Romance › Re: The Male Ego: What Is It? by deebrain(m): 9:38pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Both men and women have egos (feeling of self worth, importance etc)
Thing is its wired differently.
Men have that domineering thing in them--- both towards themselves let alone the opposite gender. They are natural dominators of their environment.
Women have the "focus" thing-- attention craze, you must notice me syndrome. Though many may have ability to control their environment, they would easily sell it, as long as the environment gives them relative attention and comfort.
Notice a home with boys. It's always fights. They would want to prove they are (mostly) stronger and more brave than their peers. Unlike the females, such is minimal (with the exception of minimal cases). Women will do very nice things at home and will almost automatically be parents favorite (domestically). But let daddy and mummy not recognize the effort or give the praise to another, jealousy and other wrong traits will rise.
In all, if managed properly, ego has the ability to bring the best in people. |
Crime › Re: Woman Flees As 60-year-old Lover Dies During Sex In Lagos by deebrain(m): 1:22pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
Fisiryorh: Now,what would he tell the celestials??... "I am very sorry, sirs" |
Celebrities › Re: Segun Arinze Celebrates 54th Birthday With New Pictures by deebrain(m): 7:42pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Happy birthday black arrow. |
Romance › Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by deebrain(m): 6:20pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Very correct. |
Health › Re: 5 Ways To Get Rid Of Cockroaches At Home by deebrain(m): 10:32am On Sep 21, 2019 |
omoadeleye: Use Sniper mixed with kerosene, very effective Seconded |
Career › Re: If You Had The Chance To Go Back To School Will You Still Study The Same Course by deebrain(m): 10:17am On Sep 21, 2019 |
God forbid |
Family › Re: 5th Wedding Anniversary: "Coming To America" Themed Photoshoot Of Nigerian Coupl by deebrain(m): 9:02pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
Cute. |
Crime › Re: Photo Of Ebuka Ukachukwu 'Small Witch' Wanted For Armed Robbery, Cultism In Imo by deebrain(m): 3:05pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
Big witch or small witch you said? |
Music/Radio › Re: Olamide 'Pawon' Video Snippet by deebrain(m): 5:45pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
I will always like the Olamide that gave us "Eniduro"...and" Omo to shun"....
After that, to be frank... No. |
Career › Re: Why Do Entrepreneurs Talk Down On 9-5? by deebrain(m): 7:41am On Sep 19, 2019 |
You don't need to talk down on one doing 9 to 5.
Every one has his/her area.
Thing is the issue of responsibility and maturity in taking risks.
The "security" of working in an establishment usually creates room for people to manifest irresponsibility. You are not the owner of the organization. Someone else does and he owes you your paycheck every agreed time.
And unlike very few cases of individuals that do excellently in 9 to 5 jobs, taking responsibility and ensuring that the organization is successful (like its their own), majority are more comfortable with earning salaries with their stated responsibilities. They will NEVER give an extra push (dem no pay me for that one. No be my papa work) for the success of their given organizations.
As an employer of labor, interestingly, many prospective employees will say the "we are people that love to push our limits and ensure the best for the company" when interviewed. All na for ensuring their paycheck. Lol. |
Celebrities › Re: Janemena Twerks On Fiance After Her Marriage Introduction by deebrain(m): 6:51am On Sep 19, 2019 |
It won't last. |
Celebrities › Re: Nina Ivy Stuns In Cleavage-Baring Outfit (Photos) by deebrain(m): 6:06pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Who is she? |
Health › Re: Alcohol Vs Soft Drink: Which Is More Harmful? by deebrain(m): 10:22am On Sep 14, 2019 |
ZoeyJ: If you’re drinking a glass or two of soda (and let’s assume the glass is about 12 ounces or 350mL) per day, the effects should be negligible. If you’re drinking two liters or more of heavily sugared soda (a cola type beverage, for example) per day, after a time (everyone’s body responds differently so it could be sooner or later) you may become diabetic. The same thing goes for alcoholic beverages. If you’re having one beer, or one glass of wine or a mixed drink on a regular basis, the effects are negligible. If, however, you are drinking a 750mL bottle of gin every night, after ten or fifteen years, you’ll eventually experience health problems ranging from mental health issues like depression to an irritated liver and/or pancreas and others, and that says nothing about the withdrawal effects. Too much of anything is never a good thing. But, we’re all human and take just about anything to an extreme level. My answer: depending on how much of either you consume, they both can wreak havoc on your body, however I think that alcohol is probably the worst out of these two simply because one can become addicted to it Nairaland owes you a bottle of malt. |
Sports › Re: Elisabeth Rohr Is Dead! Mother Of Gernot Rohr Is Dead by deebrain(m): 5:56pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
genternity: Rest in peace to the dead, Mom,remember to pray for your son,so that he will have brain..... Come to think of it, The gentleman coaches a national team to some level of success- if not too much.
