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@OP Firstly, I think the issue of gender has to be raised. If you are a man, ideally, you shouldnt come back home after NYSC. But I think it's a bit different for women. In our society, regardless of how successul a woman is, she is expected to remain in her father's house till she gets married. I cannot imagine living in the same town with my parents and renting a house. ![]() 9ja being what it is, when an unmarried woman decides to live alone, she is termed "loose" The only solution is to get a job in a totally different city and have a LEGAL and VALID reason to live alone. I'm 23 and I live on my own. I had to switch towns for this to be possible. And despite the fact that I am earning a living and not just faffing around, I still hear crap like "Abuja is not a place where single women should live. Any woman thinkin of gettin married in the future should not live alone in Abuja" Very very shallow minded people we have sha. |
Because his wife refuses to learn how to drive. Classic ![]() He shd be locked up in a pysch ward |
^^ Good question oh! How did they get all the details about how they divided themselves in groups and how many they were?? Abi 9ja don get CCTV |
^^ "Serious" is relative. So why don't you give us your definition of "serious relationship" |
Lost my phone, did a welcome back and saw Pay Go. I have been a loyal MTN subscriber from the beginning of time and I think I'm just sentimentally attached to my 080331 number. But e be like say the scales have fallen oh! Etisalat actually gives 1 free minute for every 5-minute call I receive?? Are you kidding?? I'm so giving all my toasters my new etisalat number ![]() The only MTN offer that makes sense right now is the Magic number. Lemme try it out sef and see whether it's as good as it sounds. I truly am tired of MTN and coming from me, it means MTN is in trouble. |
All of you making noise about it being a rubbish show, make una go siddon jare!! Wait until your brother or sister wins $200,000 from it and then come back here and talk! I am neither for nor against the show. Infact, I have decided to attend this year's audition, just for kicks. P.S: I'm not jobless |
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Her Heart ~ Anthony Hamilton |
Heart Of Life ~ John Mayer |
He was 60 when she was born. Bad guys ![]() |
Don't mind this Farxiya jor. We go soon flog her for hia. Does she know ALL the Somalian women in the world?? Pple can be so ignorant oh! |
Na wa. Terrible story. Ms Molukwu sounds like a little witch ![]() Imagine what the little baby had to go thru This PROBLEM isn't peculiar to Arik alone. It's a huge national problem. Customer Service in Nigeria is minus ZERO. You pay for something, yet they act like they're doing you a favour! |
Wind wey no get direction?? This your advice sef, e get k-leg. I'd much rather remain on land. Thanks but no thanks ![]() |
No, I havent. And erm, erm, what good would that do?? |
@Poster: Me and you dey the EXACT same situation. All the advice wey people don give you here, I don read them finish. It really is frustrating. Knowing that it's over and done with, not even wanting a "re-union" YET the ediat still remains inmy head, heart, soul erm. . .where else? I even had a dream about him last night where he came to me in crowded street and tried to hold my hand but I was reluctant. . .but there was a magnet (or something like that) that pulled my hand to his and I was struggling to let go but couldnt. . . AS IN!! I was mad when I woke up and more annoyingly, I couldnt stop thinking about the dream the whole day. I need deliverance. Berra join me ![]() |
Translator please?? Somebody. . .? Anybody. . .? ![]() |
^^ Perfect ![]() |
Drink cough syrup ![]() Ok seriously, it may sound cliche, but it'll get better with time. . .Not all at once. . . .but little by little, you'll heal ![]() |
Farxiya:^^ Abeg slow down lady! I wasn't referring to you as "mixed". That was a general statement, not in any way directed at you. I didnt even know you aren't Nigerian. I sabi you b4? Now that you've mentioned you're Somalian, there lies the difference. Women from that part tend to have naturally softer and curlier hair than the average Nigeria woman. I wasn't making "ridiculous assumptions", just a general statement. Kapish? |
Atreides, For a 16 7/12 yr old, you speak really well. I'm impressed and must commend your excellent use of English. Minus the English sef, you sound quite balanced. Please darling, do not in anyway bothered by the so-called pressure to be a "pair". If you succumb, it'll only get worse. The next thing they'll be wondering is why you'd have a boyfriend and not have segz. And after you give in to that, something else will come up. Even when you become an adult, it doesn't stop. There'll always be people wondering why you re single, why you arent married, why you arent having segz bla bla (personally and currently being xperienced by me). I know this may sound cliche and "old-maidish" but concentrate on your books and save yourself for marriage. If you do meet a boy you like, nothng stops you from being friends. Just ensure that appropriate lines are drawn. Good luck darl ![]() [s]By d way, I have a 17 7/12 brother. . .you might even be birthday mates. . .[/s] ![]() |
Farxiya:Oh pls, get real. I'm not referring to African women who are mixed. Maybe we're not all blessed with good hair. If you had the kinda hair I do, you'd understand that leaving it all natural isn't even remotely an option. As natural as braids look (eg Eryka Badhu's), you still need supposedly "fake" hair to pull it off. There's fake and there's fake Mrs, Eve:Errrrrrm. . . . ![]() Say that again? |
^^ Oh my, wow! That's sad. What happened to him?? Do u know? |
^^ And what would I be doing near fire?? Do I roast fish in the market?? ![]() |
The same reason men disappoint women that truly care about them. Vicious cycle. It's a dog-eat-dog world. Deal with it |
Farxiya:My fren, go and sit down jor!! We are African women, we have naturally STRONG hair, maintaining it isn't alll that easy. . . No matter how natural a woman is, she will fix something "fake" at some point or the other. But then, there is the "fake" that still has you looking natural and the one that makes you look unnatural Mrs, Eve:Abeg jare! What is the difference?? That I can wash one and use it for as long as I'm alive while the other is discardable. Pray tell, why would I wanna keep fake hair for the rest of my life! Abeg jare! My policy is: Fix and troway ![]() All the talk about 80k brazillian hair infuriates me. I have a friend who does not even have a job nor a source of income, yet she spent over 100k on HAIR. . .and she hasnt finished paying. . .what madness ![]() |
^^ Just like you have an unfortunte foul mouth and can't see anything good beyond your nose. Mschew!Some people are just so shallow ehn! *smh* @Post: Go go go Fashola! You're the man! |
bisiaet:Seriously. I honestly really thought you were joking and just wanted to give us small comic relief in the spirit of Xmas. With over 600 posts, I was sure it was a joke. So I went thru the pains of going over your previous posts and alas! I was dead dead wrong! ![]() Bros eh! If you crash NL, w no go forgive you oh! @Post Please abeg, what is that razz Jim Iyke feeling like with his yeye eye glass. Mschew. Mgbeke feeling funky (MFF). Mschew! |
ASSnal 0 - 0 CHESSY It's gonna be a goaless draw. Yawn yawn. Top of the table, with NO GAME LOST plus 2 games at hand AND the highest Goal difference, ManU is the team to watch. |
Nairaland guys ehn!! Una sabi fall pesin hand sha! Shame no dey cach una, comin here to spew all this rubbish about women (real and imagined). The fact that you even know such people and were interested in them at some point should say something about you and your "taste in women" Yeye people ![]() |
Chocolate cake, Oh gosh, Very soft, and messy, oh gosh! Blue Elephant, here I come! |
I just moved to Abuja and I'm loving it so far. Having lived in Lagos, PH and some other places, I can confidently say Abuja is the best place to be There's just a sanity and tranquility I find here. Although it has its bad sides oh! As for Enugu, drrrrrry, dusty and razz place. I once got a job there and ran away after one week! |
He's a fiisherman. . . .or a pappy water ![]() |



