₦airaland Forum

Sarassin:
Agreed, and this is why I have said it is a systemic failure, a failure of the structures and institutions of state. Parochial self-interest has become the norm because nature abhors a vacuum. If the governments were up to their jobs these egregious churches would likely not even exist.

Take the same black kid from Africa and put him in a university in Texas and he becomes he first class graduate.

We have a lot to do. I am preparing myself . We have to draw like minds to re educate and most importantly support our people.

bigl:
The logo is cool but I think u should try somefin more abstract.

By the way 69 connotes sexuality, I hope u know so, the brand name has issues except its a porn channel/brand, then its fine but if not ....

See where your mind go. In my wildest dreams I NEVER took it that far. Haba! where I saw 6996 you saw 69 only. Na wa o

Sarassin:
I think that if you take any collective of young people and you deny them an education and life opportunities what then follows is a wasted generation. I take the gentleman's points but I reject his assertions of intellectual inferiority.

Which still boils down to our people not wise enough to plan their future. If it was a sane environment, those big churches and organisations would source for funds and educate their people. In the past, people tutored others. The government from time to time tries to oppress the scholars but they pressed on. But the average Black man has no regards for the future except upon how it would impact his purse and pocket. It would be easier to find elephant meat in the market than to get a wealthy African Negroid to sponsor education today.

Sarassin:
Thank you for your comments. I take your points. But actually you are advocating Nazi propaganda and it isn't sentimentality on my part. I don’t agree with your premise of Negroid intellectual inferiority. It is just a fanciful moniker for the universally condemned and discredited scientific racism or biological racism which sought to establish a link between race and intelligence and served as the driving force for racist worldviews which were in turn used to establish a hierarchy of superior and inferior races. These pseudo-sciences which you seem to be promulgating were condemned and proscribed by UNESCO after the second world war, Utterly reprehensible in my view.

You are entitled to your opinions as I am mine and since I have no wish to derail this thread any further I shall leave matters as they rest, we agree to disagree.

One woman said...... Negros are not intellectually inferior, the young ones just don't have people to look up to intellectually. I believe that is the major problem the black race has.

Rotentina:
It is possible for a 74 year old man to father a 60 year old man!

Whether Mr President falsified his age, it is between him and his Maker!

Yeah, Because it is Buhari. If it was GEJ there would have been a problem. It wouldn't have been between him and his maker again but between him and Nigerians. How eeasily Nigerians look the other way when it suits them. If you leave age falsification which is a no no to ones maker, why not leave GEJ And his corrupt officials to their makers too? Why not leave result/degree falsifiers to their makers? Nigerians sha

ThemiDhayor:
Nice one op.


If a Nigerian guy tells me all these stuffs, I will surely make sure I wet him wit d hot coffee on my hand..

Bro lalasticlala... If na u sef... Na kiss I go giv u.

Abeg shift this thread to fp.

Is it that bad? I will assume you just kidding

Na wa

SweetJoystick:
Smh what's wrong with the statement Fani?

Maybe he is saying Buhari can not born Osinbajo and that the busuness of leading a country should not be based on father son relationship but rather as partnership with uniform interest and goals .

Rotentina:
It is possible, I have seen a 14 year old boy impregnated a 13 year old girl!

So, very possible, and after-all, 74 year of Mr President is an official age!

So,are you insinuating that Buhari falsified his age?

sunnysunny69:
Rich man children no dey get freedom to do what they like, 3rd wife too much. Na when sleep go reach your turn ?

The other wives go park their nyanshes for a few weeks o. Na she get turn now. Na them go dey ask when the thing go find them come. Dem go rub and use different concoction to keep the man remembering their thing make e no dry out. That is how it works in those homes.
I guess women are expected to endure being sex starved while the men are expected to enjoy sex as often as they want. Imagine sleeping with your husband and all that is in your mind is.......is he enjoying me like he enjoys mama Risi? AM I giving him good? Then the next thing is to go get charms natural or fetish to rub in their private parts so that the man would love their kini more than the other wives own. Chai, a very depressing thing.

