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I have been a bestie to some girls and I know what we did, so anytime I girl called a guy her bestie, my mind can play tricks on me.

Seriously, I can't date a girl with male bestie, I can't even imagine that. Cheating that has become normal in our generation makes it difficult to accept my girlfriend having male bestie. Her mother did not have male bestie and she is still in her marriage, she should learn from her mother.

These days I don't even do relationship, when I see a girl I like, let's just knack, no commitment, no entitlement, no jealousy. I can't just deal with a cheating partner.

These girls are always not fine, I don't even ask them again and if she reply like this, I will just tell her that it will be fine. These girls are something else.

paulolee:
urgent 2k them..u dodged a bullet

Whenever a girl ask me if I have eaten, I will say yes and thanks for asking, instead of asking her same question because I know the answer, they are always hungry, I can't come and feed adult who is not useful to me.

The mental health of the man should be properly examined. What is the attraction?

About the mother, could this be poverty, wickedness or being irresponsible? Why would you prevent justice because of money?

Hayee:
This is just me

Especially that care free and commitment part.

LoL, we are on the same train then. I spent four years in the University and my elder brother won't forgive me for not having girlfriend. Yes, of course, there was plenty of sex and girls, but I can't just imagine myself in a"serious" relationship. I am very careless about things people take serious.

cuterichbigdick:
Aside women's issues, I myself don't like my dick size. I don't dare want to involve in orgies and sometimes I used to think maybe it's a way God want to curb my fornication

Worrying over what you cannot change is just an obsession with negativity. There's nothing you can do about the size of your gbola, unless you go for surgery.

Medianna:
Issok that's all good
I pray for a fovaur market

Amen, thanks for your prayers, I appreciate.

So in Nertherland, we have virgins littering the streets like Emefiele's presidential posters?

Well, you are so concerned about the physique and never mentioned anything about the character. Please don't give any of them false hope in order not to clash when you finally got over your imagination.

I am not married so I have nothing to say.

Stallionhorse:
Ask yourself if your anybody's spec?? Before you start looking for spec!!

Comrade, your vawulence is high, reduce the volume.

#Say no to discrimination.

But you are just saying spec without pointing to the area you need advice.

What happened to her phone? If you don't call and she really cares, she should have called before complaining. How many times did she call you in that three weeks? Maybe nothing. And she wants you to do the call, spend the money, do the digging.

And you guys should also define your relationship. Are you guys dating? Situationship? Friends with benefits or cruise?

You don't just allow girls to manipulate you. Your education is not all about grades but also been streetwise.

May God's grace find us. People have different destiny. The abroad that is not easy for him is the same abroad other Nigerians are thriving even entering Forbes magazine.

Him: babes, why don't you want to ride me like a horse?

Her: because your dick is small.


Just accept what you have and look for someone that is compatible. Some girls enjoy small gbola. Don't allow overused vaginarian to pressure you.

OP you are talking as if all Calabar or Edo girls are virgin. The question is where are the virgins? Virgins are very scarce. These girls will come and tell you how they slip and fall on a standing penis, or the daft rape story.

But then, who are the girls doing hook-up with? Isn't it the guys?

I am not a virgin, I am not necessary looking for virgin, since marriage is beyond hymen, I can't judge someone's entire life with piece of hymen.

We have virgin girls that have anal sex, that do Mouth Action, that are scammers and all that. Not penetrating through Virgina don't automatically make a girl good for marriage.

I just need someone that have sense, someone that can guarantee my peace of mind.

LoL, at this particular point, I don't have the courage to continue. While actions are free, there will be consequences. I don't want to be consumed when the consequences knocks. I know forgiveness is a virtue but I believe only God can do the forgiveness.

I am a coward when it comes to dealing with ladies with gross sexual recklessness, I will just run fiam.

Smiles, your personality and views are very controversial, you are my spec. I like dealing with ladies like you, the strong self willed.

Back to your point. Conditions, experience, environment, knowledge and people have great influence on our decisions, choices and resolutions. Life is dynamic, you should always expect change. We will always meet people that will convince us directly or indirectly that our earlier decision is wrong.

What is life without love? Love ones? Friends and family?

I totally understand your decision, the kind of life you wish or want to live, but then, time, chance and people changes us. It's a matter of time.

Allow someone to love you genuinely. There comes a time in our lives when our heart yearn for something to cherish, nothing is more soothing than the heart of the opposite sex. Don't withhold the blessings coming your way.

Let your principles, judgement, opinion, choices be open to change at any time, only your conviction should stand always. Be flexible, life is too stressful to be rigid.

Above all, if the guy really love you and you love him, and only been with him gives you happiness, then go ahead. You deserve to be happy. Everyone needs to be loved.

I wish I find a girl like you soon.

The first orientation I was given as a writer is the effectiveness in my ability to convey my story. It becomes distorted in communication when a reader do not comprehend, or is distracted by strange words while surfing your write up.

Academically speaking, when writing, you don't write to impress but to express. You should know your target audience and make them understand. Verbosity is a waste of English when your readers never got to understand you.

You wonder why Newspapers don't use exaggerated grammar? Because they are concerned about the understanding of their message by their readers, not about exploring their vocabulary to impress.

Why should a responsible and sane adult consider the thought of sleeping with another man's wife?

As far as you are married and I am aware, my gbola can't find you attractive.

Our generation have no value for fidelity, loyalty, self respect and trust. I see married people cheating up and down like our politicians. Some have affair on social media, others in their office.

