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kolafolabi:
A bad one for Chelsea and a good one for Tottenham

Good one for Tottenham? Dat Leipzig dey ball o

Henvest:
There is this shop I normally stock my house from then. One day I came to buy things as usual, the guy, the owner of the shop introduced one girl to me telling me she is his sister. After that day I stopped seeing the guy but only the girl in the shop.

One day I traveled, while on the travel someone called, introduced herself and explained who she is. Obviously she took my number from my younger brother staying with me. She pretended to be angry with me for not telling her am traveling and for me not knowing her name before then. Of course I apologized but she demanded I should take her out when am back before she will accept my apology I obliged.

I came back kept to my promise but made it in an open place, National theater precisely.
But then she booked another date next week but insisted it won't be open place anymore.. The rest is history.

One day I came to her shop to buy something and over heard a close friend calling her Iyawo Ossy, that wasn't the first I heard someone address her as Iyawo Ossy but I become curious this time because this person is a close friend and should know better. She tried to wave it with excuse of anybody is free to call her what they like but when I insisted, she finally opened up.....

Ossy was not her brother but her fiance with whom she has been together for 6 six years.
But, according to her Ossy is waiting for her to take in before going to see her people.
The reason why both of them chose to be telling people they are siblings remain a mystery to me till today....

I got mad and call it quit with her for trying to use me to secure marriage. The whole relationship did not last up to 2 months but obviously it was a bit late already.

Weeks later it become obvious she is pregnant, deep inside of me I felt am responsible, but when I ask her she insist it belong to Ossy. I push but she stood her ground insisting it belongs to Ossy.
She went further denying the timing of the pregnancy, if doctor is saying 2 months she will be claiming her pregnancy is 1 month.

To my greatest surprise become hostile and start avoiding me even go further to claim they went for paternity test and the result shows it belong to the guy.

I gave up, dust my self and moved on.
Nine months later she put to bed to a girl..
Months later I move out of that area.
One day my phone rang it was her, she demanded that she need to see me, that she has an important discussion with me. I opt to recharge and call her for us to do the discussion on phone but she insisted so I sent her my new address.

Two days later she came, what she came to tell me was that she is leaving the guy that the marriage thing is not working.
She was seriously crying all through I tried all i could to console her but then one thing lead to another sex happened again. When she is about to leave she told me that am the father of her daughter not Ossy. That the story of going for paternity test was true but that the test never happened because the counsellor they meet ask them to go back and rethink it again but the Ossy changed his mind at the process.

I laugh off the story and asked her to take her leave because to me she is just trying to activate her option B. Two months later she called to inform that she has not seen her period I told her am not Interested in her stories again but then my conscience was never at peace. I keep asking my self what if pregnancy and the girl truly belong to me?

One year plus later I decided to go look for them I told my girl, now fiance and she give her support ..

What I saw when I reached there almost make me cry, her condition is so bad. There and then I decide to come in and start assisting her as much as i can pending when I go for DNA. My family kick against my decision, their reason is that the girl story is not to be trusted, on the other hand my girl was supportive but kick against DNA claiming if it is done and they are not mine my feelings for the kids will change.
But from then I start taking care of their feeding, schooling, clothing, rent e.t.c

After like a year my girl suggest I open business for the girl instead, so that she doesn't have to come to me for everything everytime except school fees and medical bills.

I bought the idea and asked the lady to go look for shop ...
While on that i told her of the need to open account for the kids.

Two days later she came back to tell me that her brothers said she should not change the name of the kids...

That the kids will bear the name of who ever that marry her or the name of her family if the person don't want them.

Now what happened was that, she once told me that she need to change the girls surname to mine. Before then i don't know their surname nor attach any importance to it. So while discussing the idea of opening the account for the girls I innocently suggest that she go do the change of name before opening the account.

I was hit by her responds and her body language so I told her that she and her brothers can go suit theirselves, that from then henceforth I have hands off her matter.

Later that day she called and begged but I told her that the only condition for me to keep assisting her is that she will change their names and also release one of them to me.

She said i should make out time and come down to her base so that we will discuss it. I discuss it with my fiance and she permit me to go. When I get there and raise the topic she flame up telling me she won't try it, that that is the position of her family.

Obviously she was expecting a fight or angry reactions from me so that she can push her terms and agenda to the table ..

But was disappointed when I don't fall for that, she start begging that she can change their names but can't release any to me. I told her is no longer an option.

The meeting end at that and I took my leave, go with the start up capital i was meant to give her for her business.

