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My brother keep doing your research and even if you don't find out on this forum try asking some other place. Knowledge is power and there is no crime in asking questions to get answers. Sorry i do not know the answer to your question but my best advice is that you work within the range of 50k-60k. Or just tell the panel that they can pay you based on the salary scale they have already in place for employees at the starting level.

Dear Poster,
I pray you find a man who would love you right just as a decent, genuine man should. When you meet such a man a lot of these warped opinion you hold will be discarded.

How much have you set aside to spend purchasing a gift? When you have set a budget you can start looking for suggested gifts that lie within the limit of your pocket. Besides don't you remember any offhand comment she must have made in respect of what she would like to have?

Above all else do not strain yourself buying so much for a lady until you are legally married to her. Treat her nicely but do so with wisdom.

I have just 2 advices for you.

1. Pay for more Data plan. Etisalat now has 200mb for just N1000.

2. Disable Data when you are not browsing.

Such men can only be found in the pages of a "Mills and Boons Novel" and that is if you buy the right copy.

Ridiculous!!!! You demean a woman's worth by placing a price tag on her.

@Ijgoz k, But i have prayed fasted and done all, But it still remains and my GF wanna dump me cuz she is scared.

Anger creates a false sense of superiority in the mind of an individual, you feel invincible, untouchable, and you get a thrill by seeing people cower before your outbursts but the truth is that it is a sign of a deep inferiority complex and immaturity. If you take the time to review the reasons for your outbursts you might discover that it was unwarranted. You can pray and fast as much as you want but you cannot overcome if you are not willing to let go. Your duty is to surrender willingly to God and he will do the rest. It takes a lot to die to oneself and it is something you must do everyday. When you fail and lose your temper do not despair, just pick yourself up and surrender continually to God.

You have to take a step back and reflect on why you are easily ticked off. If someone made a comment and you lost it you need to evaluate why such comment would upset you and why you could not just overlook such comments. While growing up were you quite temperamental or did it just develop as time went by? If you were born with it which i doubt i would advise you seek serious counseling, but if it started not so long ago then you really need a quite moment to ask yourself deep seated questions on the root cause of your anger.

Either she went out of her way to get me a rather queer gift, or she is trying to test my response, or she is playing a sick joke, either way rather than kicking her and slapping which is quite unmanly as some people are pointing out i would just lovingly tell her to keep the Teddy closest to her pillow and anytime she longs to have me around and i cannot be there she should hold the teddy close and think of me.

The result of childishness and chronic joblessness.

Some people find it difficult to let go of one who they've being in a relationship with especially if they have invested so much in that relationship. To these ones you have to be a little patient with them, if you have given a lot in love to someone it hurts to see another party stroll in to reap where they did not sow. But for those who go out of their way to make trouble with the girlfriends of their ex, these ones do need a good talking to.

If you choose to play a defensive lineup in your midfield you are bound to commit fouls that either gets you sent off or you miss the next match, the rules are in place to protect players from senseless challenges. Pinto was given a red card for an incident that was after the first half no one seems to be tearing down the roof, the ref could have given a yellow card but he choose to issue an outright red, likewise the challenge by Pepe is an outright red which the ref choose to give, it was his decision to make and he did so. It is not Barca's fault that Pepe decided to make such riduculous lunge that gets him sent off.

When Jose won the Kings cup with the same style of play everybody hailed him as a genuis and messiah, now the same tactics has revealed its downside which Barca choose to capitalise upon and people are crying foul. Are Barca players perfect i do not think so but at least they give you a good game and try to play football and if the ref chooses to issue a red card, call a penalty, issue a yellow card etc that is his choice to make and no team should be held liable for another persons decision. Football is not rugby and Jose should know that his style of play was bound to backfire some where down the line.

Jose's tactics was to play defensive players in the mid field and try to tackle Barca players roughly thereby annoying their sensibilities and killing their smooth flowing football, Pep's tactics was to cause the defenders turned mid fielders to commit fouls that will either have them sent off or miss the second leg. This game was a tactical match that saw Barca come out top with the sending off of pepe and by the way the red card was justified because the rules are against you showing your studs. So whether knowingly or not Pepe deserved to be sent off just as pinto deserved the red card he was shown for an after game incident.

When Jose won the Kings cup with this style of play he was praised to the highest heavens, today his tactics worked against him and people are crying foul and claiming the ref was on Barca's side. Well the simple truth is that Barca were and still remain the better team to Madrid. Jose mind games worked against him so let him go and sulk for all i care. Viva Barca.

What worries me is that Friday being their prayer is another opportuinity for the Alfas or whoever is in charge to fill their minds with more hatred crap which ends up inciting them to destroy lives. NYSC should truly be scrapped or they enforce that Northerners should serve in their own states while the sountherners do the same.

Dear Poster there is no amount on investment that can be weighted with how much your life is worth. Do not remian in such abusive relationship before you become damaged yourself. For crying out loud you are constantly being abused and you have not taken to your heels? Let me give you a stern advice; i do not care how deeply you love the guy or how many times he apologises you must leave him now before you are destroyed by a monster. Do not be afraid to let go especially for your own security.You deserve to be loved by someone who cares genuinely about you.

