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infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

Please Front page

First of all,how many years have you guys been dating..most women always keep a sidepiece for emergency..quite bleeped up but true. Confront her, y'all should figure out a way to get past this. Who says the person you are leaving her for eventually won't do exactly the same. It all falls down to how much you love her. Communication is key,talk to her and work pass this issue

Plebian:
he cured hiv patients, you dumb,ignorant, scum of the earth.

This bitch,am not the source of your misfortune na. Pls carry ur problem to God,don't transfer your aggressions here. Na myself I blame sha, I should have left you inside the cloud of stupidity hovering around you. Suka!!
I have heard you,he cured. What a retard!! Get the Bleep outta here

DWJOBScom:
He has always been like that
Steal, defraud and come to terms with the person.
That’s Onyema

No be everything wey read,u suppose they believe. Chai!

Plebian:
take your ignorance to the grave or google dr sebi.

The people he cured with evidence ain't HIV patients ignoramus. More of Diabetes and leukemia. But u know nothing,anything u read,u believe. Shiorr!!

[quote author=Plebian post=84293539]take your ignorance to the grave or google dr sebi.[/quot


Is there no better way to pass your info...you just had to show your stupidity..which one is i should take my ignorance to the grave'. Medicine is evidence based ehn not news crayfish. If u can point out any of his patient here then we will bliv you.

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

This one big pass us o...you will have to find a way to leave with the consequences,it's a bleeped up situation. Cos one way or the other,that info will come out. But u gotta hear wat that other guy has to say first

rill:
Una go just dey advise person to do wetin una sef no fit do.

Stick with her, Marry her this, yen yen yen

Easier said than done

It's actually that easy. The world has moved pass HIV. It's only the stigmatization that worries people now not the virus itself. HIV patients live longer than normal people these days

Plebian:
I know there's a cure for hiv, but it takes dedication and a strict diet on herbs and fruits for months.

There's no cure ma

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.




Help me

HIV doesn't mean you can't marry her or anything...so far she is on HAART meds..the viral load can go as low as undetectable with blood test. Don't let HIV stop you from being with your love my brother

ibietela2:
There's no justification for expelling her.... If not that our judiciary is worthless this is a case they will lose.

What happens to those who leaked the video?

Doesn't matter if they have right or not...it's what any schl would have done anywhere in the world. It's dem protecting there own name. What would follow in a civilised setting is a sue. The lady can sue the schl.

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

A woman tells you,she is ovulating. You are still in transit whether u wanna go raw or not. You better zip up,let ovulation pass first. Dem go just use belle hook you

GhostWisperer:
HIV and rape of headquarters of Africa, how far?

And murder..kidnap yound ladies,rape and kill dem. There isn't a day that a young girl isn't missing in SA. Just go twitter,someone go stilliss tmao laidis

McManuels:
No wonder SOUTH AFRICANS like beyonce's song LEMONADES cause it sounds like lemonAIDS when they pronounce it.

Sense won't kee u

nairalanduseles:
That one na born throway

Lol..as in ehn. Instead make d mumu go sleep. He gats wake up by 4am to go answer yes sir tomorrow, e dey here dey speak english

baiaon:
Typical post from a lousy,lazy,anti-intellectual Nigerian.
Everything is play-play to you guys
Pity

You are very foolish. Mumu! We can see how hardworking and intellectual you are na. Ode oshi, obalende malcolm X

gypsey:
Go give the south Africans upper cut first. They killed you Nigerians brothers last time, where were you with your upper cuts?

Busy defecating openly on Nigerian streets?

Yeah very funny...can you get off our dick now?

TMKsouth:
Yeah, remind me... What do you actually do with all your oil wealth? All of Africa is dying to know, coz we can't see it. U can't either, that's y you're scattered all over the world.

We have heard you TMK. Thank you. Can you geddifok off this forum now,we want to do family meeting.

baiaon:
Did you see how AKA and his fellow south african nationals campaigned for burna boy not to attend that concert?
If it was the other way round and AKA was the one to attend a concert in Nigeria,would nigerans have been as united as south Africans were in this situation?NO
Why?because nigerians are generally a cowardly and docile people with low self esteem

Guy go sleep. We dey yab here,u carry ball dey dribble back to ur house.

benzema8:
we just dey throw point wen nor make sense.the hiv we re calling SA we have it here.Even the whites that are still controlling their economy I wish Nigeria can be controlled by the white.we can’t boast of any development

Oga keep quiet if u ain't got nothing to say

TMKsouth:
Yeah, the juices were quite nutritious.

