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Rosabelle are you like my clone or smthn?? lol

Mine's been one month. I couldnt even cry when it happened. I eventually did after about 11 days and that was it. Just one major night of crying.

I deleted ALL our pics (abt 1,000,000 of em) and made sure I emptied d recycle bin for effect.

It's been easier than I thot. It still hurts, yeah. Still miss him, yeah. Still love him, yeah. But I hardly have time 2 think about him

I feel a sudden rush of freedom. The pressure to marry is off, I can breathe! I just realised that some days ago

I can give out my mobile numba to ANYONE I so wish. I can take up a job ANYWHERE. I can go ANWHERE.

@Poster
The God factor is major. When you wake up praising God @ the top of ur lungs and dancing, there is little room to be sad. Peace that passeth all understanding envelops you. God is a major factor, I tell you.

2ndly, Im always around frnds with crazy sense(s) of humour(s) and I just end up laughing my way thru each day.

3rdly, engage in creative activities. I'm presently @ d top of my creative game, it's amazing what ideas I come up with these days. Prior to now, I was probably too busy being loved up to think as hard as I am doin right now. Just think, think and think. Come up with ideas that are sure to make you hammer. And when you hammer d hammer, you'll be too busy shoppin for shoes to think about the hurt

And lastly, it always helps to meet new, interesting guys. Norring serious. But the attention you get distracts. . .

At the end of the day, every single damn thing happens for a reason. And all things worketh 2geda for the good of they that love Him. . .So relax, God is in control!

Rosabelle:
Im a big believer in: 'Every disappoinment is a blessing'. And in my life, Ive learnt, the bigger the disappointment, the great the blessing coming my way.
I got dumped three months ago, so Im talking from experience lol
I cried a lot. Deleted his numbers and threw out his clothes and deleted all emails and text messages I wrote him and he wrote me. And then I cried at the death of my love for him.
Told all my friends and my mum. Talked about it all the time. Cried some more. Cried again. Remembered a lot of memories (5yrs) and cried some more.
I analysed the situation, cried more, and decided he wasnt worth it after all. After 10 days of contunous crying, loss of 6kilos, I started making big plans. Right now I feel sooo free, its unbelievable. I dont have to think about being someone's wife soon or compromising anything cos Im with someone and so Im free. Its a grand feeling.
Its been three months, and the heartache I felt is now in the past.

THE AMAKA:
okay this may be a "little" off topic, but why do some posters post threads asking for advice but never log back into to see the the advice being given or said.
or maybe its a person that already is on NL and just made that account, as not to post from the account that everyone already knows them from.
so they made that one, posted the topic, then logged back into their former one to see the replies.
it makes sense.

but if thats not the case, WHERE IS THE POSTER TO HEAR HIS ADVICE!
why do some people like to post and run away?

££VICTOR££:
Can Someone Answer these question:

1. Can u watch Video on Nairaland?
2. Can u meet old time friends or relatives on Nairaland?
3. Can u meet Artist on Nairaland?
4. Can u play quiz on Nairaland?
5. Can u chat on Nairaland?
6. Can u Comment on your friend pics on Nairaland?
7. Can u update status on Nairaland?
8. Can u play game on Nairaland?

Make i Stop there,

At this point am ready to confuse you but not to confuse me that facebook is better than Nairaland,

Meldrick:
@ stillwater
The Oxford University Press defines grace as the kindness that God shows towards a race or individual. Take it or leave it

posakosa:
Absolutely valid point. For me sha, moving on is not the issue. Its more of the manner in which the person breaks up with you. Is it with dignity and respect ?

Ani Lee:
if that one true love aint God:

objection

ebila:
Is this a poem or an actual story?Either ay,heartbreak is wot one shud pray to experience cos if u do experience it,love will mean more wen u find it subsequently! Heartbreak doesn't kill,it makes stronger!

Ujujoan:
. . . but I dont think there's a man who could truly give me what I want in life.

Segun agagu:
@poster pls can u just summarise the story 4 us i want to know what happened

Ujujoan:
I dont see it as 'recorvery time' per say!!

I've of course come out of that 'out-of-the-world-experience-feeling'. SOmewhere along the line you'll realize he just wasnt worth the hearthache!

I'll love again, I'll get married, I'll love my hubby and my family. But I dont know if I can ever get over the betrayal and pain I felt then.

C2H5OH:
Dust upon dust. Your heart lost its virginity and . . . .