₦airaland Forum

Consiglieri:
Obsession?

JaneUO:
Our women feel that being beautiful comes with body modification. Well a young lady shared an image of what happened to her trying to lift heavy equipment around her house. What she did not notice was that accident will take place without a warning. Lady broke her nails as though she was in a fight.

When ladies work on their nails they forget the dangers that comes with such artificial stuff. Majority get to break nails when drunk some tend to fail going to the toilet all because of nails. It is such a pity that some men get to eat food prepared by ladies with long nails.

Photo cred: Twitter

vikgreen01:
Only u

vikgreen01:
Who’s the foolish guy u dated after the incident

Bola146:

Alaganature09:
Do you think the guys mess up or she mess up her self, Believe this gender at your own peril...it’s obvious she cheated that’s why the guy dump her ass

maureensylvia:
Oh c'mon
You will be fine
Pause on relationship for now
Have a very good fvck to keep body and soul together.
Have some drinks too
Cheers

This too will pass

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

yorubarere:
So many guys doesn't realize this. And to say relationship is sweeter when a girl love most. But many are blinded to that fact.

Datboredberry:
This year 2021 is about to end... Two more days... A new year... New beginnings...

Most of us have found love... Others have had third hearts broken... A few have taken the decision to be bitter, unfortunate souls...(redpillers)...

In all, we give our thanks to the Almighty lord for protecting each and everyone of us!!! Especially the women... Raise your voices! Say a resounding 'Amen' that would bring down the very walls of Jericho!!!

Thank the Almighty for saving you from the snares of the evil Nigerian men whose hearts are as dark as their skins... The predators in our midst!!! Not all... But it's had to know the good ones, when the majority are rotten...

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Kidnappers!!!

Ritualists!!!

Yahoo boys!!!

Women, you have so much to be thankful for!!!!

Traffickers!!!

Rapists!!!

None saw you this year!!!

The men delibrately spreading Aids!!!

The baby daddies!!! If you were not impregnated by a fuçk boy this year, say Amen!!!

Agbero boys did not see you!!!

Fulani headsmen did not abduct you!!!

Bad boys did not use your skull to boast their success!!! Say to the Lord!!! Thank you baba!!!!

The heartbreakers!!!

The false marriage promisers!!!

The cheats!!!

The adulterer!!!

The zero self-control men lashing everything in a skirt!!!

The men who've delibrately made themselves into hosts for uncountable STDs and STIs!!!

The 'chop' and run!!!

If you were not a victim!!! Praise the good Lord!!!

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I could go on forever... But let me end here...

For a Nigerian woman to make it... To even survive... In this den of lions... Praise the Lord!!!

It is not easy, I can testify!!!

From the bottom of my heart... Bless every Nigerian woman!!! May you grow... May you prosper!!! Live long to see your children and grandchildren and even their children!!! Good health and abundant wealth... Amen!!!

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Dear men.. celebrate your women oo!!!

You don't understand what they have been through... Even leaving your own house, as a woman it is not easy...

Spoil her this new year... She deserves it...

May you be bless with money to scatter on her head!!!!


Amen!!!

We are all blessed...


Lalasiclala

Seun

Skyview01:
I agree with you. Plus, education in Nigeria seems to be grossly overrated.

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. she became an orphan recently, so i decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support. though she also invested all her savings into the business and i supported her also with the little i can. i thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually. But her behaviour has really change seriously towards me, she hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. she will say its nothing that she is just catching fun. i do overlook all this just to make peace rain. something happen yesterday that make feel so bad, i told her im coming to visit in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she help order food, so when i reach her side she told me to bring money that she cant use her money to buy food for me, i felt somehow inside with her response. i had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously. so after im done eating, i was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone then a called enter and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she come back, i was really dumbfounded and shocked, i coundn't utter any word as i dont want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. she left me there, i stood up also and leff the shop. i really felt bad and sad. this a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parent. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that its childish for me. he said i should chill for now. please i need your advise on how to go about this.

NOTE; i rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it to two my gf can use the other half.

everythinggirly:
Teenage dreams.

Skyview01:
Depends on what if you care share.

daddytime:
Orishirishi

Drop her number make we help you call and beg her to reduce the salt.

Abi wetin make you create this topic?

Karleb:


How to be a good driver without driving a car.

GurlFriend:
They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

obembet:
Trust me, some people are not easily to replace. Expecially if he's that kind person who respect emotional truth and vulnerability. honestly, I wil feel bad when he say something like that cos it's not easy to see that's kind guys

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Opeyemiextra:
So, I have this neighbor who sells some stuff but for some reasons, I wasn't comfortable buying from her. I buy from the market. This really got her angry and I didn't even know this until recently when she would mention it.

To what really happened, I was home one day and she probably assumed I wasn't. She started saying very terrible things about me to another neighbor that it scared me that another human being would really do that. I was very angry while I was inside my room deciding what exactly to do. I thought of confronting but I decided against it. Eventually I went out, greeted both of them and she was shocked that I was at home. I could see guilt written all over her even days after.

Have you walked in on people or heard by chance people talking ill and evil about you? How did you handle it?

peppermint7:
Fggh

Datboredberry:
Ever liked your best friend's lover?

haakeem2:
Our ladies won't listen, they would rather go for rough/hard guys,instead of going for gentle mens.

motymop:
Go call the woman to nairaland, lets hear her own story

MisterKennedy:
Good afternoon Debby

Merry Christmas to you dear

And I wish you the best of new years ever