Hearing stories like this makes marriage scary and worthless. I can't stand my wife cheating on me since I am faithful.

Anything that cost me my peace of mind is too expensive.

People are fighting to protect lives and properties, but these low profile ladies will be fighting over inconsequential issue.

Parachoko:
I do not believe this nonsense from this glorified blogging site called western post

Wetin concern first lady with the numbers of candidates vying for an elective position?

Una fit believe the useless article all you want

On Bola Ahmed Tinubu Mandate I Stand Gidigba

Aisha Buhari is very ambitious and egoistic. Normally, the first lady has no business with stuff like this but this particular woman called Buhari's wife can engage herself. Example, the invite to the purported dinner with presidential aspirants.

APGA don't have the national appeal to coast someone to victory in presidential election. It's not about the ticket yet but the main election. How many APGA members do we have in the Northwest, Northeast, North Central or Southwest?

Decamping to APGA will just make Peter Obi a mere participant in the election, and even within himself he knows he cannot win national election with APGA.

Medianna:
When I see this comment. Oh I knew right away it was you.
I hope you were attending lectures back then oo cuz I plan to tell your parents to and collect there change from the school busary oo. cuz I no sure say na wetin dem send you go school for you go do.
How can I pay #10 school fee and a child will be using only #7?

LoL, you got me laughing really hard. Well I attended lectures, participated in all the activities, extra curricular activities, wrote tests and assignments, quizzes and debates, seminars and examination. I was actually on 4.55 but I don't know the magic my department performed that gave me 4.47 in the final result.

If you are quite popular, social and intelligent, girls will flock you and that happened to me. The girls never affected my studies.

LoL, and I don't know how you recognized me.

Agboola Ajayi second coming. He wants to go to senate so that he can prepare and wet ground for the next gubernatorial election in the State. Well congratulations to the grassroots politician.

It is normal for people to have spec, but seriously, some ladies have unrealistic fantasy in the name of marriage. They are ignorant of the reality.

Whenever the weather is extremely cool, I usually make myself hot cup of tea, fried egg and bread. I will lie on my couch and surf my phone, after that I will watch interesting movie and listen to music before sleeping.

Vinnie2000:
The Extreme cold this days after every heavy downpour is sometime else.

Will soon invite one of my Babes who is an Engineering student over.
She is average in Mathematics but excellent in BEDMATICS and KNACKIOLOGY.
She has been asking for 'Tutorials' so I have to help her out!

But Jokes Apart, how do Singles (particularly ladies) cope with extreme 'Weather for two?'.

LoL, I miss the cruise in school. During those days, I have many girls around to knack, especially weekend. But now I just have to grow up and face reality. Good old days.

Why you shouldn't date me

I too the play

I am too intelligent

I am not a regular boyfriend material

I am carefree

I hate commitment.

Congratulations to him. Although I was hoping to see Okowa in that direction. Well Okowa can rest, him too don try.

Orgasmgiver123:
First of all, exchanging words with teenagers ain’t my thing but since all the elders in your house are too busy fvcking around, I’ll school you.
I’m very sure you masturbated before creating this thread, this thread was motivated by post nut clarity.
You type like someone who sex has dealt with his family real bad. Tell me, was your sister or mum raped by hoodlums ?
Or does your big bro or dad spend too much money in the brothel ?
If you like talk to people about sex like an aggressive mad man, no one will ever take you serious, you know why? Because you are an imbeçile who masturbation has taken the better part of.
I gat a little prayer for you and your folks
If you or any member of your family have ever engaged in sex for just pleasure, amadioha will strike you with stroke.

I guess you have masturbated every nutrient out of your lil dîck and you don’t feel it again that’s why you suddenly want others to be like you. Quote me anywhere, you will fail with this your yeye movement. People and organisations better than you have tried but made little or no success, what makes you think you’ll make an exception.
When you get married ( thats if any woman will marry an îmbecile like you ) make sure you only fvck your wife when you want to make babies, the gardener and next door neighbour will gladly help you expand her pûssy.

This is the last time I’ll respond to your quote, you’re not worth wasting my few kilobytes on.
And yes, your mention still smells like diapers and baby food.

I don’t brag about strength online
If you are very sure you can fvck me up within a minute or two ( your terms ), just pm me, add a location, come with your family members, undertakers and a casket as tall as you.
I promise to make it very slow and excruciatingly painful


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Comrade, just ignore the dimwit of an OP. Don't even waste your time on someone who doesn't know the health benefits of sex to life. Someone that believe sex is only for reproduction. Is that the kind of person you want to engage? He is not teachable.

BlackHawk202:
See why I said your intellectual capacity and IQ is obviously low hence you struggle to make any coherent meanings in your writeup?

Re-read what I wrote and try to comprehend, you bellend! Perhaps you didn't see where I wrote " 'even' in the Bible"? Emphasis on the "even"? If you comprehended the statement, you would've been able to deduce that I just sited that text and added it to the context. For you to read the entire writeup and concluded that I was arguing from a religious perspective it actually exposes your level of illetracy. I doubt if you're even educated at this point

LoL, you are arrogantly displaying your dumb ass genuinely. "Illiteracy" is inability to read and write. Obviously, I read your write up and you already read mine, but you poorly attempt to prove non-existent point won't let your deflated ego accept the fact. You don't go around and call people illiterate because you are impressed by the word.