₦airaland Forum

Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

If I were you n I'm truly convinced that I did nothing wrong,I will let her go for good,if she ever get to her senses and try contacting me then I will finally place her in her rightful place,in dealing with girls you need to be good but very firm when the need arises else ladies will make a fool of you.

Kendroid:
How these men embezzle such huge amount remains a mystery to me. Do they carry it in cash or what?

And you truly believe the lies n propaganda?,now consider this, sometimes in 2017 while speaking in the US petirin the CDS claimed the government had spent about $2.6B in the NE from when the took over power,that was after the government claimed to have defeated Boko Haram,I think in 2018 buhari took $1B from the sovereign wealth fund for military related use in the NE, where are the arms procured?,just this very week,Boko Haram attacked Damaturu n biu so many other incidenci unreported yet the government says boko Haram now only attacks soft targets!,thank God Dansuki said he is very ready to meet his accusers in court, please let the trial be open n public so that the whole world including you can judge for yourself.

mu2sa2:
This man is only on bail; his trial for the massive corruption case involving over $2 billion continues. Buhari was even kind to him by not ordering his transfer to prison - you can see how fresh he's looking after 4 years of special pampering by fg. This life: Gej who supervised everything is off the radar, while Dasuki who carried out Gej's directive suffers alone.

The man said he is ready to meet you guys in court,so make haste n help your Lord to assemble all the evidences you need now n I hope your master will not hide under the guise of phantom national security to Insist on secret trials,you guys have accused the man openly let his trial n defense be open too n do brave yourselves for the beans about to be spilled ok.

valentineuwakwe:
Source: https://punchng.com/if-you-like-call-me-baba-go-slow-says-buhari/

you are no longer baba go slow but mumu delusional.

Omuneizzy6:
the neighbors helped him with the malt... no money.. simple matter o the wife asked him how about our children clothes for the Xmas boom the man provoked.. the beating stated around 9pm to 12am... no food in the house..

she self,Na on Christmas Eve she go come de ask for children clothes we the man no buy since?,I sure say no be beta word self she take ask the angry man,the thing just be like pouring kero for small fire.

4601CE:
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Defender of looters.
Come and say this nonsense in real life and Chop the beating of your lifetime from well meaning Nigerians .

you sound like a sponsored miscreant.

jahsharon:
There is only one C-in--C in Nigeria, his name us Major General Muhammadu Buhari. He is the Law.

If you steal our country's money like Col. Dasuki did, you will vomit it. If you commit Treason, Felony or Treasonable Felony like Sowore did, you will pay dearly no matter what the Courts say.

Where were the Courts when Col Dasuki was looting our treasury? Where were the Courts when Sowore was campaigning for overthrow of a democratic government?

Anybody that does anyhow will see anyhow.

so how much has dasuki committed?, surely buhari will be proud of you!.

All2Gists:
Former National Security Adviser (NSA), Colonel Sambo Dasuki (rtd), has regained his freedom after spending more than four years in detention.

Dasuki was released by the Department of State Services (DSS) on Tuesday in Abuja, following the directive of the Federal Government.

“The first thing he did was to pray. He went into a private mode and was there for several minutes. After that, he embraced every one in the house”, our source said.

Dasuki was surrounded by his wife, children, relatives and some close associates.

https://www.musikpluz.xyz/2019/12/Sambo-Dasuki-Smile-As-He-Regains-Freedom-Photo.html

After all the accusations n media trials of this man, absolutely nothing came out of,I so wish that someone from a different party other than Apc should win the 2023 elections n take a critical look at how buhari/Apc has saintly manage the affairs of this country n let's see how true the claims of buhari's high integrity really is.

XINOIX:
Source https://thenationonlineng.net/breaking-fg-orders-release-of-dasuki-sowore/

After all this while forming Castro,but now that uncle Sam n her allies has frown their faces the bunch of deciets remembered there was a court bail that should be obeyed, nonsense!.

Omooba77:
https://www.channelstv.com/2019/12/22/breaking-suspected-boko-haram-insurgents-attack-parts-of-yobe/amp/

Damaturu is now a soft target shikena.

