₦airaland Forum

Ezendimmuo:
Abeg...
I just need the opinion of my wonderful nairaland family..
My girlfriend started acting up this afternoon...
She said she wanted cake...
I told her I don't have money for cake at the moment...
She started crying the she is craving cake...
I ignored her...
Next thing...she says she is so unhappy that I can't buy cake right now...
Then she something that burst a redpill inside me...
She said " You are my boyfriend..you are supposed to give me what I want"...
Like what kinda entitlement is this!?
This is someone I literally feed...
So nairalanders...
Is this a normal "female behavior"
Or
Should I dump her ass

how old is your gf? How old are u,, your gf is crying because u didn't get her a cake, omorr this is hilarious

Xavin:
Seriously I still wonder how some folks are comfortable releasing inside a woman this days.
Like bro are you kidding me . See stop all this shit you say about having a sharp pull out game, please use condoms, have you priced baby food of late. Only God can help us in these nation, but aside help from above you should also help yourself.

King's and Queen please use condoms, since you are not ready for any form responsibility now. Besides the economic situation there is a massive wave of STDS, in the country. Just stay safe and play safe.

Ok that aside let's get straight to business.
What skill have you learnt or what skill are you currently learning. You need to understand that to create wealth, you have to invest in your self. Aren't you tried of Sapa, to younger folks than myself aren't you tired of disturbing your senior siblings, parents, uncle's and aunt for cash.
Look you need to start getting responsible at young age now, so you rest later. I started python dev late last year and I can tell it's awesome, I have learnt more than I ever learnt in my 4years studying psychology.

If you are privileged to own a system and can also spare time for yourself. Why don't you start learning coding, invest in your self today and be the best you can. Well you can check my signature it has a telegram link to a channel I created to gift people a course I bought. It's a 6 hrs video on python for beginners by mosh. I think the video is 500mb or so, the reason why I'm giving it out is because I want a lot of folks in here to be successful. I just landed my first gig this year from Fiverr, I got $500 from the job. It's not easy i know but try to learn something. Don't take this free gift for granted I knew how much I bought this video.

Well to those that do not own a system I'm sorry I don't have anything for you guys. But you can actually check out other skills that you can do with your smartphone. You can check out this thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/6829240/salary-enough-economy-get-here#107252261

The owner of the thread put a link in his post, about a skill you can do with your smartphone. I actually did buy the course for cruise and the course turned out legit, with detailed information. That if you implement you will start making money in the next 90 days.

To my coding brothers this not apply to you oh, don't start thinking if you learn coding in a short time you will become an expert . No it doesn't work like that, before I landed my $500 gig. I learnt coding for over 6months, starting from last year still learning though. Because you never stop learning in coding.

Take advantage of this opportunity don't miss it for anything. To access the channel clear the space between the t. and me
You can also rub minds with others there.

You all should please engage this post, share it so people that will benefit from it can see it.
It's time to start empowering ourselves, you must make it

Mods please I need this in front page

condom is expensive,op the question should be 'do u still have erection'

Mercychen:
You guys should stop opening legs up and down anyhow na? Chai!

Ok. Now the man has rejected the pregnancy, you're going to bring those innocent souls into the world to suffer...

What will it take this generation to abstain till marriage because apart from the spiritual implications, the physical implications are even more devastating and most times irreparable.
Simple chastity has become a herculean task for this generation.

Just go get a job and start saving ahead for when you'll deliver because times are hard and you can't afford to be a burden to anyone. Even the one responsible has dodged you because he knows what it entails.

Go get a job!

u think it's that easy to get a job in Nigeria now?

Heartofluv54:
Pls I need help. I want to get married to a lady who have sacrifice so much for me to be a better person that I am now.
My wedding is first week of December, I have been fully committed into the whole process.
The source I wanted to take loan just disappointed me at the last minute.

My eldest brother who was also supposed to pay back some money I lend him, disappointed me. Non of them is supporting me financially and to refund my own money is a problem.

I have been a great uncle to their children, pay some school fees and offer help severally, but now that I need their help and support, everyone is busy fixing theirs.

Canceling this marriage at this moment, means great lost to me. We both have put in much efforts.

