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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Weird,please I Need Your Advice by debbydams(f): 8:47pm On Nov 16, 2021
extol1:
Look at how the village people are frying akara on top of your destiny
hmmm
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 5:21pm On Nov 16, 2021
KoshCAD:
Message me your number let chat.
yeye she deactivated her account na,wetin u wan follow her talk, say it here na
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 5:17pm On Nov 16, 2021
okuta007:
next time please use your anus to read what i typed - ovien igodomigodo grin
oniranu grin
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 4:06pm On Nov 16, 2021
meobizy:
All I know is I don’t believe the story.
the story is real..alot of things are happening lately
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 3:13pm On Nov 16, 2021
Hanks0000:
Good guys like us just don't get lucky.. Perhaps we all become bad when we've met the right one..
hmmm
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 3:08pm On Nov 16, 2021
Nwatachoba1:
Well... Do not underestimate the power of stupid people in a large forum
cheesy cheesy
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 3:07pm On Nov 16, 2021
piroux:
You people and all your nobody holy stories. Sorry, there are decent people in the world. I'm sorry this is news to you but some people try very hard to be holy and succeed at it.

Should it give a yardstick to be judgemental? No. And it's not on that basis I was responding. I didn't ask why she was having sex with a man she wasn't married to, I didn't ask why common sense didn't allow her prevent marriage, I didn't say anything about abortion being a sin.

But I responded on a decency basis. And yes, I didn't read about her boyfriend rejecting rituals with human parts. She didn't mention that when she posted first. Also, she used juju man for the person her friend, not neighbour recommended to her.

Black magic Alfa or ritualistic or babalawo or yahoo or yahoo plus, all of them are not just right, not decent, nor acceptable.

She wished she didn't come in contact with him because she wasn't rewarded for being his support system. His family never came to see the child she had or show their support. She didn't see what she did as morally wrong. And thats where the problem is. If that man had rewarded her with marriage, all young ladies like me will read is "Support your man when he is down".

So when I say, there is no lesson here, that's what I mean.

If this man comes back, she will take him back. If she meets a man who does yahoo and promises to marry her, she will offer support all over again.
hmmm it is well
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:55pm On Nov 16, 2021
okuta007:
DO NOT MIND her - I lost all sympathy for her when she told me she connived with the yahoo yahoo boyfriend to induce magas with juju so they can pay - The day she made that move was the day the guy lost all respect for her in his heart, he knows that yahoo yahoo is bad and for her to invest her money in juju for her boyfriend to cause misery to others is the lowest any female with basic morals and common sense will do. And on Sunday morning na she dey first reach church grin - bloody hypocrite - She could not give him 150k to start pure water business but to make others lose their hard earned money to him abi? She should be rejoicing that he didnt use you for money ritual

I know she carefully ommited the part she asked the juju man for body parts- because that is why he charged her 100k - so whose body parts was she trying to buy to make her guy hammer ? the body parts of people we mourn over here on naialand who got missing abi? THUNDA FAYA HER HEAD - SHE NEVER SEE SUFFER - THAT PIKIN SHE BORN TOGEDA - NA SKULL MINERS GO LOCATE AM IN JISOS NAME undecided
try to use your brain when typing..
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Gives Me Money & Foodstuff From Her Mum's Shop For Free; Help Pls! by debbydams(f): 2:22pm On Nov 16, 2021
Znation:
Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?
lol.. orisirisi
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:17pm On Nov 16, 2021
Jman06:
What initially got her hooked to the guy was clearly the flashy yahoo guy lifestyle.
it is well
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:14pm On Nov 16, 2021
redstaarx:
I wished I knew why too .. I'm moving on tho
lol, maybe she don see better man or u did something to her,who knows.
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:10pm On Nov 16, 2021
redstaarx:
I hope my ex girlfriend that dumped me recently is reading this undecided
why did she dump u?
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:06pm On Nov 16, 2021
Jman06:
Fool!

He "deceived" you and got you pregnant or your long throat led you to himhuh

Always shifting blames!
go back to the story where she said, she was the one taking the guy responsibility's
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 2:04pm On Nov 16, 2021
nesgeeek:
I wonder why she's attacking the lady.
tthe lady has deactivated her account na..make everybody rest
Business › Re: Money VS Happiness: How Much Money Do You Need To Be Happy? by debbydams(f):
IdreamOfUnicorn:
Right now 150k
God will bless all of us
Business › Re: Money VS Happiness: How Much Money Do You Need To Be Happy? by debbydams(f): 1:40pm On Nov 16, 2021
Ok
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 1:34pm On Nov 16, 2021
I'm not asking anybody for anything I don't understand this hatred
hmm
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 1:17pm On Nov 16, 2021
piroux:
But this is not a bad guy story, the lady herself is an awful person.

