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When I see people getting marry like this, I will enjoy the whole euphoria but I don't know why marriage is not part of my life plan.

Marriage is beautiful but we can't possibly give ourselves deadline for marriage since we don't control the world.

She came with her friends, I was supposed to ask her out for relationship but bringing her friends to what is suppose to be private, I got turned off. I just made them order for the food, paid and excused myself. She later try to chat me up but I lost the vibes.

bluecircle470:
What’s the protocol Mumu....
Una go just talk like person wey no get sense just because you dey support the person

As an educated individual, you should have known by now that we have protocols, especially in government. The last time I was writing special report on environmental issue in Abuja, I wanted to interview Gwari Council Chairman. I have to observe protocol, even the head of environment in the council can't grant me interview until the chairman approved and later granted me the interview himself. It is called protocol. When you are working for an organization or government, you should know the nitty gritty of such. You don't take unilateral decision when you have superior.

Maxymilliano:
The essence of having commissioners seem to have been defeated if appointees are denied latitudes to make independent crucial decisions.

Moreover, sacking the commissioner is too harsh and disrespectful - especially to the academia. Query or suspension would have been more dignified.

The sacking of the commissioner is somewhat rash, but the commissioner's action is a gross violation of protocol. With his level of education and experience, he should know that government have protocols, and as far as you are part of the government, you are subjected to the government.

The commissioner should have gone through the right channel by observing protocol.

luvyaself95:
come here you need knock

I have knocked and beaten myself for simping this big. I dusted off myself and I am healthy now.

I don't know whether it's Buhari administration that is bewitching our generation. So someone can not be in a decent relationship. OP, you are even toxic or petty from your write up. If a lady is not my taste I move on, for how long will you be having sex with her and be thinking you are doing her wrong? If people share brains like data, I would have suggested you turn on your hotspot.

I was asking Cynthia out, she said she like Godly man, I started going to fellowship, she said she doesn't like people that drink, I stopped drinking, she said she like caring man, I started calling everyday, she wants a leader, I started contesting for school election, she doesn't like people that stay out late, I started going home early from school. I became everything she wanted. I broke boundaries just to please her for eight months. I have never loved anyone the way I loved her. There was only a thin line between obsession and my love for her. But she never accepted to date me.


Secondly, I slept in a lady's house just to please her, something I don't like doing.

Pataricatering:
how many unfortunate girls have eaten your sausage? But ur here yapping trash . hypocrite !

LoL, I don't like sex, I have other ways of enjoying myself.

I am not encouraging fornication. But personally, I can't keep a relationship without sex. All these girls will be forming decency for your side and be giving one unworthy brother for one corner. Kpekus wey everyone don taste, e reach my turn she dey look for serious relationship. If we are not going to have sex, carry your kpekus commot from my life. We are not having sex and you will want me to be financially involve with you.

Polluting the air is not a beautiful thing, if it happens accidentally while having sex doesn't make it a yardstick to judge genuineness of relationship. Those girls that come around me have never polluted around me before, and I didn't do it either. Anyone that do it, I will just pretend I didn't know.

Yes, I was really in love with her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. Months later, after she broke up with the boyfriend, she came around. I reluctantly agreed to date her out of pity, because the love have died. We never had sex because I am not even attracted to her. I am always looking for ways to stay away from her.

She is good but I don't love people that have turned down my proposal earlier, she came too late. I ended the relationship for my peace of mind, but she started acting strange and crazy, so I reconciled with her, now for the past two weeks, she has not visited me,we only see in school and maybe calls. I only have one week to graduate. That's what I am waiting for patiently. The relationship is not built on love but pity.

ImoleNaija:
Prof. Carrie (of Power book 2) comes to mind. Kai,,, Monet is a bad woman

Hahahaha, no be lie.

If Khadija lie to you, that's when you will know that Lai Muhammad is learning. Relationship of four months, I used three months the listen to lies. Abeg make I go read Bisi Akande book to forget about Khadija.

udemzyudex:
Paying of bride price have nothing to do with sex or there something i don't know?

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The greatest tragedy that can happen to a man is to marry a community kpekus. Marriage is beyond sex, but getting married to a lady who have seen more boxers than Anthony Joshua is a catastrophic. Something that she has been giving area boys for free, I should come and pay huge money for.

JooEeL:
That's the painful part. When trying to walk with pride with your fiance or newly wed wife, that thought that she has a few friends on her contact list that lashed without restrain when she was younger will make you shudder.

You can't rave so much about your babe because there are some unseen guys in the background ready to laugh at your stupidity. It's painful o. That feeling of paranoia and second-guessing.

