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“Snatching a box is a crime. It is declaration of war on due process and free, fair election. Anyone who declares war on due process is committing treason against due process."

See how oppressors think. Shoot them because the would be ballot box snatcher is most likely the poor man. But for the looting rich who snatch our collective wealth with bullion vans and Ghana-must-go bags no such orders exist. Rather they are celebrated for their crime.

Tufia!

Larryfest:
But there was a time this Keyamo of a lawyer was sensible right? wtf happened to him

Stomach infrastructure insurance happened to him

The problem with Sarri is that he is just one dimensional and has no creative alternative to Sarri ball.

He is unimaginative.

Chelsea deserves better.

Fantastic Pogba scores.



Sarri's sack loading...

Which kain mod be dis wey no fit update scores

Of all the people that posed questions to the INEC chairman, only the Young Party lady and Adams Oshiomole were able to convey the anger of Nigerians. I don't like him as a person but Adams delivered. He did not buy the rubbish crap of flimsy excuses the chairman was spouting and profusely lashed him, deservedly so.

IPOB working really hard to save their shame-filled face. See how the once revered ipob are now jostling for social media relevance and attention like Bobrisky.

You guys are just a bunch of sense-bereft followers of a mentally ill tin god who have squandered all goodwill and are now a menace to the Igbo society.

No sane Igbo takes you guys seriously any more.

Ndi ara!

Ndi oso chi egbu!

Tufiakwa!

crackhaus:
Break the pattern by proposing to your boyfriend and take charge of some/all of the wedding finances.

Curses usually work one-dimensionally by hindering what would happen/progress naturally. Do something unnatural, something no one expects, and watch the curse crumble.

Sense will not finish me..

This will be like slamming a revolving door. Useless.

If it's a bloodline pattern she will get divorced in a jiffy afterwards like her aunties. A bloodline pattern is a compelling spiritual and psychological force. It's a foundational stronghold.

@Op you need to break this pattern spiritually, mentally and behaviourally. Get a therapist to help you with the psychological and the behavioural aspects.

Nice points op. Timely message.

Next time be more sensitive to both gender and religious balance when writing. There are sexual predators and preys in all genders and religions.

Let your writing unequivocally and unapologetically reflect this understanding.

Balance creates beauty and ease of digestion.

How people advise her to marry a slaver with iron shackles in his hands whom she feels nothing for and who bores her to death beats me.

Spend the rest of your days in prison as a slave with a jailer because you didn't know if something better would come up. Tufiakwa! Chukwu aju!!

Does the piling statistics of spousal murders and the high rate of divorce with the attendant damaging ripple effects on lives and generations mean nothing to you all?

I fear who no fear una!

Teasher don't teash me nonsense.

Mtcheeew!!!

Oyibo po

It's whet their appetite not 'wet'

ifyalways:
I had to re-read my post.

I didn't mean to.sound condescending or insult the OP though. My point was that the teenagers here will only call her that and have nothing to.offer her.

@OP, I'm sincerely sorry if my post offended you.

Now, that's the spirit.

sadtrut:
Thanks all

Do have a GReaT month

Will try my best to turn the tides

I can't move out of my current location due to some certain circumstances


It's going to be difficult pulling out
Am pretty popular
Respected by my members

I think I know how they going to react
There's only one way out I know of
Death

Will try my best though

Church , gradually reduce cult activities and time spent
Slowly drift back
Maybe I might go unnoticed and without represial
I pray it's worth it

If you realize this, why don't you go the whole 9 yards? Give your life to Christ and serve devoutly in church. Rebuild your life with the word and the anointing. Change for real. Get a strong pastor or MOG to mentor you through this. Perhaps if they see your zeal and consistency they will back out for good.

Beautiful piece of writing.

Captures Nigeria's pain points in all its hopeless detail.

Speechless.

It is well.

But Abraham contrary to hope believed in hope...

ifyalways:
Biko, some things work in developed countries where there are checks and balances.

You cant be acting British in Mushin.

40 years old (or almost) , with a child is already midnight newspaper according to Nld and a vast majority of today's youth. What You'd get here is boy toys who will scratch your Vee for a fee.

The type of men you need are not on NLD.

Ifyalways that midnight newspaper line, coming from you, is coldly insensitive and totally uncalled for.

NL is a platform with all manner of people, with different understanding, beliefs, values, idiosyncrasies and whims. Like all platforms, including meeting people in the real world, she may or may not get what she wants. The risk is always there. It behoves on her to discern and choose wisely.

@OP , I am hoping you've learnt the lessons and the wisdom life was trying to teach you in your failed marriage. If not you are bound to repeat it.

Secondly, make sure you've healed from the pains of that marriage before you jump into any relationship. Be whole. Be ready.