chimauk:
my girlfriend is from a broken home. Her dad left when they were very young after the mom travelled abroad.d dad left d upkeep for d mother but she did a great job by giving her children the best. They Re all grown but dad doesn't even care for them. He hasn't even contacted his children even now that everybody is successful. Dem still never born my gal well to insult her dad not to talk of doing it publicly or online. Her mama go kill am. Though she has been deprived of fatherly love. She feels it. She has learnt not to care abt it anymore. She was trained well Dats why she can't go low to insulting her dad... Renny went too far by doing it publicly. Yes she aired her anger but it's still a family issue which should be private unless na publicity she dey find

People are different, my point is that I see a lot of angels blaming the mom here. How do you know her mom is not killing her for what she did now? How do you know the mom is not highly disappointed and is calling elders to come talk to her child knowing how holly Nigerians are and how harshly they would judge her for this act? Abi you are also expecting the mom to come and beg on social media too? we all have done things that our parents would be disappointed in if they found out. The fact that we did those things, doesn't mean our parents did not bring us up well. When we start pushing people down and give our hollier than though judgement, let us look back and ask ourselves if we never made those kinds of mistakes. If we have never done things that our parents would say "I never trained him/her to be that way"
That your girls dad has not done what would trigger her yet. He just walked away and that is it.
All these years Sẹgun has been away from the daughter's life, she never said one word to insult or insinuate anger towards him on social media, she never gave any hint of her not being happy with him. None of us knew about their estranged relationship thus far. So; ask yourself, what happened behind the scenes that made her tell him she doesn't buy his hypocrisy? . It's not like she goes on line everyday to insult him. She doesn't look like a kid who just got access to social media hence she is just learning to use it. She has been silent all these years ba? Overlooking thing too just like your babe init? So ask yourself, what CHANGED?

sanesta:
what are you looking for??

When I collect am, I go tell una.

I learnt the true story was, he had sex with her but did not pay which made her angry and prolly planned to rob him. She waited till he fell asleep and hit him with a bottle. which made him react by hitting her to save his skin. Then he drove off in her car.
Watched the video on YouTube, she was twerking and exposing her bottom for camera, she dank and ate like there's no tomorrow. Then she followed him to his hotel room and had sex with him. But, bobo no gree drop pay like she expected.

One person vex for my post so I modified it. I need something from someone. I shall return to modify again when I get what I am looking for

Na there someone dey brag for 3rd wife title.

IamaNigerianGuy:
Thinking like this keeps us backward.
Could he not have been poisoned ?

Clearly he was poisoned bro.

To hide some things

Fabulocity:
You must be a fuckîng retardèd bastard to have the audacity to quote me and type such repulsive trash! What kind of archaic and rusty mentality do you have? You invite a girl over and you expect her to turn herself into a housemaid to placate your over bloated ego just to prove she's worthy of your filthy affection? Only a brainless girl with low self esteem would stoop so low to do that. You dumb Neanderthal! Wake up and smell the coffee! You all aren't even worth the shît I dropped this morning and people of your ilk do not deserve such extra effort! Better wake up from your silly fantasies and face reality you miserable dimwit. What arrant nonsense!?!

Show Mercy please

Trudax:
@mmsen @true2god

My evidence for the intellectual inferiority of the black race is in the image the black race unabashedly portrays. It's evident in it's history and in its current state.

Intellectual inferiority doesn't mean intellectual ineptitude, it just means that in comparison with others it ranks lower. One could easily glean this from early sub-saharan civilizations. They lacked the complexity that other world civilizations had already built years before them. Yes, they had beautiful art and they smelted iron and they had simple political systems, but they didn't have intricate language that allowed for abstract thinking. They didn't have words for abstract nouns and large numbers. If you doubt me, examine your local language. Language is a reliable marker for deternining the level of intellectual sophistication of a group of people. It says a lot about how they think. They also didn't have any complex system of writing. They didn't have a sustainable source of documenting language and storing information. Other civilizations like the Arabs, Persians, Chinese, Greek and Roman empires already had theirs. Even the Incas and Mayans had theirs. Ancient Egypt that existed over 2000 years before them had theirs. Our ancient civilizations were great, but they were nothing compared to other civilizations. Our greatest civilizations like the great Mali and Kongo civilizations built an economy by trading their raw materials for finished goods. They weren't interested in creating useful finished products which they could sell since they had valuable raw materials.

