₦airaland Forum

My kind of girl, she is beautiful and most importantly intelligent. I am so attracted to intelligent people.

Congratulations to her on her achievement, I pray the dream killer will give her opportunity to explore her world. I am proud of her.

Proud daughter of our race. Beauty with brain. I love such ladies.

The world is not as bad as we think, it is our government that sucks. It is most unfortunate to be in this part of the world, we are merely existing but not living. You have resources, the wherewithal to correct the abnormalities but you prefer to loot and play blame game.

Excellence is golden. She got good brains and beauty too. This is my spec, intelligent people have my admiration. More grace to explore her world.

emmykk:
Education is not qualified by financial gains .it is all that you are after what you learn in school have been forgetting.
So it is wrong to want recoup or seeing if you have recoup your school fees.

The job you are employed for you are paid for services not school fee recouping.
In nutshell your school fee is for self development.

Intelligent response sighted. I think, these questions are inspired by insecurities, I have never regretted being formally educated, not for the financial prospects, but for the love of being an educated individual.

Let me tell you my story. I had a girl like that in my lodge in school, we chat and called a lot, I always speak with the elder sister during holidays, our neighbors thought we were dating. When I develop feelings for her, I decided to shallow it but she encouraged me to ask her out, after the whole thing, she wants to use me catch cruise, I just moved on. Now she wants to come around but I don't visit my past.

Another story, I asked Cynthia out for eight months she refused and insisted we should be friends, another guy asked her out two weeks, she accepted. Girls are funny.

I can never be serious with any girl in my life after the music Cynthia played for me. Eight years of genuine wooing with capital love, Cynthia said she can't love, she is incapable of living, she doesn't have the ability to love. Another guy asked her out two weeks, she accepted. That's when I realized that no one is expensive, it is a matter of time and people. I have lost my seriousness.

Any day I mistakenly trust a lady, may thunder fire my local government chairman. I will rather trust Yahaya Bello to fix Nigeria in one year than to trust any lady. In fact, I murdered my feelings long ago, anything I am doing with any lady is just for cruise. All these girls that have eaten all the six classes of penis, I can't trust them.

You are not comfortable with his terms and conditions, another girl do and she is pregnant, what is your headache now? Oh, you created the thread for girls to learn abi? Which girls you want to teach, the ones that are sleeping around because of little change? Since I don't understand the delusional tendency of the female gender, I can never take them serious in my life. Kudos to the guy for being a real man.

This man must be smoking Osogbo weed. What kind of madness is this? Hard drugs is not good for this advance collosal failure of creature. With this set of leaders, Africa as a continent can't grow.

The way Nigerian politician reason is different. Immediately he gets into office, his brain start to malfunction.

God did not create any specific individual for you. You have your spec, anytime, anywhere you find her, that's your wife. Don't be gullible enough to swallow the creed religion is spreading, break out of religious ignorance and intellectual slavery.

Ruke1989:
Religiousity impressed it on brainless followers that their life becomes meaningless if they fail to prayerfully find one particular woman created and craftily tagged with their name tag. Out of the 9.5billion people worldwide, they have to painstakingly find who that man or woman is, else their life becomes miserable. Isn't that threat weird and alarming?
Of the many who believe this fallacy in Pentecostal churches such as deeperlife, redeem, mfm, etc, we are yet to confirm through an open survey that there aren't any issues in their marriages. Sure they still suffer thesame challenge all other marriage suffer speaking from an insider view. Just that hypocritically, they never admit but you can see for yourself by visiting their homes or interviewing their children.

This ideology, as legit as it appears comes with side effects such as late marriage, breeds simp-like men and worst of all breeds hypocrites ie suffering but smiling couples. Op, I know you are one of the victims of the ideology, I wrote this because I want to save you from the wrong belief.

Any woman you can control and has less than 2 body count, shares the same ideology as you and respects you, that is your wife. That's if your hormones pumps when you see her or hear her. The way Isaac testosterone and adrenaline was released the day he saw Rebecca in the Bible. That's how you know you have met your wife or what religious centers call will of God.

Your wife (will of God for you in marriage) isn't tied to "a specific person" but "a specific configuration" which any person who fits into it can be your spousal. Jettison doctrinal extremism and lead a meaningful life by taking charge of your destiny and marry what works for you not some hypocritic strangers

You are well read and learned too sir. We share the same ideology about religion and issues of life. Religion have done more harm than good to human logic.