What you wrote up there is your cv. I believe you can sell yourself and what you want better. That way you increase the probability of the right person coming for you.

Lastly, it may sound clichéd but get closer to God. The spiritual side helps when life has dealt us some cards. Best wishes

juanmiguel:
There is no consonant cluster in Igbo Language. The correct spelling is Chidimma not NMA

Can you say what you know? What is nwa, nmehie(sin), nna, nne, njiko, nzuko, Chimamanda?

Back to topic: shocked by the blatant ignorance on this thread. The correct spelling should be Chidinma, strictly speaking.

Icon4s:
Ur point is very valid. I just hope we will get it right this time.

However, I can tell you that the 1985 Golden Eaglets were picked from secondary schools. So they were actually U17. Then the thinking was children Under 17 years of age should still be in secondary schools. Age cheating started from the 1987 set. But recall one Peter Ogaba who died early this month was 13 years old. One of the pictures shows it below. That young Peter does not look more than 15 to me. The guy was no where to be found after he played U21 two years later.

Most of the 1985 Eaglets were mostly young but did not progress well. Several factors could be responsible which could mostly be linked to lack of exposure to World Class training and facilities as enjoyed by these new boys.

But as I have also stated on this thread that most of the graduates of the FIFA U17 WC don't end up playing for there respective senior national teams. It has been happening all over the world.

Look at the 2013 U17. The expectation was that by now a good number would be bossing things in the national team. For now, only Iheanacho and Musa Mohammed(Friendly game) have featured for the Super Eagles Team A. Musa Mohammed has even just been offloaded by his Turkish club! There are some of them that you would not even get to hear their names anywhere again. This trend as worrisome as it may seem has repeated itself the world over.

2015 marks the end of an era that spans from 2009. We will not be at the 2017 U17 and U20. This will mark an hiatus in Nigerian football and another generation will start building from 2019.

Chairman, those under 16 boys were over the age limit. That tournament was for under 16. They were not picked from secondary schools but from mostly YSFON teams across the nation. YSFON boys had left secondary school but were not yet playing in the league. We've been cheating in age competitions from time immemorial and we've paid a heavy price for such shortsightedness as a footballing country.

ow11:
3SC 1996 squad

Abiodun Baruwa

Patrick Pascal

Ajibade Babalade

David Ogaga

Dotun Alatishe

Please someone complete this. . . .That squad deserved the title that year

I also remember a certain Jero Shakpoke

Patrick Mancha
Edith Agoye
Duke Udi
Trying to remember the rest.

That set was frightening and intimidating.

ARROBA:
Benji Nzeakor Iwuanyanwu Nationale
Totti O Totti
Ali Nayara I think (ranchers Bees)

Benjy Nzeakor - his nickname is Touchline Wizard. Special player.

stanloski:
I think for nicknames there are two i really love- I will post the nickname and i want sharp guys to give me the players names:

A player called "ZION TRAIN" hint- he was in the all conquering NNB side of the 80s and the secone one was called "TEN-TEN" also a member of NNB and eagles at Maroc 88. any takers?

ps wat of Duke Udi and Gideon Imagbudu?

Zion Train is Sampson Ozogula. Ten-Ten is Bright Omokaro

Waleol:
[quoalloysius atuegbu
godwin odiye
adokiye amaesimaka
segun odegbami
kenneth boardman
babaotu mohammed
godwin iwelumor
henry nwosu
muda lawal
felix owoblow owolabi



U get all mix up my friend. D Starting lin up

Best ogedegbe
pat okala
tunde bamidele
david adiele
sylvanus okpala
alloysius atuegbu
godwin odiye
adokiye amaesimaka
segun odegbami
kenneth boardman
babaotu mohammed
godwin iwelumor
henry nwosu
muda lawal
felix owoblow owolabi


U get it all mixed up. D starting line up are (Mind my name spelling please)
prebowei  
Insert Quote
1980 nations cup winning team

1.Best ogedegbe
2.David adiele
3. Okey Isima
4. Muda Lawal
5. Chritian Chukwu
6.Tunde Bamidele
7. Segun Odegbami
8. Alloy Atuegbu
9. Ifayin Oyendika
10. Felix Owolabi
11.Adokiye Amaesimaka

BENCH
Emmanuel Okala and not Patrick (was still in High School IN 1980)
Sylvanus Okpala
Henry Nwosu
Godwin Odiye
Kadiri Ikana
Sheffiu Mohammed


kenneth boardman-(was never there)
babaotu mohammed-1976 NATION'S CUP ONLY
godwin iwelumor-1976&1978

No 9 is Ifeanyi Onyedika

1forall:
Well I remember Ademola Adeshina

Also Etim Esin

What happened to Precious Monye?

Remember Leotis Boateng? (he mustve been Ghanian but played in the Nigerian league)

There was this midfielder in our Japan 93 team who was known for his hot shots from range, anyone remember his name?