Ancient sub-saharan civilizations, especially the ones that lived near the Atlantic weren't able to built an advanced form of boating technology. All they could create were canoes. Europe and Asia already had ships. Sub-saharan civilizations didn't develop any sophisticated weaponry. Other parts of the world were already far ahead in this department. A smart person would fortify his defenses in case outsiders attacked. Seems these people weren't that smart. And what was sub-saharan africa's contribution to the fields of sciences, mathematics, philosophy, and medicine in the ancient world? Nada.

And on the issue of slavery, we were the ones who sold our own neighbours to the Europeans. We were too stupid to realize the future circumstances of our greed and disregard for own kind. The typical black man would rather succeed while the rest of his kind suffers, not realizing that he and his posterity would still be viewed according to the image of the majority which he was instrumental in their downfall. This is evident today. Denying the prevalence of this behavior in our present society would be dishonest of you.

The current state of sub-saharan African illustrates just how backward in our thinking we are. All we do is find who to blame. But the reality is, what happened years ago doesn't matter. What matters is what we have been able to do with ourselves and our resources. Complaining and deflecting blame isn't going to help our predicament. What about the Jews that had 6,000,000 of them massacres by the Nazis? Practically all their lives they have been haunted, expatriated and killed by various civilizations spanning different epochs. They only gained independence in 1948 and look at all they have been able to achieve. How about the Chinese that were a Japanese colony during the second world war? The Japanese killed millions of them and subjugated them under their rule. But they have put all that behind them and look at how how developed they are. Even America was a British colony and had to fight for their own independence from British dominance. They were granted independence and using tools of unity, diligence and good leadership, they were able to build a great nation. But here in sub-saharan Africa all we have done is blame blame and blame. We lack the ability to work as a unit. We blame our leaders but the truth is our leaders are a reflection of the society. In the 1970s Nigerians blamed their leaders. In 2017 the people who blamed their leaders are now in power and the younger generation is blaming them.

We lack the ability to think in this part of the world. This section is proof. You and your atheist friends spend time trying to disabuse people from their harmful religious beliefs. And you fail. Piety and religious dogmatism correlates strongly with unintelligence. Sub-saharan Africans are among the most pious countries in the world with a disproportionately pious majority. If we couldn't prevent ourselves from physical slavery, we can prevent ourselves from being mentally enslaved but sadly, we revel in this slavery and we pass it on to our kids. One doesn't have to be a genius to see the flaws in religious beliefs, especially monotheistic ones. But over 90% of our population can't see it. We not only lack the ability to think critically, we also seem to have a staggering degree of intolerance for civil discuss. I have had this reaffirmed in lots of instances. Being open-minded correlates strongly with intelligence, not the other way round.

Sub-saharan Africa is a continent rich in natural resources, but yet it's the poorest region in the world. Iceland, a relatively young country that doesn't have any natural resources, yet they have a sustainable economy, and flourishing educational system. Sub-Saharan Africa has shown an appreciable degree of ineptitude in being able to govern herself. The fact that we can't escape the putrid pit of tribalism and bigotry, which is also influencing our underdevelopment, says alot about how 'smart" we are.

I like how you reason. We should hold seminars in Nigeria to speak with youths. Are you in Nigeria?

Eh, back to the topic, I posted this to show Nigerians/Blacks that religion would not save us. We need to wake up and stop falling for the God/Allah knows best trap. We are not viewed as worthy of living by the rst of the world. Time to ditch their philosophy and stand as a strong flourishing people.

Nofuckgiven:
I concur with the lady above me. Some parents don't deserve to be called parents at all!

The girl did not even regard him as a parent. She did not even call him dad.
Funny how Nigeria's are quick to blame the woman for any problem in the home. If the case was reversed and that girl had insulted her mom, people would have said the mother must have deserved it. They would not tach her to respect her mom No MaTTER what! They would not say the girl had no right to say what she said.
Rather, they would use it as a warning to women, they would SAY only a bad mom would the child say such to. That the woman must be very evil and wayward hence her child has exposed her. They would say she got served. Hypocrisy sha.

