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Adaure4ever:
is the man a virgin himself? Why these double standard?

Nobody forced her to say 'she is saving herself for marriage' now. I believe what is hurting the man is that she misled him.

funny! just funny. imagine the scenario for a second. the awkwardness at first then the man going ballistic.
this is African Magic stuff.

I don't know what's more disturbing the awkward pose or the fact that this attention seeking instagram post was e-hawked to NL. well, we'll who her yansh don help? dollar still rising and men are still losing their jobs.

Bro after 7 years your purpose there is only one thing as a Bouncer to keep all unwanted and uninvited guys away.
now to the part where u want sex after 7 years, my question is why now? what changed? if you want sex you ask at this point, I doubt there is need for the formalities.

Nnemuka:
even sane nigerian men do it. they can take you to the most expensive restaurant, ask you to order for any thing you like and before you finish your meal he wont be anywhere in sight.

When ladies now convert "anything you like" to "go ahead girl eat the Damn restaurant to the ground in one sitting and ruin me" and you expect his survival instinct not to kick in and save his life?

SexyCeline:
It would have added more value to our pvssy... Guys will have to cry and be forced to dish out the damn ring b4 munching our pvssy. It would have been a great world.

who that one don epp since time of Adam and eve?

DemiGoddess:
No 7 got to me...I still think feminism is a bloody joke,a delusional idea concoted by some sick white women...why would a woman want to be treated like a man instead of with respect as a woman she is??Doesnt make sense and hearing some Nigerian girls rant about feminism(which they fail to grasp its concept) is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard PERIOD!

oh my my!!! I've got nothing but strong likeness for you right now.

Fabulocity:
Let me just clarify a few things for the fucktards that have refused to have sense
Like I'll always say, there's nothing wrong in being broke. But it becomes a problem when you'll sit on your fat ass and do nothing about your condition. All you do is to complain about the economy, about the government, about the country and even about the weather and how there's no job anywhere even when you aren't making any effort. Nothing good ever comes easy, and hardwork, ambition is needed to come out of a broke situation. Now the broke guys I'm referring to are the the complainers, the lazy ones, the ones who won't hustle, the "scrubs", according to TLC. Who is talking about weave on or hair? Maybe you misunderstood me when I mentioned grlfriends making demands on their boyfriends. That wa just an example I cited, eventhough a lot of you seem to have misconstrued it.

No miss, I think somewhere in there we both didn't understand each other on our perception of what "broke " should cover. let me say thank you for making yourself clearer. now I get you. So what you mean is someone who doesn't have money and a job and won't do anything about it is a broke guy. Fine! I now understand Your own perspective. that being said, that your definition is not what a whole lot of ladies on here saying "yes OP preach on I agree with you! they're broke as sh1t" as if you are a crusader( hope u get my humour). For most ladies I have seen their comments here, being a broke guy is a guy not living the Hollywood lifestyle. A guy that can't afford to drop 500k for weekend shopping not questions asked. Now that is not a realistic view because in theory world at large only a few people belong to that exclusive class and in Nigeria, fewer decent non politician young people can be counted.
I think that is where both of us aren't we seeing eye to eye coz our definitions are quite different.

MrsChima:
When he doesn't have any money/assets.

then most guys can't be accepted as broke because you and I know that is not the basis of the definition in this write up. Broke here is considered as a guy who won't have the money to buy gowns, shoes, hair, nails etc anytime and every time they are requested and that means the word broke is subjective. Don't you think? And if we use this definition of the OP, then why would ask for something if u can afford it? so that means the lady too is broke. isn't it? so are we saying it's wrong for a guy to be broke ( in fact he should not be considered a REAL man if u ask some ladies) but acceptable if a woman is? I agree with your definition but a lot of people don't understand it, or fail to put it into perspective.

[quote author=amokeme post=43678686][/quote]if these comments represent who you are on a large scale, woman!!!! will you marry me?!! please don't ever lose your senses. it will break my heart.

MrsChima:
Awwwwww. I see many pained Nigerian boys!

Never tell a broke nigga, he is broke! He knows he is broke and doesn't want to hear you tell him he is broke!

really how do you correctly assess that someone is broke?

Oliviaarims:
Argumentum ad hominem

meaning

Fabulocity:
Alright
Noted sir !

thank you ma.

Fabulocity:
I was almost congratulating you for understanding my post
But thank goodness I read to the end of your long post and I didn't. Sorry the points aren't "intellectual" enough for you. I just stated very basic that a lot of girls can relate to.
And what intellectual points do you want me to raise concerning Nigerian Men? Isn't that Laughable?

hey miss ( or Mrs) you see, I don't have a problem with you or what you wrote coz from where I'm standing it is not something that can be argued or supported on most formal levels( I chose formal coz u seem to have a problem with my choice of the word INTELLECTUAL) .
Please don't confuse intellectual for intelligent. my use of intellectual is to point out that anyone who would argue these points without emotional sentiments would not have valid points to arouse valid points and facts vis-a- vis counter points. I have not implied that you aren't intelligent. No! I won't do that. so please understand my points. I'm cool with whatever you write coz really some of those things above really really can be said about the foreign guys this post is favoring (so what's the point?)

