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Some girls are like that. One girl I wanted to date that time. She made me gave her information that is confidential. After everything she said she can't date me, I laughed. I. Let her be for good. But each time she chat me up on Facebook, that means she needs a favor, mostly financial favour. Thanks to nairaland, I will just ignore the yeye girl. I still wonder how a sane person will be asking for money from the guy she turned down.

Our country Nigeria has failed truly. I understand your worries to make money, to be independent is very good, but life has a way of playing with our lives. The fact that the money didn't come today doesn't mean it will never come. Just be patient, and make sure anything you are doing to make money is legal.

Angel Gabriel, just blow the trumpet, we are ready.

What did I just read? Two adults behaving like to duck. OP, anywhere they use your sense to play betnaija, I pray that the game will cut so that you will get your sense back.

Me: What do you think about our relationship?

Her: I don't know, no matter how I tried, I still see you like just a friend.

Me: So we only dated for one week?( I carry myself comot from the relationship).

Is like we think alike. I was asking my neighbor the same question this morning. My neighbor looked at me and frown, he said, there will be war.

MufasaLion:
Lol

Relationship should be beneficial anyways.

Be single and you gonna be free and more focused!

You could be right. I think I need to focus and be free, since I am still young.

pansophist:
Relationship is a double edged sword. If you meet the right person, it will worth it. If you meet the wrong one, it will scare you so deeply you'll just hate the idea of it. A girl telling you to wait till next year doesn't love you, just securing you as an option for herself. I've been loved by women alot and I know love when I see it. It's strong, you can't even fake it.

She will want the person instantly, especially that time is not a woman's best friend. She would strategies her plans to be seamlessly interwoven with yours, and prepare for a glorious future with you. If you're into sport, she would start doing or at least, pickin interest in it. Sometimes I wonder the kind of brain a man will have, to stay with a woman that sees him as nothing but a option, and confuse it will love.

Very intelligent comment from you. I am inspired. You have a foresight. I am thinking the same thing too. I couldn't stop laughing when I heard her say it.

I have two experiences but I will share the second one tomorrow. For couple of years now, I always have many girls around and we usually have sex, but they are not my girlfriend. So after much talk from my mom and friends to have someone I could call my own, I decided to give it a try.

Since August this year, I started asking this girl out for a relationship. Her response was discouraging, but as a guy I persisted. I am graduating in two months time and she is in 300 level, we are in the same department. So I thought we could do something that even though I graduate I will still keep in touch.

After much talk and persuasion, this girl told me that she wants me but she is hoping and wishing that I will wait for her till next year, when she will be signing out from school. That next year, I will be serving NYSC, and she wants me to wait.

After that call, I checked my phone if I was talking to the right person. I just deleted her two numbers from my phone. I don't have problem with her not accepting to date me, I am just amuse that she believes that because I love her, I will pause my life and wait for her till she graduate, she is staying in kogi and I base in Abuja. So we can't date now that we are seeing each other, but in her mind, we can date when I am in Abuja and she is in kogi. Long distance relationship, wrong idea.

Well said. I can't understand how a lady will break up with her lover, and when a genuine man decide to wife her, she will go back the ex for sex. These girls are dangerous. Even the dog I have in my house, I will take it for DNA. I can't be a victim of paternity fraud.

techgeniusworld:
Thank You for your comment. My advice is Love God and Love Yourself. " The Heart of Man ( woman ) is desperately Wicked who can know it ? " . You don't need to buy her much to love her you just need to wish her the best. Never allow Gifts and presents plus money to be the Proof you love a Woman. The only time you give a woman gifts and presents are those she HAS WORKED FOR IN THE RELATIONSHIP. She must be Humble, Trustworthy and have your Back 90 percent of the time before you even buy her a satchet of pure water. Love is for advanced minds and only 20 percent of humans both male and female have the capacity to love meaning 80 percent are clueless and will end up HURTING EACH OTHER.

Thanks for this comment. I took it and digested it. You spoke from a logical point of view, and that's how life should be seen. You got good brains too.

MufasaLion:
Nickname is something I really like. Even at home, they know my nickname. I relate easily with people that have nickname.

We have the same taste in that aspect. When I meet someone and after the proper introduction, I always ask about his or her nickname. Everyone that know me believe that my nickname is my real name. The name is so natural. From secondary School to university.