And the funny thing is, una 2 go dey see the names on that contact list. You'll just never know.

No matter how you try to please woman, she will find flimsy excuses to make her kpekus democratic, kpekus of the boys, kpekus by the boys and kpekus for the boys. What a democraticalize kpekus?

Most ladies lie about their body count. A lady told me she was a virgin and when we had sex, she was nothing near virginity, she was even asking for more and she is not tight. When I visited her last time, she was telling me that her neighbors still believe that she is a virgin. I was just looking at her like Okorocha looking at Uzodinma.

It is a free world, that I know, but having multiple sex partners and having countless sex is a pure at of wickedness. How can one innocent man huge money for pride price when these boys have eaten the cookies for free?

Some girls are just dangerous. If you want relationship then be committed. I don't know why we don't understand the word loyalty and fidelity in relationship in this our generation.

Kpekus wey she the distribute give everyone, e reach your turn na relationship she wants. You did the right thing by turning her down. Tell her to off the mic.

EraseTheDot:
Stop grandstanding. Can't you read. Why was Jonathan reaching out to Tinubu & Pa Akanda for a candidate in PDP when he could have asked them for a candidate in ACN. They very well saw through his manipulation.

In the meantime, President Goodluck Jonathan was pressing for a government of national unity, with a bid of sucking ACN into manipulative extinction.”



-erase the dot

So supporting PDP candidate for the North made the then ACN better? The truth is that Tinubu and his cohorts are holding the South West to ransom, and that's why I like Amosun, Fayemi for rebelling against Tinubu.

A drunk philosopher once said that woman is God's worst mistake. I have been with girls that have boyfriend but still want to bleep me, some will say I am funny, others say I am intelligent. Girls always have flimsy excuses to make their kpekus democratic. Kpekus of the boys, by the boys and for the boys, what a democraticalize kpekus?

Skyfornia:
Some people don't actually like calls.. personally I prefer chats to calls, even when I want to make or receive call, I like it short, simple and straight to the point. I easily get bored when the call is a bit long.

But I can chat for hours and still enjoy it.

But in your girlfriend's case...I think she is not really into you, since she doesn't initiate calls or chats.

They are things you sacrifice for your relationship, you don't like call, you don't like call. Jesus that died for you, did He like dying? Whether you like call or not if you can go extra mile for me as a lover, then what is the essence of the relationship?

My father once told me that when you see a mad man laughing, it does not mean he is happy. From all indications, nothing excite me about Nigeria anymore.

This OP really need medical attention, if you are not sick in the head you will not be referring to Imo as home of hospitality. The character of Nigerian politicians reflect to some extent the character of the citizens, how can a sane human support people like Hope Uzodinma is a puzzle I can never understand.

SPOLO:
the sex sef ain't even on my mind this days especially if am in school i tend to have extremely low interest in having sex so i no dey even disturb her for that.... Even if she come ah fit no even ask for it.

Some girls are just like that. Focus on yourself for the main time, you will have the one that your presence excites her soon.

I don't even have time to waste on any emotionally drained and unstable gender. If you don't know what you want, I move on to the next available option.

Most girls are just parasitic and greedy, opportunistic lovers. I have lost my ability to love, I don't do relationship again, the stress, drama and disloyalty are unnecessary. Even one girl is forcing pregnancy on me, no test result, nothing nothing, I just the pity the girl. I have only one month to leave school, that's her business. All I do these days is to cum and go.

I have made it a priority to choose my peace of mind, happiness over any standard the modern world sets. I will always choose to be with someone that gets me excited and put my welfare as priority over these university graduates that are not even productive. The way these girls behave in school, it takes grace to find genuine graduate, unless those ones above 30, desperate for marriage.

Do people still love? For me, I have lost my ability to love.

Relationship doesn't necessarily affect your academics, na you no no book. Lol, on a serious note, it depends on the individuals involved, some people are vulnerable when it comes to relationship. For me, I have lot of ladies around me and I am doing great academically, although I am in my final semester, not writing first class yet but hopeful.

When I was asking a junior student out, she benefitted from me academically, her assignments, tutorials and materials were from me. Although she turned down my proposal and ended up dating one regular guy in my class, she brought her assignment yesterday for me to help but I told her that her boyfriend is my coursemate, so he can do it.

The only thing that can affect my academics is lack of money, health related issue, but girls are just an addendum.

The inventor of religion is the worst inventor ever. Religion have done harm to our race than good, most people are displaced of their logicality and reasoning because of religion. The illogicality and meaninglessness of life fertiled this religion, leap of faith is just an illusion.