₦airaland Forum

Toks2008:
I actually thought I was the only guy in this boat until I saw this... Apparently most guys love it.

Is it not funny that ladies put on very expensive wigs that make them look so artificial to cover a simple natural and beautiful cornrow that gives them that natural beauty every guy wants.

There is just something so sxy about cornrows I can't explain.

Guys what do you think?

lai Mohammed.

Ladies, listen to their actions, not their words on social media.

Look at the DMs of the fakest instagram influencers and compare to natural beauties with cornrows.

If men preferred cornrows then deeper life girls would be receiving all the attention.

Besides real men don't care. They busy making waves in the real world. Not chest beating on social media

Mercychen:
A man with muscles Biko.
What do I want to do with a legelege man? Hian!

What defines a mans masculinity are his muscles and every woman wants a masculine man.

not too into muscles.
Love em tall, lean and lanky.
Let him be the refrigerator to my deep freezer.

gnhpowerhouse:
Someone who is Hypertensive ,Been Warned to stay off Salt,Sodium ,Maggi Seasoning .

Even the "IRU " Yourubas use are preserved with Salt..so that one too is a no go area..

House ,What could be used as an Alternative at least to make Stew/ Soup Tasteful..

Someone Suggested " Ogiri" Mostly used by Ijebu People..But never seen that before

Thanks.

some stores stock low sodium salts.

Using spices like ginger garlic, tumeric and co can help

guobe:
Babies and kids need alot of milk to grow,are they trying to say people should stop giving birth in Nigeria.I am seriously perplexed,please how did we get here.I tire.

yes!!

Stop giving birth to babies you can't afford to train

Ficeo:
If you abort that Child, you and that girl will not have any other child in your entire life, Amen

you are an unfortunate fellow

wirinet:
Is that a curse or a threat?

ignore the ignorant, toothless bulldog

eeewise:
Got a call from a friend who is 23 without much family support (orphans) that she ran some tests and is a month pregnant.
She needs advice on what to do?
She has little or no family support system to cater for a child

So thinking of termination of pregnancy but naive on how to go about it

Any suggestions on what to do exactly

sent a mail

Prettydevil:
What is it with women and admiring pretty boys but run from talking to them or even wanting to get serious with them? You could have the attention of literally every girl you ever walk past but actually having them talk to you is a whole different thing entirely, I have never understood this shit. I was recently with a friend I consider extremely handsome, like this boy is the finest guy I have ever seen as a man like me, and we where strolling and ladies kept looking at us as usual and my friend tried to talk to one of the numerous random girls staring at us and she just snubbed him, and this girl was legit drooling at his face a second ago. I was just dumbfounded because I’m so used to it myself, they just stare and you say “hello” to them and they look away and act like you’re imagining things. Ladies what’s your problems please!?!!

it's a pretty privilege problem.

People in general don't expect much from beautiful people character wise because a lot of beautiful people don't think it necessary to develop good character.

Many girls who see beautiful men, know that they are either fuckboy material, have an ego the size of aso rock, have an entitlement mentality and expect you to do things for them for free, were poorly trained by their parents, or have too many girls chasing after them.

Many ladies do not want the extra baggage beautiful people seem to carry.

For in essence, they're to be admired only, look but don't touch, or you'll be burned.

The store must have imported cheap low quality clothes like shein from china and sold it at ridiculously expensive prices.


This is what happens when one patronises fast fashion

dedonfranco:
Na wahoo

What about the Girls that lost their virginity because of BlackBerry, They willnt be happy with this News.

they're all married with children

Airforce1:
We are good
We are fine

Everything been taking care of s don't worry about us.

I'm still pretty young so my death is still far far away and won't come till I'm over 90 trust me .

that's reasuring.

I wish you, your baby mama(supposed to be wife) and kids the best.

Airforce1:
You again

when will you marry her? If you die today, she and your children will suffer because they are not married to you.

We don't pray for bad thing, but let's do our part to prevent misfortune on ourselves and others

Airforce1:
Our elders do say that the easiest route to a man's heart is through his stomach.

Trust me after eating this specially made food prepared by my girl, I smiled non stop.

See photos below

Lalasticlala

not your wife?

siofra:
I've heard the opinion of white men. Now I want to hear the opinion of Nigerian men.

If a girl wears this dress (not necessarily this dress, any skimpy dress) to a party and she's raped. Is it her fault?

No.

It's not her fault. But the fault of the animal masquerading as a man who has no self control

If the man for example knew that she was maybe HIV, syphilis and herpes positive, would he still rape her?

realmatters:
Can you do to your boyfriend what he did to you? Simple question.

many times over.

realmatters:
. Are you pained that I don't accept leftovers?

you are paying for leftovers.

I can't envy you, but I can afford to pity you. Happy new year

realmatters:
They will learn but I pray it won't be too late. There is one guy here by the name Sirjames, dating one doctor(Drfunmi), the way he protects that girl, I wish he was my brother I will disown him. That Dr will never do that for him.

coming from a coward who is using an alternate account. Bitching, whining and complaining.

Bitch please. I was right to categorise you as irrelevant.

Now leave my boyfriend and I alone. Stop looking for trouble. You have been warned.

realmatters:
. It is called services deliveries. They entertain me, I pay them. I am not your boyfriend that will lower himself to be with you and protect you. I will continue to enjoy what these ladies bring to the table pending when I met someone I can live with.

So you are a community dick and potential STD carrier.