Sunday2021:
stop trying to bring Nigeria on this. Ipob are killing their fellow igbos.

I guess it is IPOB that is killing and kidnapping people in Zamfara, Niger, Katsina,Kaduna, Benue. The killings in north and south are done by IPOB abi? You talk as if you don't read news.

MufasaLion:
One Heineken for you. Back then in school, my nickname was my identification. Only few people knew my name. Even my supervisor knew my nickname.

Exactly, my supervisor, Prof Menegbe is so interested in my nickname. I am working on religious hypocrisy, and I am really hitting our religious leaders hard. Prof Menegbe will smile and say, Demigod, this is scholarly work and people will read it, I am not very comfortable with your hatred for religion. I will laugh and tell him that I am just trying to be objective. He will laugh and say, don't lie to me with confidence.

My nickname really works for me.

habsydiamond:
prayer is the key... The only way to avoid such ladies. Fast join too oo cos e no easy to select from the group of ladies we have these days.

Very true, they are dangerous species. Look at the way the ladies are condemning the abroad base doctor for the DNA facility, some of them are shamelessly calling on the federal government to do something. Fear women.

yomi007k:
Same here. My mum always warned me. Don't borrow and dont lend. Manage with what you have. And if you want more then go and work for it.

She is very correct, sometimes, we just have to endure and be contented with what we have.

I can't forget my SIMPISM for Cynthia. All the assignments, I have done it for her, making her topping her class. I called her everyday and even borrow to call her. I joined school politics because of her, she said I am a good leader, the following week, my posters flooded the school, I go to front of hostel every night to see her, I used my last card to host picnic for her, I stop drinking because of her, I brought her home to cook for her. All my SIMPISM na only hug I get.

Cynthia taught me lessons about how to value myself. Since I let her be, I realized that my own happiness surpass any girl. I am now drinking, I don't go to hostel at night again, I don commot my hand from school politics, I don't call her again. Peace of mind is all I crave for now. I deserve an award for simping.

I am a Theatre Arts student, so after one very tiring morning rehearsal, I was on my way going home from the faculty. This 200 level girl stopped me and asked me to follow her to the bank. I SIMPly followed her. At the bank she handed me her handbag and I waited for her like an hour. She came out and apologised, I foolishly smiled. Before I could ask for her number, she started telling me about her boyfriend. I just off.

If I should go with this your write up, then I wonder the kind of spirits Buhari is carrying that is ruining this motherland.

By now the spirit of Khadija, Hope, Felicia, Agnes, Raheenat and many more will be struggling to see space to sit down whenever I am traveling. I have lost count of the number of girls I had sex with as a university student. If not for God, my result would have been worst than Aba road, but I am still writing well.

This is really funny. Although most people around me only know my nickname, no one knows my real name in school. I am in my final year now and my best friend who have been my friend for the past four years in school don't even know my name. I am also guilty, I don't know his name either. We are just use to calling our nicknames.

Since 100 level, all the girls I rolled with barely call me DeMiGoD, although, that is the only name people know me with.

I always pray silently in my mind. Since I will be faithful to my wife, any wife that will cheat on me and bring another man's child for me to love and train. May God crippled such woman, may EFCC frustrate her, may grass not grow in her house, in the sand she walks on will rise against her, may rat chop her waec, may Hisbah arrest her, soldier will pour her dirty water when she is doing NYSC. Such woman life will lose direction like Nigeria, may her friends deceive her with food like FFK. She will be scammed by Hush puppy, and she will be deported to Afghanistan for 35years. Amen.

The angel should just blow the trumpet, we are tired of Nigeria.

Katsina, his own state is burning in flames, he abandon his home to declare state of emergency in another region. Although, we welcome any move to restore security and peace, but let it be done with the sole interest of the country.

The monster you made. These bandits will definitely come for our politicians in the nearest future. The Innocent blood will seek revenge.

All Nigerian politicians are useless, all of them. The Nigerian country is burning in flames, and the only thing our youths are worried about is to endorse the appointment of a politician into NNPC.

What kind of juju did we offend in this country? Even Jesus will be asking God, how did you create Nigeria? This country is just messed up and not working.

President for carry over students, for what exactly?

All the major headlines is about insecurity. Why is Nigeria like this? How did we get here?

I learned this lesson right from secondary School. Any money I give to people, I don't usually expect it back, but when the person is responsible enough to pay back, that is my luck.