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Jamesrock:
It may surprise you, but I’m popular for that... it’s a unique thing anyways

There is no twitter vendor that is a monopolist!

yanabasee1:
I have someone who said he's yet to receive a single call from his clients since money....


Said he sells clothes on Twitter...he used VPN to upload his sticks and everyone seems to be staring at it and no calls made yet unlike before....

Instagram is better for that.

Jamesrock:
I am a Twitter vendor and Twitter is the source of my breakthrough...

I don’t want to mention what I sell cos I wish to maintain my anonymity on nairaland

So if you mention what you sell,people will know you...Because you are the only person who is selling it on twitter?

sapphiere:
lalastilala

Shebi the future is female?

Maybe that's why they are now kidnapping females.Because are don't know it is mostly females that go missing.

OP's last seen was April 27..Over 1 month.

I just hope he is fine.

tensazangetsu20:
Mathematics can be learnt o. Don't discourage anyone. Most people have really bad mathematics backgrounds because of the rubbish teachers we had in secondary schools in Nigeria. There are a lot of online courses and sites that teach mathematics really well.

Where can I lay my hands on these courses and sites?

“Sex is more than just penile-vaginal interplay. Try outercourse for variety, which can include anything from deep kissing, sensual touch, and erotic massages to the use of vibrators or other intimacy gadgets. “Exploring a variety of body pleasures is essential for achieving orgasm,” Brito wrote on healthline.com.

“Use your five senses (yes, all five) to focus on your own body sensations,” she added. Abandon the performance-driven mindset in favor of a pleasure-driven one.

“This helps to alleviate the type of sexual pressure that most people complain about when it comes to ‘sex-pectations.’ Practicing this can assist you in learning to overcome fears that arise from believing you must know everything about sexual intimacy.”

Making a comparison between your spouse and an ex

Brito advised that you should never compare your spouse to an ex. She expressed concern that comparison could lead to unnecessary insecurities and resentment. “Instead, enjoy each other’s company and keep things interesting. Make some new memories! Schedule date nights to ensure you have time to experiment with new sexual activities,” she advised.

Brito also advised couples to learn each other’s love languages.

“When the going gets tough in the bedroom, rely on your strengths,” she advised. When your needs aren’t met, it’s easy to shift blame and become enraged. Instead of calling it quits, spend some time getting to know each other’s points of view. Find a point of agreement.

“Bickering usually occurs when one person feels unappreciated. Learning and expressing your love in your partner’s language (whether through gifts, physical affection, or taking out the trash) will lay the groundwork for sexual intimacy.”

Not getting enough rest

Having sex when stressed is a recipe for disaster in the bedroom. As a result, in order to feel more at ease in your body and energized to try something new in the bedroom, you must be well-rested.

“Instead of checking Facebook every night, set aside the first and last hour of your day to refuel, reconnect, and experiment with sexual pleasure with your spouse,” Alaofin advised. Brito also advised couples to prioritize their time. “Create more opportunities for sexual intimacy,” she advised. Stop juggling too many balls at once. Schedule time for rest, relaxation, and sexual activity.

Maintaining regular exercise is also important because blood flow to your genitals is required for sexual arousal. It is critical for increasing pleasure. Not only that, but exercise improves your mood and releases endorphins, which are two essential ingredients in promoting sexual desire.”

Similarly, Dr Tammy Nelson, an American sex therapist and author, stated, “It’s important to relieve stress in a healthy, sustainable way in order to keep your hormones and sex drive where you want them to be.”

“Exercise, massage, taking a luxurious bath, outdoor leisure, and yes, even sex are all great ways to reduce stress,” she added.

Failure to learn new techniques

Sheila Gregoire, a sex therapist based in the United States, stated in an article that not learning new techniques or things could lead to boredom in the bedroom.

“If getting ready for bed consists of talking to him while he’s brushing his teeth and you’re sitting on the toilet peeing, then you both throw on old raggedy T-shirts before crawling into bed – well, perhaps it’s no surprise that sex is boring,” she said. You’ve lost all sense of mystery and have forgotten to try! Amazing things can become monotonous if there is no variation. If you always have sex in the same way and do the same things, it will become monotonous, even if it is still pleasurable.”

When it comes to trying new things, Brito suggests that couples try role-playing in the bedroom. “According to a 2017 study, roughly 22% of people have tried role-playing,” she said. Role-playing allows you to create and act out exciting sex scenarios in a safe environment. If you and your partner are both willing to give it a shot, role-playing can help improve sexual communication and passion in an otherwise dull bedroom.”