She sent people to me to beg on her behave but I insisted. Finally she agreed, but with a condition that she (the first girl) must be up to 5years which is few months away then before she release her.

I sense lies in the whole thing but my girl insist I should release the fund for her to start the business of which I did when her pressure become much.

Since then I still pay their school fees nd medical bills...
Late last year the small one did surgery it was on me.

The 1st is 7 now the 2nd is 4 years old.
This year she said she wanna marry, that someone is asking for her hand in marriage
I congratulate her and wish her luck. Then ask her her plan for the kids.

What she answered me is " let the will of God be done"

I called the woman, her friend who first told me about the marriage thing, after much drilling she open up that they have agreed with the man that he is going to marry her the kids.

I don't have any problem with that even though I feel used but my only problem is why lying to me again? At that point am yet to pay their graduation /party fees out of anger I decide am not going to pay it again. I told her to go meet their new father to pay the remaining, but my conscience kept battling me.

My fiance is extremely mad at her now and have withdraw her support and insist I cut of with her entirely .

I understand her, she has been very understanding, supportive and always fighting for them even without knowing them or them knowing her.

I feel so bad for putting her in that position.
That becomes a very messy situation for me now becus I cant afford to ruin my relationship / marriage because of a renowed liar.

But what will be of those kids if I hands off them keep am awake some times at night because I don't wanna be that father that abandon his kids but I cant afford to do anything which my woman do not approve or take her for granted in anyway.


Is obvious she is trying to blackmail me with the kids, But then am not even sure if they are mine ,and she have refused to release them because if she do I can be able to go for DNA. And know what next from there.

For a while now we have not talk, She called two weeks ago that the kids wanna talk to me obviously for school fees I turn it down and warn her against calling my line again ...

I don't know if that is right, I'm confused now.
My another worry now if those kids are mine is,
When it comes to Education we are at opposite end.

She don't attach importance to education but me I attach so much importance to it.
I can't trust her with the education of those kids.
Please I need advise on how to handle things.

Damn bro! You got some weak-ass knees,girl touch u small,u don weak at the knee level. You shoulda learn the first time around but nah. If dem gree u sef,third one go follow. But it is what it is now,get a DNA test and know for sure,cos I no knw wetin u wan make nairaland people do for u o

RockHard:
https://thenationonlineng.net/fg-tells-togo-benin-niger-to-pay-electricity-bills/

Just see this yeye country... Una never get light finish from the -15watts wey una dey produce,una begin supply other countries light again. But when I finally catch the angel wey send me come here o

stephenduru:
A lady was allegedly butchered in Abuja by unknown people. Ronald who shared the horrific photos said anybody who knows the deceased should come to Asokoro District Hospital mortuary. Below is what he wrote....

'Ooh my God wanders shall never end this girl was murdered and butchered at Durumi by unknown identity. If you know her come to Asokoro District Hospital's motuary'.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=499390590669444&id=100017955218399

Father lord!! Make 2021 no meet me for this country lord! This country is gradually imploding

Jaqenhghar:
Clearly whatever you have to say is irrelevant and inconsequential but the fool must strive for relevance at all costs. Donkey

Yh, we have seen how relevant you can be bitchass

Jaqenhghar:
What is envy and hatred there?
If work conditions dont favour you, leave the work. That's what happens in civilized societies. Am I the one that made the hospitals the way they are?
The government doesnt care. The citizens themselves dont see value in human lives and also dont care. If you have nothing of substance to say simply pretend you didnt see my post nigger

Then just shut the Bleep up,nor be evrytime you go dey show ur ass

Jaqenhghar:
Its better they resign than stay, grumble and be killing patients.
See UK and Australia, they are being sought there

See brother,brother
Brother wey....
Just see your mentality,hospital is in poor condition( that is the action in the whole article) but ur envy and hatred for doctors no go let u see road. Import ur own doctors

Simplyleo:
10 consultants and 36 resident doctors resigned from just one hospital because of poor condition of service. Going by what they keep deluding themselves with, one will expect a doctor working in any hospital in that region to be feeling like he/she is in US.

If this were to be even in a privately owned hospital somewhere in the north or west, insults down to forefathers of the zones would have pushed this thread into the 4th page by now.

But in this case, watch how poor condition of service in a state-owned hospital becomes a case for the whole of Nigeria.

So what exactly is ur point?

Angelfrost:
The only state generating trillions on a near yearly basis in revenue...

You think Lagos is really modern??!... If a quarter of her income is fully utilized, that state will exceed Dubai... Same issue facing the states you are correctly slating.

What am I getting at??!... The entire country is a fvcking shithole, including Lagos!!! Nothing personal.

