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BLOODYSPERM:
Wokmen fundamentally are aware of the polygnous nature of men due to men biologically having more testerones than the average woman , the primary sexual drive hormone, there is no excuse for women to be promiscuous, I can only accept very low body counts as I'm pragmatic and not an hypocrite

Actually, hypergamy is the best excuse.

ictjobber:
Do not be deceived. People don't change. They lay low for a while. But you won't understand until you mature in age

lol. I am not like all these trolls with opera free data plan

Twelfthman:
Yep I know... But now that it has came to this I felt my advise is the best way outta this situation because for me I would never support abortion... If she is my sister that is what I will tell her to do..
It a free world she also free to make her choices

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if she is my sister and she was a victim of reproductive coercion like this girl, i will gladly take her to do the abortion myself. Her life will not be ruined because she slept with a man with less than honest intentions.

If he doesn't want to marry her, he has no business getting her pregnant.

His kind is plenty, agents of satan.

Dear ladies, this is why you use family planning when a man is involved. Some of them want to ruin your life with their disgusting seed.

Kingcalls:
Its certain that the demon of deception has taken over u and u dont know it...just like most ladies... its only ladies that challenge the bible ...

nope. People who have learned to spot manipulation do

Angrygoat:
Story,speak for yourself,which u get.

all

BLOODYSPERM:
I don't want to argue with you
,you are a female and not a male, you don't know how men think, I'm a male and clearly I believe women show love by fidelity and chastity via loyalty but men show love by given commitment , attention and resources ( provisioning)

well, you are a male and not a female. A colorful sexual past is just as revolting to us.

NwaNimo1:
Gay no dey Pay again?


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he thought ge would hammer like bobrisky.

Even bobrisky didn't say he is gay

BLOODYSPERM:
There is no hypocrisy
Life is not fair for both sexes
Women's hypergamy make them not to look at struggling men until such men have attained success
Men don't want a lady with a promiscuous past because such ladies are poor bets for having their offsprings


Men and women are fundamentally
different

Even the immutable wisdom of God word proves my point in Prov11:16

A gracious woman retaineth her honour and strong men retain riches

you just made your argument irrelevant by quoting that bible. It's a tool for mass manipulation, nothing more.

tribalmall:
Being a changed person does not mean she does not deserve the consequences of her past deed. Make we hear word abeg.

will men like to suffer for the consequences of thier past deed too?

Oh wait!!

Dead beat dad's will get thier just desserts when they become old and grumpy and die alone in hospital beds.

BLOODYSPERM:
Men take sexual history of ladies very seriously not because we are judgemental or immature but because we want to be sure whether the lady would have our offspring and not carry another man's seed for us to raise, these is our Biological imperative that makes us distrust girls that are sexually active when we want to settle down

It's not our fault

but men can actually be judgemental and immature. Look at nairaland.

If a virgin can commit adultery, what's stopping her from paternity fraud.

You know what. Virgins are angels, they poop rainbows and deliver saints.

Y'all should continue to use hymen to judge character, and soak garri.

BLOODYSPERM:
Men take sexual history of ladies very seriously not because we are judgemental or immature but because we want to be sure whether the lady would have our offspring and not carry another man's seed for us to raise, these is our Biological imperative that makes us distrust girls that are sexually active when we want to settle down

It's not our fault

why, because the penis of other men including himself is a dirty thing? The hypocrisy.

Dear men andwomen, never tell your partner about your sexual past, unless it has results like a pregnancy, STD, rape. Your sexual past is in the past and not thier business. It will only give them heartbreaks.

BarrElChapo:
You did well.. women learn to zip up to save yourself from heartaches in the future

Men do soapy to save everyone from heart break.

gfon:
3guys lie over a particular girl??she was a public material.

only one person told him about the girl, which may or may not have been true. He might have lied that other guys tasted the girl. Guys have been known to exaggerate stuff like that.

DarkCaesar:
As a bird flying to other places, and a sparrow going here or there: so a curse uttered without cause shall come upon a man......Bro chill she’s reaping her harvest, close legs dem no dey hear. When all is said and done they blame another for their woes

you destroying a relationship is strong enough cause.

jimmychang:
This doesn't relate to the topic op did the right thing ...it is not his fault abeg

i was talking about the effects of lying about someone to gain status.

Have you been dumped for having a sexual history?

jimmychang:
This doesn't relate to the topic op did the right thing ...it is not his fault abeg

he didn't.

So are you saying that consentual sex between a man and a woman is wrong?

BLOODYSPERM:
Are



Men lie to gain status
Women lie to be in victimhood

I agree both destroy reputations

so now everyone has a past. Having a sexual past should not be a sin. If it was the fact that maybe she has an STD like syphilis, herpes or HIV, or that she stole, or killed. Then op should tell his friend.

But for consentual sex between 2 adults. That's immature and wrong of him

gfon:
3guys lie over a particular girl??she was a public material.

if roles were reversed, i will mind my business if there's evidence that she's changed. If it is about sexual history, maybe that she has an STD, I will tell the friend.