In a similar vein, Dr Dawn Michael, an American author and sexologist, stated in an article in MensHealth magazine that sex can become boring if it becomes too predictable – same time, same place, same positions, etc.

“So, change the scene by adding candles and soft music to make the bedroom sexy and romantic. Create an atmosphere conducive to romance. Role play with each other using your imaginations. “Most importantly, have fun; it’s okay to laugh and tease each other. “Allow yourself to relax and enjoy the moment,” she suggested.

Being unable to be spontaneous

Gregoire believes that sex should not be scheduled.

“Every now and then, passion should get the better of you!” she said. However, we frequently start kissing and feeling excited, only to remember that dinner needs to be made or that we need to get ready to leave in half an hour.

“feelings

so that they may stop trying, too,” Gregoire said.

Not being thoughtful

If you’re a man, thoughtful gestures like picking up your wife’s favourite chocolate or ice cream on your way home from work can go a long way in creating fun in the bedroom. Of course, a woman could also make the gesture to her husband because relationships thrive when positive behaviours are taking place and each partner feels nourished and appreciated, according to psychologist and marriage therapist, Dr Jacqui Gabb, of the Open University in the United Kingdom.

Apart from the above, Gabb also advised couples to never stop going on dates. She said, “Dating doesn’t have to stop after the wedding day. It’s a continuous process. Even if your spouse doesn’t want to get busy under the sheets, it doesn’t mean they don’t want you close.

“So plan date nights, weekend trips or even an evening walk with your partner, and make cuddling and kissing a priority. Non-sexual closeness is important in relationships and can build other forms of intimacy.”

Gabb also said couples should gist together – even when they are not thinking of having sex, noting that actions such as this could lead to exciting times in the bedroom.

She said, “If you’re looking at a dip in sex drive as an issue that will always remain, it raises the pressure to do something about it immediately. However, happy couples find ways to ease the pressure off through laughter.

“If you gist and laugh about something together, there’s this sense of being in it together. Not only are you easing the tension on the issue at hand, but laughter also boosts intimacy outside of the bedroom, too. In fact, some studies find people are more likely to open up when they’re laughing.”

“For a man, making your wife laugh could turn her on and vice versa,” Gabb added.

ekene101:
then according to you now,almost everyone we know might have been used one way or the other if you think the percentage of ritualist is higher.

Almost every girl who sleeps around is basically a walking corpse.Except babes who have powers of their own.

A guy told a friend of mine that in his school, too many of the girls has been used because he found it difficult to find an unused girl for himself to use.


A nairalander here (perfect.south) shared his experience on how he married a lady already used by a gee guy...This is just one on nl that you can see for yourself.There are too many scenarios like this too!

ekene101:
if they are above that statistics,don't you think almost everyone you know would have been used for ritual. I wonder how you people reason sef.

So it's only humans they use to do ritual?

You allow them to sleep with your gf.She will be hale and healthy...But just know she has already become an empty carcass...

I wouldn't want to talk about their numerous ways.

Draslo:
The Nigerian police is obviously the worst on the planet. Isn't it possible that his twin died from natural causes and he suffered psychological trauma instantly? I mean, he was found with the decomposing body. What normal person could stay in such conditions? I'm sure it's the bastard nosy neighbours that labelled him a Yahoo boy to the cops. Spits!!!

I'm not glorifying fraud but less than 5% of the entire so called Yahoo boys actually engage in black magic. I know this cause I have them as friends (who doesn't, sef?!). Many of them don't have the balls to go darkside. What we commonly have are ritualists posing as Yahoo boys.

Gone are the days of the Nigerian prince format.Gone are those days where you only need a girl with fake accent to talk to CL for you.
Hustle don cast tey tey.To cash out nowadays, you gaz dey closer to the gods.

They won't expressly tell you they use dark magic.If they teach you work,they won't tell you to go the dark side.You are the one to figure that out yourself. Even if you ask them,they will tell you you don't need charms to make money in the street....Only few will relate it with you to find something to back your hustle up.

As for them being scared,I don't think so.Many don't believe it has repercussions.Some zeroed their mind that if anything wants to happen,it should happen.They just want to be rich.

Lastly,if you know traditional levels,you'd agree with me that there is no "yahoo charm".
What they do is a low version of ritual that manifests through internet.