Karibe Ojigwe

ChrisKels:
I haven't seen a player so unserious with his career. He should look at his mates like Osimhen, Chukwueze, Kingsley Michael et al. These guys will never come out showing off bkus they are more inclined in playing soccer and making names in the game than frivolities, unlike Kelechi. Tell him that, that same Amadou Haidara he bossed in the midfield against Mali in that U17 world cup is now a midfield general for Leipzig while he (Nwakali) is a bench warmer for Porto Academy

Remind him that Chukwueze is currently the best young player in the world's best league, the Laliga santander

Remind him that Osimhen today is among the top 3 strikers the jupiler league can boast of.

Also, let him know that Kingsley Michael is today rated the best player for promotion chasing Serie B side Perugia and the over all best CM in the Serie B.

This boy is a joke, soccer wise

Remove your judgmental lens from your eyes, look beyond the Gucci and read his statement again. He was also talking about and encouraging himself too.

safarigirl:
Kelechi look at your mates, playing for clubs like Barcelona and Manchester United, while you are getting guccified on Instagram


Is this where your football career is going? Nwokem, look at your mates, no dey show off cars for IG now, so that when you old, you no go dey beg the same people you been dey flex, for money

Remove your judgmental lens from your eyes, look beyond the Gucci and read his statement again. He was also talking about and encouraging himself too.

Earthbound:
Her mom's probably right, knowing her daughter well enough more than the recipients of this tweet.

And who raised and trained this daughter she knows well enough? A mother without a soul, whose heart is seared, bereft of compassion and empathy for her wounded child.

Some children do have them. Tueeeeh!

Just shocked to read this. My chiropractor. My paddy. He was kind to me and treated me with understanding. Saw him some time last year and he was still so strong.

RIP good man.

A married pastor kept his married status hidden from you and was emotionally cheating on his wife with you, calling you often and following you about in the name of friendship. This is a potential warning sign. It might not disqualify him but if I were you I would dig further.

What qualities do you want in a man? Forget the pastor title he bears. Can this man be trusted? Does he have integrity?

What manner of man and husband was he? What manner of issues did he have with the wife ? Why was the wife always running away? Have you done your due diligence on this man?

He hasn't sorted his messed up life out and you are being roped into his mess. Let him sort his mess out first. It's after he has done so and has become available to remarry that you can even begin to contemplate considering his proposal. For now that man is both biblically and legally married and unavailable.

His wife was right to have accused you. You may not have physically cheated with him but you did so emotionally. You were his go to person, the person he went to to escape marital troubles and receiver of most of his calls.

If you intend to call the wife to exonerate yourself, get ready for some bashing. However, let her know you never dated him.

Meantime, kill this introvert excuse of yours and make yourself available to potential suitors by positioning yourself.

Two, ask God for the spirit of wisdom in matters concerning getting married. The scripture says that if you lack result in any area of life you should ask God for the requisite wisdom in that area and that God will give it to you liberally.

God's grace.

Ishilove:
This thread is quite instructive. Men open similar threads daily in this section and no one bats an eyelid. A woman has done the same and people have congregated here to psychoanalyse, stereotype and villify her.

Hypocritical society we live in.

Kill the alarm. Few people vilifying her do not equate to all men.

Rare breed. God bless her and her kind.

Many others will not say a kind word about their good maid but would rather focus on her weaknesses to curse and belittle her and rob her of her little dignity until one day she leaves with her battered soul.

2 or 3 maids later, you see madam hailing all the beautiful qualities of the old maid and comparing the new maids to the standard set by the old, daily abusing these new ones with her caustic tongue.

The bottom line, all maids, good or bad, must be robbed of their dignity. It's the only way madam will feel like madam. Tueeeh!

UyaiIncomparabl:
I never had a sound upbringing. My parents are a write off.

Good. A problem diagnosed is half solved. You now have a map to set yourself free from the prisons and chains from the past.

No theorizing, or philosophizing or blame passing or anger will help you much. Your parents did whatever they did out of ignorance or their own pain or trauma or dysfunctional upbringing too.

Time for you to break the pattern and not pass it on to your future children like they did. Take your destiny into your own hands, take responsibility and break free no matter what it takes.The beautiful and powerful you within deserves it. Your future husband and children deserves to meet the real you too.

Take charge. May God help you on this journey.

Look to your childhood experiences and the kind of loving, parenting and upbringing you got as a child for the answers you seek. Your early family life is the very foundation on which the present you is built.

If the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Train a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it.

So you are set. Your yesterday moulded your today. Your past is the key to your present. To set the real you free and get to the authentic you, that child needs to be set free.

Targeted prayers, meditation, confessions/affirmations will help. Or get a good therapist. Pm me if that interests you.