Exactly my experience. I met this girl last year immediately after the corona break. We started as friends and I ended up asking her out. The way she convincely told me that she doesn't have ability to love was magical. I was absolutely convinced from our talks and her behavior that she is different. I spent the whole time wooing her until I gave up in September.

Today we gathered and a regular guy told us about how he asked the girl out September and she accepted, she told the guy to keep it a secret. All my guys were shocked. We don't have problem with her rejecting me and dating the guy. Our problem is the lies she sold to us that she can't date in school, and she doesn't have ability to love. She should have politely decline my advances, but with their double standard, she lied to gain the respect she never deserve.

Moral lesson: No girl is expensive, na because she no like you. She doesn't worth the effort.

Love, I am done with that thing called love. If I find you attractive, I will let you know so that we can hang out if you are interested. No drama, no commitment. After wetin Cynthia do me and wetin I hear about her today, rest in peace to any stupid feelings I have for the other gender.

Till I die I will use condom. No condom no sex. Unless we are married. I am scared of pregnancy and more scared of my health.

Gadafii:
i no too like cd, same as my girl but our last experience was somehow scary.

she started having symptoms of pregnancy, cant sleep at night, stomach filled and cant poo

omo i fear ooo, now we are patiently waiting for her next period, but we don conclude say no more nigga raw until further notice

LoL, we are in this together. This one is not even my girlfriend, I was so careless and stupid. I have been wishing and hoping that it should be negative and I will not have any sex again till I graduate by December.

Genuine love is sweet. People defy all odds just to be with the one that can give them peace of mind. I love the way people Love.

Some girls are agent of sex. After being praised by my guys and some girls for being good in bed, a guy brought one girl for me to do. After everything, she sent me a message on Facebook that I see vagina I no fit do. I vex invited her the following day, after everything, this girl told me that I am not good. She even advised me to go and watch porn.

I don't remove my hand from anything called vagina, I can only do the one my strength can carry me. I can't kill myself, before I will be going and be thinking I am cumming.

A girl is avoiding you because you are broke, instead of you to think of what to improve your financial status, you are here seeking advice on how to compound your predicament.

Michelle55:
Nna eh, the kain topics person dey see for this Nairaland is tiring.. Nwanne, get something doing with your life and time and leave women matter alone biko.

No be only flowning, na fleeing face

Hahahaha, you no get chill at all, the write up is an apology to English. But the guy need to be productive with his life.

Their love story is thrilling, I like the guy though. Some girls are making it hard for guys to find love on social media. Little conversation with girls, they start telling you their entire problems and seeking for favour. I just wish and pray that I meet my soulmate at the appropriate time and right place.

You don't beg for love or attention. No one is indispensable. I know when to let go and move on. After series of assessment on myself, I came to conclusion, that I should keep girls around for satisfaction, meaningful relationship will come when I am ready.

People are just careless with their health. A lady told me that she was more scared of pregnancy than STDs.

I know you are bigger than #200 airtime, you should have ignored her, or educate her on why she should not be asking someone she turned down for a favor.

OP, you have written a piece indeed. Girls are making people like us giving up on relationship. Even when girls turn you down, they still foolishly ask you for a favor. Any small conversation, they start asking you anything for the girl. These hungry, lazy and unproductive gender always shouting they can't marry broke guys, but can't afford little of their needs without a man. These girls behave as if government pay you for being a man.

Medically, it is not healthy, but there are things we do for love without considering the implications. I can use my wife toothbrush. Even my crush like using the spoon I used without washing it, she collect the gum I am chewing, she do crazy stuffs like that. That's the kind of woman I want to marry.

These civil societies are a major setback to this country. All these alleged professional bodies who are product of dysfunctional educational system are aware of the volatile economy and still be awarding the rapists raping the country for a rape well raped.

Finally, he can focus on his campaign in peace. How I wish he would win the election and perform. Poor leadership is a pandemic in Nigeria.

TheGidRedpiller:
Women are simply not worth it!

You are very correct. That gender doesn't worth it at all.

TheGidRedpiller:
My point is that, women should not be looked with that eye of positivity at first, you could be prone to many dangerous mistakes!

Your point is very logical.