It will hurt her and her family so much. Especially after all these preparations and Invitations.

I have a job that pays me 80k in a month, I am not lazy. My cards are already out, our traditional clothes are with the tarlor already, all the necessary preparations have been made.

I need a loan of #400,000. I will pay back in 8 months time, i would love to spread it, to pay 50k monthly with the interest. Please, help me.

why do u want to get a loan for your wedding? Not a good idea sir, explain things to your woman,she will understand,or cut the cost of everything down...if it's me I'll rather tell my partner to invest that money into a good business while we do our wedding codedly with few relatives...nobody is helping anybody now oo..

bahause:
Till now he hasn't reached out our sent my gadget nor refund me. I believe you are his spokesman. His number is always switched off also.

I can't reach him either

Bolarineliza202:

I don chop countless hot slaps that brought tears to my eyes before,that was then though

lol

Bolarineliza202:
1. walk away from him.

2. kiss him.

3. stay with him until he finally calms down?

As a guy,if you don't get calmed in any of this ways then let's know what calms you down

lol seems u v never get a hot slap before, this is Nigeria where alot of people vent their anger on people around them.

siofra:
Please repent and stop sleeping around all ye useless redpillers. By the time you're 30 your dick will start looking like the one on the right.

Remain a virgin, remain healthy. Keep your virginity for your wife.

babe u no get work o

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

go to hospital pls..

Sonnobax15:
we the urhobos actually pay #120 as normal Bride price

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Ego2:
yes they do while some could go as low as 200#.. The idea isn't to sell the bride but to observe the traditional rite.

yes, my mom said so

Ego2:
Every other thing can be contributed to but not the bride price that is the sole responsibility of the groom.








Wait Shey na 500# abi 200# the bride won contribute to

do people pay 500 naira as bride price ?

Kobojunkie:
You don't get it at all!

I believe in God, I know Spirits are real.... I have 24/7 experience of this in my everyday life. No doubts here!

What I don't believe are the silly stories told particularly by superstitious, even religious Nigerians who think everything they are too lazy to investigate is the work of spirits.

I understand sir..

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house


CC. Lalasticlala, Mynd44

ask him to get the food stuffs himself, how do u want to manage 4k with 2 kids? It's not possible

Kobojunkie:
Your cousin was bound hand and foot because of what again....?

What your cousin needs is to go talk to a therapist to help her overcome the traumatic experience. Tell her next time time goes for those runs, she should make sure she she mentally ready to handle whatever it is her clients might throw at her considering we are still speaking of Nigeria here. These things are not for those who are faint of heart.

If there is anyone who has the answer to what it was the man was supposedly looking to take from her, it is that man and he is gone, or does she have his home address so you can go ask him directly yourself?

As for those of you who think her a useless being, stay far away from her life and her mention she can grow and become the individual she chooses to become.

u still don't believe there's jazz, evil spirits..hmmm it is well

Ishilove:
You think? E go shock you.

lol , even pastors are not left out.. some one gat to be very careful

LiegeMan:
but she's normal as in, no sign of being used.

u can't know now, I almost fell victim of one in osogbo few years ago, I was hunting for a job, however I got a job from a friend it's a newly built bear parlor and I was employed as their cook, the first I went,the second day I got a call from mom, she told me our pastor told her that I should leave the work without telling me reason, the next day I got a call from my god father, he said we need to talk and it's very urgent I went on getting dere, he told me my bosses are yahoo boys they set that business to get their victims nd used them by doing jazz in money once I collect the money I'll start dying gradually, people won't suspect them, that was the last day I went dere o,I went to osogbo recently the bar is still dere o, that's how God saved me from evil men, nd they are very nice and friendly one can't suspect them at all..since that day I sit down talk to God before taking any step even if I want to hang out, I still pray, I pray to my creator to show me the way, should I go or not..I can't die now without fulfilling purpose even if things ain't going well now..

chiommy123:
1 money 2. Money 3 money 4 money 5 money lol

lol
My man must be patient.
Give me peace of mind.
Averagely okay
God fearing nd
Neat

tnerro1:
The feelings ,no longer the same
The intimacy ,no longer feels the same
The joy of being with her no longer the same
Yes she is beautiful, but it no longer moves you.

