Family › Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by debbydams(f): 2:14pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
peppermint7: Fggh to slap u dey hungry me..na space u book so oo |
Romance › Re: Ever Had A Crush On The Girlfriend/boyfriend Of Your Best Friend? by debbydams(f): 7:43am On Dec 28, 2021 |
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Crime › Re: Yahoo Boy, Osas Osaretine Kills His Girlfriend, Elohor In Edo (Video) by debbydams(f): 7:55pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
haakeem2: Our ladies won't listen, they would rather go for rough/hard guys,instead of going for gentle mens. even gentle men are not left out |
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Family › Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by debbydams(f): 3:26pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
motymop: Go call the woman to nairaland, lets hear her own story toor |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by debbydams(f): 3:26pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
MisterKennedy: Good afternoon Debby
Merry Christmas to you dear
And I wish you the best of new years ever thanks so much..best wishes |
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Romance › Re: Nairalanders Please Judge This. (photos) by debbydams(f): 11:45am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Lol..this made remember what a friend told me |
Family › Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by debbydams(f): 11:37am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Rtk5: Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke. Please i am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner. I remember when i lost my job and things became so bad that i planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was i fell into a deep sleep that i didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.
Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, i stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened. There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home. In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her. Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here. The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belong. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house. Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say. sorry for your outdeal but I don't really believe one sided story when it's comes to marriage issues..op u Know what is good for you |
Romance › Re: Age Is Just A Number: 14-year-old Boy Marries 51-year-old Woman by debbydams(f): 11:26am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Orisirisi |
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Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by debbydams(f): 9:33pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
Lol..it depends sha |
Romance › Re: Tell Us How Your Relationship Life Went In This 2021 by debbydams(f): 2:39pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Ka sha ma dupe |
Romance › Re: A Nairalander's Pre-Wedding Pictures by debbydams(f): 10:01pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: After Years Of Dating What's The One Thing You Have Learnt About Men? by debbydams(f): 9:39pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Lol |
Family › Re: Unmarried Nairalanders: When Do You Plan To Settle Down ? by debbydams(f): 8:55pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Lol |
Food › Re: When Was The Last Time U Over Fed Urself? by debbydams(f): 3:49pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Oct I think |
Christianity Etc › Re: Too Much Of Everything Is A Disease, Only The Grace Of God Can Never Be Enough. by debbydams(f): 3:29pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
AJEGUNMO: TOO MUCH OF EVERYTHING IS A DISEASE, ONLY THE GRACE OF GOD CAN NEVER BE ENOUGH. . .
This is exactly what happened to Dasuki and Diezani !!!! Too much dollars !!! why did you use your real name, real pic on faceless forum? Lol |
Crime › Re: Timothy Adegoke: Raheem Adedoyin On The Run, Police Contact Interpol Immigration by debbydams(f): 10:15am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Annie001: Onijere Oma shanku ni Someone died a natural cause and was drenched in blood, the picture of his corpse when exhumed is on the internet for people to see. May you die the way he died before that 13th of January, you will die miserably like timothy Oloriburuku It shall never be well with you in this life and aftermath. You will only survive next year if only he died naturally Konidafun e be calming down na.haba |
Nairaland General › Re: How Do You Say No And Stand Your Ground? by debbydams(f): 8:33am On Dec 17, 2021 |
aimmoney9: Except pregnancy and engagement ring.....  lol |
Nairaland General › Re: How Do You Say No And Stand Your Ground? by debbydams(f): 9:42pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Mophor: FTC FCT ABUJa Op..stop telling people what u want to do..stand on your ground. As a lady nobody can pin anything on me o |
Romance › Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by debbydams(f): 9:34pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
gift0123: If naa your sister will you give her such advice?? You guys are saying all this trash because she is a woman, if a guy had created this thread on how" the girlfriend ask for money without sex" you guys will advice him to leave the lady, then call him a weakling and all. Now your fellow man is using this lady as a slave you are here spitting nonsense....... dont mind him, by their fruit u shall know them..there was a day like that..I went to my bf place he stylishly told me his cloths is dirty and he's too busy too wash them, he said I should at least help him since he's busy..I told him point blank ' I can't wash your cloths o, look at my hand I don't have strength to wash and if we enventually settle down pls we need washing machine o Im not strong.. i can do anything but not laundry |
Romance › Re: My Relationship Is Dying Slowly by debbydams(f): 9:26pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Abimbolafavour: Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused.. lol just two month he's saying u should wash his clothes, my simple advise for you is to walk out of the relationship.. |
Food › Re: Huge Phython Found Inside Our Room (graphic pictures) by debbydams(f): 7:02pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
toobusy: Guy u no Sabi lie.......the first and the second pix were taken in different continents......take a closer look at the feets of those kids in the first pix......shaa I no blame u, everyone knows that snake threads hits FP with the speed of light,and u self want your post to hit fp as well don't mind op..let him continue fooling himself |
Celebrities › Re: Karibi Fubara Is Dead! Cancer Kills Nollywood Actor by debbydams(f): 5:01pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Hummm |
Nairaland General › Re: What Calms You Down Whenever You Are Angry? by debbydams(f): 7:29am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Staying alone |
Health › Re: Man Who Borrowed Money From An Online Company Commits Suicide Over Messages Sent by debbydams(f): 7:25am On Dec 15, 2021 |
Ifesinachi22: Your a woman dear. They no dey count you folks. Your boyfriend will always offset your bills. Sometimes, from borrowed funds from loan sharks I don't depend on any man neither do I ask money from any man..I survive on my own |
Health › Re: Man Who Borrowed Money From An Online Company Commits Suicide Over Messages Sent by debbydams(f): 9:19pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
Last thing I'll ever do is to borrow money from this people |
Romance › Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by debbydams(f): 8:34pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
EkehPraise: Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone. I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another. Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women. Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief. 2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?
Wife material scarce oh marriage is not everyone |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Worst Rumour You've Heard About Yourself? by debbydams(f): 8:30pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
They said I'm stingy |
Education › Re: What Are The English And Local Names For This? (Picture) by debbydams(f): 12:26pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
BMathew: Cool, do ensure to have a wonderful weekend. stay safe. thanks |
Education › Re: What Are The English And Local Names For This? (Picture) by debbydams(f): 10:04am On Dec 11, 2021 |
BMathew: The first time I tasted it, it was fried with red oil very crunchy. Fresh ones are always good but most of what I see here were so dried and most times they have unpleasant odour due to long storage. u are right |