You are but a commentator. You can't even handle the opportunity to talk right within the freedom given you via social media.
Who needs the said "brain" between the two of you? |
Crime › Re: Church Burglar Dies In Lagos After Getting Stuck During Operation (Photos) by deebrain(m): 12:55pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Justified |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerians Drag Teddy A For Wearing Airpods At His Traditional Wedding by deebrain(m): 3:34pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Its on a very wrong foundation.
It won't last. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido’s Bouncer Dishes Slaps To Fans Hailing Davido (Photos) by deebrain(m): 5:36pm On Sep 05, 2019 |
Dear Op,
I struggled to read this opening post.
I salute your English teachers. |
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Crime › Re: Mob Strips 2 Thieves Unclad In Imo State (Photos) by deebrain(m): 7:07pm On Sep 04, 2019 |
The one with the low cut has six PAC.
Ladies take note. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Silent Because Most Nigerians Killed In South Africa Are Igbos – Omokri by deebrain(m): 12:34pm On Sep 03, 2019 |
You are very wrong and very very stupid for saying this sir.
Like seriously, we know our President has failed, but hey,you don't start reasoning like a buffoon cos of Buhari!
I know many friends in S/A suffering this issue who cut across all tribes in Nigeria.
Haba. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Mercy & Ike Become The First Ever Joint Head Of House by deebrain(m): 8:12pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
Always doing it for love.
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Celebrities › Re: Mjautos: Bobrisky Speaks About The Birthday Car Settlement And Payment by deebrain(m): 5:56pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
Whoever believes Bobrisky is very stupid. |
Travel › Re: Two BRT Buses Collide In Ikorodu, Many Injured (Photos) by deebrain(m): 5:42pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
Very stupid and useless drivers.
You need to see the way many of them drive.
I'm not surprised.
I think it's only in Igbobi these people repent.
Nonsense. |
Crime › Re: Deeper Life Pastor, Tunde, Commits Suicide In Ogun After Being Duped by deebrain(m): 1:13pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
Oh my.... |
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Celebrities › Re: IK Ogbonna, Alex Ekubo, Yomi Casual Dance Zanku At A Wedding by deebrain(m): 6:37pm On Sep 01, 2019 |
Hmmm
OK.
(He goes to press the back button) |
Crime › Re: Yahoo Yahoo School In Lagos: EFCC Arrests 12 Suspected Internet Fraudsters by deebrain(m): 10:37pm On Aug 30, 2019 |
Too bad |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Buhari Encircled And Trapped In His Yokohama Hotel Hideout by deebrain(m): 3:39pm On Aug 30, 2019 |
you are nothing but a coward.
I'm so disappointed in you.
Those that (even if I think it was too extreme) harassed the former senator did not brag before the act. They took action.
You are busy talking big talk while people are putting their lives on the line.
True flats are never known to be cowards.
nonsense. |
Celebrities › Re: Bambam And Teddy-A's Introduction Holds Tomorrow, She's Reportedly Pregnant by deebrain(m): 9:08am On Aug 30, 2019 |
This will not end well. |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: “khafi Now Has A Sense Of Purpose Since Gedoni Left The House” – Ike by deebrain(m): 2:33pm On Aug 29, 2019 |
Never let no b**CH fool ya.
You always down like that from the props.
Even from the ghetto above, I feel ya..
Take ma confession to the cops..
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Celebrities › Re: Chinyelo Orjiakor Burial: Cossy Ojiakor's Mother's Buried, Actress In Crutches by deebrain(m): 5:03pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
Rip |
Celebrities › Re: Zlatan Places Curse On SARS Officer Who Stopped Him: E No Go Better For Your Mum by deebrain(m): 4:54pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
Sir.
Kindly abuse the person that offended you rather than directing the insult to the parents et al (it is common among the afonjas who will curse a dear relation to, as they think, drive home impact), of the given subject.
Come to think of it, what is the insult when someone says "YOUR MOTHER!"? What happened to her? |