So how do you tell her you want to move on without hurting her or feeling guilty for breaking up with such a good girl

This life no balance at-all

hmmmm

pappy2000:
Please i will be very fast there is this evil lady that i got married to something in 2019 the marriage didnt last more than 4 months down the line we separated went our different ways and she insisit i should pay for child support which i started giving from september 2020, she had the baby in april 2020 travelled to her sister in abuja after the divorce but her family was expecting me to come and beg them whiich i refused so out of shame they said she should move on which i am also not interested in taking her back to cut the long story short when we were together then she showed me a pix of her ex battered her to tell the truth we have also had fight too now i have told her that i am no longer paying child support until she takes the child back to abuja but she insisted i must continue to pay and she wont take the child back, later her mom called me and pleaded the matter should be settled which i said no , now she took me to human right this lagos state public defender and the lawyers there said they will charge me to court for domestic violence which was a trumped up charges and she is still using the pix in which her ex battered her as evidence. now i have two options its either i crazed in for her desire to be collecting 20k monthly from me which i signed or they said they will take me to court which means iif i get convicted i will loose my job i work in the coporate world. i am so sad i met her , ts sucidal , Iintend to remarry next year , but hey what do i do , .

omorr..hmmm

Okonjo123:
as friend dear

the friendship is cool here u know

Godoverevery:
Our society have fallen totally......from secondary school to higher institution fraud is the rave of the moment.
Now the issue is you can't be a yahoo boy without using charms and diabolic things....it depends on how your conscience can carry you because that what determine the extent you can go.

The new menace is our ladies going to get charms for this boys from cele Church,alfa and herbalist..this lady feel they have a better chance of having access to the guys money this way.

Here in the south west ladies are willing and ready to get different type of charms for this boys and the most funny part this boys still later dump them or use it on them.

I can boldly say it anywhere there no yahoo boy balling big time who isn't using either a herbalist,alfa or olusho charms......infact some even combine the three and they are always willing to do anything i repeat anything to get the money.

Most ladies in the South West are becoming unproductive because they prefer to go for free money....they see dating a yahoo boy as a lottery ticket to escape poverty.

How a lady feel comfortable dating a guy who has no legal source of income, he gave you iPhone 12promax and 1 million just 2weeks of dating and she collected it (ND1 student haaaa).......
Over here 98% of ladies using iPhone ....the phone was bought for them by a guy mostly yahoo guys the most annoying part is you will see a lady using iPhone 12 and she can't even afford 1k data.

No disrespect to white garment church but why is it that most yahoo boys wife/gf attend this church infact my neighbour olusho(pastor) comes to deliver ise (spiritual items) at home for him.

If a lady should die as a result of dating a yahoo guy I don't pity such lady......It is what it is
I expect more ladies to lose there life because they never learn.....they now competit in getting a big yahoo boy so they can Brag.

Note: if you not a yahoo guy i beg you in the name of God be really careful of the ladies you engage with make sure you know her past very well.

op u didn't tag me again

siofra:
I'm already crushing on him. I want to know so that I can hold myself. What's the need of crushing on a gay guy? He'll never even fancy you

babe u ar crushing on this guy? Lol

Okonjo123:
pls email me pls

why ?

Okonjo123:
she is not replying me pls help me pls

wo,pls leave me stop quoting me

money121:
This mum maliq na drama Queen ur ijogbon no get part 2
Don't forget ooo Nov. 15th is my birthday you will help me arrange moi moi Worth 10k and share for berger around ur area
I will send the fund to you Asap
Keep it up iya oni moi-Moi

wow

EmptyGarden:
Sister, no be every food I take eye see I go like chop o. I have seen this one and lost appetite, I no wan take am.

it is well with you

Okonjo123:
I tell her dat i love her

orisirisi u should do that your self abeg

Okonjo123:
pls can you help me beg lyaebe pls thanks

why

Iyaebe:
What's with this rampant unclothedness trend lately

abi, cloth wey we supposed use do aso ebi e reach her turn she turn am to rag

Stephen2324:
The chat was going well until he/she said .....

I missed my period

Lol