I wish you success in your endeavors. May you truly find what you are looking for. You could try instagram. This is 2022. Pick your battles wisely

realmatters:
No, my brother, I will not. Let me make something clear, very few women will stand by you when you are nothing or you have nothing. They show me their real color when my dad died, our family business collapsed. I was in my final year. The girl I sweat for left, other girls left because to them a man without money is a monkey. I went through hell and God bless me in no time.
I have met a lot of ladies, I sleep with them and give them my leftover, If they ask me what next, I told them plainly they are not in my league. I intend to marry based on interest, not love. YOU CAN'T LOVE ME NOW WHAT ABOUT THEN? I could have married a few ladies in my workplace(I have slept with a few of them) but most of them get the job by fucking someone so I CAN'T BE WITH A LEFTOVER. WOMEN ARE KEEPER, they have no right to have a body count.

you have no right to add to their body count.

Idamond:
I can conclude by saying your mama is a liability to the innocent old man.. I'm sure she will be milfing around while the old man is is bend to the ground..

your conclusion is none of my business

proclinician:
Men and women no equal again? Hypocrites.

there's a difference between equality and neutrality.

An orange can never be equal to an apple

Lightway:
Your brain has issues

don't blame me for your poor taste

Tfsho:
It's funny that u have to make a list cos TBH Your approach is scary and alot of young ladies will most probably �‍♂️ ....

I think the real issue is understanding what kinda woman u want to start this journey called marriage with is . Is she compassionate, Is her thinking rational, does she understand commitment and sacrifice.
*A compassionate woman will always want to see how she can help voluntarily u don't even have to ask or in your case make a list

* A rational mind should understand that a danfo driver will need a conductor or else money no go complete or make he dey pass passenger bus stop . Marriage is division of labour .

*sacrifice is the bye product of commitment. A committed partner is reliable and will do what it takes to get the house going .

if you like quote proverbs 31. Any sensible girl will run

Decryptor:
I make use of a perfume called "Velocity for her"...it has a masculine fragrance funny enough and it sells for N1300.

I am not at home...would have snapped it and screenshoted. Stop the excuses. The lady was fake and only wanted to come and sit down and eat!

I used to use elizabeth arden's 5th avenue after five, then I switched to perfume oils.

Those 2k perfume cannot last up to 6 hrs. besides, there's always that synthetic smell that I have to keep managing.

We didn't even talk about antiperspirant

NwaliE01:
Op, ladies of nowadays are full of options.

She just switched to option 2 guy.

Touch a lady's heart but don't any way near her finances.

You touched the untouchable, so she yapa
She is not ready to let you into her finances.

Forget about her.

thank you

LesbianBoy:
You are still a child

That your fiance or whatever is a SIMP doesn't mean every other guy there is. Now gedifok

that I had a great parental influence growing up doesn't mean I should settle for less.

My father pays all the bills till today.

So shall my husband.

The opinion of weak, delusional, omega men like you (who think that responsibility is SIMPING) will always be irrelevant to me

weaseloo:
@Poster

To make this list fair, you should know what she depends on herself already, how much she has been able to save, and how much necessary compromises she is able to make to keep a home after marriage. It should be a mutual discussion between the both of you.

The vacation funds and the education funds should be your responsibility. You should be thinking of your immediate needs and vacation should be the last of it. You have given her enough by asking her to take care of the daily food supplements.

This your list does not contain what amount you will be giving her as your wife. Even if it is 5k -10k that small amount will melt her heart and she will end up putting even more in. Most men do now know that women turn into butter when you are good to them.

She should also be looking to get a higher paying job too to support when or before having kids.

Wisdom. I doff my hat to you.

They need to cut costs, maybe a smaller apartment.

Lightway:
Shut up

Perfume is 2k..

I can imagine your body odor already.

No wonder people smell bad. I just thought my nose had issues

shantti:
U call sacrifice and little responsibilities handout, I don't know your potential husband but I pity him already

what kind of home did you grow up In?

Who is training this generation of men to be weak?

As if a woman doesn't sacrifice enough into a marriage.

You for kill am for altar now? Since you want sacrifice. Mtcheeeeeeeeeew

princewarri1985:
PLEASE HOW DID I WRECK HER LIFE? IS MARRIAGE BY FORCE? PLEASE EXPLAIN! I KNOW ALOT OF MEN TODAY WHO ARE UNHAPPY IN THEIR MARRIAGES TODAY, WHO ARE ALSO ON THE VERGE OF SUICIDE BECAUSE THE MARRIED THEIR WIVES OUT OF PITY, THEY PREFER TO STAY AT THE BAR ALL NIGHT AND DRINK THEIRSELVES TO STUPOR RATHER THAN GO HOME, MARRIAGE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED TO DO ALL YOU COULD TO GET RIGHT, AND ALSO MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND AND MOST ESPECIALLY MARRY FOR LOVE

if you know you don't want a pregnancy. What prevented you from wearing a condom?!

LesbianBoy:
See this one its all exaggeration. Most men are still the bread winners in there house.

Btw, the so called women you think are the bread winners, if we check you will see that it is rich men that are either helping them financially or was instrumental to her getting the work.

Men don't like to help their fellow men these days they would rather help women

like your mom abi?

LesbianBoy:
See this one. No be you mate dey plot to get belle for celeb?

Nothing dey to carry belle again so you no fit threaten men with that again

You obviously are not qualified to stand before me and my mates.

I thank God for locking shop against people like you.

Just marry your masturbàting hand at this point