Nothing but the truth

diegwu02:
Nigeria is Improving everyday, No matter how much we deny it.

Lagos is improving not nigeria. Pls note it!

ghettokid1:
Klopp is not a better coach, it's his players that is making him a better coach.

What is this man saying na...it takes a good coach to build that team,it's not like he just met the players there. I said bring your Rodgers resume and let's see how many trophies he got. Which team has he ever built from scratch and what they have won

helinues:
So far, Brendan Rogers is the best coach in EPL

Jamie Vardy highest go scorers so far

While Wilfred Ndidi wins most tackled not just in EPL but top Europe league.

See talk, where did you keep klopp. He was league runner up last season,lost by a point,champions league winner, and currently running with the league title this season. You are calling Rodgers best coach,where is his resume?

babecode:
naa waaa ooo.

Woman shaaa

What is woman sha... If we investigate it well,dat guy dey cheat too

Kylekent59:
Yes, you are free to attack me. What's the big deal there?

Have I died? or did you get paid for attacking me??


I am sure with all your correct grammar, you can't even boast of a thousand naira nor even a land.


get the message and stop attacking me

you must be really young, boy!. This is where I draw the curtain on this conversation.

Kylekent59:
It's not only in Nigeria armed forces are mad, Croatia police threatened to shoot if they don't move.

hmmm.

I still think Nigeria is better. Nigeria's problems are being made public, while some other countries are kept private, therefore remain hidden.

I am just pathetic.

Yes you are..for making this type of typo error

greenguy:
Perhaps he's been crying endlessly in the closet, has refused to eat or mingle and keeps throwing tantrums. He understands nothing about competition and he's obsessed with his number 1 competitor, Messi.

Truth is ronaldo has been on the chase all his career,chasing messi. Messi has always been in the position where he's the one being chased. First,the five balloon d'ors ,ronaldo chase chase collect 5. Now messi with the sixth,it's time for ronaldo to chase again

heniford2:
Ronaldo just join juventus so already won this thing while messi been playing the same club since childhood hardwork and smartness pays if messi its what he said he its let him visit England � and still be the best.

Oga it's already dry with all dis let him leave line.. Don't y'all have something else. How many clubs did pele play that he was termed the greatest ever? Pls come up with something else to say. What a pile of jargon

reportminds:
Georgina Rodriguez, the girlfriend to Juventus forward, Cristiano Ronaldo has reacted as Lionel Messi clinched the 2019 Ballon d’Or award.

Rodriguez maintained that Ronaldo was the best despite losing the award the Ballon d’Or award while describing him as incomparable.

In a post on her verified Instagram page, she wrote:

“Incomparable. There are figures and titles, of all this you are the protagonist with the best results, such as the League of Nations, the Italian Cup, the Serie A Championship, Best Player of the Serie A, among others.

“But fortunately neither the awards nor the titles speak only for you, even if you have them a lot. What speaks best about you is yourself, your passion, your hunger for self-improvement, your fellowship, because you are the inspiration of Soccer and Sport for millions and millions of people.

“You are not afraid of the challenges, you leave your comfort zone and you continue surpassing yourself and showing the world what it is like to be number 1. I love you.”


https://www.instagram.com/p/B5nHXs1IXa3/?igshid=1ob6tx1a5nwxp

But why do the people around ronaldo always have a reason to console him anytime he loses... I mean,I haven't seen a single member of messi family nor his girlfriend do something like this. Always sha trying to assure him that he is number 1,nor be u go tell us say u be number 1,na we go tell you. That is what messi understands more than ronaldo.

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

It's normal to be shy.. All you gat to do now is suck it all up and say what is on your mind..if you perish,you perish

obembet:
Giorgio Chiellini claims Juventus teammate Cristiano Ronaldo “was robbed of the Ballon d’Or last year, as Real Madrid wanted to stop him winning.”

The trophy went to Real Madrid and Croatia midfielder Luka Modric in 2018, while this evening the winner was Barcelona star Lionel Messi.

Ronaldo skipped the ceremony for two years running after learning he would not be holding the golden globe aloft.

Asked about the decisions, Chiellini made some remarkable comments on Sky Sport Italia.

d'Or last season, when Real Madrid decided to make sure he couldn't win it and that was really weird,” said the defender.

“This season, it was more balanced. With all due respect, Modric even in his best season of his career didn't deserve it. That was a signal from Real Madrid, as they wanted to stop Ronaldo winning it.

“He won the Champions League, but by that logic, (Liverpool defender Virgil) Van Dijk should've won it this year, or last year (Antoine) Griezmann, (Paul) Pogba or (Kylian) Mbappe for doing extraordinary things at the World Cup. Modric made no sense.”