Modinomodina:
Yippee let me go and teach Peachtree accounting there

Modinatu which one is Peachtree?

Liliantalks:
that’s his problem, u won’t tell anyone how or why they shouldn’t feel the way they feel , depression is a serious issue. Ur words of condemn will not change the situation.

I am not condemning anyone.


Let's be strong,it shall be well!

Liliantalks:
@bolded , why do introvert like acting like this is actually not a problem for most of us, it matters. The painful part about everything is our personally seriously contributes to it. We are home most days of our lives. Only meet people online (which is now very unsafe).

It's okay to feel bad about that. But having suicidal thoughts because of that is somehow.Does marriage equate success?

Even some dwarfs,physically challenged and extremely poor people who many people won't want to enter into a relationship with,they are not commiting suicide!Talk more of a comfortable and "healthy" man!

All I see is Ajebutter people who have never faced the hard side of life before thereby not toughening them mentally.

smasher1:
I did mine last month for N10,000. While my teeth didn't whiten, it removed the decay on my teeth, stopped the halitosis/bad breath I had for over a decade.
Recommendation: Everyone should do it especially if you are above 30 years. You'll be glad you did. Even if you didn't see the impact, it's worth the effort and it works.

Private hospital?

Nemesis0147:
what useless number 1 are you talking about?

The guy is a cultist.The number one is their overall head in a particular jurisdiction.

Don't engage him further!

BigBrother54321:
Then na cult matter na why all men dey code. Cultists no dey ever think well. Be like who price go pay...bullshit. An eye for an eye mentality wey no dey bring anything but sorry tears and blood.

If na jews this matter no fit reach like this. Na all these smelling cultists wey no get life. Person wey get better work or career go rise men go kill person

You get the gist.
Na why hin sef no fit do anything cos he no belong.

DenreleDave:
Shut up u fuooolllllssss...

Why are Igbooouuuuu men so senseless when it comes to woman.....

Two grown igbó men fighting over a harlots..

U first betrayed your frnd and now u r crying like a goat..

Don't you have chat with his Gf Dt u can expose Dt u didn't rape her....

Ṣeé where ur stupidity has led u too

Don't bring tribalism here...

To shock you,the said hoe was later discovered to be pregnant. And neither chumaz nor his friend owned the pregnancy. ...Legendary prostitute is what a full grown man is fighting ontop.

BigBrother54321:
You dey hide your identity after you were almost killed and the identity of those wey attack you and are on the run come dey tell us say police say make you no release their picture.

Na thunder go fire you.

Cultists go use you count scores for this nonsense story wey you cook up.

No be cooked up story.The guy just dense anyhow.Hin no get street OT for head.

SonofGod231:
Not every one meets aggression with aggression. If He has reported the case with the Police He should wait and let them act. Violence doesn't always solve everything. I believe Chima has learned all His LESSONS from this,You don't go after a Friend or Brothers Woman(Be it Wife or gf). I wish every man can chest that at the back of their minds.

Very true but this is the second time he got attacked.The first time,the police didn't see anything to do to it.Now the second and still,police are giving useless instructions.Even if he got arrested,he will be granted bail after bribing some officers.So what is the point?

After going for a brother's girl which is wrong, is killing now the next thing?The friend should be happy that a hoe was exposed and should severe ties with Chima(but forgive).That's how gentlemen do!

chumaZ:
Just keep your sympathy. how wicked can you be after plotting my own death, you claimed to be neutral yet sent a mail to our Reverend father at home how I was at fault when contacted to say all you know about this case, I SMH for whoever take you serious as a friend... If not for police Instructions and family pressure, I swear I would've realved our identities. I have forgiven, but your friend will plot your downfall too

Police instructions?These same police cannot go after those who did all these to you?

You're too gentle for a man. Matter wey war suppose happen make una governor hear am.You were attacked and you're still saying "I forgive you". You suppose return the action before forgiving.


Mind you,If you no rugged,no try reprisal attack.Your friend is rugged that was why he got help from his men.
Bye!

xamuel17:
You don't have to memorize anything, you already have google . For memory sake I have a personal journal to save code snippets and also a version control system for all your projects could serve as a reference point ...

Your brain is not an Intel processor or is it?...lol

Good to hear.

How about if one is being interviewed for a job.He gets to where he has to code practically. Googling at that point can't be regarded as unprofessional?

tensazangetsu20:
Its okay to google.

Okay thank you!