will work for everyone but, a man can settle down if he's averagly rich and if he's lucky to meet a good woman then he's twice lucky.

mabeni:
Update : my wife has finally given birth to a bouncing baby boy today

congrats oo

GboyegaD:
Oga, na person mata you take play so. I get your joke sha but at this point, instead of waiting for a membrane sweep, I will suggest an elective cs jejely.

too early

Kriss216:
I don't know if you're being unreasonable or not, but, I know and I'm very sure that man is lashing your beloved wife. Okafor's Law remains eminent.

smiles, not all women are loosed

HacheNoire:
You will be fine!

Trust me!

But your kids growing up without a fatherly figure, will forever have a psychological impact on them.

The brunt of divorce is bared by the kids. You and their father will be fine.

hummm..u are right

Humm

mirinder:
happy new year babe. May you be blessed

thanks dear

Eletididi:
One of the things I regret is not having friends.. I am on nairaland 247 just moving from section to section..
Just reminiscing about the things I should have done right, the step I should have taken and things I should have done differently..
Pardon me for opening threads and always lamenting, am just trying to remain sane and try to focus even though there is nothing worthwhile to focus on right now and the situation of the country is not helping matters at all..
Been home for more than 3 months now, how have survived this long is just God's grace cos the mental drain no be here..

I just open this thread so we can console ourselves..
Suicide have crossed my mind so many times, going to maybe herbalist or spiritualist have crossed my mind too even though those kin things no dey work for me..
Running away have crossed my mind but who do I leave my kids for?
So many unimaginable things have crossed my mind but am just hoping for a better tomorrow..
I have survived something like this before but not as worse as this.
I Don tire abeg..
Pls let's be sensitive while commenting. We Sabi say nobody send us message and our undoing is due to maybe our poor choices but still, let's be sensitive pls.

hmmmm...

efficiencie:
Dude that fasting and prayer you did did not scratch anything ohh...your case na emergency. Your life is indeed spiraling out of control and it seems you are at your wits end. Your battle is beyond you and you need the assistance of those that are beyond you. You do not need to go a physical location. You have a phone and you have an internet connection. There are men of GOD that you can pray with online that can join hands with you to confront whatever challenge you are facing and I can recommend these two:

Pastor Jerry Eze (pray along with this Pastor every 7am)
Senior Prophet Jeremiah OmotoFufeyin (attend services and pray along with him)

There are others but I can testify to the work of the LORD in my life courtesy of these two men of GOD. Find these men on Facebook or Youtube and pray along with them. By GOD's grace you will rise above your challenges, your wife will return to you and you will have a happy family again.

hummm...

Kizyte:
Nairalanders, here is my testimony; after more than two years of prayers, God has finally given me my missing rib. I'm now happily married.

Picture 1: Wedding
Picture 2, 3, 4, 5, 6: Pre-wedding
Picture 7: Groomsmen
Picture 8: Marriage Proposal. (Note: I didn't kneel to propose to her)

congrats op..