When he kills you, na the same people attacking you now, go still turn around and call you mumu for enduring.

LydayBobo:
I will go India, their ladies are more than men

Short cut ba?

SirMichael1:
Haven't you heard of polyandry before??

Will Nigerian men agree to it?

whitebeard:
there are different categories of fish in the river man

seguno2:
Are you trying to be funny?
That is a poor attempt.

Funny as how? Abegi a lady should not be like that. He asked her to cook so what? She was comfortable going to his house after knowing him for ONLY two weeks according to her. But to cook for him was a shock to her because she has only known him for a two weeks? Its a date. She can express her own opinion about their mindset and still make a nice meal for her goons just like a friend and make the time they all spend together worthwhile. She could have even dragged him to make the meal with her as they entertain the friends. That would have given them time to chat and enjoyed each others company as per first date. Even if she later turned down his proposal to be his gf(Because he made the unforgivable mistake of asking her to cook) she would remain friends with them. What is the big deal? Women sabi complicate matter . If they had seen a snake or encountered danger, would she not expect him to protect her by using himself as a shield? Even though he has only known her for just two weeks?

She over reacted in my opinion and lost a chance at knowing who he really is. Not saying he is a saint but many men joke like that. Poor taste I know but it doesn't mean they are bad.

Student125:
Yes I agree bad woman can be from any background.
But, remember...a lion cannot give birth to Tiger, our children are our replica.
Also, biology taught me that that your phenotype(you/look) = Gene(donor from both parents) + Environment(what you learn from ur society, remember ur mother is your first teacher).
It is logical that a child that was raised by a single parent will lack that other parent's part during upbringing.
I said before, if a woman knows her power, her man will respect her.
Come to think of it, y marry a guy that will frustrate you u..oh you will say some guys pretend?, the truth is no matter how someone hide their character, u will c traces unless u want to overlook or probably not observant.
I know nobody is perfect, but marry those things you can cope with in a man/woman to avoid issues.
Lastly, the greatest gift a father/mother can give their child is finding/ marrying their better half.

I agree with this.

whitebeard:
because of what

Would they rather wait tire?

She should be the one suggesting that she cooks them a meal. She nor try jor.

Women and their wahala sha. She no see better things women dey achieve world wide to brag about na the 3rd wife role she want promote.
But i have one kwestion sha.......If there was shortage of wives/marriageable age women, would men agree to become second husbands to avoid waiting?

Dem don carry reach there

Partnerbiz:
Polish actors? You mean producers of kiwi polish or wat?

Actors from Poland I believe

Student125:
I said someone advised, u may take the advise and u may not...but if u look around, u will realize larger percentage of baby mama were raised by baby mama.
If you understand the latter part of d post u quoted, you will get the point raised that most domestic violence are avoidable if woman truly know the power they have. but because most of our ladz this days care more about their looks and see marriage as poverty alleviation institution, some are not ready to endure anything, at a point they want to be free, party - travel - do what they like, making the marriage secondary. At this point they feel like divorcing just to get the freedom they want.
Like I said earlier, some ladies will frustrate the hell out of you that u won't just know when you will raise your hand, the reason u c some husband prefer going home late after work and sleep immediately to avoid another problem cuz their house doesn't feel like home I.e from one problem to another.

True but some husbands also frustrate their wives and we will not support them starving him with good or sex(since they can not beat him) talkless of if they pour him hot water. Even if a woman catches her man red handed and hurts him, we still would say she was a wicked woman. So why would we justify men beating their wives because they frustrate them?
Bad wives could be from any back ground is my opinion though. As we do not say ladies should avoid men from homes where the dad's were brutal to their moms or where the dad had more than one wife because we believe the son would act exactly as his dad towards their wives even though I believe most girls from divorce homes tend to stick to their marriages more due to fear of what society would say. Like eh, what do you expect? Her mom also did not sit in husbands house. Many women are enduring abuse in their marriages too but we hardly hear them treating the man's Bleep up with violence.