Did u have 3 balanced meals today judging u from the POVERTY CAPITAL OF THE WORLD?

If u weren't so obsessed with naija..wat are u doing on this forum sef. Like y'all ain't got shit to look at in ur country. Una sha wan knw wetin dey hapn for naija. Issokay stay tuned

Jaynom:
Hayibo! South Africans were also billed to perform, from kwesta to sho madjozi it's not just burna. It's a Lose lose situation

Am confused...how does cancelling show affect burna. Show for south Africa o,south Africa, we talking south Africa man. Who gives a Bleep.

gypsey:
well.. ask your Nigerian Friends why they brought Ghana into the matter.

It's not ur fight bro,just stay outta dis.

TMKsouth:
Go practice open-air defecation.

Lol... Why are you people in so much pain,y'all are so jealous. It's not that hard,Burna's show got cancelled? Absolutely beautiful, I don't knw why he wanted to go over there in the first place. Can we pls move on already. We no send una,make una go dey throw spear,dey kidnap unasef as usual. Abeg go rest

gypsey:
Yea! Ghana deported 1000s of Nigerian prostitutes last month. why not face South Africans and leave ghana out of it..


And oh! Ask Nigerians, the will tell you how their lives have changed for the worst since the border closure. Clueless Government closing a porous border, Is that one border closure?

Oh lord! What is Ghana's own in this issue again now? Bros don't u have something else to do,who call una enta matter.

TMKsouth:
Don't worry bout us - we're RICH.

What matters most is that a clear & decisive message has been sent to any other Nigerian artist that dare stand up against SA in the future.

Unlike u people, we actually stand by our causes & no amount of money can buy us.

Your Burna has been exposed for the fraud that he is - by the power of the MIGHTY SOUTH AFRICAN RAND (ZAR).

Bitch pls.. Y'all can get off his dick now. Face yours,let's face ours

hollah123:
bro let's face reality here, I am a Nigerian too but I will tell u point blank that burna bleep up. how can u vow not to enter a country again n in no time u are planning to go there n trying to save face by saying the money will b used for victims. he broke d code by willing to perform there, how much will they give him compared to his reputation? now he has been embarrassed now n d wall gecko drake wanna be is now forming boss. atimes lion gaz respect itself so dog no go rubbish am

First of all na rubbish u write here my guy...he said he won't go there unless something is done about and something was done but that aside sef, chai na burna Bleep up,say e wan even go dere again,south Africa of all places..what do they know about music in south Africa,who south Africa help... Who do they have that is on Burna's level.

TMKsouth:
You can't threaten SA artists with violence and then expect to land here safely. This one should never ever ever ever come to SA - EVER.

Well done AKA.

What is this one saying... Who send una? South Africa? Someone should help me with that man spitting pic

Cherrybae:
Very ugly broke frustrated illitrate chiwawa

Go and rest abeg! See who dey talk

Thank God say this bros don blow b4... Se na wetin e for dey sing as an upcoming be this.

This song isn't that good but I hope it gets better on the next one

Ekpekus:
Inky the APGAR score nor dey the delivery note.. otherwise na complete delivery note be this

I dey tell you

franchasng:
They don't have money and they will be carrying shoulder up, them and doctors, broke forming bullshyt

You must have dated one of these... The vex in this text ehn

Mrop:
A Male nurse has taken delivery of a baby with its cord around the neck in a Keke Napep (tricycle) after an undisclosed hospital denied care of the mother in Lagos, praizenews report.

The male nurse, Edeaghe Jeremiah Oyakhilome swung into action after he heard the cry of people in the neighbourhood when a woman in a keke napep went into labour, he had to take delivery of the baby whose cord was round the neck single-handedly.

According to the twitter user who broke the news, He wrote;


https://twitter.com/El_PrisciTO/status/1194855955185520640?s=19

The incident was recounted by El_PrisciTO on his social media page.Thankfully, mother and child are doing very fine.

From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/male-nurse-takes-delivery-of-baby-with-cord-around-neck-in-keke-napep-photos/

Good one...my guy go write full delivery note for twitter