I still feel that op was wrong. After all, men sleep around too. It is not as if she was lacking in character or a bad person, she just had a sexual history like everyone else. He bleeped up.

BLOODYSPERM:
Men lie to gain reputation
Women lie to destroy reputation


There is a big difference

by gaining reputation, they destroy someone else's. There's also a difference. Let me tell you a true story


There was a male classmate of mine who allegedly spread lies about sleeping with my roommate who kept rejecting his advances. That stuff hurt her reputation as she was gunning for class rep. I think it really affected her because she failed her exams and had to be withdrawn

She laid a curse on that guy through a phone call that whenever he is at the brink any achievement, that failure and disgrace will rob him of joy, or something like that and something about his reputation being dragged too. I can't really remember.

My other roommates were trying to preach to her to walk in love, forgiveness and other religoous BS like that. I simply supported her and told her do what she thinks is best then continued to mind my business.

I forgot about it until final year when he was elected as yearbook president to plan our final year programes and stuff like that.

Omo, that was how word got out a few weeks to final year exams, that he raped a girl on campus, and others too came out with similar stories. He was brought before the school panel and was not only rusticated, but told that he will never be allowed to graduate the School, that such a person cannot be allowed a doctor.

He was also accused of embezzlement of class funds.

I didn't even realize until this thread, that he was the same guy that she cursed.

Karma's a bitch. Prevention is better than cure

Qatar2022:
You people condemning this guy is a devil, you want to keep quiet and watch his friend marry a community hoe

is the guy a virgin?

gfon:
Nothing go do you,don't mind all those muntula's running their mouth up there.What did she expect as a community puxxy holder.My only problem is that friend of urs that snitched by mentioning your name.Now you know he can't keep a secret,so next time don't tell him.

i hope you know guys lie about sleeping with girls right?

mapet:
Your submission is way wierd.....

it's the truth.

The man did this shit on purpose. If he wanted to have a baby, why didn't he discuss with her?

Twelfthman:
Pls don't abort the baby... She can put her school on hold, most schools allow it as long as one makes it official. Then she should go have the baby. When done she is free to resume her schooling while the guy family take care of the baby...

I don't support ABORTION.
She shouldnt commit more sin by killing the baby.
This is the one of the consequences of premarital sex so she should deal with it. It pathetic, Ladies should be more careful cus y'all are the ones that suffer most in this kinda situation...

Vivien458:
Hello everyone, I recently made a post about my friend. He told me he actually wanted to get his girlfriend pregnant, and he wants to have a kid at 25 and also check if he is potent so when he gets to 30 the child is 5 etc.now the big issue is here. She is 21

1: the girl he thought loved him never did, as the girl has refused to keep the baby. He informed his parents and they told the lady they will train the child, but she refused. This guy's make 400k every month as an animator. He also has a shop locally etc. But still in his parents house, Self contain, but is ready to move out. My type of man

2: the girl has threatened to drink sniper and force the baby out if anyone tries to stop her. Her problem is she doesn't want to have kids at all, she has life to explore. Etc. She is still in school though.

What have we suggested?

1: the guy told her to have the baby and let her bring it to him and he will take care of the baby, she shouldn't bring a dime. She said no, she can't bear the pain of carrying that child for 9months all her friends will mock her.

2: the guy suggested to travel her outside the state and pay for a house and nobody will know, until she has the baby, and she said no, she can't abandon her school to satisfy someone else, which is the boyfriend.

3; we have told her that abortion is illegal in Naija, she says it either she aborts or she dies, we should take one.

At this point, my guy backed off, though I've been coming around to help him out with some ideas .

What am I searching for?

Any suggestions on how she can have a good abortion without risking her life.

Is drugs better?

Is Hospital better?

What else can we do?

I made this post on his behalf, so he is reading as a visitor

take her to a good O and G doctor, and let her abort it.

If he is not ready to marry her then she should remove it.

Angrygoat:
After these 3 perfumes,no other perfume dey again. 212,Tommy hilfiger men,Perry Ellis Green colour. After those 3 perfumes,the rest na counterfeit. I have always respected Tommy hilfiger original. Na aways best quality,be it jeans,pef,belt,shirt,sneakers, as long as na original with serial number. Na everlasting. Tommy .

puhlease,

There are better, more powerful ones for real men, not all these puszy azz perfumes you are listing, tom ford black orchid, interlude amouage, tuscan leather, joop homme, clive christian 1872,spice bomb by vicktor and rolf, oud wood

Odewaleadesoye:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/04/i-get-turned-on-when-he-smells-nice-%E2%80%95-omosuwa-bukola/

her foundation color is all shades of wrong.

mapet:
...and that is a bad thing?

kinda.

Cos healthcare is never free

AgentGoat:
Good services comes with high cost. You should look into giving birth in your state primary health center next time

healthcare worldwide is expensive.