Chatting a woman up requires a lot of subtlety and differs in so many situations. Before you approach a woman she can sense what is about to come out of your mouth, she expects that it will not be different from what she has heard from other admirers. So you need to catch her unawares, its even proper that you act disinterested in her, she rarely expects such an action and this catches her off guard and will make her wonder who the heck is this guy that does not notice me. You can then try a byline that will catch her attention without  even coming off as trying to chat her up and if you know that there is a chance that you will meet again its a good idea to walk away without even collecting her number knowing that tommorrow is there to get her number. The rest as they say is history.

The simple formular for me is just to be yourself, if you click you click if you don't well you move on. No need for mind games and endless drama.

Gosh!!!! you are so shallow minded. Because a guy has biceps and whatnot doesn't make him a better person. The guy still loves you, he treats you right and is still the sweet personality you knew him to be, so why bail out now because he has added some flesh. Love is longsuffering and you need to give it your all to ensure that your partner is the best you want them to be.

Keep appreciating his personality while you continually look for ways, be it through books, aerobic tapes, taking out time each morning to go jogging with him, letting him know that i love you and i am proud of your personality and i am not ashamed to be seen with you.

Years down the line you will get married, have babies and add flesh. I wonder how you would feel if your spouse starts ignoring you for other skinny looking damsels in his office instead of helping you get into shape by lovingly encouraging you?

A Nigerian woman will be a financial burden if you let her. It is the way you present yourself that people will relate to you. If you are into all the drama of spending a woman will naturally assume you have it all, and continue to ask. It even applies to us guys, if we see a lady spending or a guy spending it is natural to assume the person has it all. But if from the word go you are just your simple self without all the lies and pretence a woman will either accept you as you are or reject you, but at least being yourself helps you decipher who really treasures your person not your pocket.

Not all Nigerian women are financial burdens at least i have met a lot of good ones.

Do not be alarmed. It is not the exclusive right of the female specie to warrant such attention even guys experience that attraction from the female folks. The fact is that people are naturally drawn to what is good, if you have a pleasing personality people will be drawn to you. A lot of people have met and continue to meet the wrong set of individuals in life, therefore if you come with a pleasing personality you are like a breath of fresh air and who would not want a breath of that air compared to the stink he or she is used to being around.

Be yourself and do not let individuals who misread your actions to cause you to change. It is your duty to continually drum in their heads that you are just being you and when they see you constantly potray the same character to all alike be it male or female they are bound to understand that it is just who you are. Remember you are a breath of fresh air so continue to have a pleasing personality to all alike male and female.

Just as one person thinks you are conservative another person will see you differently. Everyone is entitled to his opinion.

I cannot understand how you could be in love with someone you have not met in person and yet you started accepting gifts from him, what if he is everything you need to avoid? Well i would advise you to organise a meeting with this phone guy and see him in person because a lot of body language could be read properly when you are face to face with someone than when you are talking on the phone. That is your first duty before anything else, the cool guy is just filling a need because of the absence of the other person and to go into the second relationship will be a slight to the other guy considering he has done so much for you.

Make effort to meet the first guy and determine for sure if it is a relationship you are willing to pursue, if it is not then end the relationship and be free to follow the other guy. Do not string two guys along it is utterly selfish and potrays you as an irresponsible lady.

Arsenal is such an unserious team. You play stylish football and do not score goals. Wenger would rather die with his philosophy instead of changing it so that they could at least win something. I wonder who was the cause of their loss today? Perhaps it was the FA, or maybe the ref, or perhaps the goal post was too small they needed a bigger one.

Proproman you have hit the nail on the head and no more needs to be said.

@ Big Father

that said Arsenal was out played by Barca who did all the scoring in the match,both for themselves and for Arsenal.


You will not kill me with laughter.

Shots on Goal - Barca 20 - Asenal 0 ( and you blame the ref ), Ball Possession Barca 76% - Arsenal 24% ( and you blame the ref ). Arsenal could only depend on an own goal and yet they blame the ref. The simple truth is that Arsenal is yet to come off age and need serious players who can rise up when the situation demands it. If Barca had being one man down you would not have felt it because they would have risen to the challenge. Football is not all about bragging but showing your worth and stepping up to the challenge when situation demands it.

From the start of the match till the end it was Barca all the way. Even before the red card Arsenal were never in the game.  Playing two unfit players was too much of a gamble and defending for a large part of the match is not a style Arsenal is used too, only Jose was able to acheive that feat. Barca is and will always be the better team.

Are you asking for permission or what? If you want to sleep with her go ahead if you do not want to that is your own concern but whatever is the resultant effect is your own "ofuna". A grown man with kids and you cannot decipher what is proper  or improper.

@ Lord Reed

UNDERSTANDING: Some people enter into relationships expecting the other party to treat them in the same measure that they dish out or worse they expect them to do all the work while they Love at their own pace. Understanding helps you appreciate that the other party is from a different background with his/her own concept of Love, and understanding helps you patiently correct the flawed concept or celebrate the beauty.

That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. Well, I’m here to tell you that expecting that kind of love— that perfection—from a man is unrealistic. That’s right, I said it—it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how. Because a man’s love isn’t like a woman’s love."


I won't take it from the women that when some of them Love they can be intense about it but to state that a man's Love is unrealistic is absolute bunkum. When some men do Love they throw themselves completely into it and give it 100%.

Why should i be with someone who does not love me? Love is giving and receiving and if i am not receiving any measure of Love from her then its best i take a walk there are a lot of women willing to give and receive love from me.