Cristiano Ronaldo won the Ballon d’Or on five occasions, while Messi now has six.

Source: https://indianexpress.com/article/sports/football/lionel-messi-ballon-dor-real-madrid-stopped-cristiano-ronaldo-last-year-claims-giorgio-chiellini-6148874/lite/

If messi no win this balloon d'or, this talk for no come out o,but people can't just shut up. Didn't they rob ribery for him too

NaijaCelebrity:
Nollywood Actress Angela Okorie too to her instagram page to call out former bbnaija housemate Tacha saying she is ungrateful and couldn’t even thank me for supporting her, now i understand why Jaruma unfollowed her.

She posted saying...



https://www.instagram.com/p/B5pKSqnF5Mw/?igshid=7ofvnpqjo01f

This Angela must be blind outta her mind. I mean we all knew tacha has bad attitude right from inside the house,absolute craze person.. She comot, ignore you, now you are crying that she has bad attitude. Boo who! You never see anything,she will do ignore this your 250words essay join.

iammolise:
U are sick in the oblongata... U need factory reseting so that u can recuperate.

Shatap ur mouth

APOPTOSIS:
I thought Most NIGERIANS always call our MEDICAL DOCTORS, MALARIA and TYPHOID DOCTORS...
U claim u hate Medical Doctors, yet you are rushed to your so called ENEMY when SICK and deranged...
I guess u really need mental Check as well, as part of hospital evaluations.
Please where are those PEOPLE ...?

God bless you..dey are nowhere to be found now,let someone die now,dey will troop in,in numbers pointing fingers

Alvin212:
First of , tell your afonja sisters to stop wearing one pant for 2weeks without washing em

Lmao... You be mumu

AuntLaVIV:
Let me introduce to You the First Class Lawyer. A product of Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University.

Met Barr Mekowulu Precious Chibuzor. She graduated with first Class at Nigeria Law School Lagos.

What you should know about Barr. Precious (first class Lawyer)

1. When she couldn't get admission to Study law. She did 2years Diploma in Law in Unizik.

2. After her diploma in Law, she wasn't able to secure admission to Study law. She went home frustrated.

3. After one year at Home, Barr Precious secured admission to Study law in Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University.

4. She was elected to be Lawsa Vice President then she became the first Female Lawsa President in COOU.

5. Barr. Precious graduated with first Class in COOU.

6. She was admitted to Nigeria Law school Lagos where she came out with first Class and was the only student from her set that got first class in Nigeria Law school.

Why do I tell you this story.... Impossible is Nothing. Destiny can be delayed but not denied.

If only this were a good country,imagine the amount of firms that'll fight for her. But no o not in beloved naija

theButterfly:
And who is asking you to post anyone's photo? As if that proofs anything to people here. Abeg, direct yourself to yaba left, pls. Your friend's father, your friend's father all the time.

Since u don't believe him,you need not comment na,you are now here,getting offensive

Tellemall:
Did you know your government should do their part by giving you speed limits, educating you on them and enforcing it, for instance? Reckless driving indeed.

Who said it's about big roads or good roads? There's more to do about it.

So educating and giving speed limits is a guarantee for you that these drivers won't drive reckless as usual. It's like you think u are in Europe where people actually follow rules and regulations. These drivers are goats,dey never listen. They drive recklessly within the city where road safety agents are,na inside dat bush u think say dem go send speed limit

Tellemall:
Terrible. Something needs to be done to educate drivers and get the government to do their part.

And which part is that? Is that road not good or big enough to drive tru..this is a case of reckless driving simple!

HumphreyGspot:
https://www.instagram.com/p/B5eKYMnlnBB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Source: https://hgsmediaplus.com.ng/2019/11/nobody-can-blame-my-mother-etinosa-smokes-uses-bible-as-an-ashtray.html

Non of these girls learn from tonto dike biography ni. Your own dey wait you for front

This nigga said 'by the power invested in me' by who? See this masquerade o

Segkem2013:
Africans are so cruel.
Seems the black man always thinks of out doing the devil when executing his crime. Throw a fellow human off a moving vehicle, gang rape someone's sister/daughter then take a soul you knew nothing of the pains and sacrifices it took the parents to bring to the world and raise.

What is the meaning of Africans are so wicked...pls narrow down your phrase. This is something we hear everyday from south africa. You don't hear this kinda shit on a daily in most African countries

millionboi2:
D kind chemical women pour on deselvs

See ignorance here. Which chemical again