Racoon:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2019/12/21/lawan-is-just-a-rubber-waiting-to-stamp-anything/

It was purely because buhari/APC wanted stooges as leaders of NASS, something Yakubu dogara n Bukola saraki were too refined to accept,that was why the Apc made sure both of them had to give way particularly saraki,I said before n I will say it again, Nigerians will certainly miss saraki's experience n political firmness which Apc propaganda manchine decietfully presented as arrogance n antagonism,lawan himself knows he is a complete stooges moreso that Goje had to be placated to step down for him,but it's nice these things are happening today so that tommorow we shall learn to ask critical questions.

deji17:
https://www.thecable.ng/border-closure-fuel-consumption-has-dropped-by-70-in-adamawa-says-dpr/amp

The irony of this Apc abracadabra is even with this claim,the amount spend on subsidy or under recovery is still increasing

ikorodureporta:
Source: https://dailynigerian.com/jigawa-govt-to-construct-95-mosques-over-200-contractors-applied-for-bidding/

Is it not wrong to use public funds to promote a particular religion in a multi ethnic n multi religious society like Nigeria?,that useless professor of MURIC will not see anything wrong in this but if Rivers State were to do this now he will immediately embark on long epistle journey

Desric:
My brother see wahala o, no wonder these days a lot of ladies can not survive 10momths in a marriage and when advised by their mums they'll say the woman is old fashioned, still with their new fashion, they can't keep a home.

Don't mind her n her type,dem go hear wheeen!.

Damilolacoker:
Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.

He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.

The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.

Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore.

You don't want to be submissive to the man but you want him to pamper you!, pamper kill you there.

dre11:
https://www.independent.ng/fg-mulls-banning-importation-of-commodities-produced-in-nigeria/

You produce the product but can you produce the machines you need,in protecting our interests we should be careful not to push our luck too far as we as a nation is very vulnerable so we need to very tactful, somebody should remind buhari everything is not by gragra,he tried that before and we all saw the results.

msmon:
https://www.channelstv.com/2019/12/13/fg-to-stop-importation-of-petrol-by-2023/amp/#click=https:///EBRUmp4xj0

Of course by then dangote petrochemical n refinery will be on n the nnpc refineries will be dead like nitel,then the northerners will laugh at the Niger deltans cheekily,there was a lot of sense in Atiku's plan but time shall tell.

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

Don't come back home again till she's gone, simple!.

Obito555:
Nigerians are not grateful, when Jonathan was in power most people said he is too weak against corruption which paved way for Buhari Administration where the fight against corruption better than his predecessor. If u think Buhari is not doing it right let's wait for 2023 when a weaker vessel like Jonathan will take power and the corruption continues but if He Buhari said no am not leaving. BOOM!!! Welcome to Complete Military rule


Nigerians Don't even need weak President like Buhari

The issue is not about weakness or strength,the major issue is about buhari's bias, nepotism, arrogance etc,if buhari has been sincere n fair in his actions there wouldn't be so much outcry in the country today, it's as simple as that.

LabDNA:
If real time electronic voting and transmission is not included, then it is a waste of legislative hours.

Exactly.

Omooba77:
Surpasses health, education, agric budgets Overshoots by N78bn in 2019 The current administration spent N1.477 trillion ($4bn dollars) on subsidy on Premium Motor Spirit (PMS) also known as petrol between May 2015 when the government was inaugurated and July 2019, Daily Trust reports. The government has earmarked another N450 billion as fuel subsidy in 2020,…

Read more: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/fuel-subsidy-gulps-n1-5-trillion.html

Under Johnathan subsidy was corruption but under buhari a bigger subsidy is not corruption!,what a devilish irony!!.

Maxymilliano:
https://www.legit.ng/1282569-samuel-peter-nigerian-nightmare-knocked-by-arslanbek-makhmudov.html

Peter is just a bag of akamu,he should rather be address as the "Nigerian disgrace".

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Where is Lauretta now??

I know that woman is always high on Gallons of Palm wine and it's really affecting her Sense of reasoning. I thought she said Sowore supporters staged what happened in court that day.