LOL Mehn guys (Nigerian men in question) relax. take a chill pill and read what she has written. it's quite comical. The Disclaimer is an absolute contradiction of the whole write up. the construction of the piece was unidirectional with an undertone of disdain for Nigerian men. so here I am laughing at the post because it was suppose to be analytical of a set of people it was rather a bashing. then why should you be worked up on a piece like this that hasn't really brought out any valid logical point? e.g Nigerian men stink? really?!!! or this one NIGERIAN men are Broke ; wow on a lighter note OP we are called less developed country for a reason and a 3rd world country for another. so if u say men in this population are Broke, sister some may call u greedy, or a gold digger but if u consider that an insult, maybe a diamond digger will appeal more to ur taste.
You took your time to write this, you could do better so that you can present some logical argument for sake of intellectual jostling.

menabae:
oh well,gud to knw u are advocating for them or are u one ?

I have a lot of doctor friends. I'm not denying or confirming the question...

HateU2:
It's not even about that. It's lyk dat profession get some power dat gives dem d same attitude.

Doctors ehn!
I met one lyk dat wen I went 4 my TP 2years ago. This guy go dey tell me say na everyday he dey see 'bweast and pooccy'. So, no need for me to play 'hard-2-get'. He said dat d 2nd tym we met o. Plus odas lyk dat(its lyk I'm attracted to docs) but I don't lyk em. They can never respect a woman cox dey see it everyday. #my opinion/experience thou#


Bankers
They meet diff size, shape and colours everyday so to choose 1 is dir wahala.

that guy was just a jerk. Doctors too meet different women LoL. Doctor are taught to respect everyone esp women. So that they don't respect women won't be an accurate assumption.

menabae:
doctors are introverted pervs, ...yep did I just say that? Ok..they are also sadist,impatient,too ambitious,not romantic and appears too serious,boring,self centered, etc .... So I chose bankers over them and they even earn more than docs

that seems like you are a bit too harsh on them. Ambitious, yeah I think that comes with most specialised jobs e.g lawyers and engineers. Impatient, I think that will depend on where you meet them. If u meet them while they are working e.g in outpatient departments of hospitals,they won't have time and that is because they have patients breathing down their neck(we know how we want the doctors to quickly attend to us and we can leave the hospital). They can be as romantic as it get but not as most bankers maybe(cos romance is time and attention- docs don't have time).
But Doctors are disciplined, nice, courteous, good listeners and can devote time to be with u when u need them to( they are trained to lol).

HateU2:
Yes! Bankers over Doctors anytime

I heard u. Just want to know why. The looks,money? The job itself,there has to be a reason.

menabae:
hehehheheehehhehe my reasons might not favour u,so I'd rather keep em to my self, being the guy that u are hahahahahaha

bring on ma'am lay it on me I can take it. I'm just curious as to why u won't choose doctors since they are considered as 'catches' by most female folks. Your choice is an unpopular one.

HateU2:
Don't even go there! Doctors! . I prefer bankers den

really? Bankers over Doctors? There must be an out of this world reason.

menabae:
u are right thou,buh nevertheless they are cool,but just flirtatious,their eye no dey stay one place... I will pick them over doctors sha

OMG ehen ehen please do share your reason(s). I'm keenly interested.

refiner:
crap!!!

why u come dey vex?

EbubeOnoh:
The person should build a four room duplex for me and buy me a car(latest maodel) then i will consider falling in love with the persdon. The person can also add Blackberry Z30 join am if he like.

you gay brother hope you are not commenting from anywhere in Nigeria? the Law is the Law!!

repogirl:
I no talk am, the drama don start proper.


But this babe is badass oooo, indeed she is the queen of rebranding. Always finding a way to land on her feet.

Nigeria's own Kim K. wait till olori start posing Nude...

Jadekitana:
That's how my ex was telling me to dip my hand in his anus! I felt a demon entered him that day. How can a normal human being request for such disgusting act? I had to leave him, that was just the peak.

ehen ehen I sure say e get part two.

smileysmiley:
op I think you have mistaken terrified for shy... edit your write up... as for why they are terrified, its cause of your scary look :Pop I think you have mistaken terrified for shy... edit your write up... as for why they are terrified, its cause of your scary look

you just couldn't help it could you? you had to say it! damn girl that was below the belt.

BumBae:
Eh nah me

I like the honesty.