Who dates a yahoo boy who has told you he has been sent to look for human parts? That's not red-light enough?!

Then she asks a friend for a herbalists contact to help his yahoo career... why does she have friends that know evil herbalists?

Why not leave at that point? Why stay with such a lazy, good for nothing individual?

She has low morals, low sense of self worth, zero emotional intelligence and is just as lazy, cunning and bad as he is.

Even worse, she went there and ate mixtures of things, who knows if she hasn't been used herself and now abandoned?

I have no sympathy for her and there's no lesson to learn here.
u saw it in the story when op said her ex refused before going to seek help from her neighbor, where's the ritual dere na, how's she a bad person? Did u read her story sef? Na person like u no make some people refused to share their story here,stop the blame.. it's not compulsory u spew rubbish.. nonsense and ingredients..Asif u are holy
Business › Re: Gas Explosion At Ladipo Market Extension, Lagos by debbydams(f): 10:34am On Nov 16, 2021
Badnews everyday embarassed
Romance › Re: I Am 23year And I Am I Love With A Lady Of 43 by debbydams(f): 8:07am On Nov 16, 2021
natosjahdi:
' I am old enough to be your Aunty' this words keep ringing in my head. I am a young lad of 23 and I am finding my sef in a love circle with a lady of 43 whom I met at the bank.
She is a single mother with only 5kids. I have informed her of my feelings of which she wasnt buying to. However I will keep shooting my shot even if it takes 2years.
Please should I keep fighting for her or giveup
nobi juju b this?
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 3:25pm On Nov 15, 2021
Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] You're really jobless sha...what a pity
can't u leave this lady alone, what do you want to gain from this? Learn to mind your business na
Family › Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 3:20pm On Nov 15, 2021
Funmiola95:
I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..
I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.
On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.
We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.
I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..

I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man .i had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already

He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream
I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.
hummm
Romance › Re: Sex Was Not Supposed To Be Rough Or Violent Are You A Rapist In Practice. by debbydams(f): 8:51am On Nov 15, 2021
Double0h7:
Someone woke up sexually frustrated and is now taking it out on the rest of us grin
grin grin
Romance › Re: Sex Was Not Supposed To Be Rough Or Violent Are You A Rapist In Practice. by debbydams(f): 8:50am On Nov 15, 2021
BadRadio:
There's what we call "Hard fvck" ... lemme explain, Hard fvck is when you disregard the conventional missionary style during intimacy, but using the knees on doggy position that help deep, fast and heavy thrusting of the pelvis with reckless abandon, making flapping but sonorous sound as you hit the buttocks repeatedly and grabbing the boobs from undergrin
may God have mercy on u
Romance › Re: Sex Was Not Supposed To Be Rough Or Violent Are You A Rapist In Practice. by debbydams(f): 8:47am On Nov 15, 2021
Prettyangelng:
Sex was not supposed to be rough. It was designed to be soft and slow. But whorish tendencies and infidelity intentions have invented roughness and manhandling of the woman's body.

Any man that makes love to you roughly and touches you without respect is a cheat about to happen. All this harder and faster that girl scream is because they are promiscuous in nature already.
op 1 chilled puppy orange for u..I hop they listen
Family › Re: Help! I Just Got My Colleague At Work Pregnant by debbydams(f): 8:02am On Nov 15, 2021
AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding huh Time is ticking oo

Cc: lalasticlala . Pls bro help me push it to front page
congrats
Romance › Re: I Don’t Have Strength To Satisfy Jada’s Sexual Desires: Will Smith by debbydams(f): 8:14pm On Nov 14, 2021
OhBritannia:
If you are a lady in this forum and you know the name that's in bold in the comment i am replying now, then you are a wife material 100%.
wife material? Lol
Romance › Re: Three Major Tribes=most Handsome= by debbydams(f): 10:01am On Nov 13, 2021
I don't know but I prefer yoruba , Neva dated other tribe before Sha ...

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