Don't mind that presidential toilet washer, useless old hag.

ghettokid1:
U KNOW WHATSUP GUY!.
Wilder's plan is that if ruiz mistakenly wins by luck. He will quickly beat him up & collect the titles and become the greatest. But thank god his plan did not work

you are very correct, weilder believe so much in his power that he thinks he is unbeatable but he is going to be shocked some day,let him get past fury first in the meantime.

ghettokid1:
i didnt o

I meant,I was only mocking Ruiz,of I'm happy Joshua won,the hate n lack of respect especially from weilder was too much, Joshua needed to silence them n force them to sing a different tune like weilder is already doing.

koolaid87:
Aya bi ekun

From Anthony J, to Israel A to Kamaru U


Greatness is in our DNA as Nigerians

I wish the govt could invest more in us

With his built,if AJ stays focus he beat weilder,Deontay only depends on raw power with little technique,of course that's an advantage but some day that one chance will be a mirage for him.

ghettokid1:
see the smiles below

yeah, something like that,but I was only been sarcastic,I hope you understood that.

Loladearewa01:
I am a staunch introvert, the kind that stays at home all day I really hate small talks and I can't talk to people for more than 5minutes.

When I call a lady hardly can we talk for a minute. Infact I hate calling. Now I had this experience when I visited my aunty and an ex of mine happen to stay in the same compound.

I noticed her boo calls her for like 2hours and she's always laughing with him. This was when I started realising my mistake when I was with her I hardly call and communicate and this has been happening with most of the ladies I meet and things are not working out.

Is there anyone with similar experience?

I have personally observe that most people that chat at length with ladies hardly keep secrets n can easily be manipulated by girls,so don't worry about not talking at length just develop the ability for frank friendly n humourous discussion not just with ladies but everyone.

Halacable:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/just-in-we-didnt-arrest-sowore-in-court-his-supporters-were-only-acting-says-dss/amp

But were you DSS guys within the court premises or not?,liars!.

ghettokid1:
Here are the photos from the rematch of Andy Ruiz vs Anthony Joshua, as Joshua retains his heavyweight titles back from Andy Ruiz

I thought Andy Luiz is always smiling,where is the smiles today?

Ayed44:
Aisha Buhari, wife of President Muhammadu Buhari, says “bad people” have taken over the country from people who are “supposed to be in charge”.

Aisha said this on Thursday during a phone-in interview on Television Continental (TVC)’s ‘Journalists Hangout’ programme.

She said it is unacceptable that those who should be in control of the government have remained mute, while some persons are using the social media to bring down the government.

She said fake news has caused her some distress particularly when the president was rumoured to have died, and when he was said to be taking a second wife.

“I didn’t take it seriously because even my husband didn’t know what was happening,” she said of the rumoured marriage.

“Both of us didn’t know what was happening; they just decided to bombard social media with it. They are now taking to social media to bring down the government itself.

“I think that we should not allow people that are nothing to override the innocent; I don’t know why people that are supposed to be in charge should remain mute while bad people take over the country from us. It is impossible and totally unacceptable.”

Aisha also accused presidential aides and other government officials of ignoring issues they should respond to and focusing on things that the presidency has no business in.

“Whenever they (presidential aides) are supposed to take action against the offenders, or to take action or to take charge or be in control, or caution people, they keep mute,” she said.

“But when it comes to unnecessary things, people will start talking of the presidency. A typical example is what happened after the election in Bayelsa state. When the PDP came out and said they would … suspend His Excellency, Goodluck Jonathan, the former president, for doing wrong or something like that.

“I have seen no reason why (the) presidency should come out and say that they were shocked to hear that. Is it their business? Are they PDP members? Is president Jonathan a member of our party? What does that have to do with the presidency?”


https://www.thecable.ng/aisha-buhari-bad-people-have-taken-over-the-country-from-us/amp?__twitter_impression=true

This woman is a bloody hypocrite, always speaking with the two side of her tongue, during the elections she sang the praises of her husband to the heavens, now instead of admitting her children husband's gross incompetence,she is shifting the blame,she can only fool the zombies.